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Armhordki f;? ArmhpmayeJU ArmrIawGrSm t vGeft a&;ygwJh ausmufpm0efa[ mi f; OD;jrac:wJh
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t ouf 94 ESpft xd? wpfa, mufu t ouf 85 ESpft xd aevmcJhMuNyD; ' DESpfxJrSmrSyJ
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t vkyfvkyfoGm;cJhw, f/ ' Dumvt wGi f;rSm
(1) a&S;a[ mi f;Nrefrmpmt u&mpmwrf; (yP mrt cef;) 1961
(2) t kwfcGufbk&m;yxrwGJ?' kwd, wGJ (1966)
(3) t yg, f&wemvdkP f*lbk&m; (1968 ck) qdkwJhpmt kyf 3 t kyfyHkESdyfxkwfa0cJhw, f/
aqmi f;yg;awGt jzpfeJUt *FvdyfbmomeJUa&;cJhwmu-
(1) yk*Heef;bk&m;t aMumi f;?bk&m;t wGi f;wdki fay:u jA[ mkyft aMumi f;rSwfpk
(t dEd, a&S;a[ mi f;okawoeESpfvnft pD&i fcHpm1934 -5?101 -6)
(2) yk*Hbkef;MuD;ausmi f;rsm;(jrefrmEdki fi Hokawoet oi f;*sme, f)
(3) NrefrmEdki fi H&SdAk' 0g' (ajcawmf&mrSwfpk) t dEd, a&S;a[ mi f;okawoeESpfvnft pD&i fcHpm1930 -
31
(4) t yg, f&wembk&m;eH&Haq;a&;yef;csDESi fhESpfvnft pD&i fcHpm1930-31
(5) jrefrmEdki fi HAk' bmomordki f; (yHkrEdSyf&ao;)
(6) , aeYt xdrazmfEdki fao;wJha&S;' *Fg;rsm;t aMumi f; t dEd, a&S;a[ mi f;okawoe ESpfcsKyf
t pD&i fcHpmrsm;jzpfygw, f/
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(1) t aemf&xmaumi f;rI t kwfcGufbk&m; (, Ofaus;rIpmapmi f?1957 ?' Dzi fbmv)
(2) ou&mZf#Dum(, Ofaus;rIpmapmi f?1985?Zefe0g&Dv)
(3) Ak' 0i f&Si f;cef; ( , Ofaus;rI pmapmi f?1985?{NyD)
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(6) ZrLywd(, Ofaus;rI pmapmi f 1959 at mufwdkbm)
(7) r[ mrkedausmufcsyfrsm; (, Ofaus;rIpmapmi f 1960 {NyD)
(8) a&S;a[ mi f;Xmyemypnf;rsm; (, Ofaus;rIpmapmi f 1961 pufwi fbm)
(9) &cdki fjynf&Sd*kyacwfrSausmufpmrsm;
(10) &cdki fjynfa0omvDpNEri f;wdkU\ ausmufpmrsm; 1956 -57 ESpfcsKyft pD&i fcHpm
(11) ykef;ri f;Munf (ykrMunf) ykAMu, f NrefrmEdki fi Hokawoet oi f;*sme, fwdkUNzpfMuygw, f/
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t J' Duat mi fawmhri f;bl;rSmausmi f;q&m13 ESpfvkyfw, f? aemuf&efukefu t i f*si feD, mausmi f;rSm4
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ydkowd&zdkYjzpfae&w, f/ jrefrmhkyfjri foHMum; t pDt pOfrSm(The big fights of the decades) qdkjyD;
t ar&duefrSmxdk;oGm;cJhMuzl;wJh vufa0SYyGJMuD;yGJaumi f;awGudk jyefjywJht pDt pOfyg&i f udkbndrf;udk
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b, fowi f;pmu b, f*sme, fu ' DyGJudk b, fvdka&;cJhwm a' :t rm&JUvdkawmi f jyefajymjyaeOD;rSm/
udkbndrf;vufa0SYudkpdwf0i fpm;yHku &Sm;rS&Sm;udk;/
olqHk;oGm;awmh uRefrut drfrSmr&Sdbl;/ olaeraumi f;wmvJ uRefrrodbl;/
aoqHk;oGm;wmvJrodbl;/ b, ft xdrodvJqdk&i fjzi fh olqHk;umeD; OD;vSwdkYom;t zqDaq;Hkay:uae
ola&;vmwJh pmawGudk t aMumi f;jyKjyD; olqHk;rS OD;vSa&;wJh aqmi f;yg;udkawmi f uRefr rodbl;/
rzwf&bl;/ ' gaMumi fhuRefrt drfjyefa&mufvmawmhrSudkbndrf;qHk;&SmjyD? b, fawmhqDavmufuqdkwm
Mum;&ygw, f/ pdwfraumi f;vdkufwm?jzpf&avjci f;vdkY/
udkbndrf; nDudkbodef;(cspfndK) uuRefrwdkY vlxkwdkufrSmppfjyD;pu t , f' Dwm0i fvkyfawmh
udkbodef;eJY udkbndrf;u t xufat mufnDt pfudkqdkayr, fh t rTmvdknDt pfudkrdkY udkbodef;omrubl;
udkbndrf;vnf; udkbodef;qDu t qpfygvmwJh owi f;axmufvkyfjyD; vlxkwdkufudk ol
a&mufvmaeygawmhw, f/ jyD;awmh olwdkYu ae&Si fe, fausmi f;xGufawGqdkawmh uRefrwdkYeJY
i , fuwnf;u ci fri fvmMuolawGav/
udkbndrf;vlxkwdkufudkt jrJwrf;0i fxGufoGm;vmaewJht aMumi f;xJr, f olYnDudkbodef; SdvdkYcsnf;
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a&;Edki fom;Edki fzdkYvnf; ygw, fxi fw, f/ olu vufa0SYeJYt ouf&Si fvlvkyfaeolvdkY ajym&cref;
vufa0SUudkpGJvef;cJholr[ kwfvm;/ t J' Dawmh oljrwfEdk;wJh vufa0SYowi f;awGudk owi f;pmxJygat mi f
t aysmfwrf; t m;upm; owi f;axmufvkyfjyD; owi f;a&;ay;w, f/ olzwfxm;wJh[ mawGxJu
xkwfEIwfjyD; vufa0SYaqmi f;yg;awG a&;, lvmw, f/ t m;upm;owi f;udk vlxk*sme, feJY
vlxkowi f;pmuvnf; ae&may;avh&Sdawmhudkbndrf;eJYt HudkufjzpfaeMuwmaygh/
udkbndrf;u uRefrwdkYi , fi , fu t arwdkYrdwfaqGOD;P fMuD;qdkwJhvlvdkvlpm;? t J' DOD;P fMuD;udk
t arwdkYu ajymjyD;jyef ]]OD;P fMuD;}} vdkYac:Muw, f/ OD;P fMuD;qdkwJhvlu t drfudkvma&m/
t drfrSmolajymcsi f&mawGa&Smufajym? ajymvdkYt m;&awmhjyefa&m/ olrsm;pum;awmh odyfem;axmi fwJh
t usi fhr&Sdbl;wJh/ udkbndrf;uvnf; ' Dvdkvlpm;/ wdkufudk a&mufvm&i f [ dkt , f' Dwmpm;yGJ?
' Dt , f' Dwmpm;yGJ ukvm;xdki ft vGwf&Sd&m 0i fxdki fjyD; olajymcsi f&m &, fp&marmp&mawG
wpfckjyD;ajymwmyJ/
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ay;wJhqdkum;cenf;vdkY? qdkum;orm;u rauseyfEdki fygbl;qdkjyD; pdwfqdk;rmefqdk;eJY pD;wJhvludk
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b, fEdki fi Hu bwfpuufabm*dk;oGi f;wJhvlrSef;rodt &yf 6 ayausmf? 7 ayeD;yg;vlMuD;wpfa, mufeJY
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t [ kwf[ kwfrSmr[ kwfbl;vdkYat mi fharhp&mcsnf;yg/
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olrsm;udkepfemat mi fawmhvnf; b, fawmhrSrajymwwfygbl;/
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oabmusw, f/ uRefawmfht aMumi f; a' :t rma&;wm odyfzwfcsi fwmyJ/ a' :t rmu vlawGudk
aorSa&;wm raumi f;ygbl;/ raoci fa&;csi fygw, fqdk&i f uRefawmf usm;bndrf;t aMumi f;
a&;prf;ygci fAsm}}wJh/
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olUt aMumi f; uRefra&;prf;ygqdkwJhae&ma&mufawmh vlut wnfaygufajymwmjzpfaeNyD/ aemufNyD;
bmrqdk w[ m;[ m;&, f&i f;ajymaeus udkbndrf;u olUt aMumi f;a&;prf;ygqdkwJh pum;udk
rsufESmi , fav;eJU uRefrudkylqmaewJht ajymrsdK; ajymaewmyg/ NyD;awmh cgwdki f;qHk&i f
olajymcsi fwmajymNyD;&i f olu wpfpm;yGJudkul;oGm;? ' grSr[ kwf jyefoGm;wJhvlyg/ ' Dwpfcgawmh
uRefra&SUu ukvm;xdki frSm0i fxdki faeygawmhw, f/ olu uRefrqDu ]]a&;r, f a&;r, f}} qdkwmudk
Mum;csi fw, fav/ wu, fawmhvnf; udkbndrf;t aMumi f;u uRefra&;csi fp&maumi f;wJh
]]t Ekynmonf}}wpfa, muft aMumi f;ygyJ/
vufa0SUorm;ukd t EkynmonfvdkU uRefrac:vdkufvdkU vufa0SUudkawmh t EkynmxJ
rxnfhoi fhygbl;vdkU uRefreJU oabmrwlolawGu ajymaumi f;ajymygvdrfhr, f/ vufa0SYudk
t EkynmonfvdkY ajymwJhvla&m? t EkynmrSr[ kwfbJ t Ekynmrac:Ekdi fygbl; qdkcsi folawGrSma&m
t aMumi f;jyp&m t csuft vufawG&SdMuygvdrfhr, f/ ' Dudp[ m uaeYxufxd ji i f;cHkqJjy emyg/
' gaMumi fhudk, fMudKufovdk vufcHMuyg/ EdkYayr, fhvufa0SYorm; udkbndrf;uawmht Ekynmonf
t rSefygbJ/ oludk, fwdki fvnf; vufa0SY[ m t EkynmvdkY pGJpGJNrJNrJ, HkMunfolyg/ olYb0[ m
vufa0SYt wGufvdkYvJ olu aZmufcsowfrSwfxm;olyg/
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udkbndrf;[ muav;t &G, fupjyD; t oufaoqHk;csdeft xdvufa0SYt aMumi f;udkbJ olYt mHkxJrSm
xm;jyD; ' Dt aMumi f;udkbJajym? ' Dt aMumi f;udkbJa&;? ' gt wGufbJt vkyfvkyfaeolyg/
uav;(10)a, mufeJY ' Dvufa0SYudk rpm;&vJzufxm;? i wfjywfrGJawae&ufeJYvJ wG, fxm;olyg/
wu, fawmhvufa0SYu olYudkxri f;rauR;ygbl;/ udkbndrf;udkuRefrwdkYi , fi , fuwnf;odwm? olYudk
olYrdbeJYolYZeD;eJYci fri fwJhrdwfaqGawGu 0dki f;0ef;jyD; pm;zdkY&at mi fulnDcJhMu&wmyg/
udkbndrf;u vufa0SYudkcspfjrwfEdk;&i f; yef;csDvnf;qGJw, f/ pmvnf;a&;w, f/ (12)aumi f
usm;udkvnf; a&muf&mt &yf csdef;ol&Sdwdki f; xdk;ygw, f/ ' gaMumi fhvufa0SYynm[ m t Ekynm
[ kwfwmr[ kwfwmt yxm;/ i wfi wfjywfjywfayayawaweJY vufa0SYudk zufxm;wJhudkbndrf;uawmh
t Ekynmorm;t ppfygbJ/
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&cJhwmyg/ ae&Si fe, fausmi f;udk [ dkwkef;uawmh ]]aecsi fwdki f;ausmi f;}} vkdY ac:ygao;w, f/
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ausmi f;olausmi f;om;awGvJ ' Dausmi f;uvufcHw, f/ t *Fvdyfpmcsnf;owfowfoi fay;wJh
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udk&i fawG OD;yOi f;awG pyg, f&S, fwef;wufjyD; at mi fawmh t xufwef;udk a0gceJ
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jyD;awmh q&mMuD;OD;&mZwfu rGwfqvi fjzpfavawmh rEav;rSm&SdwJh rGwfqvi fawG&JU
om;orD;awGvnf; ' Dausmi f;rSm&Sdygw, f/ udkbndrf;u 0ufpvD, Hausmi f;u ausmi f;xkwfvdkufwJh
rGwfpvi fvli , fav;yg/ ' gaMumi fhq&mMuD;OD;&mZwfausmi f;udkola&mufvmw, f/
ae&Si fe, fausmi f;u olrsm;ausmi f;awGvdkausmi f;0i f; us, fus, fjyefYjyefY&Sdwmr[ kwfbl;/ t J' Dawmh
ausmi f;ydki fabmvHk;uGi f;awGbmawGr&Sdbl;/ r&Sdawmh q&mMuD;u ausmi f; t aqmuft OD;xJrSmom
avhusi fhvdkY&wJhvufa0SYudkausmi f;om;awGudkoi fapw, f/ vufa0SYqdkwmabmufqi fxdk;wJhvuft dwfzdk;
t vGefukefwJh t m;upm;? t J' Dawmh ausmi f;wdki f;oi fMum;ray;Ekdi fbl;/ ' gudkodawmh
ausmi f;q&mawGwcsdKUu uRefrwdkY rdef;uav; ausmi f;olawGudk ajrmufay;w, f/
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upm;zdkYvnf; q&mMuD;vkyfay;ygOD;vdkYt a&;qdkMuwJh/
uRefrwdkUu oi fvTwfvdkufwJht wdki f; q&mMuD;Hk;cef;xJ 0i foGm;NyD; ajymMuawmh q&mMuD;u
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udkbndrf;[ m oD[ dkVfom;vufa0SUenf;jyq&mMuD; bDvfzpf&Sm;eJU udkcspft Hk;&JUwynfU?
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wufvmw, f/ q&mMuD;rpwm&mZwf&JUae&Si fe, fausmi f;xGufawGu wjcm;rGwfqvi fawGeJUrwlbl;?
rsdK;cspfpdwf&Sdw, f/ ArmeJU t aygi f;t oi f;ydkqefUw, f/ Arm&nfydkvnfw, f/ ArmeJU rGwfqvi f
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t rsm;MuD;arG;w, f/ olUt ouf (40) rSm uav; (10) a, muf&JUt azjzpfaeNyD/ olUrdef;r
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