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From "JR," A Young Woman With Asperger Syndrome
From "JR," A Young Woman With Asperger Syndrome
IdonotremembermychildhoodverywellbutIdorememberbeingveryquietinnurseryschool.Mymothersaidthat
myteachersthoughtIremindedthemofadeafpersonbecauseIdidnotparticipateinclassroomactivitieswiththe
otherchildren.IfItalkedaboutanythingwiththeotherchildren,itwasprobablyaskingthemwhethertheylikedhe
manornot.Youknowhemanthatmachocartoonguy.Iwouldn'taskkidsanythingelseasfarasIcanrecall.I
rememberhavingahardtimefollowingdirections.Ialsorememberbeingteasedbyboysthatwerebulliesandwould
callmestupid.
IgottestedattheHackensackChildren'shospitalandtheysaidthatIhadPervasiveDevelopmentalDisorder.ThatfallI
startedgoingtoaprivateoccupationaltherapisttoworkonmyfineandgrossmotor.Ilookedattheregular
kindergartenclassbutrememberfeelingverylostandconfused.Myparentsandmychildstudyteamhadmetestedfor
specialeducation.WelookedatseveralschoolsoneofthembeingtheForumSchoolinWaldwickbuttheydidn'tfeel
thatthatwastheplaceforme.WelookedataschoolcalledECLCandthatiswhereIdecidedtogo.Imetsomevery
brightkidsthereoneofthembeingaboy...whomrecentlyIgotintouchwithagainbecauseIreturnedtoECLCafter
havingdifficultyinthemainstreamedclasses.Ihadonetruefriendinthepublicschoolbutwe'renotfriendsanymore.
ManyofthegirlscalledmegigglesbecauseIsmiledtoomuchbutIwasjustputtingonanactbecauseIwasn'tvery
happyatthattimeandIstartedtoseeapsychiatrist.Ihaven'tmetmanygirlswithasperger'swhoaremyage.Manyof
theonesIknowofareintheirmidteensorlate20s.IhadbeengoingtoasocialskillsgroupinRamseyandnowIam
makingfriendswithgirlsmyageatmycollegeinConnecticut.