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What Is Love?

Love
Marriage and Family Professor Strickland

Romantic love- an intense, erotic attraction


and yearning which idealizes the partner intrusive thoughts mood swings idealization exclusivity fear of rejection

Biochemical response Compassionate love-a strong and enduring


affection which is more peaceful and comfortable romantic love.

Conceptions of Love
Sternbergs Triangular View

Sternbergs Triangular View


Intimacy

Ira Reiss's Wheel Theory of Love


Lees Love Styles Romantic verses Realistic Love Love Relationships and Social Networks

Nonlove
Intimacy

Liking

Intimacy without passion or commitment.

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Empty Love

Commitment without passion or intimacy.

Infatuation

Passion without commitment or intimacy.

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Romantic Love

Passion and intimacy without Commitment.

Fatuous Love

Commitment and passion without intimacy.

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Companionate Love
Intimacy

Commitment and intimacy without passion.

Consummate Love
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Reiss's Wheel Theory of Love


rapport

Lees Love Styles

(using Greek words)

intimacy need fulfillment


Move forward when falling in love.

self-revelation

Ludus (playful and flirtatious) Pragma (practical) Eros (passionate and emotionally intense) Mania (emotionally intense, insecure,
jealous and possessive)

mutual dependency

Move backward when falling out of love.

Storge (compassionate and friendly) Agape (selfless and altruistic)

Romantic vs. Realistic Love


Infatuation Realistic Love

Love and Social Networks


Withdrawal-integration Hypothesis Romeo and Juliet Hypothesis

happens quickly companionship denies problems calmness security poor coping strategies

Origins of Love
Evolutionary Theory Learning Theory Psychological Theory Ego-Ideal Theory Ontological Theory Biochemical theory Attachment Theory

Conditions for Love


Social Conditions
Societal encouragement

Psychological Conditions
Self-concept Self-disclosure Cognitive functioning

Love Problems
Simultaneous Loves Abusive Love Relationships Jealousy

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