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1.emotios. Full System Response
1.emotios. Full System Response
Whatarc emotions? Are thet thoughts? Are thevfcelings? Are thcy thepoundrnglll yollr chestwhen you fall in love?Emotions are a full_s),ste,m respons" ..n*pii.ing all of thesc factors and experiences, arrdtheyinclucie bodjly-eE!!!tio"s, tig !p-in, ind your thoughts. 'rhe *'ord rrroiio, itselfcomes from the Lrfin erno|ere, and means io moveout, agLrate, or exciie. This is whereour Iinglishtvord ,,motion,, comes Irom, and of corrrse \ ou cnnsee the connection '''ith thc word ,'flnoiion. !\rhi:ne,'rotions getstirrerlup, iheytring about movement or acti(D. Emoiions nrcofteFlhDrght of.s -.tncth. feeli.gor sc.iinre.t, but.ts r i " r r r r l l c o m , l . \ c e .t l t e r ' r p ,rrLrc nh r c r ., r c , , n r f . t .t.E t. Havevouevernoticed thatwhenyou,te youhaveccrtain eDroiional thoughts nssoci_ . ntedwith eachcmotion? lf vou,reangry,for erarrple. you niglrt think tilirrvou nare you might hirvethoughts someone/ or that yorl hatea situation. suchas, ,,This is so "l'm "They unfair," in cl;ingcr," ha'e it in for rnc.,, ln a laterchaptcr rvewill lookat holv thorlghts-including intcrpretations, judgmcnts, andbeiiefs-har:e iheponer. lo influence the emotions thatyou leeland ihc inkrnsiiv of those cmoti(Ds. ln addition io thor.rghts, you experiencc you mrllnr phvsical urgcs or agitation. l{nnt . to hit somelhing, brrv something, rtln atvav, or kisssontcone. I.hat,s because thefe,s il ph\.sioloeical comf(metrt to e lotion.FIere arel$,oothcreramples of thisphysiological col11Ponent. Crvingis a physiological actjvitv associited rnosihl rvithsaclncss anrlgrief,
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but .lso with happiness, ns in "tears of joy." And in lhe crseof anxicty ylrrrnraynolicc that you havebutterfiics in vour stomach, u'henyou have!o speakin iront of a cspecially crowd, take an exam,c{eal with your boss,or ask someone out on a date. When your emotions light up, so doesyour whole body. A &iqlo.Ec'1/ corrrplrrr has bcenactivatcd. You may takeoff iutu-,ing whcn you'rescart'd, hrrgsomeone rvhenyoLr're when you feel lor,e,and so on. 1lre biological happy, get aroused compiexrefersto the 'rf.r lrrggeremotions theycome factthatwhenyou expcriencc alivein thccomplctcncss jng cvent,neurochemicnl activityin thebrain,physiological actionof thc n.,rvous systcnt, thoughts, respiratoryand circulatorysystems, and overt actions. So emotionis thoughtand feelingal1ddisposition to act.Thereis no emotionwithout thoutht, and no thouShtwithout emotion.And lr'heie there is emotion there is.n readiress fol action.Emotionis a complex and integrated s)stem,a ['holc, a gestalt. Ench rvhole is part of the mutually interdependent and the partscooPeritc with oneanothcr Thinkingper se is part of feeling,and feelingper se is part of thinking. synergistically. Informationprocessed coFitively affects emotional statcs, and plin1aryautomaiicemotionalresponses affectcognition, or thinkingprocesses. And within this k)tal matrix is the activityof overallbrain and bodv physiological aciivity.Tlrai'swhy in this u'orkbookthe skills vou will learn targetthinking (cognition), emotion(affect), anciothcr fcclingsand urges(physiological rrrges and activity).
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Physiological reactions o Autonomicner\-or1s svstem r . . Neurological rcactions and actility Cjeneral brainactivity liomlonal sccretions ("1 hateyou" or "l lovevotl') Actualcontent Tone of r.oice(soft,tense, sarcastic, raiseC)
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e v c n l sa n d ( o n l e r l s l. Lnvironmenlll . . . Socialcontext(dinner,medicalrppointment,fornralor inforrnal) Cultural (racial,qender, and locarc:eftinqs) Ph)'sjcal el'ents (war, chtuch ser.rce, iornaLlo,i'ic )
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ljere arc Lazams' five classes,,f i;;;;;i;E,\ 1. Action tendencies . . . . t o r u n . r l r t ( 1 .r . r l l i . r l , , r : . U . : l.t . r r tr e l 0 Urte- and impul-(,l 5 A senseof readiness(psyched ior the big gamc) N{af or lnay not be a.lcd on i\,lal- or mav not be recognizcdbt vou rvhen iou crPericnce thenr-
J. ler.on-environmentrel.llionchips . . . . Motives and beliefs of .rn indiviciuai per-.on Demandsof the en,.ironment (lr,ork,schooi, religiorrs cornrnunify, famihJ F n r i r . n m c n r n .l . r f p ^ r l . r e \ n r r r c e,s r n Jc , r , : t r r i n l \ How an indivirlual's motivesand bclicfsinteract rlith thc drntandsoi. giverl environment
4" Coping process o . ilorv you cope wilh sfresses lvhat l-ou use to cope lvith slross
5. Appraisal processes . . . Expect,rncy of self and environment in rcl.lion to onc another and rssessments of well being Judgmcnts Interptetations and philosophies abouihoiv thingsare working,a tl hor.v they rvork should
The obsen'abiesare casierto spot becarL-se they're overt nnd ob\,rousb vorr ,rnd othyou nraynot bc arvare ers.Btrtif you're a higlily reactive person, of ihese observablcs anri yorlr ho$'they afiect relatonshipsto oiher peopleat home,ir school, or al u,ork_ Also, the nore subtle observablcs, such as postureand facialexpressionT ntiv 1ellulrr ntorf (tellingsomeonc,'Drop deadl")or what loLr .lo (tilrorvir atterltionthan \vhat 1ou -sny plate on the floor).
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that affect)'our emoincludeeventsin your environment {actors Someobsen'ab1e relaiedto rt'ducingyorrr lvhen$'e 8ct to ti'tccxelcises thesefactors tions.We'll consider k) the relationship Lrfthe environmentto yotll and buikiing awareness vulnerabilities emotions. and brain activjty as observable Lazarusincludesthings like hormonesecretions themwith the riShi instlumentsWe'il touch and measure canobsetve scientists bccause br.rtthis bookwon't haveyorr monitoron the role theyplay in the iife of vour emotions, activity or serotoninor your brain'selectrochemical of endofphjns ing the secretjon he,lpbuild that sPecifically someexerciscs I will su8Sest As for the trnobservables, as they're often off our personalradarscrecn Theseinclllde being of these, arvareness rrindful to )our actionleidenciesor urges,kno*'ing what you have nn urgc to do, and yorr whetheror not yotl lvill acton the urge Remember, increasing -yourpowcr tc decide that no one can see,and there are times when it's have your orvn internal expetience importanttg let oihels$ol! \ow_t$ ry.!]3lX9!'{:lelliils. It canbe toughto do this.oth"8et" the effecttheiractions 10aflectyou in haveoir you But if theycontinue ersnay not lvay and,vounevertell them,hurt canbuild rip and might end in your telling a negafive thernoff and hrlrting the relationshiP knorv or bclicfsarc,lve rarelytrr.rly ]ust asoihersdon't tnrly kno$'what our motives theirs. Also m)'stcriousis the n'ay in u'hich your and others' motives interact lvith ctc.) and (.ommunitY religious, molai,economic' standnrds, of theenvironment demands faclorssen'eas to bolstcrot stlessyou ,rnd othcrs.Finally,there whethcrenvironmental .rnd the way rve choseto deal lvith problemsand are coping and appraisal Processes, alsohave to do lvilh how and oihers. These demandsand what rvc cxpectoI ourselves, actionsand situations. we judge and interpretPeoPie's in manyrc-qPects. But don't let this comarequitecomplex emotions As,voucansee, at a time.'fakctime out io takethisrvorkbook onechaPter vou.JLrst plexitvovenvhelm lvilh frjcnds,familv, clergy, Discuss ihe material Reread a fervchapters. do the exercises. ot a theraPrst.
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lvith emotions, and.lfter emotiurs.Thoughtsdo influence your emobeforeemotions, youl thouthts. tions and emotionalstatesinfluence
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forever, whenJou'reemotionAl. Blrtif vodre )'oumry be moreIlely to actimpulsively "This ableto tell l,rurself, iI] thc hert .,f the mcment, too shallpass,,, yodli be a step closerto moreeffective emotionregulation. You.an titenopeni1pa varietyof optionsfor action,and stretchJ'-our rvillin$lessio practice your nel{ skills. If you heat up like a microrvave oven an<lcool down like a con\.entional one,\,ou may noticethat it seems like an elelnityto cooldolvn,anclasvou,recoolingdorvn,vou,re still highly vulnerableto the next trigger. In the example of Stevethe aggressive driver,he *.as hrghly angry and ngitatcd, so beingpulled over for a ticktwill trigge.otheri:moiions. Since he is still nroused just fol_ lowing his carchase, if he'snot careful, this new eventcoulclspikehis currentangereven further.The morelntense the emotion,the moredysretulatcrl Steveicels.i le coultl make things worseyet by swearingat lhe policeofficer or compLaining that thev har-emorc importantcrimesto trackelorvn. lI Steve is hopped-up nn .aif"rnt o'rhasnt e.ttcn well, his biologicalvulnerabilityrvill be even higher,making his dysrcgulation (Tn morc scvere. chapter10,you will learn specific skills for decrcasing your vulnerabilities to theseand other facto$.)
Anger
Thirlk of a time when you were so nngty that ),ou thought ),ou werc going to slve.rr or throrv sonething at someone. ot hii or punchthem. Thinkaboutvournngnest moment ever, lvhatever that might be for you. Sitrationl
Your thoughts aboutthe situation at the tinj (horvdid you lnt"rp,"t iey
Describe_the outcomes anctcor.rsequences at that time (rvere thingsthesanrc, nraccllorse, or made better?):
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Hours (horv many?): A clayor more (hon' m a n v t ) : When you coolcd do$'rr,rvhat r\,as t h " . r r p n g i l )n f v c , r ' c r r r l l , ' n r L J - : 0 U l :
Sndness
Think of a time rvherl you *'ere so sad rhat nll voll wanted to do r\.as'(r\,,!!,jlhdra$', avorclothers, mope, and be absorbedin sad poems,i_nusic, or movies. Ihink ahrLrt your moment ever,\\,hate!erthat might be for vou. saddest Siluation:
Your thou8htsabout the sihlationai the time (horv diel vou inkrrplei it?):
Horv long did it takeyou to get back to your normal mood? (how many?): Seconds Minutes (ho\\' many?): Hours(hou'many?):
lror rlrrr'l \ J , r r , ' r r r r r ' rln lvhen yotl chteredrlp, rvilat lras the slrr:ngtli of your sndness? ((!100):
Fenr
Think of a timc rvhenyorl lvereso fearfulthat allyou rvarlieci to do 1\,Ishide, witirdrarv,avoiclothers, panic,or frcakout. lhink aboutycr.lr most fearflllmoment,lvhatcver thai ni8ht be for r,ou. Situation:
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Dcscribe the outcomcsand consetluences at thai time (.!vere thngs the same,nade rvorse,
or nade better?):
Horv long did it take \'oli to cooi down? (how many?): Seconds Minutes (how many?): Hours (how many?): A day or more (hon nany?): \Mren you relaxed,what lvas thc strengthof vour ftar? (0,100):
Loue
Think of a timc rvhenyou l{cre so fillcci rvith lo\'c that .rl1you tvankr.lrc do r{ils think aboutthe personvou loved,encourage others, telLflicnds and famjlv good thjngs about themselves and life, or daydrcamaboutbeartiful thints. Think aboutyotr nlost intenseexpcrience of 1ove, whateverihat might-trefor r'ou. Situation:
Your thoughtsabout the situationat ihc time (horr iiitl vou tllicrpr.t it?):
Intensltv of love (0-100): Describe theottcomesand conseq!cnces at that time i\r{trethingsthe same, mndcr\,orse, or made better?):
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How long did it takc yor.tto get backto your normal mood? (hovr manv?): Seconds Minutes(ho\\,many?): Hours(horvmanv?): A day or more (ho}\' man)?): Whenyour feclingof love levelod off, $,hat lr'as the strngthof lole ((|100):
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Happiness/loy
Think of a timc when lou creso happythatail VorlJid "!asiaugh,you cheered rrp and posltive. othersaround you, and you felt strong,confideni, Jlink aboutrour mosr happv or joyful momcntcvcr, lrhatel,erlllat mighi be for 1,ou. Situation:
Yolrr ihoughtsabout the siiuatlon.t the timc (how dicl "ou ltcrpret it?):
jov (0-100): lntensitv of happiness/ the outcomcs and aonscquences I)escrrbe at that time (were thinlls ihe sa e, mnde \\,orse,
or nade better?)l
"come Horv long clid ii take you to dorvn" or gct back io louf normal mooLl?
(l'rorv meny?): Scconds (ho$'manY?): Nlinutes Hours (hoI\' many?): A day or more (hor{ manv?): l\4rcnyou "camedown,"lvhatwas the
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Finally, thcrearcnoods. Basically, moods areemotions thatsticknroundfor l re,rlll long tirne. And just as a happyperson will feelanger persnn or sadness and an .rnxrous a happv personcanhavc a bluc or deprcssed rvill feel the ernotion of happiness, nood, Arrd u'hile someemotjonsstick nround longef perhapsdue to illnessor.ircumstances. than others,they tend noi to iast forever.h{oodsthat becomepredominantand stick disorders, aroundtoo long become ntood sr.rch essevere and chronicdepresslon, or gcner;r1rzedanxictydisorder. youf As you practice the skrilsin this woikbook,)ou'll finclit il'lportant to increase ihai you fr:el.If )or fe a happt person, awareness of lhe rangei-rf emotions il canseemas though you never angry. If you're a worr)'wart, in monrents anxret)'it of canseem as tet "l thoughyou neverfcei hdppy.Cettingstuckon.' thoLlthtsuchas ncverfeelhappy,life alrvaJssucks,"will perpeluate anxietyor sadness, and lvill inevitablya{fectyour emotional state. trajts, Herc is a list of corrcsponding states, and moods. . . State:Love State: Fear . . . Trait; Loving or caring Trait: Fearful TraltrAngrv I . . !1ooc1: Euphoria Nloocl: Anxiety \'food: Irritable