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Tuesday, October 23, 2012

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Hubby holding on to last marriage

Dear Annie: I recently if hes upset, he thinks its married Kevin, who has fine to upset others by using been divorced for four years. offensive language. We decided to live in his He knows I dont care house. I knew wed have for it and has tried to tone adjustment issues, but even it down. But not much has so, things dont seem to be changed. Im a quiet guy and working out. keep to myself. I dont like The house is in his name conflict. So I have done nothonly, although I pay toward ing even though it bothers me utilities, upkeep, etc. But and puts me in a bad mood everything has to be his way. when I hear such language. Kevin likes the place to be Any suggestions? North neat, which doesnt mean Carolina cleaning. It means shoving Dear North: You must stuff into a cupboard so no speak up if you expect anyone sees it. Also, thing to change. all of the furniYou could talk ture is from his to the departfirst marriage. I ment head, saying want to update a that you would few things, and he appreciate it if he wont let me. He would control his says his stuff is in use of unprofesgood shape. sional language Everything a bit more during reminds me of his working hours. He ex and his previous has already made life. I told Kevin a small effort, so Id like to have a your words will not few things that we Annies Mailbox go unheeded. You selected ourselves. also could enlist He told me the divorce other co-workers to speak to drained him, and he wants him, or you could go over to pay the house off before his head and complain to a buying anything new. So I supervisor. offered to purchase things But if asserting yourself with my own money. He said is not possible, we can only no. suggest that you indicate disWhen I moved in, he want- approval at the time, hoped my belongings thrown ing he will eventually learn away, yet he has drawers of to modify his behavior. You junk from 10 years ago. After also could leave the room, five months of marriage, I wear headphones or ignore figured my things would be him. Sorry. out of storage. Instead, Kevin Dear Annie: I understand says we have everything we the problem of Pastors need and my stuff is dupli- Wife in the Midwest. I am cate. But some of my pos- a church organist and have sessions are in better shape been stiffed by the wedding than his, and Id at least like couple, as well. Playing for the option of going through a wedding involves practice them with him and seeing time, attending the rehearsal what is worth keeping. and additional hours on the Im just so upset, and Im day of the wedding. We also wondering whether this mar- must purchase the music and riage is a mistake. Any sug- deal with soloists. gestions? Frustrated I play in a small counDear Frustrated: Kevin try church and know most doesnt seem ready to com- of these people personally, mit to a full partnership. The so I dont feel comfortable two of you should be able to demanding a certain amount. discuss all issues instead of But pastors, soloists and one of you making unilateral organists are part of the weddecisions. But this doesnt ding expenses and should have to be an insurmountable be compensated for these problem. Explain to Kevin important occasions that canthat you are deeply unhappy not take place without them. with the current situation, and Here Comes the Bride ask him to come with you for and $$$ some short-term counseling to work on combining your lives in a more positive way. Dear Annie: I am tired of vulgar language, especially at work. Whenever my department head becomes frustrated, he thinks its OK to use whatever words he wants. So

Tomorrows Horoscope
By Bernice Bede Osol

HI AND LOIS

Constructive, wonderful changes could be in the offing for you in the year ahead, especially where your social life is concerned. Your involvements with both family and friends will yield a number of valuable contacts. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -- Even if this is not your day off, your energies are best suited toward pursuits that are fun or social in nature rather than related to work. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23Dec. 21) -- Provided you can act independently, you could be luckier than usual where your material affairs are concerned. Try not to let yourself get hampered with a tagalong. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- If you truly believe that your plans are superior to those of your colleagues, press forward alone. Dont let anybody hold you back. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -- Your material aspects look better than usual, provided youre enterprising and resourceful. If you have something in mind that you believe would add to your resources, give it a try. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -Try to do something fun with friends who are optimistic and hopeful, if you can. Keeping company with stimulating companions will bring out your more attractive qualities. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -- Dont talk about your intentions prematurely, since what you say could end up being counterproductive. Go about doing what needs doing and let the results speak for themselves. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -- Use your wonderful gift of expression in a manner that captures the imagination of potential allies, especially when the subject involves your latest interests. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -- A critical achievement is possible, but only if you narrow your focus. Additionally, be sure to acknowledge those who help you fulfill your aims. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -- Youre a good team player to begin with, but you may soon find an ally who will be exceptionally valuable. This partnership could produce something special for all concerned. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -- A substantial amount of your time is likely to be spent on helping others sort out their problems. Fortunately, it wont be the kind of task that youll resent doing. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -- If theres something important that you want to work out with an important client, associate or friend, try to do so in an environment convivial to both parties. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -Youll be most successful working on some important matters that

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