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Chapter 1-Super Success - Not For The Touchy-Feely
Chapter 1-Super Success - Not For The Touchy-Feely
haventbrowsedthisfarletmeassureyouIvegotmoreforyoubetweenthesecoversthanyoullfindin
alibraryofsudsyproverbsandplatitudes.
WhenIretiredthesecondtime,afewyearsago,Iquicklygotboredwithdoingnothing.Igradually
becameinterestedinsharingthebrutaltruthsIhadlearnedinthebusinessworldwithothers.Afterall,I
hadmadetensofmillionsbeforeIwas40yearsold.Whynotpassalongthebenefitofyearsofexpe
riencetothosewhowereonthecuspofsuccess,sothattheycouldenjoyextraordinarybusiness
achievementoftheirown.And,quitefrankly,myegodemandedit.
Thatidealedmetomakeacommitmenttothesuccessseminarbusiness.Ireasonedthatifothersuper
successfulbusinessperformerscoulddelivertheirprovenwisdomandstrategiestoawillingandreceptive
audienceofeagerlistenersreadytotakeboldaction,socouldI.
Icouldnthavebeenmorewrong.
motivationgurusthatcometoyourcity...thosepearlyteethedinfomercialguysthesocalledauthors
thatlinethebookstoreswithhowtosuccessbookstheyremostlyfrauds!
Youneedtoaskyourself,howmanyofthesebusinesssuccessexpertshavemadetheirmoneyinthe
businessworld?Howmanyofthemscrappedtheirwaytosupersuccessinthekillordiecorporate
environment?Howmanyofthemstartedfromscratchandbuiltabusinessempireworthhundredsof
millionsofdollars?Dontbotherscratchingyourhead.Theanswerishardlyany.
Itdidnttakemelongtolearnthatmostofthesephonieshavemadewhatmoneytheyhaveintheseminar
businesstakingyourmoney!IquicklydiscoveredthatImtheonlymultimillionaireIknowofonthe
seminarcircuitwhomademymoneyintherealbusinessworld,creatinghundredmilliondollarempire.
Asyoulllearninthenextchapter,Iwasntjustexposedto400milliondollarsoftransactionsoneday.I
createdacompanythatcatapultedtoaworthofover400milliondollarsonamajorstockexchange
startingwithaphone
aleasedfaxmachineand$820.
Anotherquestion.Thesepeoplearesupposedtobeteachingyouhowtobecomesuccessful,whichisa
codewordforrich.Buthowmanyofthemaremultimillionaires?Fewifany.Infact,theonlyoneIknow
isagoodfriend,TedNicholas,arguablythefinestmarketingcopywritingandselfpublishingguruinthe
country.Otherwise,mywifeLindahaslostmoreinfurcoatsatairportsthanmostofthesebumshaveever
made.Onanygivennightout,Lindawearsinjewelrymorethantheycanclaiminnetworth.Yettheyre
tellingyouhowtogetrich!Beforeyoubuyyournextbookortape,considertheauthorandaskyourself,
IsthisguywhereIwanttobe?IshissuccessstorytheblueprintIwantformysuccess?Andhowdidhe
makehismoney?Inthebusinessarena,orsellingbooksandtapes,andputtingbuttsinseminarseats?
Thinkaboutit.
IalsodiscoveredsomethinginterestingaboutthoseroomfulsofseminarattendeesIassumedwereso
eagertotakeboldaction.Iwasstunnedtodiscoverthelevelofapathyoftheaverageseminarattendee.
Mostofthemaremoreinterestedinhearingfeelgoodstoriesandpleasantproverbsthanthetruthabout
becomingsupersuccessful.Mostofthemjustwanttobestroked,tohear,Youvealreadygotwithinyou
whatittakestosucceed.Reachinsideanddrawfromthewealthofyourownpotential.Theywant
validationthattheyreokay,inthetraditionofImokay,youreokay.Whatcrap.
SowhydidDanPea,iconoclasticcurmudgeonofthebusinessworld,decidetogetintotheseminar
businessandwriteabook?Quitefrankly,mygoalistochangethewaypersonalsuccessdevelopment
strategiesandsuccesscoachingarecommunicatedtotheworld.Andmakeanothertonofmoney.In
additiontothefactIhaveactuallyimplementedmysuccessstrategiescontinuouslyovermostofthepast
25yearsintheprocessofmakingtensofmillions,Ihaveanotheruniqueadvantagethatworkstoyour
benefit.Imnotgoingtotellyou
whatIthinkyouwanttohearsoyoulllikeme.Idontcareifyoulikemeornot.Ifyouwantafriend,buy
adog.IdontcareifyoudontlistentowhatIhavetosay.Imnotinthisbusinesstomakefriendsorto
beyourfriend.(IfyoupersonallyknewtheveryfewhighperformersinAmericatoday,guyslikeDonald
TrumporRossPerot,youdunderstandtheydontgiveadamnifpeoplelikethemornot.Personal
acceptancebythemassesisjustnotontheiragenda.)NopeIminthisbusinesstogiveyouthe
opportunitytolearnhowtobeenormouslysuccessfulfromaguywhoisenormouslysuccessful.Even
thoughhalftruthsandmisinformationareeasiertosell,Imgoingtogiveyoutheunvarnishedtruth.
WhenIfirststartedlecturing,ItalkedtomyaudienceslikeIwouldtalktomystaff,expletivesandall.Half
ofthoseaudiences,mostlywomen,wouldgetupandleaveinthefirstfifteenminutes.Ididntcare,
becauseIwasspeakingauthentically.Thisisthewaythesupersuccessfultalkintheglasstowersof
success,Itoldthem.Sogetusedtoit.IftheyhadseenthemovieWallStreet,theyhadalreadyhearda
fairlyrepresentativedoseoflanguageintherealworld.Theyleftanyway.Iwasamazedtoseetheir
naivet.
Mymarketingadvisorandthepeoplewhoscheduleseminarsfinallysaidtome,Dan,youvegottotone
itdown.Someofthesepeoplearereallyinterestedinwhatyouvegottosay,butyoureoffendingthem
withyourlanguage.SoItonedmyselfdowntobecomeakinder,gentlerDan.
Sohowinhelldopeoplemaketentimesmorethanyoumake?Howdopeoplemakeahundredora
thousandtimeswhatyoumakeiftheycanthaveahundredorathousandtimesourIQ?How?Illtellyou
how!Becausetheydreambiggerthanyou.Theirexpectationsarehigherthanyours.Thatshow.
Imoftenasked,ifIhadmylifetoliveoveragainwhatwouldIchange.Idonlychangeonething.Idset
mygoalshigher.Thatsright.Withallmymegasuccess,Idstillsetmygoalshigher.
Whataboutyou?Haveyousetgoalsthatallowyoutobeallyoucanbe?Ifnot,readingthisbookwillbe
anastonishingrevelation.Attheriskofoverstatement,readingthisbookcouldchangeyourlife.
Followingthesystemsandmethodologyinthechaptersaheadcouldchangethecourseofyourdestiny.I
saycouldbecauseyoumusttakeactiontochange.Changeisabsolutelyessential.Iwantyouto
understandrightnowthatdoingthesamethingsoverandover,likeyouvealwaysdonethem,and
expectingdifferentresults,isinsanity.
Youseethesehighperformanceindividuals,likemyself,thatIwillcontinuetoreferto,achievesuper
successbecausetheywantitmorethanyou.Theyforgefavorablecircumstancesbyusingthetwo
advantagesofhighperformancebusinesspeoplepracticedskillsandforceofgoodhabits.OrasJim
Ryun,theformerworldrecordholderinthemilesaid,Motivationgetsyoustarted;habitkeepsyou
going.Trustmeonthis.Intelligencehasnothingtodowithit.
$640,000.Then3.5million,then8million.Thelasttimewelooked,onecornersoldfor$12million!
DaddoesntliketodriveupinNorthwestL.A.aroundWoodlandHills,eventoday.Onefailuredrainedhis
resolvetoevertakeanotherrisk.
UNDERSTAND FAILURE
Thesupersuccessfulalsohaveadifferenttakeonfailure.Failureiswhathappenswhenyoudosomething.
Thegreatestsuccessesintheworldalsoexperiencedthegreatestfailures.Thealltimestrikeoutrecordin
majorleaguebaseballisheldbyBabeRuth.Butwedontrememberhimforhisstrikeouts.We
rememberhimforsettingahomerunrecordthatstoodfordecades.Noonecaresabouthisstrikeouts.The
pointishekeptswingingthedamnbat!Mostofusnevergetoutofthedugoutletaloneuptotheplate.
Thosepeoplenotonlywonderwhytheyneverhitahomerunandevenbegrudgethedeterminedhitters
whodo!
DonaldTrumphaslostbillionsinhisfinancialdeals.Butwhocares.Hehasmadebillionsmorewithhis
successfulventures,andhejustkeepsswingingthebat.AfterstumblingintotheNewWorld,Christopher
Columbusfailedinhissubsequentexplorationsanddiedapooranddisappointedman.ButonColumbus
Daydowecelebratehisdyingdestitute?Ofcoursenot.Wecelebratehissuccess.
ThisremindsmeofastoryaboutTomWatson,Sr.,founderofIBM,beingaskedbyayoungmanagement
trainee,Sir,howdoIgettothetopofthemanagementladderhere?Watsonrepliedimmediately,
Doubleyourfailurerate,son.Doubleyourfailurerate.Hispointwas,ofcourse,thatmorefailures
couldonlyresultfrommoretries,moreinitiative,morerisktakingalltheactionsrequiredforgrowth.
MostofThomasEdisonsexperimentsfailedmiserablythousandsofthem.Hethoughtdirectelectrical
currentwastheanswertolightingtheworld,andthatalternatingcurrentwasapassingfad.Hewaswrong.
Andnobodycares.Instead,wereindebtedtoEdisonsgeniusandhisdeterminationwheneverweturnona
lightbulborhearrecordedmusic,watchafilm.
Forthesupersuccessful,failureisavaluablelesson.Itsaroadnottotakeagain,oratleastunderthesame
conditions.Andthentheymoveon.Failureisnothingmorethantesting.AsEdisonsaid,Successis99%
perspirationand1%inspiration.Tothehighperformanceperson,FearisFalseExpectations
AppearingReal.
Thesurefireformulaforfailure?Trytopleaseeverybody.Thatsthebiggestreasonmostpeoplenever
achievesuccess.Theytrytokeepeverybodyhappy.Asaresult,theyfailandthepeopletheyweretryingto
pleasedontgiveadamn.Insteadoflisteningtoeverybodyaroundthem,theyshouldhaveconsulted
withinthemselves.Theyshouldhavetrustedtheirinstincts.Theyshouldhavelistenedtotheirintuition.
friendly.Shetouchesyoualot,innocently.Butyouknowsheshot.Youdontneedtorunbacktoyour
officeandLotus123it.Youdonthavetothinkaboutit.Youknow.Businessismuchthesame.But
conventionalwisdomdictatesweovercomplicateissuesbecause,afterall,ourworldisverycomplicated
now.Ipersonallybelievethepersonalcomputeristhesinglebiggestdrawbacktobeingahighperformance
entrepreneur.Imnotcomputerliterateandproudofit!