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Gender Relationships in Marriage and Out: Edited by Rivkah Blau Robert S. Hirt, Series Editor
Gender Relationships in Marriage and Out: Edited by Rivkah Blau Robert S. Hirt, Series Editor
Relationships In
Marriage and Out
Edited by
Rivkah Blau
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Contributors viii
Series Editor’s Preface xi
Robert S. Hirt
Preface xiii
Rivkah Blau
Introduction: The Past and the Future of the Forum on
“Gender Relations” xv
Jennie Rosenfeld
1. Of Marriage: Relationship and Relations 1
Aharon Lichtenstein
2. Marriage, Sexuality, and Holiness: The Anti-Ascetic Legacy
of Talmudic Judaism 35
Adiel Schremer
3. How Jewish Society Adapted to Change in Male/Female
Relationships in 19th / early 20th Century Eastern Europe 65
Shaul Stampfer
4. Sanctity, Sanity and Connectedness: Struggles For
Commitment Among Orthodox Jewish Singles 85
Daniel Rothenberg
5. Perfect Person Singular: Unmarried Adults in Contemporary
Orthodox American Jewish Communities 91
Sylvia Barack Fishman
Rabbi Leo Jung, zt”l, is reported to have said: “The job of a rabbi is
to comfort the afflicted and to afflict the comfortable.” After over
thirty years in the rabbinate, I have come to the conclusion that
Rabbi Jung’s comment not only reflects the role of the rabbi, but
also the fundamental tension which lies at the core of synagogue
and communal life.
On the one hand, the role of the synagogue is to “welcome”
and to “include,” particularly in the Diaspora where Jewish identity
is so dependent on affiliation with communal institutions. The
synagogue’s task on this level is to provide an attractive, warm,
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