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Family Theory (And Frameworks) : Pertemuan 4
Family Theory (And Frameworks) : Pertemuan 4
FRAMEWORKS)
Pertemuan 4
Trends in marriage and family
• Fewer mariages
• Later age of marriages
• Fewer children
• More divorce
• More single parent
• Step families
• Working mother
• Child-spouse abuse
• Less connection to kin-network
• Long distance family
Divorce and Unhappy Marriages
• Enter marriage with unrealistic expectations
• Marrying wrong person for the wrong reason
• Marriage is challenging relationship
• Having little effort to develop relationship
skills
Family system theory
• Everything that happens to any family member has an
impact on eveyone else in the family
• Family member are interconnected and operate as a
group
• Cohession : balance separateness and connectedness:
– Centrifugal interaction
– Centripetal interactions
• Flexibility balancing stability and change
– Morphogenic
– Morphostatic
boundary
Suprasystem
Subsystem
Family Strength Framework
• Focused on how couples and families success,
strength rather than weakness
• Qualities:
– Commitment
– Positive communication
– Spiritual wellbeing
– Appreciation and affection
– Enjoyable time together
– Ability to cope with stress
The Family Development Framework
Communication
Flexibility
Cohession
Extreme togetherness Poem
• We do everything together
• I am here to meet your needs and
expectations
• And you are here to meet mine
• We had to meet and it was beautiful
• I can’t imagine it turning out any other way