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Building Trust Where There Is No Trust: Uancayo
Building Trust Where There Is No Trust: Uancayo
there is no trust books until some of the very late books came back. Our
hope was that some peer pressure would help get some
of them back. It´s worked to a point. At the very least
HUANCAYO – Trust is a hard thing sometimes. The Bible it´s brought some awareness to the fact that some are
tells us in Proverbs 3.5 to trust in the Lord with all our not being responsible. “Some” is key here. Of the 1,100
heart and to not lean on our own understanding. That´s plus people registered to check out books from the
great spiritual counsel to lead us from simply saying we library, a little over a 100 have not returned their books.
follow God to actually following God. Another phrase I That´s about 10%. More than 90% are very responsible.
recently was “Trust everyone, but cut the cards But a number of adults (most of whom we´ve never met
anyway.” This allusion to playing cards says in a before) see the list of names of the 10% and shake their
roundabout way that we really can´t trust anyone. heads. Then they come in and say, “You can´t trust the
That´s the way things are here in Peru. There is not kids here. They are not good. They will rob you blind. If
much trust between people. I were you, I wouldn´t loan any books to any of them.”
There are reasons for this lack of trust. For example, the They choose to ignore the 90%. They don´t see them
country was stuck in the middle of a horribly bloody civil because they aren´t there when the kids are. They don´t
war less than a generation ago. It really didn´t “end” see the kids who come running around the corner after
until about the year 2000, and there are places in the school to see if we are loaning books again yet. They
country where the terrorist cells are still active. There don´t see the disappointed looks on their faces when we
were many years when nobody had any idea who they have to tell them, “Not yet. Can you talk to your
could trust and who would turn them in. Another friends?” Their hearts don´t break like ours do.
common theme behind the lack of trust is government
corruption. I don´t know the details, but those two There is a Peruvian proverb that says “Los justos pagen
words often come up together in conversation. It´s time por los pecados de los injustos” (“the just pay for the
sins of the unjust”). There is a tendency among a
number of adults whom we meet to let that be the case.
Relationship Specialists:
We aren´t willing to do that though. That is not right.
“Not that kind of missionary”
That is not what we believe Jesus wants us to do. We MIRAFLORES – One evening while they were in Lima,
believe Jesus wants us to do all that we can to show his Ayliś and Ash went to eat vegetarian food at a local
love. Teaching trust is one way we can do this. restaurant. While waiting for their food to come, a
young lady in her 20s came in and sat at the next table.
When kids come into the library, we want to instill in When she ordered, they quickly noted by her Spanish
them some morals and values including responsibility, that she was just visiting. Talking with her, they
respect, love, telling the truth, and trust. “To start with, learned she was from Portland, Oregon, and that this
we want to trust you,” we tell them. “Can we trust was her latest of many visits to Peru. She asked where
you?” we ask. they lived, and upon learning they live in Huancayo,
asked, “How does one go about moving to another
“Sí,” they say. Granted some are lying when they say it,
country? I really want to move here.”
but most are not (at least in our experience). We
started loaning books. Most are coming back without “We are missionaries,” said Ash, “and that helps us to
any problem. Some we have to search for. Some, get our visas to be here…” After the word
unfortunately, we doubt we will ever see again. That´s missionaries, the young lady tuned out the
too bad. But most of them we will. In the process we conversation. She knew about missionaries. People
are building relationships with other people. Through who come in and destroy a culture to impose the
those relationships we are able to share more fully and North American way of life. She knew about
consistently the love of Christ. missionaries who at all costs would not listen to the
local people and who were know-it-alls. During dinner,
We´re going to start loaning books again the week.
Ayliś asked Ash a lot of questions about faith and
Please pray that we do the right thing.
culture and things. Ash did his best to answer the
questions in a way that the young lady at the next
table would hear. When she left, he gave her their
web page address and said, “Next time you are in Peru
and want to visit Huancayo, look us up. We´d be glad
to show you around.” The young lady said, “Thank
you” and started to leave. “By the way,” Ash said to
her, “We aren´t ´that kind of missionary.´ We believe
God has been here for thousands of years. We
introduce people to God and teach them, but
ultimately it is their decision. We don´t want to rob
them of their culture. That´s not our choice. It´s
theirs.” The young lady was a bit startled. “Wow,” she
finally said. “That´s cool.”
Kia, Ayliś and Todd helped out with the team from Dothan, Alabama, translating and helping show them around the
area. “We love the team,” said Kia. “And we love working with them when they are here.” Soraya was also a big
help. Her winning and charismatic personality quickly won the team and helped them feel at home.
Ash spent four hours with youth from Methodist Churches from both the sierra (mountains) and the selva (jungle)
talking about the greatest commandment: love God and love your neighbor. In his free time he is loving the Kindle he
got for his birthday, and is trying to teach himself how to paint with watercolors.
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Photos from the front: A young girl in a nearby village; friends from Ball Ground UMC chatting by Skype with us during a benefit concert; at the
airport with the team from Alabama; Todd being Shawn from Psych; Kia with one of her best friends, Lucia; Ayliś and Soraya.