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Heart Summer 2016
Heart Summer 2016
I Just Didnt
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Katharine
m an unassuming, quiet
sort, more often referred to
as Jasons dad, or Mins
husband than my own name.
I grew up in Nuneaton, the eldest of
6 kids. I became Area Manager for
Candis, a national door-to-door
magazine. This started out as a plain
sheet of paper
listing the football
results
like
a football pools
thing, which cost
20p per fortnight.
Candis eventually became more of a
glossy magazine. The point of it was to
raise funds for cancer research and
during my time with the company we
raised over 40 million pounds. My wife,
Min, and I moved to Preston when I
was promoted to Regional Manager.
Here, I managed 143 agents who
distributed the magazine throughout
the North West. After 29 years I moved
Im a terrible singer
at the best of times
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This group is aimed at those who are retired, but all are welcome.
While Lunch Fellowship is usually the 3rd Wednesday in the month this
is not always the case so if you want to come, please contact Vicky at the
church office. She will send you a free programme in the post.
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eing a teenager is
difficult enough without
the added complication
of battling a mental illness.
By age 15, Lizs battle with
anorexia nervosa was already
out of control.
Mental illness is taboo throughout
society and usually misunderstood.
People tend to liken depression to
sadness, anxiety and panic to worry,
or eating disorders to wanting to
look good.
Wanting more
Lizs battle with anorexia
began when she just wanted to be
accepted, along with some unkind
comments from her peers. As she
began to exercise more regularly
and diary her food intake, she
received positive feedback from her
friends about her new figure. This
fuelled the desire to pay detailed
attention to calorie-counting and
how many minutes spent on gym
equipment. As she devoted more
time and energy on controlling her
figure, she became sadder, more
isolated, more nervous and physically
weaker. The irony of finally achieving
her ideal figure, was that she felt
more sad and lonely than ever.
She became
increasingly alone
As the anorexia developed,
comments such as too skinny and
you used to be attractive began
to surface unhelpful comments to
anyone, but hearing these comments
whilst battling this eating disorder
were crushing for Liz. She became
increasingly alone. Her personality
changed; she was volatile, impulsive
and never satisfied with her relentless
effort to self-improve.
Many of us know someone
suffering with mental illness, which is
why Liz wants her story to be shared,
knowing that her struggle might help
someone else realise they are not
alone. Looking back she can see how
her faith and her church, coupled with
medical advice, helped her along the
tough road to recovery.
Searching for
more
Liz says she started
searching for God when
she realised that she was
out of control. Although
her anorexia was initially a
technique to gain control of
I am
Valuable
People look
at the outward
appearance, but
the LORD looks at
the heart.
From the Bible, 1 Samuel 16:7
friends in
her home-group
when other friends
had distanced themselves.
Now recovered, Liz is 20 years
old and in her 2nd year studying
Social Psychology at Loughborough
University, as well as being involved
in the Christian Union there.
Lizs story of recovery is
encouraging and uplifting, but the
stigma attached to mental illnesses
still exists. When we talk about
mental illness, we understand it
better. When we ask victims of these
illnesses about their experience, we
hear that above all they feel very
isolated.
Heart, Soul
Band member photographs
by Andrew Astin
Andrew Slack
Andrew describes himself as a moustache-loving, tweedsympathiser with a passion for music! He says, As soon as
I was big enough to sit behind a drum kit I started playing
music in church. Since I was 6 years old Ive played piano,
drums and guitar. I studied Music Technology at uni then
spent 4 years working as a professional sound engineer.
Aged 15, I formed a band called Grand Old Juke that got
me into composing and recording in a big way. My musical
taste is eclectic, so when I need inspiration for composition,
Ill often listen to new sounds such as the Indie/Rock band,
Mutemath.
I love drums and keys, guitar and vocals, as well as
studio engineering and production. From the outset FFM
agreed to scrutinise
honestly one anothers
music and lyrics. We
edit our own songs then
work on them with one
or two of the others, before fine-tuning with the
whole group until finally a song is introduced
Can be downloaded on
to the church. Every
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song should take us on
a journey and evoke
emotion if, by the
end of a song youre in
the same mood as you
were at the beginning,
it has achieved nothing!
Ultimately, I only want
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Pete
A few years ago, Pete and his family joined Fulwood FMC
where he now plays drums in one of the bands.
Pete says, Some of us wanted to express our faith
creatively, so we began to meet to share song-writing ideas,
review recordings and scrutinise lyrics. Of course, the words
must make sense and be theologically correct. We dont
want to contradict the Bible. I compose the melody then
fit words to it, because the rhythm and pace of the music
determine the theme; an upbeat rhythm may suit a song
of praise, whereas a slower melody goes with reflective,
prayerful words. From the outset we agreed to approach
the venture with a sense of humility, inclusiveness and
encouragement. It is deeply satisfying to create words and
music that 100s of people connect with. I contributed to a
song called My God. In it are words that resonate for me;
You are the rock, firm beneath my feet. Step by step you
are changing me.
Do Not
Be Afraid
The following article was adapted for Heart Magazine from
Helens original letter to those who prayed. Helen is an accomplished BSL interpreter. She volunteers on the Fulwood Free
Methodist Church signing team for Sunday morning services.
C H R I ST I AN
RES OU R C E C EN TRE
Books, music, cards and gifts.
If this story has affected you,
or you just want to find helpful
resources on hard life issues or
Christianity, then visit your local
Christian bookshop:
www.prestonchristianresourcecentre.co.uk
Email: cbcpreston@aol.com
Aargh!
I want to try
church but . . .
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What is
expected of me?
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