A Womans Own

Grace and poise, charm and an attractive posture are three priceless attributes a woman can possess. Suffice it to say, the first and most important in which the three of necessity should be derived, is Godliness. Each of these three go hand in hand and when they are all resident they are a powerful force. Distinct from physical beauty yet they adorn the outward appearance with an unmistakable ethereal beauty and quality. A woman by fashion is deep (or should be), insightful, wise and persevering yet having the capacity to be subtle about it! At the center of her reservoir is love of which she draws out from as each situation requires. I cannot do justice to women by this article but I will attempt to give a brief insight to the value and promise that is woman. Reflect on this if you will; the answer to mans need for companionship was a woman and that gives justice to the saying Behind every great man is a woman. Not just relating to birth but in the making of a man. It also follows that a womans influence, when not godly is therefore perverted and capable of great destruction. A typical example was when Eve fell into temptation and led Adam and human race as it were to fallen state. Samson and Delilah is another case on point. The Advantage of Grace Grace in this sense means A sense of propriety and consideration for others (The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language). This is a very beautiful attribute for a woman to possess. It begets the art and heart of hospitality a welcoming/embracing quality to her presence and words and even to the image you hold of her long after she is gone. It is out of grace that poise comes out; Great coolness and composure under strain (The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language). With these we see that the woman holds her own and shines in any situation that presents its self. Grace comes from a deep reservoir of love and therefore it knows no end. Thats what truly generates the beauty of a woman of grace; she exudes an ethereal aura that is hard to grasp yet undeniable; a quality and atmosphere that endears many hearts. The Advantage of Charm The definition of charm referred to here is the appeal or attractiveness that interests, pleases or stimulates. How the Lord has blest us so! Reading the Songs of Solomon expresses many such appeals of woman. It could be the grace of your speech, your complete white teeth, the colour of your lips, the shape of your hips or even the delicateness of your breasts. All these charms God created in the woman that our husbands might be satisfied at our breasts. May

your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. A loving doe, a graceful deermay her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be captivated by her love. (Proverbs 5:18 - 19 NIV 1984). Our bodies come in different forms so also do men come with different tastes. Should you know you should know which part of your person your husband is taken to and should nurture and protect it. The Advantage of Posture and Carriage Posture must be given its rightful place because the physical beauty of a woman has so much to do with the way she carries herself. Where else would the gracefulness of our thoughts, our poise and inner beauty, gentleness and calmness reflect if not in the expressions of our body (posture, gestures, carriage, facial expressions and physical adornment)? A womans body is admirable and should be presented in the best light possible. Her body language including her physical adornment are part and parcel of the embodiment of woman and carries with it great influence. Whether that influence is used for good or for evil is dependent on the heart of the woman. The heart of a woman is very important to her because it is the core and beauty of her. For this reason, a woman ought to let her outward appearance testify of the goodness of her heart. She puts her inner self before her outer self; her outer expression and adornment, of necessity, should be subject to her heart. It is not befitting nor is it honourable that a woman should be looked upon and valued by her outward appearance. If people admire and profess only your beauty in form that means that you are shallow (simply put). Your outward appearance enhances your inner beauty... (I say this in many words so as to drive the point home). Our outward appearance is so transient and there will always be a woman who has a better form. However, our inner beauty is genuine and cannot be replicated. If only a woman will nurture her heart and let her inner beauty express itself without, she would never be truly valued nor will she find true satisfaction.

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