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Communication and Etiquette

Program Objectives
Understand

why communication skill is important Learn some important business etiquettes Create impactful first impression Build confidence Present oneself and ideas without fear

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Communication
A

skill to interact One has to recognise the different styles of communication Communication is also interpretation of actions and reactions Ability to communicate would give an advantage in business

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Spontaneous Expressive Amiable

Easy-Going

Dominant Driver Self-Controlled

Analytical

EXPRESSIVE

ANALYTICAL

AMICABLE

DRIVER

Men vs Women

Definition
Etiquette

is a code of behavior that delineates expectations for social behavior according to contemporary conventional norms within a society, social class, or group.

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What is an Etiquette?
Etiquette

refers to the conventional requirements of social behavior. More simply, it means knowing how to act. Different situations require different types of etiquette.

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Top

five reasons in a research stated that bad etiquette at professional level includes:
Bad language. Excessive workplace gossip. Leaving without telling anyone. Too many personal calls. Eating someone elses food. Bad hygiene. Bad habits. Wastefulness with paper Not replying calls and emails
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The Principles
GOLDEN:

Treat others as you would like to be treated PLATINUM: Treat others as they would like to be treated

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Perception Equals Reality


INITIAL

PERCEPTION: Immediate SUSTAINED PERCEPTION: Over time

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Initial Perception
PRESENCE: Appearance Manner & Style Etiquette Awareness PRESENTATION: Listening and interpersonal skills Meeting skills Business meals

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Presence
People begin to evaluate us before any words are ever spoken.

Who you are speaks so loudly I do not hear what you say
- Emerson

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Appearance
Carriage

and posture Handshake Dress Grooming First words Listening Introduction Voice Name recall

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The way you dress aects the way you are perceived, and the way you are perceived, is the way you are treated.
- Buck Rodgers Former VP Marketing , IBM

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Grooming
Neatly

trimmed hair Light perfume or cologne Clean and trimmed fingernails Limited jewelry Concealed body jewelry Polished shoes Stockings without runs Belts on pants; socks that match belt color

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Dress Code
For

the occasion guests, location, event When in doubt - opt for overdressing Casual appropriate jeans, shorts, etc. Business Casual open collar, slacks, skirt Business Professional jacket, tie, ladies suit or dress or baju kurung Semi Formal Suit for men, dress for women or pant suit for women Formal Suit or tuxedo for men, formal dress or gown for women

Dress Code - Men


Ties

should reach your belt buckle Socks should cover your shin when sitting Wear a long sleeve shirt with a suit Socks match your pants Button suit or sport coat when standing Two button coat button top button Three button coat button top two buttons Double breasted coat button all buttons

Dress Code - Women


Use

fragrances sparingly Makeup and jewelry should be kept simple If the men are wearing ties, you should be wearing hose Avoid all clothing that is too revealing or too restrictive Dont wear heels so high that you are unsteady (common height 2-3) Nails should not be more than in length The color of tudung should contrast with dress Not more than 4 colors

Mental Rehearsal
Before

you enter any situation, visualize what you are going to say and do and the response At the same time, visualize what your audiences most preferred communicator would be saying and doing

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Make your first words count


Soundbites Ask

What would the other person like to hear me say first Exercise

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Interactive moment
Plan

your non-verbal communication as carefully as your verbal behavior before you take part in any business meetings.

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Planning for Your Interactive Moment


Purpose:

What do I want to happen as a result of the interaction? Strategic alignment: How do I appeal to my target audience. Think features vs benefits Execution: How do I deliver it. Powerpoint presentation? Faceto-face? Telephone calls?

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Outlining your message


Opening:

Clear intent and purpose. Order the arguments. Features vs benefits: Anticipate and address resistance. Lead from strength, chronology and umbrella point. Yes, yes, yes: Design a question with a yes response Cooling-off period: But not too long.

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Introduction
Hi,

I am Yasmin (vs Puan, Dr, etc) Hi, my name is Yasmin and I am here for the one oclock appointment with Puan Salmah. (specific intent)

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Guides
Mention

authority figures first and introduce others to them Introduce younger person to an older person Always stand up Always (almost) shake hands

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Tips
Before

the meeting (informal introduction, perception and observation, networking) Starting the meeting (business cards, formal introduction, set the course) After the meeting (summary, action plan)

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Top Rules for Using Cell Phones during Business

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Top Rules for Using Cell Phones during Business


Having

your cell phone can be useful and also be very disruptive. When it comes to using your cell phone during business, you have to be mindful of those around you, not to mention your own ability to get your job done.

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Keep it Silent
If

you have your cell phone during discussion or presentation, it should not ring. If you don't want to turn off your cell phone completely, at least set it to vibrate. The sounds of different ring tones going off all the time can be very annoying to others.

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Electronic Manners
Cellular

phones are not invited to a restaurant. Laptops should only take your laps space on an airplane. Speaker phones should be used only by permission. Faxes should not be used for:
Personal notes Confidential information Long material Junk mail

Sustained Perception
PERSONAL

SUBSTANCE & PROFESSIONALISM:


Attitude Integrity Civility Work Ethics and Discipline

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Greetings & Meetings


In todays workplace, gender is removed from all etiquette Whoever reaches the door first, opens it and holds it for others. Both men and women rise to meet and greet someone, especially when a handshake is involved. It is not expected for a male business companion to seat a female associate. Whoever extends an invitation to a meal pays for the meal

Don't throw those business cards to just anybody.


Three reasons to use your business card: Remind someone who you are and how to reach you Attach to an article or proposal you are sending Enclose with a business gift

Three ways to present your business card:


After

a senior executive requests one. After a meal and social time. Only one at a time, once rapport has been established.

Body Language
Good

posture displays confidence Dont slouch stand and sit upright Dont fidget it is annoying and a sign of boredom Keep hands away from your mouth when speaking Honor others personal space Break nervous habits, such as: gum chewing, drumming fingers, hair twirling, nail biting, etc. Dont show the soles of your shoes while sitting, especially in the company of individuals from other countries

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