QUESTION TAGS AND ECHO QUESTIONS follow the same pattern:

Auxiliary verb + subject

Echo questions
They are used to show interest. We use a rising intonation. Use a positive echo question with a positive verb and a negative question tag with a negative verb. A: She is a painter B: is she? A: didnt you know?

Question tags
Use a positive question tag with a negative verb and a negative question tag with a positive verb. If we are not asking a real question but are just making conversation or asking for confirmation of something we already know to be true, our intonation falls and the question tag sounds like a statement, not a question. A: She is a painter, isnt she? (I know you will agree with me) If we genuinely dont know the answer, we tend to use the rising intonation of a question. A she is a painter, isnt she? B Im not sure if she a painter.

SO..I,

NEITHER..I

So + Auxiliary Verb + Subject Use "so ... I" in a positive sense to show that we feel the same way as another person, or have performed the same action. Examples:

He flew to Geneva last summer. - So did she. I'd love to visit Poland some day. - So would I. I'm meeting a colleague tomorrow. - So am I.
Neither + Auxiliary Verb + Subject Use "neither ... I" in a negative sense to show that we feel the same way as another person, or have performed the same action. Examples:

I haven't had a promotion for a long time. - Neither have I. They weren't sure they had the resources to complete the job. - Neither were we. She won't be able to attend the conference. - Neither will I.
Both structures are usually used in the first person singular; however, other forms are also possible

PRACTICE ON THE NET: http://esl.about.com/library/quiz/bl_sneither.htm