Habit 1: Be Proactive (Transforing !urselves into People of "ntegrity#
Focus our efforts and attention on the long term Think in terms of the long term consequences of our actions Know that there are always choices Can affect the future by the decisions we make, our responses to people, events and circumstances May not have control over what life throws at us but we A!A"# have a choice about how we respond Visit each of your professors in his/her ofce before experiencing any problem Sit in the frst three rows of every classroom in which courses are held Take the initiative to introduce yourself to two other good students in each class . Habit $: Begin %ith the End in &ind !hat does the end represent$ The %&'%(#) of your life* "ou need to have a dream, define your own vision and get into the practice of setting goals #etting goals will allow you to make measurable progress towards your dream* dentify for each class what you expect to learn by the end of the semester Habit ': (irst Things (irst (Tie &anageent# Manage "our Time )ffectively+ the , Time -uadrants "ou need to have done .abit / first but if you don0t know what your dream is, you cannot separate what is important from what is not important 1mpt2&rgent+ there is some sort of deadline attached to them* 3eveloping .abit 4 will allow you to be able to say no to demands on your time that fall into -uads / and 5* -uad 5 are activities that consume our time but do not contribute to our goals* Focusing on -uad / is absolutely fundamental to achieving success !rrive two minutes early for every class "ead textbook chapters the day before they are addressed in class Start studying for exams a week in advance Habit ): Thin* +in +in Means fostering an attitude that is committed to always finding solutions that will truly benefit both sides of a dispute* #olutions must be created Also known as 6o 3eal* This attitude liberates the individuals concerned from the effort of trying to persuade the opposite party to shift ground or compromise* Take prudent measures to accommodate your #earning Style in each class $orm study groups with other students to prepare for assignments and exams Share your successful strategies with other students% ask for theirs in return Habit ,: See* (irst to -nderstand then be -nderstood !hen both parties are talking, no one is listening &nderstand what is being said, the other person0s position 7how does a student feel when a teacher really tries to understand rather than belittle them$8 'eflect back to the person what they have said* !sk professors for informal feedback throughout each course Habit .: Synergise 7synergism 9 the interaction of elements that when combined produce a total effect that is greater than the sum of the individual elements, contributions, etc*2when the whole is greater than the sum of its parts8 %utting your head together with the other party or parties to creatively brainstorm a synergistic solution to a problem* 1n other words, find a solution which contains win+win benefits* dentify resources that can help you be successful in your classes% Talk with students taking your course from other professors & share approaches 'ncourage others to (oin your out&of&class study groups Habit 7: Sharpen the Sa% !e are the #aw and we must regularly engage in the e:ercise of the three dimensions which make up the human condition; mind, body and spirit* 'stablish a mentoring relationship with a professor )omplete a study skills workshop Teach what you have learned to someone else