Love Maps

Read each statement and fill in the appropriate TRUE or FALSE bubble.

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1. I can name my partners best friends. 2. I can tell you what stresses my partner is currently facing. 3. I know the names of some of the people who have been irritating in my partners current life. 4. I can tell you some of my partners life dreams. 5. I am very familiar with my partners religious beliefs and ideas. 6. I can tell you about my partners basic philosophy of life. 7. I can list the relatives my partner likes the least. 8. I know my partners favorite music. 9. I can list my partners three favorite movies. 10. My partner is familiar with what are my current stresses. 11. I know the three times that have been most special in my partners life. 12. I can tell you the most stressful thing that happened to my partner as a child. 13. I can list my partners major aspirations and hopes in life. 14. I know my partners major current worries. 15. My partner knows who my friends are. 16. I know what my partner would want to do if he suddenly won the lottery. 17. I can tell you, in detail, my rst impressions of my partner. 18. Periodically, I update my knowledge of my partners world. 19. I feel that my partner knows me pretty well. 20. My partner is familiar with my own hopes and aspirations.

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