The student shares an experience greeting their family's maid in the manner taught in class, which made both parties uncomfortable. When greeting the maid with a smile, firm handshake, and attempting eye contact and conversation, the maid seemed confused and did not want direct eye contact as she was shy. The student realized greetings should be culturally appropriate, as Filipinos are not used to direct physical contact or eye contact with strangers and prefer a casual "hi" with a smile.
The student shares an experience greeting their family's maid in the manner taught in class, which made both parties uncomfortable. When greeting the maid with a smile, firm handshake, and attempting eye contact and conversation, the maid seemed confused and did not want direct eye contact as she was shy. The student realized greetings should be culturally appropriate, as Filipinos are not used to direct physical contact or eye contact with strangers and prefer a casual "hi" with a smile.
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The student shares an experience greeting their family's maid in the manner taught in class, which made both parties uncomfortable. When greeting the maid with a smile, firm handshake, and attempting eye contact and conversation, the maid seemed confused and did not want direct eye contact as she was shy. The student realized greetings should be culturally appropriate, as Filipinos are not used to direct physical contact or eye contact with strangers and prefer a casual "hi" with a smile.
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I will share my experience about greeting a person with a correct manner. This is a great experience for me. I do the manners that our teacher taught us in euthenics. This is what happened I tried to greet our maid with a smiling false and also with a shake hand thing but she is wondering what am I doing. I also asked her to tell me about what did she do the whole day then she told me everything she does while I am listening very carefully to her and I look her in the eyes but she doesnt want to look at me because she is shy when I am looking thats why I am no doing an eye to eye contact with anybody but then I still look at her. After our conversation I did again the shake hand thing, then she laughed at me and asked me if Im okay then I said of course. I realized in my situation that when you did it to the Filipino people they will think weird thing about you.. Being a Filipino I never did that with other people but I do greet them with a hi/hello and with a smile because we are not trained to have that manner. In our culture it is okay to talk without any shake hand just tell a story even though you are waking the street not looking with each other its okay to a Filipino people.