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Your Teen’s Quest for

SOCIAL ACCEPTANCE
FITTING IN

Planning Your Child’s

BIRTHDAY PARTY
ON A BUDGET

Teens and Sleep:

TURN OFF
YOUR iPOD…
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Volume 13, No. 8

April 2009 Page 31

ON THE COVER DEPARTMENTS

About
Families 18 Fitting In: Your Teen’s Quest for Social Acceptance 6 April Event Planning Guide
bringing
19 Birthday Party on a Budget 7 Party Directory
families together
since 1995
34 Teens and Sleep: Turn Off Your iPod 10 Camp Directory
and Go To Bed
11 Health News: Kids Should
HOW TO Know About Lyme Disease
REACH US
13 Virtuous Consumer
Berks Phone 610-670-2300
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Lebanon Phone 717-273-8127 4 Why Day Camp?
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Web site: www.aboutfamiliespa.com
8 What A Half-Million Teens Read Each Month
To reach the editor and 20 Recall Roll Call
to send a calendar event item:
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Mari Conners 25 Marketplace Directory
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To find a copy of our magazine 31 Recipe Page: Playing with Food
or to arrange home subscription: 32 Is the Economy Triggering Potential Eating Disorders?
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CULTURE
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instruction. almost feel like breaking out in song. As I
sit here writing this column, I am thinking
We reserve the right to reject any about the weekend weather forecast, sunny
advertisement. and 50s. That my friends, is a most hopeful sign of
things to come…
Planning a Party?
If you are one of our many parent readers who
CIRCULATION is planning a party this year, you will be delighted
with this month’s edition. The editorial on plan-
ning a child’s birthday party on a budget should
VERIFICATION
prove most helpful in pointing to ways you can
COUNCIL cut costs without cutting fun. Utilize the party
guide to locate those businesses who specialize in
children’s parties. Many of them offer a variety of
your family’s budget.
Child Abuse Prevention
Have you ever considered how many times
parents are pushed to the point of nearly “losing
it” with their children? Sadly, it happens more
than we know: Good families, next door neigh-
bors, even friends from work or church, whose
behavior with their children turn them into peo-
ple we would no longer recognize. Maybe it has
even happened to you. In order to bring aware-
ness to this problem, and hopefully to stem the
tide, April has been designated as Child Abuse
Prevention Month. We can all help by educating
abuse. You owe it to the abused child to recognize
their silent plea for help. None of us would con-
sider walking away from a child in a burning
building. I urge you, if you know of a child who
needs help or an adult who you suspect might be
abusive – even if it is yourself – reach out, get
help. You can do so anonymously. We can all help
to stop the abuse cycle.
Have something to share?
We are always excited to hear from our read-
ers. So if you have something to share, or com-
ments to make, please email me at: maric@about-
familiespa.com. I’d love to hear from you.
Mari Conners
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Why Day Camp?
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by Marla Coleman
C
hildren learn life skills that
become habits of the heart.
One mother wrote that when
the family was on a ski trip, her son got
to the top of a steep hill and started to
Day camp is a terrific first experience. Reminiscent of less
complicated days, when people connected with nature…
panic. The mom said, “What would you
do if you were at camp?” and he pro-
ceeded to engage himself in positive
self-talk that was part of the camp cul-
ture: “It may take time, it may be hard;
but stick with it, and you’ll be fine!” He
skied down with a huge sense of accom-
plishment and perseverance.
It’s tough to be a kid these days. It’s
tough to be a parent. In a society where
the nature of the family, the work place,
and the community have changed dra-
matically, we can no longer assume that
the natural process of growing up will
provide children with the experiences
and the resources they need to become
successful, contributing adults. In sharp
contrast to the traditions of growing up
in the 50s and 60s, today we live in the
first moment when humans receive
more of their information second-hand
than first! We are in a climate where it is
harder to know what we need to sur-
vive, so drawing on experiences that
give children healthy alternatives and
opportunities to instill capabilities – the
hallmarks of thriving – is the greatest
gift you can give a young child.
■ Does it really matter if my child does-
n’t go to day camp, especially since
she will go to overnight camp in a few
years? She is only four years old —
why does she need day camp?
Camp provides one of the very few
links with a world larger than the con-
sumer culture we inhabit — and day
camp is one important choice in a
quiver of options. The camp experience
helps children and youth develop an
appreciation of their place and their
responsibility in a much larger universe.
April 2009
A preschooler — or even an older
child who might be reluctant to go to
overnight camp — can join a commu-
nity that is created especially for her
to practice growing up. Why wait
until age ten when the benefits
of feeling connected and
being able to contribute and
navigate at an earlier age
can be reaped? Under the
supervision of inspiring
guides and passionate
coaches, children can feel
successful and make new
friends while having the
time of their lives; they
can experience belong-
ing and contribution;
they can have a
sense of con-
sistency
a n d
pre-
dictability in times of turbulence and Camp is the best demonstration of
change. moral and spiritual order — democracy
Day camp can begin as early as age is the core purpose. Children learn life
three, and is geared to children who get skills and behaviors that become habits
to experience camp and still return of the heart. While many then move on
home each evening! They have the best to overnight camp, others will be con-
of both worlds — the camp community tent to continue the day camp experi-
which is built exclusively for kids and ence: after all, there is a camp for every-
their own home which provides the one — and that might well be day
security they need at a tender age. camp!
One day camp parent said, “While To learn more about camp and child
my children and I are constantly bom- development, please visit the American
barded by the news which is focused on Camp Association’s family-dedicated
what is wrong with the world, camp is a Web site www.CampParents.org, or call
living example of what is right.” the toll-free number 1-800-428-2267.
Day camp is a terrific first experi- Marla Coleman is the parent liaison at
ence. Reminiscent of less complicated Camp Echo in Burlingham, New York. The
days, when people connected with immediate past president of the American
nature, thrived on inter-generational Camp Association, she is a co-owner of
relationships, and made new discover- Coleman Family Camps, which includes
ies, everything is designed and scaled to Camp Echo and Coleman Country Day
ensure that children feel included, cared Camp.
Originally printed in CAMP Magazine,
about, and capable. Beginning camp at reprinted by permission of the American Camp
an early age provides important advan- Association © 2005 American Camping
tages. Association, Inc.
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Preparing Early for Reading; Programs for the

Dear Teacher

Gifted; Helping Children to Say What They Mean in Writing

Question: My daughter just turned four,
and I was wondering if this is the right age
to start teaching her to read? – Book Lover
Answer: You began preparing your
daughter to learn to read the fist time you
read a story to her. Continuing to prepare
her to read is probably the single most
important thing that you can do for your
child at this age.
Before beginning any type of formal
reading instruction, you must make sure
that your child is very familiar with nursery
rhymes and can recite them and also that
the child knows how to recognize rhyming
words. Part of your preparation should also
include calling your daughter’s attention to
the printed word in such things as stop
signs and grocery items so she gets the idea
that print carries a message.
Predictable pattern books should be the
next step. Children love hearing the repeat-
ed words and phrases in books, such as
Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What Do You
See? and The Gingerbread Boy. She can
repeat with you lines from these books.
You can also start to teach your daughter
to recognize the letters of the alphabet and
some of their sounds. There are definitely a
lot of books, alphabet blocks, and musical
videos that will make this more enjoyable.
Remember that most children will not
know all of the letters of the alphabet nor
their sounds when they enter kindergarten.
Some children are more eager to learn
to read than others. There is no particular
age when formal reading instruction should
begin. In fact, some children teach them-
selves to read before they are four while
others are not ready until they are six or
even older. You must limit what you try to
teach your daughter about reading to that
which interests her. You don’t want to turn
her away from books and reading. After
all, she will be taught to read in kinder-
garten and first grade.
❦❦❦
Question: My 12-year-old daughter is
very gifted. She could actually enroll in col-
lege now, but we are totally against this.
Last year, she attended a summer program
for the gifted and was absolutely delighted
by the challenge. She has found the gifted
program at school quite boring this year.
The local community college has a gifted
program; however, she is too young for it.
What type of program should we be look-
ing for to give her the challenge that she
needs next year? - Want Ideas
Answer: We like the idea of supplement-
ing what she is doing in the gifted program
at middle school with one or more online
classes designed especially for gifted chil-
dren by universities. In fact, she could even
earn college credits. There now are many
programs that would allow her to do this.
Some are quite expensive, but they may
offer scholarships. The gifted coordinator
at your daughter’s school is likely to know
the names of several of these programs.
You could also use a search engine or
contact a parent organization for those who
have gifted children to find a school. One
great advantage of working with a parent
group is that you talk to others who are fac-
ing and solving problems like the one you
have. In addition, more and more school
districts now offer advanced classes for gift-
ed children online. These classes are typi-
cally for high school students, but your
daughter might be allowed to take one.
Too often, parents of gifted children
concentrate solely on academics. There is a
big world out there filled with other things
that could fascinate your child. Would she
like to play chess or bridge? What about
doing something in the arts if she has a tal-
ent, skill, or interest in this area? Is there
some area such as computers that she could
delve into and become an expert? Do try to
help your daughter expand her horizons.
❦❦❦
Question: My children are always com-
plaining that they never can say what they
mean in their writing. Is there any way that
they can learn to do this? – Searching for an
Answer
Answer: Fortunately, there is something
simple that may help your children express
their thoughts better when they write.
What they need to do is to really hear what
they have written. For some, it works to
read their writing out loud to themselves,
paying attention to
whether words or
ideas are missing, Dear Teachers columnists
thoughts are ex- Peggy Gisler & Marge Eberts
pressed in the right
order, and they have said what they want to
say. This doesn’t work for all children as
they may not hear any flaws when they
read their own work. However, they cer-
tainly will if someone else reads their writ-
ing to them.
If your children are young, they should
try to perfect their message to the reader by
reworking one paragraph or even a sen-
tence at a time. Often, just a few sentences
in a paragraph need to be rearranged,
another sentence added, or more descrip-
tion to make a paragraph meaningful. This
is far easier to do if children can use a com-
puter. They should always reread the
changed copy out loud to make sure they
like their revisions.
Parents should send questions to Dear
Teacher, About Families, PO Box 395, Carmel, IN
46082-0395 or dearteacher@dearteacher.com.
©2008 Compass Syndicate Corporation
Distributed by King Features Syndicate

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ongoing
Reading Royals Ice Hockey – 610-898-7825
(www.royalshockey.com), Sovereign Center, 7th
& Penn Sts., Reading. 4/3 vs. Trenton Devils; 4/4
vs. Dayton Bombers @ 7:05 pm.
Hershey Bears Ice Hockey – 717-534-3380,
Giant Center, 550 West Hersheypark Dr.,
Hershey, 3/11 vs. Phila. Phantoms @ 7 pm; 4/12
vs. Wilkes Barre/Scranton Penguins @ 6 pm.
MOMS Club of Sinking Spring – 610-927-9491
(Kate, membership VP). Monthly meetings and
weekly playgroups for local at-home parents and
their young children. Call for more info.
Miscarriage, Stillbirth, and Infant Death
Support Group – 610-401-5773, Immanuel
Church of Christ (UCC), Shillington, first Monday
of every month, 6-7 pm.
Parents Without Partners – 610-373-2215,
Met-Ed on Rt. 61, first Wednesday of every
month, 7 pm.
Annville Moms and Tots – 469-0975 (Tina),
Annville Church of the Brethren, East Maple &
Zeigler Sts., Annville, Wednesdays 9:15-10:45
am. A place for moms and their children to
socialize and make new friends.
Parents Time Out Parenting Support &
Information Group – 610-683-7790 voice mail
#3, meets first Thursday of every month.
Sponsor: Friend Inc. Community Services.
MOMS Club of Southern Berks County – 484-
955-9671 (Mary) or southernberksmomsclub@
gmail.com for location, 10 am, second Tuesday
of each month. All moms welcome!
Foster Parent Orientation – 717-560-1775,
Northlink Family Services, 24A East Roseville
Rd., Lancaster, third Thursday of every month,
5:30-6:30 pm.
Allentown Art Museum – 610-432-4333, Payne
Hurd Gallery, 31 North Fifth St., Allentown,
www.allentownartmuseum.org. “Slow Clay: The
Ceramic Art of Willi Singleton through 4/12.
“The Chronicles of Narnia: The Exhibition” –
www.fi.edu/Narnia or 215-448-1254, The
Franklin, Philadelphia, through 4/19/09. Offers
the perfect mix of education and entertainment.
DiscoverE – Explore, Experience, Enjoy – Hide
& Seekers – 610-796-3699, Nolde Forest
Environmental Education Center, 2910 New
Holland Rd., Reading, 10-11 am. For children
ages 4-5, must be accompanied by adult. First
Wed. & Thurs. of each month through May.
Birth Circle Lancaster County - James Street
Mennonite Church, Lancaster. For women to
share thoughts, feelings, wisdom, fears, joys, etc.
the second Tuesday of every month, 7-9 pm.
Cherry Blossom Festival - 610-375-4085, 800-
443-6610, or 610-373-4131, Take a ride on the
Schuylkill - celebrate spring! Two weeks of
april
events for the entire family in Reading and West
Reading. Call for details.
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2 pre-school aged grandchildren. Bring your
The Power of Parenting
www.wilsonctc.org, John Rosemond speaker,
Talk -
Wilson High School Auditorium, 2601 Grandview
Blvd., West Lawn at 7 pm (doors open at
6:15).Log on for registration information
3 12
Smucker’s Stats on Ice “On the Edge” – 201-
760-0200 ext. 104, The Giant Center in Hershey,
7:30 pm.
4 14
Hot Buffet Meal, Square Dance & Country
Music – 610-378-1327, Hamburg Field House,
Hamburg (Exit #30 off I-78), dinner buffet: 7-8
pm; Square Dance and music by “The
Majestics:” 8-11 pm.
Identifying Plants of Nolde Forest - 610-796-
3699 (email NoldeForestSP@state.pa.us), Nolde
Forest Environmental Education Center,
McConnell Hall (adjacent to Park Office Rd. park-
ing lot), 2910 New Holland Rd., Reading, 9-11.
Victorian Fashion Ball - 610-921-7715, Albright
College, Scholl LifeSport Center, 13th & Bern
Sts., Reading. The evening of living history
through fashion, dance and social graces will
begin at 6 pm. Guests may come dressed in peri-
od attire or black tie/formal wear. Log on at
www.albright.edu/centerforthearts/VictorianFash
ionBall/index.html
Becoming a Big Brother/Big Sister – 610-988-
4357, The Reading Hospital Conference Center,
5th Avenue Lobby entrance, 10-11:30 am.
Egg & Art Show 2009 - 610-777-4552, La Salle
Academy, 440 Holland St., Shillington, 11 am-6
pm. Also on 4/5, 11 am-4 pm.
5 A Visit With Henry David Thoreau - 717-692-
Easter Musical “Thank You For The Cross” -
717-866-5704, New Beginnings Grace Brethren
Church, Rt. 422, Myerstown (east of Rts. 422 &
501 intersection), 6 pm.
Egg & Art Show 2009 - 610-777-4552, La Salle
Academy, 440 Holland St., Shillington, 11 am-4
pm.
6
Foster Care Meeting – Concern Professional
Services, Greater Berks Office, 1 West Main St.,
Fleetwood, 6-8 pm.
7 19
Exeter Community Library – 610-406-9431,
4569 Prestwick Dr., Reading. Family Night Event
on 4/7 at 6:30 pm. Storytime, chance to take a
picture with a penguin character, hands-on activ-
ities, crafts for kids and parents, door prizes and
more. Every child that attends will also receive a
free paper back copy of the book, If You Were a
Penguin, to take home. Free, registration required
as space is limited!!!!
Breastfeeding Education – 610-988-HELP,
Health Education Center, Reading Hospital, 6:30
pm-8:30 pm, also on 4/19.
Infertility Support Group – 610-988-HELP,
Women’s Clinic, Ltd., The Reading Hospital and
Medical Center Doctors Office Building, Suite
245, 7 pm.
9 pm-8:30 pm.
Postpartum Depression Support Group – 610-
988-4357, Reading Hospital, Doctors Office
Building, Suite 125, 7 pm-8 pm.
10
Train Ride with Easter Bunny – 410-752-2490,
Baltimore & Ohio Railroad Museum, 902 West
Pratt St., Baltimore, MD, 11 am, 1 pm & 3 pm,
also 4/11.
Easter Bunny Train - 717-687-7522, Strasburg
Railroad, Rt. 741 East, Strasburg, Lancaster Co.
Also on 4/11 & 4/`12.
11
Train Ride with Easter Bunny – 410-752-2490,
Baltimore & Ohio Railroad Museum, 902 West
Pratt St., Baltimore, MD, 11 am, 1 pm & 3 pm.
Identifying Plants of Nolde Forest - 610-796-
3699 (email NoldeForestSP@state.pa.us), Nolde
Forest Environmental Education Center,
McConnell Hall (adjacent to Park Office Rd. park-
ing lot), 2910 New Holland Rd., Reading, 9-11.
Grands Are Grand! - 717-291-3941, North
Museum of Natural History & Science, 400
College Ave., Lancaster (www.northmuseum.org)
10:30 am. Program for grandparents and their
favorite bear and touch real pelts, skulls claws!
Using the book, Blueberries for Sal, we’ll learn
about big, big bears.
Easter Bunny Train - 717-687-7522, Strasburg
Railroad, Rt. 741 East, Strasburg, Lancaster Co.
Also on 4/`12.
Easter Bunny Train - 717-687-7522, Strasburg
Railroad, Rt. 741 East, Strasburg, Lancaster Co..
Adoption Meeting – Concern Professional
Services, Wyomissing Office, 1120-B Hobart
Ave., Wyomissing, 6-7 pm.
Journey Through Pregnancy - The First Seven
Months– 610-988-HELP, Health Education
Center, Reading Hospital, 6:30 pm-8:30 pm.
16
OV PTO Preschool Story Hour – 610-987-4100,
Oley Valley Elementary School lobby, 10 am, sto-
ries, games, rhymes, crafts and snack.
17
A Visit With Henry David Thoreau - 717-692-
3699, Gamut Classic Theatre, 3rd Floor,
Strawberry Square, Harrisburg. Also 4/18 & 4/19.
April 2009
18
Springtime Scavenger Hunt – 717-865-5523,
Matthews Library, 1 pm. Register ahead of time in
either 3-7 age group or the 8-13 age group. Kids
will be challenged to find all kinds of pictures,
illustrations, and much, much more, all related to
books and reading. We’ll end it all with prizes and
refreshments.
3699, Gamut Classic Theatre, 3rd Floor,
Strawberry Square, Harrisburg. Also 4/19.
Nolde Volunteer Workdays - 610-796-3699
(email noldeforestsp@state.pa.us)., Nolde Forest
Environmental Education Center, 2910 New
Holland Rd., Reading. Option of working 9 am-
noon, 1 pm-3 pm, or all day. Dress for the weath-
er and wear suitable footgear, no sandals or
open-toed shoes. Also May 16.
Pancake Breakfast – 717-866-4939, Grace
UCC Church, 22 Church St., Richland, to benefit
the Richland Library, 6 am-11 am.
Earth Day Celebration – 610-916-2928 (email
katstoica@yahoo.com), Riverfront Park,
Riverfront Dr., Reading, noon-5 pm. Outdoor,
family-oriented event features educational, busi-
ness exhibits, music, food and children’s activi-
ties.
A Visit With Henry David Thoreau - 717-692-
3699, Gamut Classic Theatre, 3rd Floor,
Strawberry Square, Harrisburg.
Girls with Gears: A Women’s Cycling Event -
www.carolforheart.org, Limerick Community
Park, registration opens at 7 am. This event offers
something for everyone and is open to everyone.
Food, fun, door prizes and raffle to give away 3
Trek Bikes!
Breastfeeding Education – 610-988-HELP,
Health Education Center, Reading Hospital, 6:30
20
Foster Care Meeting – Concern Professional
Services, Wyomissing Office, 1120-B Hobart
Ave., Wyomissing, 6-7 pm.
21
Two-Part Seminar for Women - 717-866-5704,
New Beginnings Grace Brethren Church, Rt. 422,
Myerstown (east of Rts. 422 & 501 intersection),
7 pm-9 pm, part 2 on 4/23.
Journey Through Pregnancy: Preparing for
Delivery and Baby – 610-988-HELP, Health
Education Center, Reading Hospital, 6:30 pm-
8:30 pm.
22
Journey Through Pregnancy - Cesarean Birth
Night– 610-988-4357, Thunn/Janssen
Auditorium, Reading Hospital, 7 pm-8:30 pm.
23
Take Our Daughters and Sons to Work®
Day - www.daughtersandsonstowork.org.
Two-Part Seminar for Women - 717-866-5704,
New Beginnings Grace Brethren Church, Rt. 422,
Myerstown (east of Rts. 422 & 501 intersection),
7 pm-9 pm, part 1 on 4/21.
24
Schuylkill Valley Middle School Musical - 114
Ontelaunee Dr., new theatre space/LGI in the
Middle School, Leesport, 7 pm. Also on 4/25.
25
2nd Annual Scrapbooking Spectacular - 610-
944-1225, Berks County Mothers of Boys
fundraiser to raise money for the Autism Society
of America. For more information, call.
Schuylkill Valley Middle School Musical - 114
Ontelaunee Dr., new theatre space/LGI in the
Middle School, Leesport, 7 pm.
Clothing Consignment Sale - email
events_St.Gabes@yahoo.com, St. Gabriel’s
Episcopal Church, 422 E. Douglassville.
Proceeds benefit the church.
28
Journey Into Parenting - Your Newborn Baby
– 610-988-HELP, The Reading Hospital
Conference Center, 5th Ave., Lobby entrance,
6:30 pm-8 pm, free.
may 1
May Day Fairie Festival - Spoutwood Farm,
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____ 7 about families
T
o help make your child’s
birthday party a special
event to be remembered,
check out this directory of party busi-
nesses that cater to children! Keep
this list handy and call upon these
advertisers when you begin to
plan your child’s party.
Party Entertainment/Entertainers *
Appalachian
Pet Farm
Art
Bus, The
Big Bright
Bounces
Eddy Ray
Magician & Illusionist
K&B
Stables
Kats
Character Express
Max’s
Moonwalk
Party
Drums
Gougler’s Ice Cream
Truck
Calendar of Events…
continued from page 6
Glen Rock, noon-7 pm. Also 5/2 & 5/3 10 am-6
pm. Festivities include Maypole dancing, music,
parades, Artisan marketplace, hands-on-crafts,
tours, storytelling and much more.
Summer in the City Art Stroll: It’s Not Easy
Being Green - 610-562-3106, Downtown
Hamburg, 6-8:30 pm. Local artists display their
work along the streets, local businesses leave
their doors open to strollers, and performers and
musicians enhance the atmosphere of the
evening. Free admission.
2
Identifying Plants of Nolde Forest - 610-796-
3699 (email NoldeForestSP@state.pa.us), Nolde
Forest Environmental Education Center,
McConnell Hall (adjacent to Park Office Rd. park-
ing lot), 2910 New Holland Rd., Reading, 9-11.
May Day Fairie Festival - Spoutwood Farm,
Glen Rock, noon-7 pm. Also 5/3 10 am-6 pm
Details 5/1.
Sesame Place Opens – 215-752-7070, 100
Sesame Road, Langhorne.
Library Activities
Berks County
Boone Area Library – 610-582-5666, 129 N. Mill
St., Birdsboro. Preschool story time for ages 3-6
years old held on Mondays, 3/30, 4/6, 4/13, 4/20
& 4/27 at 10:30 am, 1:30 & 6:30 pm. Basic com-
puter class held on Wednesdays, 4/1, 4/8, 4/15,
4/22, 4/29 at 1:30-2:30 pm and on Thursdays,
4/2, 4/9, 4/16, 4/23 & 4/30 at 6:30-7:30 pm. Note:
There will be a special book sale/plant & puzzle
swap on 4/11, 10 am-2 pm.
Exeter Community Library – 610-406-9431,
4569 Prestwick Dr., Reading. Family Night Event.
Details under 4/7. Also, 4/29 J. Patrick Lewis,
610-554-8678
(See ad on page 17)
610-913-0862
(See ad on page 9)
717-664-5055
(See ad on page 16)
610-775-2493
(See ad on page 17)
610-488-0710
(See ad on page 17)
484-664-9515
(See ad on page 16)
484-332-3671
(See ad on page 16)
610-698-1709 (See ad on page 17)
Food, Products/Treats
610-334-2892 (See ad on page 17)
author of many popular books for young readers,
will be sharing his poetry with adults & school
age children. His books include “Please Buy Me
inthe Library,” “The Bookworm’s Feast A Potluck
of Poems,” “ArithmeTickle,” and more, 6-8.
Muhlenberg Community Library – 610-929-
0589, 3612 Kutztown Rd., Laureldale. Used book
sale on Saturday, 3/28, 9 am-4 pm; on 3/30 &
3/31, 10 am-8 pm. Preschool Story-times for
children 3-6 years old every Thursday, 4/2, 4/9,
4/16, 4/30, 10:30 am & 1:30 pm. Toddler Story-
times for children 6-36 mos. old and their adult
caregiver on Tuesdays & Wednesdays, 4/7, 4/8,
4/14, 4/15, 4/21, 4/22, 4/28 & 4/29, 10:30 am.
Reading Public Library – 610-655-6355, 100 S.
5th St., Reading. Children’s Programs: Chess
Club, Mondays at 4:15 pm; Family Night
Storytime, Mondays at 7 pm; Movie night,
Tuesdays at 6 pm; Crafty Corner, Thursdays at 4
pm; Storytime, Saturdays at 2 pm. Log on at
www.reading.lib.pa.us/upcomingevents.asp.
Village Library of Morgantown – Walnut Street,
Morgantown. Toddler story time for ages 18 mos.
to 21/2 yrs. on Mondays, 3/30, 4/6, 4/13, 4/20,
4/27 at 11 am-noon; Toddler story time for ages
one to 21/2 yrs. held on Tuesdays 3/31, 4/7, 4/14,
4/21 at 10-11 am; Preschool story time for ages
3-4 yrs. held Wednesdays 4/1, 4/8, 4/15, 4/22,
4/29 at 10-11 am; Author story time for ages 3-4
yrs. held on Thursdays 4/2, 4/9, 4/16, 4/23, 4/30
at 4-5 pm.
Wernersville Public Library - 610-678-8771,
100 N. Reber St., Wernersville: Preschool story
hour on Wednesdays.
West Lawn/Wyomissing Hills Library – 610-
678-4888, West Lawn.
Womelsdorf Community Library – 610-589-
1424, 203 W. High St., Womelsdorf. Storyrider
Joy for preschool on 3/31, 4/7, 4/14, 4/21, 4/28 @
11:15 am-12:15 pm. Evening story time on 4/14
@ 6:30-7:30 pm; Story time on 4/1, 4,8, 4/15,
* Party Facilities *
Berks Lanes/
Hiester Lanes 610-678-8044
(Colonial Sports) 610-929-3673
Happily
(See ad on page 16)
Ever After 610-779-4258
Jump
(See ad on page 17)
Factory, The
Ozzy’s Family
Fun Center
Paisley & Company
Bath Boutique
Reading
Planetarium
Spring Valley
Athletic Club
Noah’s
Ark
4/22 & 4/29 @ 10:30-11:15; Family movie night
on 4/15 @ 6-8 pm; Classic Movie Afternoon on
4/9 @ 2:30-4:30 pm. Meet the Easter Bunny &
Craft Night 4/7 @ 6:30-7:30 pm.
Wyomissing Public Library – 610-374-2385, 9
Reading Blvd., Wyomissing. Preschool/
Elementary Story time 4/7, 4/14, 4/21 @ 4 pm for
ages 3-11 yrs; Special Storytime “Yoga Pretzels
for Kids” @ 4 pm; Preschool Story time 4/1, 4/8,
4/15, 4/22 & 4/29 @ 10 am for ages 3-5 yrs.;
Toddler Story time 4/2, 4/9, 4/16, 4/23 & 4/30 @
10 am for ages 18 mos. to 3 yrs. Earth Day
Celebration at Happy Hollow Park on 4/25 @ 10
am-1 pm.
Lebanon County
One Book Every Young Child Program
2009 - The Lebanon County Libraries will host
author visits and hold penguin-themed activities
and events throughout April for children and their
parents. See individual libraries for more info.
Mark your calendar for 4/4 Lebanon County
Library System: penguin stories, crafts & book
give-away at the Children’s Festival, Lebanon
Valley Mall, 10 am-2 pm
10th Annual Poetry Contest for children up to 8th
grade and children up to 9th grade level.
Contestants must live in Lebanon County and be
member of the Lebanon County Library System.
Deadline for entry is 4/17/09.
The Lebanon Community Library now open
64 hours a week. The new library hours are
Monday through Wednesday, 8 am-8 pm; Thurs.
8 am-6 pm; Friday and Saturday 8 am-5 pm.
Family Story Time with Penguin activities on 4/22
@ 6:30 pm.
Annville Free Library – 717-867-5754, 216 E.
Main St., Annville. Hrs.: M-Th 10-8; Fri. & Sat. 10-
5. Author Florence Minor and illustrator Wendell
Minor, If You Were A Penguin, will visit on 4/3 at
10:30 am. • Spring 2009 story times: Preschool,
15 week program on Tues. or Thurs. at 10:15 pro-
April 2009
610-621-1222
(See ad on page 16)
610-916-4116
(See ad on page 3)
484-646-9515
(See ad on page 17)
610-898-1565
(See ad on page 16)
610-678-0484
(See ad on page 9)
610-507-9818 (See ad on page 17)
gram ends April 30 (no story times on 4/7 & 4/9).
Baby storytimes 4/14, 4/21 & 4/28 for pre-walk-
ers (0-12 mos.) @ 10:15 am; for walkers (12-24
mos.) @ 11:15 am.
Lebanon Community Library – 717-273-7624,
125 N. 7th St., Lebanon. 4/22 Family story time
with Penguin activities, 6:30 pm. Story time held
each Tues. at 11 am and each Thurs. at 9 am.
Geared for children 3-5. Due to limited space,
parents are asked not to attend the story times
with their child.
Matthews Public Library – 717-865-7492
(Cindy), 102 W. Main St., Fredericksburg. Hours:
Mon-Thurs. 9-8; Fri. 9-5; Sat. 9-4. Story time for
toddlers and preschoolers–includes story and
craft–every Wednesday at 10 am. Springtime
Scavenger Hunt, 1 pm. Details under 4/18.
Myerstown Community Library – 717-866-
2800, 199 N. College St., Myerstown. Penguin
Play 4/24 @ 10 am and 1 pm. Spring Magic Silent
Auction on 4/4 @ 6 pm-9 pm. Meet Mr. Lincoln on
4/14 @ 6 pm-8 pm.
Palmyra Public Library – 717-838-1347, 325 S.
Railroad St., Palmyra. Author Florence Minor and
illustrator Wendell Minor, If You Were A Penguin,
will visit on 4/3 at 1:30 pm. Penguin party, 4/14.
Games, crafts and food. Registration required;
attendance limited to 50 children. Storytime for
3-Year old: 4/1@ 10;30-11 am, also 11:30 am-
noon. Storytime for 3-Years old thru kindergarten
6:30 pm-7 pm. Storytime for 4-Years old: 4/3 @
10:30-11 am and 1:30-2 pm. Meet the Authors
Event geared for children ages 3-6 4/3 @ 1:30-
2:15 pm. Storytime for 4-Years old thru kinder-
garten, 4/3 @ 1:30-2 pm.
Richland Community Library – 717-866-4939,
111 E. Main St., Richland. Penguin Pajama Party
on 4/14 @ 6:30 pm. Participants are encouraged
to come in their pjs and bring their favorite stuffed
animal.
Archie Comics
____ 8 about families
What A Half-Million Teens Read Each Month
by Lauren Shapiro
T
Grundy (English), Professor
hey’ve been in Riverdale High Flutesnoot, Coach Cleat, Ms. Beazley
School for 67 years, and there’s (cafeteria), and Pop Tate who runs the
still no graduation or retire- Chocklit Shoppe, “the perfect place for
ment date in sight. I’m speaking, of quality time wasting;” students Dilton
course, of Archie, Jughead, Betty and (brainy), Reggie (wise-guy), Moose
Veronica. (dyslexic), Ethel (boy crazy), and
Archie Comics have partnered with high schools
and colleges for art internships.
Interested in getting kids to read for Church (cartoonist).
pleasure? Archie comics range from 32- Fred Mausser, Co-President/Director
page magazines, to 176-page “double- of Circulation at Archie Comics
digests” – in other words, books. Publications, says about 515,000 mostly
Although Archie is an average student, 7-14 year olds, buy an Archie comic per
in a suburban, non-magical world, his month; and there is a significant pass-
readership numbers rival those of along readership. Archie Comics
Harry Potter. While they are very dis- Publications receives “thousands of let-
similar – one is epic literature, one is a ters a month, running the gamut from
comic book – both have the magical comments, criticisms, and suggestions
pull of the series; and both draw read- regarding the characters and storyline,
ers with recognizable school-life char- comparisons to things in the life of the
acters. Archie’s world is populated by reader, questions on the history of the
Principal Mr. Weatherbee, Miss Archie characters and requests for
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additional charac-
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addition to the
“Dear Betty” fash-
ion questions.
Readers even send
their pictures. The
website, archiecomics.com, publishes
selected letters and “fan art.” Some is
quite impressive; all of it shows volun-
tary effort.
With or without the optional mail-
for-me!-thrill of a subscription, Archie’s
noteworthy education tool. Mr.
Mausser says, “Archie’s been used in
curriculums. We’ve done custom
comics: Archie & His Friends Help Raise
Literacy Awareness in Mississippi;
Archie & Friends vs. Toxic Waste – for
San Diego city and county of; Archie &
His Pals In The Peer Helping Program,
for the FBI and the ELKS; Archie and
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comics,” Mausser continues, “ but we
can come up with a curriculum or a cus-
tom comic on anything. Some regular
(non-custom) books were: The Archies
go to the Los Angeles Public Library;
Archie Visits The World Famous Salt
Lake City Library. Archie’s a role
model. Everything’s always on the up
and up, there’s never any violence.
Archie respects the law, his teachers,
his elders, his parents. There are little
pranks, but they never get beyond that.
He’s kept up with the times in terms of
clothing, cell phones, and iPods. He
uses everything that’s current; he’s
always contemporary.”
The girls are fashion-obsessed (I told
you it was not a magical world) but
they care about getting good grades;
and they have no eating disorders.
They like to eat and are drawn to look
120 pounds.
Archie Comics have partnered with
high schools and colleges for art intern-
ships. Stephen Oswald, Associate Art
Editor says the interns do “copying, a
lot of the art work, helping out the pro-
duction artists, scanning, photocopying,
some of the hand coloring.”
In 1995 the U.S. Fish and Wildlife
Service brought four grizzly bears from
the wild to the Bronx Zoo and they
were named Jughead, Archie, Betty,
and Veronica. In 2004 Archie Comics
Publications sponsored Extreme
Survivors Weekend at the Zoo, giving
cartooning lessons and creating a spe-
cial comic. Jughead, Archie, Betty, and
Veronica are on the cover at their
eponymous bears’ exhibit and Jughead
says, “There’s something familiar about
those bears.”
There’s something familiar and reas-
suring about Archie.
Lauren Shapiro is a dance accompanist
at Dance Theatre of Harlem and at
Columbia University. She has a B.A. from
Queens College, and a B.Mus. from
Manhattan School of Music. Previous no-
table publications include "Tempo Primo"
in "I Thought My Father Was God – NPR’s
National Story Project" 2001 and numer-
ous articles on dance music. She may be
reached at laurengshapiro@gmail.com
 Books for Babies!
____ 9 about families
Wesley Wonders
by Wesley J. King
W
hat do you think of when you hear
these words: presents, cake, and
balloons? Those things go with
birthday celebrations! We’re getting ready
for Helen’s fourth birthday and we do not
want anyone to bring presents for her! That
might sound a little bit funny, and maybe a
little bit mean, but we have done something
special to celebrate Helen’s birthday at all
her parties. Helen’s party invitation always
says something like this:
“Instead of bringing a gift for Helen, please
bring a new book to give to a baby in the hos-
pital where Helen was born. Helen and her
family will deliver the books to the NICU so
that mommies and daddies can read to their
sick children.”
Let me explain why this is important to us.
Helen was born earlier than we expected.
Most babies should grow inside their mom-
mies until about 40 weeks but Helen was
born early at only 28 weeks. At first, she was
tiny and very sick. She stayed in a part of the
hospital called the Neonatal Intensive Care
Unit for over two months. She had lots of
doctors and nurses taking care of her and
needed special beds to help her with breath-
ing and keeping warm. Even though I was
her big brother I wasn’t allowed to visit her
there. I cried about that because I wanted my
little sister to come home so I could love her!
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I made pictures to decorate her bed. Mom dies. I’m really proud of Helen because I
and Dad spent lots of time with Helen. For heard her tell Mommy that she wants to
many days they were not allowed to hold her empty her piggy bank to use that money
until she got stronger. There were only a few to buy more books. If Helen is only
things they could do during that time – read- four years old and can do that, I think
ing to her, singing to her and praying for her. I should see what money I have in my
They even took in a recording of me reading bank to add more books to her box!
the book “Goodnight Moon” and singing a Wesley J. King
lullaby so Helen could hear my voice!
When Helen finally came home we still Wesley’s Note: This story is based
had to be careful about keeping germs away on a yearly event that happens for a
from her fragile, tiny body. I changed my premature boy born into our family,
clothing and scrubbed up my hands
when I got home from school. We
didn’t take Helen anywhere.
Visiting nurses came to our house to
check her weight and talk to Mom.
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Now you know more about
Helen’s birthday story. Four of
Helen’s preschool friends and three
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Helen is excited about the book col-
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DAY CAMPS:
Bounce U – 717-838-0848, 318 Taxiway
Dr., Annville (website: www.bouncu.com).
Camp gives kids a daily balance of play-
time and artistic expression, the perfect
tandem for any growing imagination. It’s
part inspiration, part perspiration, and a
whole bunch of fun. In addition to bounc-
ing, laughing, and exploring their inner
artists, kids will enjoy an array of games
and activities, plus lunch and snacks.
Create and Bounce is a one-of-a-kind
camp experience they’ll simply never for-
get. See ad on page 16.
Colonial Sports Summer Day Camp -
610-777-9651, Rte. 724, Sinking Spring
(website: chbsports.com (for ages 5-12
years. The proper balance of exercise,
learning and fun in a safe, structured
environment. Weekly field trips, swim-
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Now celebrating 75 years serving our community – Institute of the Arts—Making the Arts Make a Difference
Outdoor playground and pavilion.
Themed activities each week. See ad on
page 30.
Summer Day Camp at Creative
Beginnings - 610-375-9080, 2390
Bernville Road, Reading. For ages 6-12
years. Activities include arts & crafts, sci-
ence, & nature, special visitors, water
day, cooking, and much more! For enroll-
ment information call. See ad on page
28.
Heron Mead Farm Summer Horse
Camps - for all levels and ages (5-18)
610-488-8978 – located near Bernville
and Blue Marsh Lake. Campers enjoy
learning about the world of horses and
developing the lifelong skills of riding and
horsemanship. With 20+ years of experi-
ence teaching horsemanship through
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instructors and trainers, vet school grad-
uates and many more who simply enjoy
riding for pleasure. (www.heronmead-
farm.com) See ad on page 20.
History Day Camp at the Daniel Boone
Homestead - 610-582-4900, 400 Daniel
Boone Rd., Birdsboro. For ages 8-11
years. History Day Camp is a colonial
adventure where kids will experience and
learn what Daniel Boone did while he was
growing up here. Each day of camp will
cover a different theme of Daniel’s child-
hood life–from his chores to his free time,
to his time in the great outdoors–and will
feature many hands-on activities and
demonstrations. See ad on page 15.
Institute of the Arts – 610-376-1576,
1100 Belmont Ave., Wyomissing, log on
at www.institute-of-arts.org. Music,
dance, theater, visual arts, Literature for
Toddlers to Young Adults. Create,
Explore, Grow, Learn, and Fun. Register
by 4/25 for $10 discount per camp. See
ad on page 10.
Irish Creek Stables - 610-926-1261 or
484-955-0869, Mohrsville. Summer day
camps. Riding, crafts, and games daily.
June 25-29, July 16-20, and July 30-
August 3. Visit our website at
www.irishcreekstables.net See ad on
page 15.
Kenbrook Bible Camp – 717-865-4547,
190 Pine Meadow Road, Lebanon,
www.kenbrook.org. Summer just would-
n’t be the same without a great summer
camp experience. Ad on page 23.
Link Center, The – 610-372-7310, 201
Noble St., Reading (online at
linkcenter.org). Appropriate for ages 10-
17. Summer basketball clinic, ages 10-
17. Teens activity week, sports. music,
fun, ages 13-17. See ad on page 18.
Ozzy’s Family Fun Center - 610-926-
6162 (610-916-4113), 5411 Pottsville
Pike, Leesport, www.playozzys.com, for
ages 5-12 years. Ozzy’s Summer Day
Camp is hailed by all its participants as
“the best summer camp in the world.”
Great staff, great weekly themes, swim-
ming, field trips and of course a giant 10-
acre property with 80,000 sq. ft. under
roof for a great time, rain or shine. See ad
on page 3.
Riverview Christian “Kids Camp” -
610-921-0285, Reading. Summer “Kids
Camp” 2009, for ages 5-13 years. June
8-August 14, 9 am-4 pm with before and
after care available. Kindergarten - 7th
grade. Come one week or attend all 10
weeks. Bible adventures, music, art,
drama, nature, field trips and fun!!! See
ad on page 20.
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____ 11 about families

10 Things Kids Should Know About

April 2009

Lyme Disease
Greenwich, CT
Myths are common and potentially dangerous
comes in from the outside. (Don’t
mistake the ticks that transmit Lyme
ment, the better.
■ Rashes Aren’t

L
yme disease is the most common
vector-borne disease in the
United States, with more than
20,000 new cases reported every year.
Lyme has been found in all 50 states,
and a high percentage of its victims are
children, says Debbie Siciliano, co-
chair of Time for Lyme, Inc., a research,
education and support group in
Greenwich, CT.
If you find a tick, grasp it with fine-tipped tweezers
and pull away from the skin without crushing its body.
“Children are particularly vulnerable
because they are outside a lot, especial-
ly in the early summer, when ticks are
most plentiful,” she adds. If they do get
infected, kids can experience head-
aches, fatigue and flu-like symptoms,
and if the disease is left untreated, can
also develop learning and behavioral
problems, depression, nerve damage,
memory loss and other cognitive, psy-
chiatric and neurological problems.
But many children — and their par-
ents — don’t know much about Lyme
disease. Following is a list of 10 things
every kid (and parent) should know:
■ Lyme Comes From Ticks. Tech-
nically speaking, Lyme disease is
caused by bacteria called Borrelia
burgdorferi, which are carried by
parasitic (blood sucking) ticks called
Ixodes, also known as black-legged
or deer ticks. The bacteria live inside
the tick, and can be transmitted
when the tick attaches itself to a host
and begins to suck up blood.
■ Ticks Are Everywhere. Lyme dis-
ease got its name from the town of
Lyme, Connecticut, where it was
first identified, and it’s most com-
mon in the Northeast, mid-Atlantic
and Great Lakes regions. But it’s
been reported all over the United
with the common dog tick, which is
much bigger, although dog ticks may
carry diseases).
■ Ticks Dig Plants. You’ll also find
plenty of ticks in wooded areas,
parks and forests as well as your
own backyard and in dune grasses at
the beach. Kids should stick to the
trails and open areas and avoid wet,
wooded areas, tall grass and leaf-lit-
tered areas.
■ Summer is Tick Time. The ticks that
transmit Lyme disease are most
active (and plentiful) in May, June
and July and most difficult to find as
they are typically in the nymphal
stage. They are also out there when
the ground temperature is above 35
degrees F.
■ DEET Works. You wouldn’t want to
bathe in the stuff, but it’s the most
effective way to repel Lyme-carrying
ticks. Just use it wisely: Use just
enough to cover exposed skin, apply
it to your own hands and then rub
them on your child (avoid his eyes
and mouth), don’t apply to a young
child’'s hands (little kids often put
their hands in their mouths) and
don’t apply to cuts or irritated skin.
■ Light Clothes are the Right Clothes.
Kids should wear light-colored
clothing, which makes it easier to
spot ticks, with long sleeves and legs
(tuck pants into socks).
■ Timing is Everything. The chances
of contracting Lyme disease from an
infected tick increases with the
length of time it’s attached. If you
find a tick, grasp it with fine-tipped
tweezers and pull away from the
skin without crushing its body. If you
Required. Lyme
disease is associat-
ed with a red, bulls-
eye-shaped rash,
but many people
never see one (and
don’t remember
being bitten by a
tick). Also know
that not all Lyme
rashes have a bulls-
eye. So if your child
starts to develop
symptoms of a
Lyme infection, see
your pediatrician
— rash or no rash.
About Time for Lyme
Time for Lyme is an
on the federal, state and local levels.
organization dedicated to eliminating For more information on our organiza-
the devastating effects of Lyme disease
tion, please visit www.timeforlyme.org.
and other tick-borne illness. Our mis- April 18, 2009, Time for Lyme will pres-
sion is to prevent the spread of disease,
ent its bi-annual Gala event – The Dream,
develop definitive diagnostic tools and Creating a Lyme Free World--at the Hyatt
effective treatments, and to ultimately
Regency in Greenwich, CT. Proceeds
find a cure for tick-borne illness by sup- from the Gala will go towards combating
porting research, education, and the
the devastating effects of Lyme and other
acquisition and dissemination of infor- tick borne illnesses. Call 203-969-1333 or
mation. In addition, we will continue to
go to www.timeforlyme.org/dreamgala for
support Lyme disease sufferers and more information and tickets.
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■ Ticks Are Tiny. Ixodes ticks are very,
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The Tot-Secrets
See You in Class

to Hitting?
by Coach Pickles, Youth Sports Instructor
Reader Question: My four year-
old plays baseball. The only area
he’s been slow developing in is hit-
ting pitched balls. Even when he
does hit the ball, I’m not sure if it’s
by luck or because he has good
control of his bat. His hitting is
50/50 so I’m really not sure. What
exercises can I go over to improve
his hitting? Kevin M.
Answer: Hi Kevin. First and fore-
most, it is great you are spending
time one-on-one with your son. This can
be a difficult thing to do in the busy adult
lives we lead today. Bravo!
As I considered about your question
one thought kept echoing in my head,
focus on the small wins; I am a big believ-
er in them. Small wins are easy for children
to produce. As a parent, it requires a little
more deliberate thought on your part, but
the advantage comes when small wins are
strung together. What they can create are
the big wins you most look for within your
Mr. Ryan son. Herein, it becomes a win-win for
many four year olds have to
give. Please consider my other
suggestions and recommenda-
tions below. Thanks for your e-
mail question.
Coach’s Recommendations
Make learning fun.
Challenge them to use other
things to hit the ball off the
tee— foam noodles, their hand,
their elbow, their head. All of
this is improving hand-eye, or in this case,
body-eye coordination.
Remember the basics. It is alright to
pitch him baseballs, however, always have
a hitting tee available. The tee, although
shamefully forgotten by many youth
coaches, is still used at the college and pro
levels to maintain solid hitting form. Keep
a tee on-hand at all times and integrate it
into your backyard practice sessions.
Repitition. Throwing, hitting and then
retrieving one or two baseballs at a time
never allows for a flow to be established. I

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everyone. Your expectations are kept in
check and your son’s confidence flourishes.
As a coach, focusing on the small wins
takes the luck, you speak of, out of the
always have a ball bag full of tennis balls
ready when practicing hitting. Go to your
local tennis club and ask them for a

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grade teacher. He is nice and
funny. He helps kids with their
work. He loves the Eagles and the Phillies.
He is great.”
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Mr. Ryan McGinley teaches third grade at
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Kevin, there is something pretty sensa-
tional happening here. As a 50/50 hitter,
your son’s performance, in baseball terms,
gives him a .500 batting average. Major
leaguers only dream of hitting so well.
While 50/50 hitting is only a “small win”
for you as a parent, it definitely is a “big
win” for your son.
Don’t compare
I don’t want to lead you down the wrong
path and compare your child against other
children his age. This is a serious pitfall
many sports parents, and coaches alike,
are guilty of. As performance begins to be
examined more closely, the intensity and
expectations can quickly rise and take the
fun out of sports for kids. With that said, be
proud of your son. If he is standing still
and letting you pitch him baseballs, he is
exhibiting more patience for fun then
garbage bag of old tennis balls. They typi-
cally are giving them away anyway.
Numbering and Coloring. Although
tedious, always, always, always number
and color the baseballs or tennis balls you
use. This is a major league hitting tech-
nique I picked up along the way and have
had great success introducing to beginning
hitters. What it does is cause kids to focus
on the ball better. You can measure their
focus by asking what color (for the
younger ages) or what number (for the
older ages) as you pitch or they hit off the
tee. Use these techniques and recommen-
dations and watch tot-hitting improve. See
you in class!
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sports expert and child wellness advocate
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The Good,
the Green…
and the Confusion
by Leslie Garrett
E
ven with our bank
accounts shrinking
faster than the polar
ice caps, studies reveal that
we’re still willing to pay
more for products that are
good for the planet…and, it
follows, for our own health
as well. Unfortunately,
though there are a lot of
great eco-products, there’s
also plenty of confusion. Let
The Virtuous Consumer
take on two persistent eco-
myths…and show you the
green light:
Compact Fluorescent
Lightbulbs: There’s a lot of
controversy surrounding
these spiral eco-saviors. With
everyone from Al Gore to
Oprah touting the benefits,
plenty of people have twist-
ed them into place. But a
whiff of scandal continues to
surround them. Why? They contain mer-
cury, which according to not-for-profit
Toxic Nation, is a recognized develop-
mental toxin, neurotoxin, suspected hor-
mone disrupter and respiratory toxin.
Nasty stuff. What people often overlook,
however, is that coal-fired power plants –
which is where most of us get the energy
that lights our bulbs – emits more mercu-
ry in the process of powering a conven-
tional incandescent than exists in a CFL.
What’s more, if we dispose of CFLs prop-
erly (it’s much easier now that Home
Depot and IKEA both accept them), we
can contain the mercury. That’s not the
case for mercury that gets spewed into
our atmosphere. If you happen to break
a CFL, the Environmental Protection
Agency offers up instructions for how to
clean it up safely. Log on to
http://www.epa.gov/mercury/spills/index.
htm#fluorescent
The verdict? CFLs are still a smart
green choice.
Hybrid? Or Hummer…: In 2008,
newspapers trumpeted a study that
“proved” that “Hybrids consume more
energy in lifetime than Chevrolet’s Tahoe
SUV.” Hummers wrongly entered the
equation when a widely syndicated
columnist cited the study under a head-
line that read “Use a Hummer to Crush a
Prius.” However, the study raised con-
cerns when it was revealed that the data
it relied on was…umm…questionable, to
say the least. The study assumed that a
Hummer would last 379,000 miles and
last 35 years, while a Prius would die at
12 years with only 109,000 on its odome-
ter. An odious assumption that – on a
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per-mile basis – is clearly going to put the
Hummer on top. Prius took a hit because
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embrace this technology, these new tech
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costs associated with building a Prius
decrease with every new Prius (or similar
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Hummer/Tahoe/insert-other-big-SUV-
here will always guzzle an enormous
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The study’s researchers also point to
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ies currently in existence require less
than one percent of the world’s annual
nickel production. Prius batteries are
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The upside of all the debate this rumor
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by Tammy Ruggles because it is a pattern of behavior that communication skills.

they have learned. They have no other Preventing child abuse is the

B
ecky is a mother who loves her
two-year-old son Gabe, but sev-
eral factors have been stressing
her lately – her husband’s affair, their
“I knew there were other things I could do besides hit,
but I didn't know how to handle my anger. Hitting Gabe
was wrong. I felt like such a bad mother…”
financial situation, the loss of her moth-
er to cancer – and this morning she did
something she swore she would never
do: She lost control of her temper and
slapped Gage when he wouldn’t stop
crying. She felt nothing but shame after-
ward, because she had been abused as a
child, knew what it was like to be hit, and
vowed that she would find other ways to
parent. She found herself crying along
with Gabe, wondering how she would
explain the red hand print to her hus-
band Jim when he got home from work
that evening.
Becky’s story is typical of abused chil-
dren. While it is true that not all children
who are abused grow up to hurt their
own, in some cases it is true.
set of coping skills to use.
Most parents don’t plan to harm their
children. Abuse comes about when a cri-
sis or frustration arises, and the parent
reacts in the only way they know, which
is usually the way they have witnessed or
learned while growing up. These parents
lack the skills for alternative, non-vio-
lent discipline. Some abusive parents
won’t acknowledge or aren’t aware that
they are being abusive until it is pointed
out, and even then some deny that their
behavior has reached a harmful level or
could have a negative, long-lasting
impact on their children.
This cycle of abuse can be broken, but
it rarely takes place without some sort of
intervention, usually in the form of par-
enting classes or family counseling;
either ordered by the court or protective
agency. Even then, it takes a willing par-
ent who is involved enough to want to
change how they interact with their chil-
key to stopping the cycle of vio-
lence. There are many success
stories from parents who have
found a better, safer, healthier way
to parent.
One such outcome belongs to
Becky, the mother mentioned at
the beginning of the story.
She knew she couldn’t hide the
mark on Gabe’s face, and rather
than lie about it, called her pas-
tor, who encouraged her to
talk to child protective
services and ask for help.
She told her husband what
happened, and he went to
the agency with her, where
they both enrolled in
parenting classes on
their own.
A year later Becky
says, “I was so fixed on
how I parented. I knew
there were other things I could
do besides hit, but I didn’t know how to
handle my anger. Hitting Gabe was
wrong. I felt like such a bad mother. But er based in Kentucky. Her first book,
I know now that all mothers make mis- Peace, was published in 2005. Log on
takes. The thing is, do we learn from our www.geocities.com/teeruggles/tam-
mistakes, or keep repeating them?" myruggles.html
If you know or suspect that a child is

Childhelp.org states that about one-
third of abuse victims grow into adults
who victimize their own children.
This is called the cycle of abuse
because it is handed down from genera-
tion to generation. Children truly do
learn what they live. If they live in a
home where they witness abusive behav-
ior or domestic violence on a daily basis,
they will practice this in adulthood
REPORTING CHILD ABUSE
Any person can contact Berks
County Children and Youth
Services at any time to make an
allegation of child abuse or neglect.
An assessment will be made to
assure the child’s safety and deter-
mine if further investigation or serv-
The Facts
dren. These parents are asked to set being abused, do something. It is not up
aside their shame, guilt, and old set of to you to prove it, but your concern
parenting ideas. could save a child’s life, and could help
Parenting classes and family counsel- prevent the cycle from continuing.
ing teach parents non-physical forms of For more information, log onto child- ■ An incident of child abuse is
discipline, such as time-out, grounding, abuse.org, preventchildabuse.org, or reported every 10 seconds.
and redirection, rewards and conse- keepkidshealthy.com ■ Child abuse occurs in all racial,
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____ 18 about families
by Beth Walsh Eriksen
L
ooking at the animal kingdom, it’s
easy to see how the social instinct
can mean the difference between
survival and extinction. Bees and ants
are innately social creatures. They are
wired to take their places in colonies
where each individual will perform its
given task to facilitate survival of the
whole group. More complex creatures
share this inborn call to operate as a
team as evidenced by the specialized
words we use to describe these groups.
Don’t make the mistake of taking the role of “friend.”
Children have many friends, but only two parents.
Wolf packs, lion prides, cattle herds,
whale pods, rabbit warrens and quail
coveys terms used to express the special
social connection between animals of the
same species.
Man also shares this instinctive need
to socialize. Like other animal groups,
man is born into a family, and his family
joins with others to create a community.
Truly, it is natural that we want to fit in.
From the moment we arrive on the
scene, we are in need of human interac-
tion if we are to survive. We need other
people, and not just for sustenance.
Studies have shown how important it is
Your Teen’s Quest for Social Acceptance
Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1)
in•stinct1 [in-stingkt] – noun
an inborn pattern of activity or tendency to action common to a given biological
species.a natural or innate impulse, inclination or tendency.
for babies to be touched in their first
three months of life. Those who lack this
basic interaction can suffer and die. The
failure to thrive is rooted in a lack of
human contact. Clearly, the social
instinct plays a vital role in early infant
health. As we mature, an instinct this pri-
mal can and will influence behavior and
decision-making.
Now, consider that your teen has
arrived at puberty with this social instinct
intact. Hormones screaming, the teen
begins a time-honored dance choreo-
graphed in creation. In this dance, the
teen must begin to break away from the
familial group ties that have supported
him this far in search of new social out-
lets.
Believe it or not, the dance started
years ago. In kindergarten and early ele-
mentary school, children begin to hone
in on others based on personality, shared
interests or abilities. Lauren T., a first
grade teacher in Joliet, IL notes,
“Children connect with others who have
certain skills. For instance, last year I had
a student who could read a number of
words by herself at the beginning of the
year. Her grasp of phonics made her a
leader in the classroom, and this made
her self-esteem soar.”
Fast-forward seven years. The well-
adjusted child’s face has just begun to
break out. Emotionally, in her self-view
she may jump from class leader to zit-
faced loser overnight. Of course, as
adults we know this is just a short season
in life, but to a child it can seem like the
end of the world as they know it, so great
is their instinct to fit in with their peers.
Often, as puberty mounts, self-confi-
dence wanes. Tweens and young teens
look to others for assurance that they
belong. If ninety-nine people tell them
they do, and one tells them they don’t,
many children will take the one negative
comment to heart.
When natural order leads the teen to
make other major changes, such as mov-
ing from middle school to high school,
some children will scramble to find a
group that will accept them. It is impor-
tant for parents to stay involved at this
stage, though not underfoot. Pay atten-
tion to the new friendships your child
develops. Watch for the changes that will
inevitably occur as your child “tries on”
new social niches. This is often the time
when experimentation with drugs, alco-
hol and sex can materialize, so be on
your toes. Keep communication open,
even if there are days when your best
efforts produce only one- word answers
from your adolescent. Don’t take their
social tension personally, and try to shore
up their self-esteem with words of praise.
At this stage, some children will work
hard to “blend in” with the crowd while
others will opt to make a statement.
Social groups will emerge, and you’ll find
your child talking about the Goths,
punks, geeks and emos. You’ll notice
many of the group names of your era
have been replaced, while some have
survived. Surely, most parents know
what to expect from a “jock” or “prep”
crowd, but you might not be ready to
April 2009
welcome your daughter’s date when he
shows up sporting dyed jet-black hair
and eyeliner. Don’t assume the “cos-
tume” means your daughter is at risk.
Many eccentric dressers turn out to be in
the top 20% of their high school class. In
the end, as long as a student’s social
statement isn’t disrespectful of school
rules and schedules, reserve your judg-
ment until you get more information.
“Be more concerned with activities
that are detrimental to the student’s
health,” says Byron A., a math teacher
from Lexington, Kentucky. “Students
that smoke cigarettes or are chronically
late due to lack of sleep should make a
parent take notice.” According to the
University of Michigan’s Monitoring the
Future Project, this high school math
teacher may be right. Following students
as they develop through 8th, 10th and
12th grades, this study suggests that if
young people can be successful in school
it can improve their ability to resist peer
pressure to use drugs. “Non-smokers
make it to more classes than smokers.
Students that get enough sleep not only
make it to class, but can focus once
they’re there,” clarifies Byron A.
The Harvard Family Research
Project had some interesting findings
concerning academic success for teens.
Of crucial importance in this area are
the expectations of parents. Data
showed that the further in school par-
ents believed their adolescent would go,
the higher the adolescents’ academic
achievement. Could it be that in their
struggle to fit into society at large, teens
are still influenced by their first social
group-the family? Studies indicate this is
the case.
So, what’s a parent to do? The answer
is simple: be the parent. Don’t make the
mistake of taking the role of “friend.”
Children have many friends, but only
two parents. In some cases, circum-
stances have reduced this to only one
continued on page 23
____ 19 about families
by Denise Morrison Yearian
B
irthdays are like milestones that
mark another year of growing,
another year of change. But for
many parents, these milestones are more
like millstones when deciding how to
celebrate their child’s birthday. But it
doesn’t have to be. Today there’s a
Unless the party is a sleep-over, it’s best to
keep it to two or three hours at the most.
plethora of do-it-yourself books for the
brave at heart. In fact, the biggest deci-
sion parents have to make is where to
have the party and what the theme will
be. So where do you begin? Your child.
Several weeks before his birthday, ask
your child how he would like to cele-
brate his big day. Tell him what the
options are based on your time, budget,
and preferences. Brainstorm together,
considering his interests and hobbies.
Can the party be centered on one of
these? Chances are you can incorporate
something that lets part of your child’s
personality shine.
After considering your child’s interest
and deciding upon a theme, make a
guest list. The recommended number of
children will depend upon whether the
party will be held inside or outdoors. If
the weather is nice and you’d like to
have the party outside, you could easily
invite 15 guests. However, if the party is
indoors, it’s best keep to no more than
ten children.
Another way to determine how many
children to invite is to consider the birth-
day child’s age. Some experts recom-
mend using a formula where the number
of guests coming is equal to one to one-
and-a-half times the child’s age. For
example, a 4-year old’s party would have
four to six friends; and 8-year-old’s
would have eight to twelve guests.
Whatever number you choose, keep it
manageable. You know your child, your
home, and your party-quotient capacity.
Unless the party is a sleep-over, it’s
best to keep it to two or three hours at
the most (one-and-a-half hours for chil-
dren 4-years and younger). To help you
decide how long the party should be
make a list of activities you're planning
and the approximate length of time each
one will take. Remember that a well-
planned party allows for both quiet
activities and active play. Guests should
be given time to warm up to the setting
upon arrival, release energy during the
party, and calm down before heading
home. Since the children will be arriving
at slightly different times, plan a simple
but flexible activity, such as decorating
goody bags, coloring a picture or making
a beaded necklace. This will keep them
busy and free you to welcome other
arriving guests.
April 2009
When selecting games, consider the
number of children, their ages, and
whether the games will be held inside or
outdoors. Choose ones that are easy to
explain, fun to play, and will involve all
the children. Cooperative games are best
because they take the spotlight off any
one child and focus on the team as a
whole. Whatever activities you choose,
remain flexible. If the children aren’t
enjoying themselves, stop, and move on
to something else. Most important, plan
more activities than you’ll need. Nothing
spoils a party quicker than too much
time and little to do.
In serving food, it is best to stick to
the basics-sandwiches, pizza, veggie
strips and pretzels. If you want to make
the menu special, spruce up the way it is
presented. For example, sandwiches
could be cut into interesting shapes, or a
pizza could turn into a clown face with
pepperoni eyes, a cherry tomato nose
and a strip of green pepper for the
mouth. The cake can be special, too, by
allowing the children to ice and decorate
their own cupcake. You don’t have to go
all out on decorations, either. A few heli-
um balloons and crepe paper can make
any room look festive.
When it comes to party favors, there’s
plenty of room for flexibility. On a tight
budget? Choose one fun, but inexpen-
sive toy related to the theme of the party,
or fill a bag with a blend of fun-to-eat,
but healthy treats. An activity such as
painting t-shirts or planting flowers in
pots is fun. The idea here is to be flexi-
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ble, creative, and still stay within your Pottstown, PA Philadelphia, PA Harrisburg, PA
budget. What is the party theme? Is
The Wyndcroft School Springside School Harrisburg Academy
there an activity or item you can pur-
chase that will reflect that theme?
If you are giving the party by yourself,
get help on the big day. An extra pair of
hands (or two or three!) is essential no
matter what age the children are. As you
prepare a guest list, ask a few close
friends or relatives to come and help. If
there are no willing volunteers, hire a
teen. Chances are, he or she needs the
money and would enjoy the event.
Above all, remember that because
your child’s birthday comes only once a
year, it deserves recognition. The kind of
celebration you have will depend upon
your time, budget, and preferences.
Whatever you choose, make it special. June 15-19, 2009
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Recall Roll Call

T
he U.S. Consumer Product to receive a replacement. For additional
Safety Commission, in coopera- information, please contact Alpargatas
tion with the following business- USA at 1-888-289-5306 between 9 am
es is recalling the following toys based on and 6 pm ET Mon.-Fri., or visit the web
excessive levels of lead which violates the site at www.havaianasus.com
federal lead paint standard. To report a
dangerous product or a product-related
by Diane Moorhead injury, call CPSC’s hotline at 1-800-638-
2772 or CPSC’s teletypewriter at 1-800-
Stained Glass Easter Card 638-8270, or visit CPSC’s at
Materials Needed: www.cpsc.gov/talk.html. Consumers can
✔ Crayons (3-4 colors works best) obtain recall information at CPSC’s web-
✔ Wax Paper site at www.cpsc.gov. For more informa-
✔ Scrap paper (paper grocery bags or comput- tion on these and other recalls, visit the
er paper) U.S. Consumer Product Safety
✔ Construction Paper Commission at www.cpsc.gov.
✔ Pencil Sharpener (one with a larger hole CBB Group Inc., City of Commerce,
for crayon size) Calif., is voluntarily recalling about
✔ Iron and Ironing Board (with adult help)
39,000 Fishing Games, Rattles, Pull-A-
✔ Cross Template
✔ Craft Glue Long Cars, Mini Pull Back Cars, and
Directions: Cartoon Bubble Guns. The fishing
1. Set iron to medium heat. games, baby rattles and pull-a-long cars
2. Take a piece of wax paper, fold in half, contain small parts, which can detach and
open up and lay wax paper on top of pose a choking hazard to children. The
scrap paper. mini pull back cars and bubble guns have
3. Sharpen crayons and put shavings on the surface paints which contain excessive
wax paper, fold wax paper and place 5. Trace and cut out desired size of cross. levels of lead, violating the federal lead
another piece of scrap paper on top of Cookie cutters make excellent patterns. Alpargatas USA Inc., of New York, paint standard.The recalled toys were
the wax paper. Hold heated iron on 6. Fold construction paper in half and glue NY, is voluntarily recalling about 210,000
paper for about ten seconds. Make sure manufactured in China and are listed in
cross on to the front of the card and add children’s flip flops. Decorative paint on the chart below:
wax is melted.
4. Let Cool.
your greeting on the inside. the sole of the flip flops can contain levels They were sold at Dollar stores and toy
of lead in excess of the federal standard. stores nationwide from July 2007 through
Flip flops of the Havaianas brand con- December 2008 for between
taining decorative paint were sold under $1 and $5.
the following model names: Baby Consumers should take the
Riverview Estampas, Baby Pets, Kids Apple, Kids
Fairy, Kids Flores, Kids Lighthouse, Kids
recalled products away from
Christian Monsters, Kids Surf, Baby Letrinhas,
young children immediately
and return them to the place
EARLY LEARNING CENTER Kids Sports, Kids Candies, Kids Fun, where purchased for a full
Christian Curriculum Kids Love, Kids Sereias, Kids Speed, refund. For additional infor-
Kids Lucky Bug, Kids Pets, Kids Rock,
Affordable, child-friendly, a good beginning Kids Slim, Kids Wonder Woman, Kids
mation, contact CBB Group,
home-like environment Inc. toll-free at 1-866-628-
never ends Small Flowers and Kids Tropical w/Kit. 6238 anytime, or visit the web
Summer “Kids Camp” A developmental music program Havaianas flip flops without decorative site at www.cbbgroup.com
June 8 - August 14 for children - newborn to 7 years. paint are not being recalled.
9:00 am - 4:00 pm The flip flops, which were manufac-
With Before/After Care Available Kindermusik at tured in Brazil, were sold by department
Kindergarten - 7th grade Trinity Lutheran Church and specialty stores nationwide from
Come for 1 week or November 2006 through February 2009
attend all 10 weeks! Tama Dewalt McConnell for about $15 to $24 a pair.
Consumers should immediately take
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Don’t Be Left Out in The Dark About XP
by Jon Buzby
A
s parents, we hope for certain
traits in our children, some
more important to us than
others. We constantly try to instill
polite manners, good morals, and a
sense of caring — sometimes with suc-
cess and other times not. And depend-
ing on the parent, certain traits might
be more significant than others.
But ask any parent what is the one
thing they want their children to have
and the answer is the same no matter
“My daughter’s skin was very, very dry and she had a very
odd freckling pattern…”
their background, income level, or
where they live: good health.
And while there are many elements
we can control to keep our children
healthy, there are just as many that we
cannot.
We can keep them snuggled up in the
winter, covered with suntan lotion in
the summer, and make sure they wear
sneakers outside to play. But we can’t
control if they are born with or develop
a disease or disability. And we can’t
always protect them from common cold
germs.
It is our responsibility as parents to
be on the lookout for signs of poor
health in our children, and to take pre-
ventative measures against potential
health problems, from the moment of
conception.
One of the easiest things we can do
as parents of infants and toddlers is to
protect their skin from the sun.
Research has shown that early overex-
posure to the sun can lead to skin prob-
lems down the road. And while some
children’s skin problems caused by
early overexposure to sunlight might be
easily treated or cured, for nearly 250
children in the United States with the
rare disorder known as Xeroderma
Pigmentosum (XP), the sun’s ultravio-
let rays on their infant skin has led to
severe skin cancer complications. Of
those cases, 30% suffer from neurolog-
ical deterioration.
When her daughter was born,
Michele Milota saw early signs of skin
trouble. She only wishes that she knew
then, what she knows now, about XP.
“My daughter’s skin was very, very
dry and she had a very odd freckling
pattern,” Milota says. “Having had two
other children, I knew her skin was dif-
ferent and it was finally the bump on
her nose that made me get it checked
out and it was finally diagnosed as XP.
“She has since suffered from 22 skin
cancers as a result of the XP disorder,
and I’m convinced early detection
could have prevented many if not all of
them,” she adds. “If she had been diag-
nosed earlier, maybe at two or three
months of age, and had much less expo-
sure to the sun, she may not have had to
endure as many skin cancer surgeries.”
XP is a rare genetic condition
whereby a person’s DNA lacks the abil-
ity to repair damage from ultraviolet
light. The disorder leads to skin cancer
as early as childhood. Unless sun expo-
sure is minimized, XP victims are likely
to die of malignant melanoma or squa-
mous cell carcinoma.
In just about every one of the 250
cases, early detection could have pre-
vented future cancer-related complica-
tions down the road, or at the very
least, minimized them. But with a disor-
der so rare and sunburn such a common
problem among children, it’s not some-
thing parents usually think about …
until it’s too late.
The symptoms of XP are obvious, if
you know them. And thanks to Milota
and her nationally-recognized XP
Family Support Group, more and more
parents are on the lookout for early
indications that their child might have
this rare disorder, and not just suffering
from a bad case of sunburn.
“I started the organization with a
group of parents who have children
with XP,” Milota says. “After meeting
several parents we all realized that
there was a huge need to get a support
group together that focused on
research, skin protection for families,
and a yearly family retreat that edu-
cates parents and offers a camp-like
atmosphere for our kids.”
According to Milota, one of the most
obvious indications or symptom to look
for is if your infant son or daughter is
getting sunburned — or signs of it —
even in a very short period of time
under very protected conditions.
Two parents share similar stories …
“My daughter received her first
severe burn when she was six weeks
April 2009
old,” says a parent of an XP patient
who wasn’t diagnosed until after her
third birthday. “Jessica was in a stroller
that had a canopy over it and was under
a tent. The reflection burned her face
and arms. She had blisters on the
exposed skin.”
“At the age of six weeks we knew
something was wrong with my daugh-
ter,” shares another parent whose child
was finally diagnosed with XP at the
age of 12. “She had the worst burn we
had ever seen. Her eyes were swollen
shut, and the peeling was so terrible she
looked like a monster. And we thought
we had protected her skin very well.”
Milota says the important thing to
realize is that it’s not the sun that caus-
es XP. XP is a condition that a child
inherits. However, exposure to the
ultraviolet rays from the sun is life
threatening if your son or daughter is
born with the disorder. And that’s why
early detection is so important.
“All responsible parents protect
their children from the sun,” she says.
“But just like any other situation with
our kids, if we know that by not doing
something we are putting them at risk,
we naturally do a better job making
sure it gets done.”
As one parent says with a smile, “For
our children with XP, playing outside
after dark isn’t such a bad thing.”
All kidding aside, many parents are
in the dark when it comes to XP disor-
der. Milota’s hope is that through edu-
cation and awareness, although the dis-
order might never be cured, early
detection will prevent diagnosed chil-
dren from becoming future cancer
patients.
You can’t prevent your child from
becoming an XP statistic. But by keep-
ing them out of the sun, you can ensure
they have a fighting chance for a bright
future.
For more detailed information
about XP, including facts about skin
protection and additional information
about symptoms and treatment
options, visit the XP Family Support
Group’s Web site at
xpfamilysupport.org.
Jon Buzby is a syndicated columnist
and freelance writer. Reach him at jonbuz-
by@hotmail.com.
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continued from page 10
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Your Teen’s Quest for Social
Acceptance
continued from page 18
parent interacting in the life of the teen.
Commit yourself to being the constant
assurance that your child is enough.
Buffeted by the storms of peer group
acceptance, your child needs sanctuary.
Be that and more. Stay involved, speak
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Everyone needs to feel like they
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your teenager may feel attracted to
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Teachers: Are Your Kids Stuttering? 8 Tips for

Teachers
Stuttering Foundation –

I
t’s the first day of school and one
of your pupils stutters. If you’re
the teacher, what should you do?
Kids aren’t the only ones who are
apprehensive on the first day of school.
Teachers are too. If a student stutters,
should you call on him in class, or will
that make it worse? Do you talk with
him about his stuttering, or ignore it
hoping it goes away? Does it help to tell
the student to relax or slow down?
A new tip sheet, 8 Tips for
Teachers, published by the Stuttering
Foundation, helps educators work with
students who stutter. If you’re a parent
of a student who stutters, give the
teacher a copy before the first day of
school.
“Young children are busily learning
to talk,” explains Lisa Scott, Ph.D., of
The Florida State University and
author of the tip sheet. “As such, they
may have effortless repetitions and pro-
longations of sounds. In most instances,
this is very normal. If parents and
teachers listen to and answer these
young children in a patient, calm,
unemotional way, the child’s speech will
probably return to normal.”
“Some children, however, will go
beyond the normal and begin to repeat
and prolong sounds markedly,”
explains Scott. “They may begin to
struggle, tense up, and become frustrat-
ed in their efforts to talk. These chil-
dren need help.”
“Any time teachers are concerned
about a child’s fluency,” notes Jane
Fraser, president of the Stuttering
Foundation, “they should consult with
the school speech clinician as well as
1. Don’t tell the child “slow down” or
“just relax.”
2. Don’t complete words for the child
or talk for him or her.
3. Help all members of the class learn
to take turns talking and listening.
All children – and especially those
who stutter – find it much easier to
talk when there are few interrup-
tions and they have the listener’s
attention.
4. Expect the same quality and quan-
tity of work from the student who
stutters as the one who doesn’t.
5. Speak with the student in an
unhurried way, pausing frequently.
6. Convey that you are listening to
the content of the message, not
how it is said.
7. Have a one-on-one conversation
with the student who stutters
the parents to make sure their about needed accommodations in
approach is consistent. Talk with the the classroom. Respect the stu-
child privately and reassure him or her dent’s needs, but do not be
of your support; let them know that enabling.
you are aware of their stuttering and
that you accept it – and them.” 8. Don’t make stuttering something
For more answers to questions to be ashamed of. Talk about stut-
about stuttering, contact the Stuttering tering just like any other matter.
Foundation at 800-992-9392. Compiled by Lisa Scott, Ph.D., The
Florida State University

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Nine Fun Ways to
Bond With Your Child
by Julie Steed
B
onding with your child can be
fun, free and easy. Spending
time together also helps your
child develop appropriate relation-
ships, empathy and self-esteem. “One-
on-one time makes the kid feel cher-
ished, loved, acknowledged, and under-
stood,” explained Dr. Celeste Frank, a
psychologist with over 20 years of expe-
rience counseling parents and children.
Dr. Frank suggested one hour as the
ideal amount of time to spend each day,
one-on-one, with your child, “I know
that is really hard to do, but if you could
even get in half an hour or 45 minutes
where you’re not doing anything else,
you’re not cleaning the house or cook-
ing or answering the phone, that would
be ideal.”
Don’t have an hour each day?
Consider incorporating quality time
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daily tasks.
Use these suggestions for fun, con-
venient ways to bond with your young
one.
1. Play In The Dirt. Gardening is a
wonderful opportunity for children
to see the fruits of their labor. Help
your child learn to dig, plant and
care for flowers or vegetables by
including them when you work out-
doors. Consider giving your child a
section of the garden to cultivate
and always leave plenty of time for
your child to talk and ask questions.
2. Read A Book. The National Child-
ren’s Reading Foundation recom-
mends spending a minimum of 20
minutes a day reading with your
child. Reading together not only
improves your child’s ability to read
and learn, but it also presents an
opportunity for bonding. “Reading
allows a child to pose questions
about things she doesn’t understand
and to get your thoughts on what
you are reading. That is a way for
parents to impart their values and
beliefs to their children, and that is
crucial,” said Dr. Frank. For school
age children, you can assist your
child in achieving daily or weekly
reading requirements while spend-
ing time together. Enjoy reading to
your younger child, allowing them
to select the book of their choice.
3. Let Your Child Take Charge.
Children live in a world that is gov-
erned by adults. Allow your child to
make the rules (within reason)
while you play along without cor-
recting or criticizing. You will be
pleasantly surprised with your
child’s vivid imagination, and you
may find a bit of your inner child as
well.
4. Share A Meal. Studies indicate that
children who eat meals with their
parents are much less likely to
develop substance abuse problems
and eating disorders. Eating togeth-
er also opens the lines of communi-
cation. Be creative when engaging
children in conversation by asking
them specific questions about their
day. You can also involve children
in mealtime preparations as a cook
or kitchen helper. Request input
about upcoming meals, discuss
favorite activities, books or upcom-
ing family events at the table, and
remember to allow kids to ask you
questions, too.
5. Take a walk. Taking a walk with
your child provides an opportunity
for uninterrupted communication.
Enjoy moving along at your child’s
pace, noticing the things he sees and
examines along the way. “Cultivate
an open attitude toward your kid
where you’re just going to listen.
Kids will talk endlessly if they have
the arena to do so,” said Dr. Frank.
6. Cook Together. Invite your child
into the kitchen for measuring, stir-
ring and recipe reading. Cooking
together allows your child to feel
involved in meal preparation, while
learning measurements and follow-
ing directions.
7. Star Gaze. Choose an evening for
your child to stay up past their bed-
time so that you can star gaze
together. All you need is a blanket
and a cloudless sky. Enjoy gazing
silently into the night, providing
your child with ample opportunity
to ask questions and share thoughts.
8. Play Ball. Enjoy playing a sport
together, one-on-one. With older
kids, play a game of basketball, kick
around a soccer ball or throw a
football. Younger kids can enjoy a
game of toss or rolling a ball back
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and forth. Be careful to
not criticize or coach your
child. Relax, have fun and
get in some all-important
exercise while creating an
opportunity to talk with
each other.
9. Establish a Ritual.
Provide security and struc-
ture for your child by
establishing rituals.
“[Children] need to know
that everything else is
taken care of and just
expand their endlessly
curious minds. If their
lives are chaotic and they
don’t have routine, struc-
ture, rituals, then they
can’t do that,” explained
Dr. Frank. A ritual can be
as simple as a bedtime rou-
tine, sharing a secret hand-
shake before school or saying examine bugs, and play games together.
prayers together each night. Challenge yourself to relinquish your
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Kids Who Watch R-rated Movies are
More Likely to Smoke
Washington, DC –
A new study finds that kids who are
allowed to watch R-rated movies are
much more likely to believe it’s easy to
get a cigarette than those who aren’t
allowed to watch such films.
“We don’t know why this is so. It may
have to do with a parenting style that is
permissive of activities that are not age-
appropriate. Or it may be an outcome
of all the smoking scenes in R-rated
movies,” says lead author of the study
Chyke Doubeni, PhD, with the
University of Massachusetts Medical
School. The study appears in the
February 21 issue of the American
Journal of Preventive Medicine.
“But we do know that kids who
believe it is easy to get a cigarette are at
risk of smoking. Our prior research has
already shown that kids who perceive
cigarettes as readily accessible are more
likely to end up as regular smokers,”
Doubeni said.
The researchers found that parental
permission to watch R-rated movies
was one of the strongest predictors of
the perception that cigarettes are avail-
able, about as strong as having friends
that smoked. If allowed to watch R-
rated films, nonsmokers were almost
twice as likely, and smokers were
almost three times as likely to say it
would be easy for them to get ciga-
rettes.
The researchers looked at data from
the second Development and
Assessment of Nicotine Dependence in
Youth, a four-year study of 1246 sixth-
grade students in Massachusetts who
were interviewed 11 times from 2002 to
2006. Students were asked if they
agreed or disagreed with the statement:
“It would be easy for me to get a ciga-
rette.” They were also asked “Is any-
body allowed to smoke inside your
home?” and “How often do your par-
ents let you watch movies or videos that
are rated R?”
The study was funded by the
Substance Abuse Policy Research
Program (SAPRP) of the Robert Wood
Johnson Foundation.
“Parents need to be mindful about
the movies their children watch for a
variety of obvious reasons. This study
points out one more reason for not
allowing children to watch movies that
are not appropriate for their age,”
added co-author Dr. Joseph DiFranza
with the University of Massachusetts
Medical School.
The study also found that having a
favorite tobacco advertisement was sig-
nificantly associated with perceived
accessibility, as was knowing the Joe
Camel cartoon mascot for Camel ciga-
rettes. Unsurprisingly, kids with parents
who smoke or allow smoking in the
home tended to think it would be very
easy to obtain cigarettes.
“This implies that parental smoking
likely contributes to youth smoking
through increased perceived accessibil-
ity,” says Doubeni. “Parents need to
understand that your kids are more
likely to get cigarettes if you smoke,
particularly if you smoke in the home
or allow someone else to smoke in the
home.”
The Substance Abuse Policy
Research Program (www.saprp.org) of
the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation
Jane Louise Boursaw
H
annah Montana
arrives in theaters,
along with some
Earth families and their cute off-
spring. Here’s a sneak peek at April
movies:
Hannah Montana: The Movie
Rated G. In theaters April 10. Ok for kids
7+. 3.5 out of 5 Reels
Miley Cyrus has weathered her share of
scandals over the past year, but she’s still
turning out fun, innocent movies for girls.
This one by Walt Disney Pictures finds Miley
Stewart (Cyrus) struggling to juggle school,
friends, and her secret pop-star persona,
Hannah Montana. But when Hannah’s pop-
ularity threatens to take over her life, her
dad (Billy Ray Cyrus) takes the teen home
to Crowley Corners, Tennessee for a dose of
reality. It’s a sweet adventure with a bit of
romance thrown into the mix.
April 2009
funds research into policies related to
alcohol, tobacco and illegal drugs.
The Robert Wood Johnson
Foundation focuses on the pressing
health and health care issues facing our
country. As the nation's largest philan-
thropy devoted exclusively to improv-
ing the health and health care of all
Americans, the Foundation works with
a diverse group of organizations and
individuals to identify solutions and
achieve comprehensive, meaningful
and timely change. For more than 30
years the Foundation has brought
experience, commitment, and a rigor-
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care of those it serves. Helping
Americans lead healthier lives and get
the care they need—the Foundation
expects to make a difference in our
lifetime. For more information, visit
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Earth
Rated G. In
theaters April 22.
Ok for kids 6+. 4.5 out of 5 Reels
James Earl Jones narrates this stunning
film – the first in the Disneynature series. It
tells the remarkable story of three animal
families and their amazing journey across
the planet. This isn’t just another documen-
tary. It features some really rare footage in
very cool locations. And note the release
date: Earth Day, April 22, 2009.
JANE’S REEL RATING SYSTEM:
One Reel – Even The Force can’t save it.
Two Reels – Coulda been a contender.
Three Reels – Something to talk about.
Four Reels – You want the truth? Great
flick!
Five Reels – Wow! The stuff dreams are
made of.
Jane Louise Boursaw is a freelance journalist
specializing in the movie and television
industries. Visit her online at
www.ReelLifeWithJane.com or email
jboursaw@charter.net.
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Helping kids learn to
love healthy eating
Turn PB & J into PB & A — peanut butter and apples! This
lunchtime treat is a great way to please picky sandwich eaters
and make sure they get some healthy fruit.
Open Face Caramel Peanut Butter Sandwich
Prep Time: 5 minutes
Servings: 2
2 tablespoons (1.25-ounce individual container)
Marzetti Disney Cinnamon Caramel Apple Dip
2 tablespoons favorite peanut butter
2 slices favorite bread
Sliced apples, peanuts, dried cranberries or raisins
In a small bowl, mix together dip and peanut butter until smooth.
Spread two tablespoons of caramel mixture on each slice of
bread.
Arrange sliced apples, peanuts and dried fruit atop each sand-
wich and serve.
Do your kids turn up their noses at fruits and veggies? Here are
some fun and smart ideas to please even the pickiest of eaters:
Bagel snake – Split mini bagels in half. Cut each half into half cir-
cles. Spread the halves with tuna salad, egg salad, or peanut but-
ter. Decorate with sliced cherry tomatoes or banana slices.
Arrange the half circles to form the body of a snake. Use olives
or raisins for the eyes.
English muffin pizza – Top half an English muffin with tomato
sauce, chopped veggies and low-fat mozzarella cheese. Heat until
the cheese is melted.
Potato pal – Top half a small baked potato with eyes, ears, and a
April 2009
FAMILY FEATURES
A
ccording to the 2007 Produce For Kids study, 96 percent of
children don’t get the recommended five servings of fruits
and vegetables every day. That won’t surprise a lot of par-
ents. Getting children to eat any fruits or vegetables at all
can be a big challenge.
With 39 percent of all U.S. children overweight or obese, getting
kids to make better food choices is more important than ever.
Fruits and vegetables are loaded with vitamins, nutrients and
fiber, are
low in calories and can help prevent many diseases, including high
blood pressure, heart disease and some cancers. But kids aren’t
compelled by the nutritional benefits of produce. They want to have
fun eating food they like. So they need some help to become
healthy eaters.
How can a parent get fruit-phobic or veggie-avoiding kids to eat
more of what they really need? Mypyramid.gov, a Web site dedicated
to helping people make smart food choices, has some tips for coping
with picky eaters.
■ Let your kids be “produce pickers.” Let them help pick out
fruits and veggies at the store.
■ Kids like to try foods they help make. All of that mixing,
mashing and measuring makes them want to taste what they
are creating.
■ Make meals a stress-free time. If meals are times for family
arguments, your child may learn unhealthy attitudes toward
food.
■ Offer choices. Rather than ask “Do you want broccoli for din-
ner?” ask “Which would you like for dinner: broccoli or cauli-
flower?”
Another suggestion, from The Produce For Kids study, is to use
dips to get kids to eat more fruits and vegetables. Sixty-eight per-
cent of the moms surveyed said that their children ate more fruit
and vegetables when they were served with dip.
One of the latest items on the market to help meet this need is
Marzetti Disney Dips, a line of fruit and veggie dips for children
that makes eating produce fun and nutritious. Each portion-control
package contains the right amount of dip for a serving of fruit or
vegetables. The packaging also features favorite Disney characters,
games and trivia questions – all of which make eating healthy a lot
more fun.
Picky eaters don’t have to stay picky eaters. With some encour-
agement and creative ideas from parents, they can learn to love eat-
ing what’s best for them.
For more information, visit marzetti.com/disney.
Put some crunchy fun into snack time with this fruity rice cake.
This is one treat the kids will love making themselves — just set
out the ingredients and let them build a fruit-filled snack!
Rice Cake Snack
Prep Time: 3 minutes
Servings: 1
2 tablespoons (1.25-ounce individual container)
Marzetti Disney Cinnamon Caramel Apple Dip
1 rice cake
Topping options: Diced red or green apple,
chopped bananas, favorite dried fruit, mini
chocolate chips or favorite chopped nuts
Spread 2 tablespoons dip onto a rice cake.
Top with one or two topping options and serve.
smile. Try peas for eyes, a halved cher-
ry tomato for a nose, and a low-fat
cheese wedge as a smile.
Fruit smoothies – Blend fresh or frozen fruit with yogurt and
milk or juice. Try 100 percent orange juice, low-fat yogurt,
and frozen strawberries.
Ants on a log – Thinly spread peanut butter or apple dip on
narrow celery sticks. Top with a row of raisins or other
diced dried fruit.
Fruit kabobs – Spear chunks of pineapple, banana and melon
on skewers or chopsticks. Let kids dunk them in a fruit dip.
____ 32 about families
Is the Economy
The Truth about Unhealthy
Relationships with Foods in Times of Stress
Triggering Potential Eating Disorders?
by Dr. Stacey Rosenfeld to a healthier relationship with food:
L
Trash the diet: The more you try to
ife is tough right now and as a
result, people are turning to restrict your food, the more you are
likely to find yourself compensating by
food. Job loss means more time
on your hands to eat. Fear and anxiety overeating. Diets do not work because
over paying the bills can mean turning it makes us feel deprived, especially
to food for comfort. Stressed out men during stressful times.
and women are eating more than their Nourish your body: Make sure you
bodies need. are nourishing your body the right way
Just like turning to alcohol, many by eating breakfast, lunch and dinner
daily and that each meal includes pro-
people overeat during stressful times in
order to cope with difficult emotions. tein, fats and carbohydrates. Snacks
And this economic environment is trig- are important, particularly when you
gering it more than ever before are craving a certain taste or texture.
between job loss and making ends Allow yourself sweets in moderation.
meet. You will overdo less if you do not have
We all nosh occasionally when we a deprivation mentality.
are sad, anxious, angry, or have too Practice the art of intuitive eating:
much time on our hands. However Only eat when you are hungry and
when it becomes the norm – every day always stop when you are full. Listen to
with no control – it could be a sign that your body and learn to identify your
you are using food more than you own hunger and fullness.
should. This is not only dangerous for Acknowledge that food will not
people who are struggling with their solve the problem: If you are eating
when you are not hungry, ask yourself
weight or have a history of issues with
food, but also for those with no previ- “Is this going to solve my problem?”
ous issues. Instead, seek out social support from
Here are some suggestions to return family and friends, exercise regularly,
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and focus on taking practical steps
toward improving your situation. This
might involve redoing your resume,
talking with your boss about another
project you might start, looking into
refinancing your home, etc.
Seek professional help: If you can-
not do it on your own, it is okay. You
are not alone. Schedule a consultation
with a therapist or counselor for sup-
port and to learn healthier coping skills
to get you through.
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plan they discussed with their ■ Percent increase in births involving
practitioner: More than 70
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licensed clinical psychologist with a pri-
vate practice in New York City. She is also
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■ Percent who say their delivery went
the way they dreamed it would: 16
midwives since 1990: 100
■ Typical cost savings from delivering at
a midwife-run birthing center over a
hospital: $1,500
■ Percent increase in twin births since
the 1980s: 60
■ Percent of pregnant women who
experience morning sickness: 50
■ Percent increase in a woman’s aerobic
capacity during pregnancy: 5-10
■ Pounds supermodel and actress
Elizabeth Hurley gained during preg-
nancy, then promptly lost: More than
50
■ Months after giving birth to her first
child that England’s Paula Radcliffe
won the New York Marathon: 10
■ Cost of a BabyPlus Prenatal
Education System, recorded rhythmic
sounds to give baby an “intellectual,
developmental, creative and emotion-
al advantage” from birth: $149.95
■ Number of articles mentioning Brad
Pitt and Angelina Jolie’s son Shiloh,
Hollywood’s “most influential baby,”
in his first year: More than 2,000
■ Percent of 3-month-olds who regular-
ly watch television, videos or DVDs:
40
■ Cost of a Chelsea sleigh crib by Bratt
Décor, children’s furniture purveyor
to the likes of Sarah Jessica Parker
and Courtney Cox: $1,452
Sources: Baby Talk, Harvard Reviews of
Health News, Insight on the News, 123facts.com,
Welcomebabyhome.com, Chicago Athlete,
iVillage.co.uk, Associated Press,
Geniusbabies.com, Yahoo.com, Reader’s Digest,
Brattdecor.com
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____ 33 about families April 2009

What Is It and When Does It Begin?

by Lisa Jarrett “down beat,” the babies’ brains pro- voice is soft and muffled by the amniot-

E
duced an electrical response indicating ic fluid.
ducators and health profes-
that they had expected to hear that After birth, babies stimulated prena-
sionals alike have long stressed
missing downbeat, but had not. tally through simple rhythmic sounds
the importance of cognitive
The study explains: can exhibit “a range of key differences
development for children ages zero to
“So it appears that the capability of from typical infant traits,” said Dr.
three. While this period of develop-
detecting beat in rhythmic sound Brent Logan, author of Learning Before
ment is undeniably crucial, it is impor-
Birth and developer of the BabyPlus
curriculum – which utilizes such simple
“…it appears that the capability of detecting beat in beats. Much like moms-to-be take pre-
rhythmic sequences is already functional at birth.” natal vitamins to aid in physical devel-
opment, parents report consistent ben-
efits from using age-appropriate audi-
sequences is already functional at tory stimulation to aid in baby’s cogni-
tant to note that a baby’s brain actually
birth.” tive development.
begins to form cells during the third
“Our results show that although So, next time you are deciding
week of pregnancy – a time when the
learning by movement is probably between Mozart or a bedtime story for
brain is also open to stimulation and
important, the newborn auditory sys- daddy to read to your developing baby
learning and a time when such an
tem is apparently sensitive to periodici- in the womb, keep in mind that simple,
enriched environment is absolutely
ties and develops expectations about repetitive rhythms are best for develop-
necessary in every regard.
when a new cycle should start (i.e., ment. There are prenatal learning sys-
During weeks 13-16, a child’s first
when the downbeat should occur). tems available, and it can be anticipated
brain waves become detectable, a con-
Therefore, although auditory perceptu- that the demand for these systems will
nection-building process that persists at
al learning starts already in the womb, increase as more research becomes
breakneck speed through the first few
our results are fully compatible with the available.
years of life. Most moms-to-be who
notion that the perception of beat is Lisa Jarrett is President of the BabyPlus of sound to prenatal children in their natu-
read about baby’s development will
innate.” Company, and a mother of four BabyPlus ral language—the maternal heartbeat.
know that the baby can also begin to
According to this study, simple children. BabyPlus is a universal prenatal BabyPlus is available at
hear sounds in the second trimester –
rhythmic sounds - like those similar to education system that introduces patterns www.babyplus.com.
predominantly the constant beat of the
the maternal heartbeat - are easiest for
mother’s heart, but also muffled noises
the unborn child to understand, if not

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that are heard outside the womb.
already innate.
Learning, or cognitive development,
What we can infer through this study
is simply the construction of thought
is that a developing baby’s brain is
processes, including perception, re-
responsive to beats – a simple rhythm
membering, language abilities, problem
solving and decision-making.
Traditionally, society has accepted the
that is, developmentally, something a
baby can comprehend. The maternal
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advanced by Swiss psychologist Jean
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true language that a prenatal baby can
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that confirms cognitive stimulation
child before birth, speaking to an
TIME: interactive
and fun,
actually begins in the womb.
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Because we cannot feasibly observe
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____ 34 about families
Teens and Sleep:
Turn Off Your iPod…
by Martha Wegner
J
ust when I thought I was nearing
the end of my parenting chal-
lenges, along came my daughter’s
adolescence; a whole new challenge unto
itself filled with questions about sex,
drugs, curfew, college entrance, and,
well, the list goes on. But who could
have anticipated this challenge: sleep.
We’ve trained these kids for sleep since
they were babies! But something hap-
Students whose report cards showed mainly As and
Bs were the same youngsters who usually went to
bed earlier on both school nights and weekends.
pened to my daughter’s ability to enter
peaceful slumber as she entered her
teenage years. Every night was a battle
to get her to go to bed. She had to listen
to her iPod. She needed to solve the lat-
est problem with her friend via text mes-
saging. When we told her “lights out,”
she whined and procrastinated. The
mornings? Don’t even get me started on
the mornings, because I sure couldn’t get
my daughter started in the morning.
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World War III could not have gotten
Allison started in the morning. I won-
dered just how many times can a person
hit the snooze button? And every morn-
ing she was late as she grabbed her toast
and ran to the bus stop. I pleaded with
her (over and over), “Why don’t you go
to bed earlier so that you can wake up
earlier and so that you are not nodding
off in class?”
It turns out that Allison is not alone.
According to the American Academy of
Pediatrics (AAP)’s book, Guide to Your
Child’s Sleep: birth through adolescence
(Villard, 1999), although most teenagers
need between 9 and 10 hours a sleep a
night, they get on average closer to 7
hours. Many teenagers experience what
the AAP calls “delayed sleep phase syn-
drome”: “Biological changes during
puberty bring about shifts in the sleep
phase [the number of hours in a 24-hour
period devoted to sleeping] that encour-
age teenagers to stay up late and conse-
quently oversleep. Further complicating
the matter, teenagers don’t like to be
told what to do, and many parents,
respecting their children’s urge toward
independence, tend to hold back advice
for fear of being accused of nagging.”
Because of this delayed sleep phase,
adolescents sleep less than they need to
on weeknights, and then try to make up
for it on weekends.
How did this happen?
AAP places the blame for this com-
mon sleep phase shift on two culprits:
first, the hormonal surges of puberty
that reset the adolescent body clock in
such a way that youngsters may not only
feel sleepy progressively later, but may
also be inclined to wake later. Second,
teenagers are much more likely to take
part in social activities in the evening,
some as structured as athletic or play
practice, some unstructured, but stimu-
lating nonetheless, such as time spent on
the internet chatting and texting back
and forth to friends. Many teenagers
hold down a part time job in addition to
their studies and social life.
Why does it matter?
Other than the fact that I was yelling
at my daughter at the end of the day and
at the start of every morning, and this
put us all in a very bad mood, what does
it matter? Hold on to your hat, the find-
ings are astounding.
AAP cites a number of studies which
found that school grades were a reliable
indicator of the hours spent sleeping.
Students whose report cards showed
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mainly As and Bs were the same
youngsters who usually went to
bed earlier on both school nights
and weekends. These high achiev-
ers averaged about 35 more min-
utes of sleep nightly than those
who got mostly Ds and Fs. In
addition, teenagers who got the
most sleep, and who went to bed
at about the same time on school
nights and weekends, were more
alert all day long. Also, those who
slept less and had erratic bedtimes
were not only drowsy during the
day; they were also more likely to
be depressed. Finally, several
studies have also shown that
teenagers who don’t sleep enough
have a higher rate of car crashes.
What Can We Do?
Patrick Friman, author of Good
Night, Sweet Dreams, I Love You:
now get into bed and go to sleep!
(Boys Town Press, 2005) tells us
that our responsibility for setting
and enforcing rules does not end,
just because our kids have hit
their teens: “You should set and
enforce bedtimes for your chil-
dren, even when those children
change and be prepared to take respon-
are in middle school or well into high
sibility for following a new sleep sched-
school...Why? The biggest reason is that
ule, including weekend wake-ups, on
middle school-aged and high school-
her own.” You can lead a horse to water,
aged children do not often place rest
well, you know the rest.
high on their list of priorities. True, if left
For a year I led Allison to the water,
to their own devices, they would proba-
with few results except comments on
bly get enough sleep to be able to func-
how I was “ruining her life” and “pun-
tion for a week or maybe even two. But
ishing her.” Then after a full year of us
most likely they would quickly be using
enforcing a bedtime routine, Allison
the weekends to catch up on lost sleep.”
started to go to bed on time without
Specifically, he suggests setting a strict
complaint! I was, I am, beside myself
bedtime and then limiting the extent to
with joy. I asked her, “What made you
which extracurricular activities, home-
start going to bed at 10:00?” Her reply,
work, and undone chores interfere with
“Oh, I just got sick of falling asleep in
that time.
class all the time.” I’d like to think my
David Walsh, author of Why do They
efforts made her see the wisdom of a
Act That Way?: a survival guide to the
adolescent brain for you and your teen
good night’s sleep.
A word of caution, children who con-
(Free Press, 2004) suggests removing
tinue to have problems adjusting their
stimulation at night. “Limiting caffeinat-
sleep phase may be experiencing other
ed beverages, TV, video games, and
problems such as depression, school
phone after nine or ten can help con-
avoidance, or other medical issues which
vince the adolescent brain that it’s time
should be dealt with by your pediatri-
for bed. ...Quiet reading, quiet music,
cian.
and other mellow activities are good
ways to make the transition to sleep
As Patrick Friman so kindly reminds
us, “Children who have clearly set
time. She still may not fall asleep till
expectations, consistency in their sched-
eleven, but that’s a lot better than one
ules, and routine requirements (chores),
a.m.”
all established by or flowing from their
The truth is, we can do what we can to
parents, have much greater access to
set a climate for better sleep habits, but
happiness than children who are left to
as the AAP suggests, “A key to success
their own devices.” Do not give up! The
is requiring the teenager assume control
results, although sometimes long in
over her bedtime and waking...You can
even lead her toward a solution by
coming, are worth it.
explaining how to shift the sleep phase Copyright Martha Wegner
back, and you can provide the tools she martha@marthawegner.us
Martha Wegner lives in St. Paul,
needs, such as a clock radio and a loud
alarm...However, if the program is to Minnesota with her husband and 2 chil-
work, your teenager has to want to dren. To read more of her essays go to
www.marthawegner.us.
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Spinal Taps Carry Higher Risks for Infants
and Elderly, Study Shows
WINSTON-SALEM, N.C. –
An X-ray-guided spinal tap proce-
dure fails more than half of the time in
young infants and should be used spar-
ingly, if at all, for those patients, accord-
ing to a new study done by researchers
at Wake Forest University School of
Medicine.
The study also shows that the X-ray-
guided form of spinal tap, called fluo-
roscopy-guided lumbar puncture, caus-
es a doubling in risk of bleeding for
patients older than 80 compared to
younger patients and that the risk of
bleeding caused by the procedure can
be reduced by doing the puncture at the
middle of the lower back rather than at
the lowest levels of the spine.
The full study appears in this month’s
issue of the American Journal of
Neuroradiology, published by the
American Society of Neuroradiology.
“The purpose of this study was to
look at which factors related to doing a
spinal tap result in a greater chance of
bleeding caused by the needle,” said
Annette J. Johnson, M.D., M.S., the
study’s senior researcher and an associ-
ate professor of radiologic sciences.
“We are trying to figure out how to
minimize the number of times we cause
bleeding when doing this procedure.”
Fluoroscopy-guided lumbar punc-
ture is used most often to diagnose
patients who have sudden severe
headache, possible meningitis infection
or cancers around the brain.
Doctors perform this type of spinal
tap to analyze cerebrospinal fluid,
which can help determine why a patient
is sick. A patient who has a fever and
stiff neck, for example, might have
abnormal white blood cells in his cere-
brospinal fluid, indicating that the
symptoms are caused by meningitis,
whereas the cerebrospinal fluid of a
patient with a severe, sudden headache
might contain a significant amount of
blood, a sign of possible ruptured
aneurysm.
During the lumbar puncture, a small
needle is inserted into the patient’s
lower spine. Fluoroscopy is the use of
radiation in real time to take a picture
that more precisely locates where to
put the needle, avoiding bone spurs and
bony narrowings related to scoliosis.
Sometimes the placement of the needle
during the procedure causes some
bleeding into the cerebrospinal fluid.
This type of problem, seen in up to a
quarter of cases, makes it more difficult
to diagnose the patient, Johnson said,
because it is hard to determine if the
blood is a symptom of the condition or
a result of the lumbar puncture.
“Because cerebrospinal fluid tests
provide very valuable information in
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Wake Forest University Baptist
making the diagnoses of several serious cians choose at which levels to perform Medical Center (www.wfubmc.edu) is an
diseases – such as bleeding in the head, the procedure.” academic health system comprised of
cancer of the brain or spine, meningitis, Michael Y. Chen, M.D., also of the North Carolina Baptist Hospital, Brenner
infection of the brain, or multiple scle- School of Medicine, and Samuel D. Yu, Children’s Hospital, Wake Forest
rosis – and because obtaining the fluid M.D., of Indiana University School of University Physicians, and Wake Forest
involves insertion of a long needle into Medicine in Indianapolis, co-authored University Health Sciences, which oper-
the spine, it is important that we opti- the study, which received no external ates the university’s School of Medicine
mize the most safe and effective meth- funding. and Piedmont Triad Research Park.
ods of doing this procedure,” Johnson
said.
For the study, researchers reviewed
the files of more than 750 patients rang-
ing in age from less than 1 year to 90
years old. All had received a fluo-
roscopy-guided lumbar puncture in
emergency room, outpatient or inpa-
tient settings.
Results show that fluoroscopy-guid-
ed lumbar punctures failed in about 60
percent of the cases that involved very
young patients, meaning that no cere-
brospinal fluid could be obtained at all.
The needle caused bleeding into the
cerebrospinal fluid in about 25 percent
of the infant cases where the doctors
were able to obtain the fluid, according
to the study.
“This finding suggests that in infants,
physicians may opt to use ultrasound to
guide the needle for lumbar puncture
or work without the cerebrospinal fluid
Own it on
altogether,” Johnson said. “It’s just not
worth the radiation and high chance of
failure or bleeding that fluoroscopy-
guided lumbar puncture carries in these
very young patients.”
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For patients older than 80, the
researchers found that such bleeding
happened in about 26 percent of cases –
twice the rate seen in patients ages 1 to
80. Johnson said clinicians in those
cases should attempt to insert the nee-
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