CRUZ, Jaizcel Iry H.

1st topic
CHOICES: We must make a choice to take a chance or our life will never change.
I choose this topic because I wonder how many decisions we make every day. I believe its
probably hundreds. We decide whether or not to get out of bed, what well eat, what well do,
what well think about, what well sayand on and on. While it may seem like many of our daily
choices are not that significant, its important to understand that they do matter. I want to tell the
world that we are fortunate to have so many choices. We know that if we need to we can always
make it. We know that life is filled with options. We can travel in the direction of those things that
will make our heart glad. It may take a while. And we may need to deal with things wed rather
not dwell on. But if we want it bad enough, our courage will carry us to a brighter day. There is
always away to get to the place where we can love the life weve always wanted to have.
Research in psychology has revealed that our decisions are disrupted by an array of
biases and irrationalities: Were overconfident. We seek out information that supports us and
downplay information that doesnt. We get distracted by short-term emotions. When it comes to
making choices, it seems, our brains are flawed instruments. Unfortunately, merely being aware
of these shortcomings doesn't fix the problem; any more than knowing that we are nearsighted
helps us to see. The real question is: How can we do better? (Heath, 2013).
2nd topic
ATTACHMENT: Attachment comes from a perception of lack - all comes from fear.
Attachment is a deep and enduring emotional bond that connects one person to another across
time and space (Ainsworth, 1973; Bowlby, 1969). Attachment does not have to be reciprocal.
One person may have an attachment with an individual which is not shared.

3rd topic
CHANGES