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Light of Experience, by Neil Carter
Light of Experience, by Neil Carter
She won’t let me sleep and she doesn’t like my head she doesn’t
like me at all but she is with me not against me understanding though
they seem to want me dead gone out over there or anywhere anywhere
but here right here in the hole in my head the deep hole in my head that
goes down and down and dark and cold and where I live.
There is some neon there it lights the people like a film set and of
course like a film set it’s raining and the pavement is black and shiny
reflective gleaming. I put a cigarette out with the toe of my boot and
draw myself small inside the long black coat protects me from the cold
makes me feel old keeps me down I think I should burn it buy a denim
jacket or an old leather instead.
There is not much nice in the city everything that looks nice is
really corruption and greed and oppression. The people are not nice
either they don’t like me I can tell they whisper about me they don’t like
me at all I don’t belong here they say I am not like them too rich too poor
too straight too bent too effete too bitchy too stupid too bright too
colourful too happy too sad too lonely too tall. Yes they don’t like me at
all. I upset them.
In this place two in every ten people are real the rest are clones
stereotypes you can write them off dismiss them they are not important.
The two people left will be like you bewildered incredulous at the
idiocy that surrounds us amazed that people are inclined to accept the
ridiculous solutions that we are sold as sense.
Like the last time anyone used their imagination was a good twenty
years or so back then when there wasn’t a shoddy but convenient dull
answer for everything. We have taken the quick route and missed the
poetry all the quality all the intricacy has gone out of life. Minimalist
simplicity has won the day and our minds are enslaved and starving.
Modern life is meaningless the world has gone Formica the intricate
tapestry replaced by plastic moulding everything stripped down to the
noun
a chair
a table
oh god it’s awful the poet in me thirsts for some meaning anything
stimulating something with complexity something to puzzle over texture
the weave something that is not new and smooth and shiny something
real.
And I still moved forward and resisted the urge to simply rest and
reflect. A journey THROUGH life all the time searching and thirsting for
meaning. All the time amazed and astounded by the shocking greyness
of most people.
All that I’ve been through, many people would not have survived,
and I am not particularly tough myself.
I went out in the hot summer sunshine for about an hour that’s all
but had to flee inside as my head was burning and the razor cuts
combined with the acute sunburn was so painful. I likened it to being
stung on the scalp by a thousand angry wasps. I went inside and a kind
young nurse dabbed my head with cotton wool soaked in calamine and
with words of sympathy and her medical care my agony was soon
soothed. They dug out a baseball cap from the hospital stores after that.
And from then on every summer for years I always had baseball
cap, whatever the fashion.
In hospital there are days and nights when really nothing much
happens. These days are rare as mental hospitals are busy frenetic places
often full of people wailing people crying people fighting violent people
putting their heads through windows. But during those quieter times the
time I spent in hospital was not so unpleasant side effects aside.
Strangely it was usually the first few days or so that were often
quiet and event free so that, as I used to self-harm the peace came hand in
hand with care and good nursing for my cuts, gentle, tender nursing for
my physical injuries and peace and calm to soothe my mind of the horrors
that had caused me to lacerate myself.
One time my left forearm, the top of the forearm was an area of
slashed flesh four inches or so of red exposed raw flesh and congealed
blood, nurses would be very sensitive and almost maternal as they tutted
gently and cooed concerns “that looks a little infected”. They would
praise my courage as they dabbed the wounds with iodine and surgical
spirit.
My chest was badly cut one time I did it with glass if I remember
correctly, having locked myself in my bathroom in my flat with big
shards of broken milk bottle. I had smashed one in the back garden with
a brick for the express purpose of hacking away at myself later. Four,
five inch cuts below my nipples on my chest one each side, deep cuts that
bled voraciously for a short while then congealed and hardened into
scabs.
In the hospital they had said that it really needed stitches but they
didn’t stitch it because the scars would show much more if they had.
“They will scar” those kind nurses explained almost blaming themselves
or such was their tone, for any future scarring that would result. Almost
saying “we could’ve done better” which of course was patently not the
case, they really had done all they could.
I still have the scars on my chest on my arms, but they have faded
with some time, I suppose we all have scars anyway, some of them show
some of them don’t so much. As for the nurses, bless their hearts because
they care when you’d begun to think that nobody did.
The, sleeping for a while the cartoons became real in dreams and I
would wake laughing or with a jolt as Tom got his comeuppance smashed
in the face with a frying pan, his head used to be left frying pan shaped
and vibrating like a tuning fork.
These women amaze me, they’ve got a black eye and a broken
nose from the violent husband back at home and their primary concern in
hospital is keeping a maternal eye on the fifteen year old boy that’s on the
ward, in the hospital because he was homeless then he was sectioned and
the kids got a broken arm and she’s helping him with his bandages. Guts.
These women have Guts.
She tears me in two this girl this woman who I love she used to
love me she doesn’t love me anymore and yet we are still together sleep
together eat together walk together but always I know that she doesn’t
love me anymore it’s so hard to take I can’t win her back there’s nothing
I can do she doesn’t love me anymore and it’s awful. She tells me she
loves me but I know she doesn’t love me anymore the words are hollow
she is hollow I cried in my sleep last night it’s either hate that she feels
for me now or nothing at all she doesn’t love me anymore and though she
lies in my arms she’s not there and right now I just want my baby back.
And that thing I did to myself that hurt that really hurt I have never
known pain like that oh god it hurt I was just stuck there like a victim of
Vlad Dracul I couldn’t get free I was just stuck there and it hurt it hurt so
much inside myself awful pain like terror like fire like falling like dying
like torture like too much pain to much living too much modern life too
many old dusty blankets too many dingy refuges for too many dingy
people too many wasted people too many people who are only half a
person too many wandering half life shells too many people who never
come to anything wanderers lost egg shells broken lives hideous little
scenarios between people who don’t matter never did matter never will
matter dirty lost eggshell people half lives inconsequential half lives.
Such a shame that they should be like this poor broken fools.
But, you know, that’s just me being cynical. I always ended it, I
always initiated it and throughout I always controlled every more being
empowered like this gave me a huge buzz and what’s more it was always
me who decided that I had the power in the first place. It was a nice
game and I made the rules so I had to win I don’t lose for kicks, after all,
who does?
With girls it was always so much more complicated after all there
were two ego’s, the size of my own, at stake, with girls who wanted after
all much the same as the game I played with guys and although I could
quite happily provide and enjoy my ironic role reversal to Prince
Charming I soon tired of all that other stuff the talk of love and romance
the so predictable lines that had I not spoken myself so many times with
so many different blokes. When one has become an accomplished player
the game itself can lose its appeal I always knew what they would say
next and I always knew exactly what my line should be to achieve my
desired outcome.
And with girls a whole load of other stuff becomes important but
they don’t know how to bring all that stuff to the table and try as I might I
couldn’t help so I had a paralyzed women in my hands and there was
nothing she or I could do about it and they became suffocated and I felt
much the same to be honest and realised I wanted out and let them down
gently and went straight into the arms of the next guy every time. Love
had become demoted from a life for two to just a game for two to play
and somewhere along the line I seemed to have lost all capacity for
genuine feelings of romantic love it just ceased to happen for me I never
felt the feelings anymore the longing the excitement the buzz the agonies
the thrill the lovesick pangs of something approaching worship of another
human being. No one now was deserving of me as a lover to revolve
around them pandering to their every need, want, whim. No one is
deserving anymore these dusty freaks they just don’t deserve it buddy-
boy. People like these new dusty losers they just don’t offer me anything
like enough in return for the kind of love that we knew about all those
years ago. And until they do? I will wait and see.
I can’t forget you won’t forget you I love a lot of people those
days. A belief unshakeable that you had a light in your eyes like I had a
light in my eyes I did I had a light in my eyes and so did you don’t you
ever miss me like I miss you like missing an arm a leg an ear and eye?
Don’t you ever feel that for ME like I feel that for YOU?
I don’t understand how you could OT feel like that about me
from time to time because I know that you must because I KEW you, all
of you, I KEW YOU, all of you, I KEW YOU, the people I knew would
feel that cry from time to time about me try to find me from time to time
even in some pub to look for that guy with that look in his eyes.
The people I knew, they care, the people I knew would come and
find me put their arms around me stroke my say everything’s ok you’re
with your friends again now love is back in town now an end to all your
suffering the people I knew would not be able to stop themselves from
still loving me come looking for me, still wanting to be with me putting
their arms around me wanting to hear my laughter wanting to see my eyes
my hair my words my clumsy dance my beautiful ways of walking
talking loving thinking being oh yes if I ever knew you at all then you all
miss me as much as I miss you. No chance mate this may be hard to
understand, the dream I can’t control, my behaviour I can, yes I admit I
just don’t have enough of a grip I admit yet you tell me I am hip oh yes I
am so stupid although I am stuck with a bad man’s dream it seems but I
am not a bad man myself no not a bad man not a good man I am just a
madman I have never really hurt anyone like that but these people voices
they don’t leave me alone ever.
As for you well you are the future of love when did I ever tell you
that you cannot be free?
I can’t put the blame on anyone else and I’ve racked my brain but
it seems this thing really did begin with me. But all this time and even
now I am waiting for you to meet me halfway that’s all I’ve been trying
to say all this time listen the night may be dark with me but the sun still
shines all day for everyone.
They call this place a hospital! It’s filthy! There’s fag ash
everywhere diseases love this place they thrive here this place is filthy
this is no hospital! This place is like some mad opium den full of
diseases and vileness and insanity this is no hospital!
The young women are preyed upon by the nurses and the male
patients alike here the young guys get lectured here by the Christians and
have to hold their own with older crazies chock full of violence and super
strength that comes from a mind with no inhibitions where fighting is
concerned everywhere here the threat of impending violence hangs in the
air like an indoor riot might break out at any moment and this all the time
twenty-four seven to coin a phrase.
So very shy dig a big hole for myself die and throw myself in it
must remember always that if I go to a nightclub well only when I will
know at least five people who will be there otherwise it’s just a ridiculous
waste of time energy money everything.
And that’s when I got up to dance, enough said about that I feel but
honestly it’s no wonder I always danced not that it helped as regards
others you understand just that it helped to pass the time spent alone and
crippled with shyness and inhibitions.
Oh no, what am I doing here? Enjoy the next few moments, the
lynching is booked for this afternoon. Shall we do it again her body said,
might as well we spent all last night doing it, then I’d best be going I
think, by the way, is your father a violent man? Don’t answer that. That
terrible feeling oh lord I don’t really belong in a bed like this, oops!
Right let’s finish up then I’d really better gather my things and get going.
I believe in preserving all life, especially my own. Have a nice day!
Oh no! Finish up, best be going. No need for talking, look, please
always remember my name is John, John, always remember that name,
John… And always remember how very SMALL I am, and fair, blonde,
really BLODE, BLODE, and muscular, really muscular, always
remember that, bye then, have a nice time!
And then twenty years later you still can’t stop thinking about her
and what might have been, what you could have even now both of you
the one girl that really got to me, you know, she really got to me. Meet
her now, love and romance, love and romance, married, everything, yes
she really really got to me can’t stop thinking about her, never mind her,
tenderness, she was really beautiful and had an amazing personality a
wicked sense of humour, wicked figure, yes it’s true, it’s really true she
really got to me. And if you are reading this, look me up, only you, the
only one who ever got to me, look me up?
So keep your smart but casual fashions keep your worries of what
everyone will think bury your parents’ dreams that you would keep your
head down at all costs and never really live, because we suffered, we
achieved ecstasy, we knew life and death.
We knew pain, we knew joy and through all those pains always the
knowledge that it’s all good because despite everything and everyone we
are alive… even if we are a bit confused. Night jazz black leather
chrome song. Summer night chanting chanting moonlight moon vibe
people calling me over, over there. Speaking the word experience, in a
deep voice, having seen so much more.