Of all American widows, 4.5% will lose their husbands before the age of 55. (AARP) According to the United Nations, the life expectancy for an American woman is 81 and 76 for men. The poverty rate for elderly widows is about three to four times higher than that for elderly married women. According to the US Census Bureau, 976,000 Support Websites Hello Grief Widows Voice Blog Widow Match and Widower Match Non-Prot American Widow Project Liz Logelin Foundation Soaring Spirits Loss Foundation Widowhood Be prepared to carry on.. Losing a spouse has a far greater impact on women than on men. women were widowed in 2009 compared with 415,000 men. More than 40% of women over age 65 have been widowed, compared to 13% of men. 12% of women between 20 and 64 are widows, compared with 4% of men. ABOUT WIDOWHOOD Losing a loved one, a spouse especially, is considered one of lifes most trying experiences. This tragedy is especially stressful for women, who arent always encouraged to build nancial and emotional indepence while their spouses are alive. In result, widows are forced to face and deal with grief and loneliness- both normal. On top of the emotional instability, they may also have fears/doubts about their nancial security and their ability to function without their spouse. However, these problems can be dealt with successfully, of course with time and work. Believe it or not, widowhood can actually signify the very beginning of a new start. It can actually be a highly empowering and satisfying chapter of a womans life.