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ZoyaPandher

Mrs.Lucarelli
ComparativeCivilizations
9November2015
ExperiencesfromBarMitzvahandReflection
Events:
1. Tallitpresentation
2. prayersaidbythewholefamily
3. everyoneintheservicestoodforthereadingofacertainportionfromtheTorahbythe
barmitzvahboy
4. Torahservice
5. prayersaidbyallgrandparents
6. prayersaidbyimmediatefamily
7. candythrownattheboy
8. prayersaidbytheboy
9. blessingfromtheCantor
10. boygaveaspeechinEnglishabouthisportionoftheTorah,hismitzvahproject,and
Judaisminhisfamily
11. parentsgaveprayer
12. CantorsangForeverYoung
13. barmitzvahcertificate
14. theboyandhisbrotherliftedanddressedtheTorah

15. prayerssaidfortherestoftheservice

Ihadbeentoquiteafewbar/batmitzvahswhenIwasinmiddleschool,butIhadonly
gonetooneoftheservicesbefore.IrememberthatitwasmuchmorefunthanIhadthoughtit
wouldbe,andnotasboringasmanypeoplehadtoldmeitwouldbe.However,thistimeIhadto
observetheservicemorecarefullyinordertowritemyreflection.Previously,itwasmoreabout
havingfunwithfriendsthantakingnoteoftheculturalandreligiouspracticesthattookplace.
OneofthethingsIlikedbestabouttheservicewashowinteractiveitwas.ThefactthatI
amnotJewishdidnothindermyexperienceatall,exceptforthefactthatIdidnotunderstand
whenHebrewwasspokenandalltheprayersweresaid,althoughitwasexplainedtomeafterthe
ceremony.Personally,myfavoritepartoftheservicewasthemusic.Theleaderoftheservice
wasaCantor,whichislikearabbithatcansingprayersproperly.Hehadbroughthisguitarwith
himandheplayedalongtoeveryprayerthatwassung.Inmyownreligion,theprayersarealso
sung,butonlybytheleadersoftheservice.Here,eventhoughIdidnotknowtheprayers,I
couldeitherreadalongorclapmyhands,likemanyotherpeopleweredoing.Ialsolikedthe
servicebecauseitwasnotboringordryinanyway.Inadditiontothemusic,everyonedanced
thehora,whichhelpedtomixfunandreligion.
Overall,IamhappythatIpayedcloseattentiontotheceremonythistime.Previously,I
hadviewedbar/batmitzvahsasmoreofaparty,likeaSweet16.Thistime,Iwasshownthatitis
animportantriteofpassage,evenforpeoplewhoarenotextremelyreligious.Notonlywasthe
ceremonyawaytoshowfaithtotheGodAdonoi,butitisawaytobringfamilytogether.
EveryonewasextremelyhappyforMatthew(thebarmitzvahboy)andwereallunitedasa
family,nomatterhowextendedtherelativeswere.Goingtothebarmitzvahwasalearning
experiencethathelpedtoextendmyknowledgeofJudaism.

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