Money and Marriage

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MONEY AND

MARRIAGE
Family Finance 101
July 11, 2009
AIM Conference Center
Makati City
No. 1 Cause of Marital Conflict?

a. Infidelity
b. Mother-in-law
c. Different
personalities
d. Money

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Are You This Couple?
Mrs. Spender
Mr.
Saver

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Are You This Couple?

Mr. Mama’s
Boy Mrs. Marcos

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Are You This Couple?
Mr. Know-It- Mrs. Clueless
All

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Are You This Couple?

Mrs. Stay-at-
Home Mom

Mr. Big Shot

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Are You This Couple?

Mr. Family Mrs. (Feeling)


Guy Single Lady
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Are You This Couple?

Mr.
Smith

Mrs.
Smith

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Are You This Couple?

Mr. Casino Mrs. Credit


Card
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What Are the Root Causes?

• Middle-class • Very
family ambitious
• Wants just a • Daddy’s girl
nice, steady job who always got
• Grew up with her way
simple • Money makes
pleasures her feel in
• Middle child control
• Doesn’t like • Spends like
taking too there’s no
Different tomorrow
much risk
backgrounds
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What Are the Root Causes?

Kapamilya
!
Kapuso!

No unity!

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For singles!

Take the financial compatibility test:


http://www.debtsmart.com/pages/article_compatibility_test.html
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Genesis 1:24

“For this reason a man will leave his father and


mother and be united to his wife, and they will
become one flesh.”

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How to Make It Work: The 4
C’s
1. Communicate
2. Create

3. Commit

4. Compromise

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Communicate

Understand where you’re coming from.


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Communicate

Share your
dreams and
goals

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Communicate

Communicat
e regularly
and openly

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How to Make It Work: The 4
C’s
1. Communicate
2. Create

3. Commit

4. Compromise

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Create

Plan together

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Create

Divide money tasks

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Create

Merge your finances

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How to Make It Work: The 4
C’s
1. Communicate
2. Create

3. Commit

4. Compromise

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Commit

Stick to your plan

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Commit

Share sacrifices equally

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Commit

Enjoy privileges together

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How to Make It Work: The 4
C’s
1. Communicate
2. Create

3. Commit

4. Compromise

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Compromise

Find ways to compromise

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Compromise

Get professional help.

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Remember…

Money is not worth fighting about!

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How to Make It Work: The 4
C’s
1. Communicate
2. Create

3. Commit

4. Compromise

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