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i bonf t awG;yi fv, faMumxJwGi f aygavmay: aeonf/ rdazmhu uav; rEdk;at mi f t om
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ajyu ajzazsmufaewHk; rdazmhESi fhaSUa&;aemufa&; wdki fyi f&onfrSmt Si fvwfvwfedAmefa&mufjci f;yi f
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pmoi f 1920 jynfhESpfwGi fajrmi f;jrNrdKUt *Fvdyf-jrefrmESpfbmomt pdk;&t v, fwef;ausmi f;wGi fqufvuf
pmoi fonf/ xdkESpfwGi f ausmi f;om; oydwf[ kac:aomt rsdK;om;a&;vIyf&Sm;rI ay:ayguf ajrmi f;jrNrdKU
wdki f;&i f;om; t xufwef;ausmi f;udkwnfaxmi faomt cgxdkausmi f; t v, fwef; ynmudkoi f, lonf/
1923-26 ckESpfwGi f &efukefNrdKUNrdKUr t xufwef;ausmi f; qufvuf ynmoi f, l&m[ dkufpul; zdki fe, fac:
q, fwef;pmar;yGJat mi fonf/
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vufat mufwGi f NrdKUe, ft &m&Sdt jzpf t rIxrf;&i f; ArmhvGwfvyfa&; wyfrawmf (B.I.A) t wGuf
ppfom;pkaqmi f;a&;vkyfi ef;udkvkyf&onf/
1943 ckESpfwGi f&efukefNrdKUodkYqdki f&mu ac:, lcJhojzi fhEdki fi Hjcm;a&;0efBuD;Xme vufaxmuft wGi f;0ef?
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1961 ckESpfwGi f oD&dvuFmEdki fi HudkvHbdkNrdKUwGi f usi f;yaompmt kyfxkwfa0a&;vkyfi ef;qdki f&mESD;aESmzvS, fyGJ
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udka' gi f; (1937)
bmt a&;BuD;qHk;vJESi fht mZmenfrdci fwpfcef;&yfjyZmwf(1944)
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a, mt wGi f;0efOD;bdk;vIdi f\ t wKywd
(&mZ"ro*F[ usrf; ed' gef; ) (1960)
rsdK;zsuf&efol(1960)
ArmhEdki fi Ha&;okcrdef(1965 )
ykSui f\ rkefwdki f;xJu ezl;pmbmomjyef(1965)
jrefrmhv, f, majr pepf(1966)
rdkygqGef; 0wKwdkrsm; bmomjyef(1966)
avmut jri f(aqmi f;yg; aygi f;csKyf) (1966)
armi fxi f\ 0wKwdkrsm; (1968)
urmYpmay t nTef; pmapmi frsm; (1974 rS1981) t xd
t dyf*sD0J\ t em*wdusrf; bmomjyef(1977)
jri f0gawmi f(1977)
*gvDAm\ c&D;pOf(t rsdK;om; pmayqk&) (1981)
, aeYwdki f odyHaqmi f;yg; odyH0wK? vlrIa&;qdki f&maqmi f;yg;rsm; ponfwdkYudkqdki f&m-qdki f&m
r*Zi f;rsm;wGi fa&;om;vsuf&Sdonf/
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