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10 l do khin bn khng t c mc tiu

trong cuc sng


Khng nn m m v c gng lm tt c mi th, thiu mt k hoch c th, t b khi
mi vic tr nn kh khn...
Khc phc c nhng l do khin mnh tht bi, chng ta s thnh cng. nh:Sodahead.

Vic t ra mc tiu, d trong bt k lnh vc no nh sc khe, cng vic, ti sn s to ng


lc phn u v gip bn tng s t tin vo bn thn khi thnh cng. Tuy nhin, bn c th
khng t c mc tiu bi nhng l do sau y:
1. S bo cha
Tm l do bo cha cho mnh d dng hn so vi vic tm ra l do ti sao phi t ra mc tiu v
hnh ng. Bn thng a ra nhng l do khi cm thy s hi, lo lng, nghi ng v thm ch l
li bing. Thi thong, bn cm thy khng lm g c th d dng v an ton hn l c bt tay
gii quyt mt vic g .
2. Phng i s s hi
Ni s tht bi lm tan bin rt nhiu c m trc khi chng c c hi tr thnh hin thc.
Ni s khin chng ta mt t tin. N thao tng, lm bn chn bc. Hy ct ni s ca mnh i
v ngng vic nh gi thp bn thn ngay lp tc.
3. Khng tm c mc tiu chnh ng
Mc tiu c ngha nh th no vi bn? Ti sao bn li t ra mc tiu ? i khi bn eo
ui mt vi th bi v l iu nhng ngi khc mong i bn, v mun ui kp ng
nghip ca mnh. Vic t mc tiu khng ph hp v ui theo nhng th khng thc s cn
v mong mun s lm bn lng ph nhiu tin bc, thi gian v sc lc.
4. Khng u tin nhng ci quan trng
Rt nhiu ngi mi m theo di mt ai trn mng x hi thay v ngi lm vic, cho nhng
th khng quan trng lm mnh xao lng. Tht ng ngc nhin l bn c th dnh thi gian cho
nhng th v ngha v sau li ni rng khng c thi gian hon thnh mc tiu ca
mnh.
Thc t bn lun c thi gian nhng quan trng hn l sp xp mi vic nh th no. Nu c
mt th thc s quan trng, bn nn dnh thi gian v lm cho n tr thnh u tin hng u.
5. C gng lm tt c mi th
Khi dnh sc lc dn tri vo qu nhiu th, i khi bn khng th trau di k nng v s thnh
tho trong lnh vc m mnh mnh nht v ph hp nht. iu quan trng nht vi bn l tm ra
ci m mnh gii, am m bi bn chng th lm c mi th.
6. Ni thay v lm
Chng ta s lm mt s tn nhim ca ngi khc cng nh s t tin ca chnh bn thn mnh
nu nh ni nhng khng lm c. Khi lin tc tht bi trong vic gi li cng nh vic t
c mc tiu ra, bn s tr nn suy sp v i khi nh mt s t tin vo chnh bn thn
mnh.
Bn cn phi hc cch lm hn l hc cch ni, s dng nng lng ca mnh vo vic lm mi
th thay v ni v chng. Hy kt qu ni v chnh n v s dng hnh ng thay cho li ni.
7. Thiu mt k hoch c th

Nu khng c mt k hoch ngha l bn ln k hoch nhn tht bi. K hoch rt quan


trng trong vic gip bn t c mc tiu. chnh l bn gip bn i t im A n im
B mt cch d dng. Ta lp k hoch cho vic hon thnh mc tiu ca mnh nh th no? Ta
cn phi lm nhng iu g? Hy gch u dng cc vic phi lm v c mt chin lc r rng.
8. Khng t cam kt vi bn thn
Vo ngy th hai, thc n n king ca bn bt u vi nhiu suy ngh tt nhng iu kt
thc ngay khi ng nghip bc vo vi mt hp bnh rn. "Ti khng mun c y bun, ti s
bt u n king li vo ngy mai", l iu ta s ni.
Nu nh bn khng t buc mnh lm theo nhng ci m ta t ra, nhng l do v s bo
cha s lm tr hon nhng vic cn lm h tr mc tiu ca mnh.
9. Khng c mt gii hn v thi gian
Vic c mt thi hn gip tp trung v lm vic c k lut hn, hn ht n s to cho ta mt cm
gic cp bch. N l yu t quan trng gip tp trung ng vo mc tiu ra. Khi mi vic
c thoi mi v thi gian, i khi kt qu li khng cao, bi n thng xuyn dn n s tr
hon.
10. T b khi mi vic kh khn
Khng ci g tt m c c mt cch d dng. Mt vi mc tiu s thc s i hi bn phi
m hi v nc mt. Chng ta sng trong thi i m ngi ta mun nhn ngay vo kt qu hn
l khuyn khch mt qu trnh rn luyn kin tr,
Khng c bt c th g thnh cng ch sau mt m. Nu bn mong mun t c mc tiu v
thay i cuc sng, tt c nhng g bn cn l sing nng, cng hin v k lut.
Tho (Theo Huffington Post)

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