I am not going to sit on my a** as the events that affect me unfold to determine the course of my life.

I'm going to take a stand. I'm going to defend it. Right or wrong, I'm going to defend it. - Cameron from Ferris Bueller's Day Off Find out who you are and do it on purpose - A Walk To Remember and no matter what happens to us in the future, everyday ive spent with you is the best day of my life How do you pick up the threads of an old life? How do you go on? When in your heart, you begin to understand, there is no going back. There are some things that time cannot mend, some hurts that go too deep... that have taken hold... - Frodo Baggins, The Lord of the Rings: The Return of the King Do you ever put your arms out and just spin and spin and spin? Well, that's what love is like. Everything inside of you tells you to stop before you fall, but you just keep going - Practical Magic Would you stop thinking about what everyone thinks? Stop thinking about what I want, What he wants. What your parents want. What do you want? What do YOU want!? - The Notebook When life makes you have to put up with mean and hateful people, think of them as sandpaper. They may scratch you, rub you the wrong way, but eventually you end up smooth and polished...and the sandpaper...its just gonna be worn out and ugly - The Fighting Temptations Movie I 'm tired of feeling bad. I'd rather feel nothing. It's better, it's easier - One tree hill The best moments in reading are when you come across something - a thought, a feeling, a way of looking at things - which you had thought special and particular to you. And now, here it is, set down by someone else, a person you have never met, someone even who is long dead. And it is as if a hand has come out, and taken yours. - The History Boys: The Film

So you failed. You wanna be really great? Have the courage to fail big & stick around. Make them wonder why you're still smiling. - Elizabethtown **its not about keeping the promises, its about following your heart. **a woman can tell when a man looks into her eyes and sees someone else. **love that awakes the soul, puts a fire in the heart and brings peace to mind. **with every great love, comes a great story. **summer romances begin for all kinds of reasons, but when all is said and done, they have one thing in common. they're shooting stars, a spectacular moment of light in the heavens, fleeting glimpses of eternity, and in a flash they're gone. - Noah - From "The Notebook" Never Love Someone If You Can Think Of 3 Reasons Why You Shouldnt. - bridget jones diary "Break the rules. Find your freedom. Live your life." W- Dirty Dancing - Havana Nights It's better to have something and not need it than to need something and not have it. - AVP Ben Calder: So if you're scared, why do it? Anna Foster: Because the things you're scared of are usually the most worthwhile All I'm saying is that somewhere out there is the man you are supposed to marry. And if you don't get him first, somebody else will, and you'll have to spend the rest of your life knowing that somebody else is married to your husband. - From "When Harry Met Sally" You want a man who will lead you down the beach with his hand over your eyes just so you can discover the feel of sand under your feet. You want a guy that will wake you up ay dawn just bursting to talk to you. Can't wait another minute to just to find out what you'll say. Am I right? - Ike- Runaway Bride

Everybody's afraid of something. That's how we know we care about things.... .... when we're scared to lose them. - from "The Shawshank Redemption" even a blind man can see that your beautiful - Hidalgo I love that you get cold when it's 71 degrees out. I love that it takes you an hour and a half to order a sandwich. I love that you get a little crinkle above your nose when you're looking at me like I'm nuts. I love that after I spend the day with you, I can still smell your perfume on my clothes. And I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to sleep at night. And it's not because I'm lonely, and it's not because it's New Year's Eve. I came here tonight because when you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible. - harry burns from when harry met sally This is your life and it's ending one minute at a time. - Fight club And I don't want you waking up one morning thinking if you'd known everything you might have done something different. - The Notebook And it doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get, or gyms you join, or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends... you still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood. And how in the hell for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy. And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he'll see the light and show up at your door. And after all that, however long all that may be, you'll go somewhere new. And you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again. And little pieces of your soul will finally come back. And all that fuzzy stuff, those years of your life that you wasted, that will eventually begin to fade. - The Holiday Everybody screws up. Thats what happens. Its what you do with the screw ups, how you handle the experience... Thats what you should judge yourself by... - Gilmore Girls When you fall in love it is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then it subsides. And when it subsides, you have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part."

- from the movie: Captain Corelli's Mandolin ..in seven days God created the world, in seven seconds I shattered mine.. - Seven Pounds Only you can make you wait nobody else can, you need to decide what you want and what your willing to give up to get it and than you got to be ok with it or you got to be ok with waiting. You wont get anything unless you ask for it and if you ask for it and you dont get it maybe it wasn't worth having in the first place. - Gilmore Girls Dear Holly, I don't have much time. I don't mean literally, I mean you're out buying ice cream and you'll be home soon. But I have a feeling this is the last letter, because there is only one thing left to tell you. It isn't to go down memory lane or make you buy a lamp, you can take care of yourself without any help from me. It's to tell you how much you move me, how you changed me. You made me a man, by loving me Holly. And for that, I am eternally grateful... literally. If you can promise me anything, promise me that whenever you're sad, or unsure, or you lose complete faith, that you'll try to see yourself through my eyes. Thank you for the honor of being my wife. I'm a man with no regrets. How lucky am I. You made my life, Holly. But I'm just one chapter in yours. There'll be more. I promise. So here it comes, the big one. Don't be afraid to fall in love again. Watch out for that signal, when life as you know it ends. P.S. I will always love you. - Gerry Kennedy (From the movie, P.S: I love you) I dont have what all those other girls have. I may not be as beautiful. But you know what I have , I have heart. & the worst part about having that , is people like you come along and break it. - -Halle Berry And I watch with a breaking heart as you slowly fade away. I find myself straining to remember everything about this moment, everything about you. But soon, always too soon, your image vanishes and the fog rolls back to its far away place and I am alone on the pier and I do not care what others think as I bow my head and cry and cry and cry. - Nicholas Sparks, Message in a bottle At times the world can seem an unfriendly and sinister place. But believe us when we say that there is much more good in it than bad. All you have to do is look hard enough. And what might seem to be a series of unfortunate events may, in fact, be the first steps of a journey. - Lemony Snicket's A Series of Unfortunate Events The heart wants, what the heart wants. - Victoria - A walk in the clouds

But sometimes what starts as a fling, can lead to the real thing. - Gossip Girl I'll be back so soon, you wont have time to miss me. Look after my heart. I've left it with you.. - edward - twilight saga I really dont know why I waste my time on you. Even when you lie and make excuses about everything, I still try. I guess I really do love you, even if you say I dont know what love is. But im not goin anywhere soo... Would you just be with me... Please - **Writtings from my Notebook** Life's too short to live the same day twice. - Jennifer Lopez(the movie Monster -In-Law) The mirror, Reflects our lives, Back to us, And shows us, What we look like, To others, But it doesn't show, What we look like, To ourselves, And it doesn't show, What's inside. It only shows, Things that shouldn't matter, To anyone - charmed Whatever you do in life is insignificant, but it is very important that you do it; Because nobody else will. Like when someone comes into your life and half of you says you're nowhere near ready, but the other half of you says : make her yours forever. - Remember me "It's a funny thing about comin' home. Looks the same, smells the same, feels the same. You'll realize what's changed is you." - Benjamin Button "When great love is rejected, something in a man dies. So the only thing he could do is run away and meet someone he loves 2nd most."

- "Win a date with Tad Hamilton" I think of you, I dream of you, I conjure you up when I need you most. This is all I can do, but to me it isn't enough. It will never be enough, it will never be enough, this I know, yet what else is here for me to do? If you were here, you would tell me, but I have been cheated of even that. You always knew the proper words to ease the pain I felt. You always knew how to make me feel good inside. Is it possible that you know how I feel without you? When I dream, I like to think you do. Before we came together, I moved through life without meaning, without reason. I know that somehow every step I took since the moment I could walk was a step toward finding you. We were destined to be together. - Nicholas Sparks, Message in a bottle If you want to be with someone, be with them. Dont make both people suffer by not being together. If you love eachother then acton it. Dont deny it. Love isnt something you plan, you just have to let it happen. So Please...Let it happen - **Writtings from my Notebook** Here's to the husbands who've won you, the losers who've lost you, and the lucky bastards who've yet to meet you. - The wedding date Love is patient, love is kind, love means slowly losing your mind - 27 dresses Love is like listening music from another room, you sing along, because you like the song, but then the door closes and a train passes by, you can't hear it anymore, but you keep singing the song.. then the door opens and you can finally listen again... - from Irressistible passion I'm Scared Of Not Being With You - Mandy Moore - A Walk To Remember Sometimes I feel like there's a hole inside of me, an emptiness that at times seems to burn. I think if you lifted my heart to your ear, you could probably hear the ocean. - Practical Magic It is only after we've lost everything that we are free to do anything - Fight Club do what you want, or forever wish you had.

- from awesome movie HAIRSPRAY "It's not about what happened in the past, or what you think might happen in the future. It's about the ride, for Christ's sake. There is no point in going through all this crap, if you are not going to enjoy the ride. And you know what... when you least expect it something great might come along. Something better than you ever planned for." - along came polly High Heels are a man's invention to make it harder for a woman to run away! - Shes the Man So how does it happen, great love? Nobody knows... but what I can tell you is that it happens in the blink of an eye. One moment you're enjoying your life, and the next you're wondering how you ever lived without them. - hitch All my life, everybody has seen me a certain way. What do you see? - Sisterhood of the traveling pants You can't help who you love, Derek. You're not supposed to. When you love somebody, you love them. Look at me. At least you found somebody who loves you back. I know what it's like to want to die.how it hurts to smile.how you try to fit in but you can't.how you hurt yourself on the outside to try to kill the thing on the inside. - Girl,interrupted I sometimes feel as if I'm invisible, as if no one can see me at all. - Kate- The lake house This is for us, for everyone who had an opportunity to become negative and decided to go the other way. For every father who had to be a mother and every mother who had to be a father, and everyone who had a dream and was told it couldn't happen. - The Pursuit of Happyness -Will u still love me in the morning? -For ever and ever babe

- Click "The secret to be special is, you have to believe that you're special." - Kungfu Panda "You must know, surely you must know it was all for you. You are too generous to trifle with me. I believe you spoke with my aunt last night and it has taught me to hope, as I scarcely allowed myself before. If your feelings are still what they were last April, tell me so at once. My affections and wishes have not changed. But one word from you will silence me forever. If, however, your feeings have changed I would have to tell you, you have bewitched me, body and soul...and I-I love-I love you. I never wish to be parted from you from this day on." - Mr. Darcy from Pride & Prejudice Nothing is perfect... the sooner you accept ir, the happier you'll be. - Five Senses you did the best you could. that's all a person can do. - meredith grey (grey's anatomy) I sit here with the fone in my hands. Im thinkin of calling you, again. I can pictue you smiling that little smile rite before your face breaks into this perfect grin that lights up my world. And for thise few seconds, everything is okay. But then im zapped back to reality. I find myself sitting here, smiling, with the fone in my hands. I MISS YOU!! - Ashley E What you feel only matters to you. It's what you do to the people you love. That's what matters. That's the only thing that counts. - Stephen (the last kiss) " I can be anything you want. Just tell me what you want, and i'll be that." - A walk to remember Doesn't every girl just want that relationship that they see in the movies, you know the one where you sneak behind everyone's back just to spend time with the one you love because you love them so much you're willing to lie to everyone to just be with them. - LTG93 "And me, I still believe in paradise. But now at least I know it's not some place you can look for, 'cause it's not where you go. It's how you feel for a moment in your life when you're a part of something, and if you find that moment... it lasts forever..."

- The Beach What if you meet the love of your life, are you supposed to let them pass you by? - He's Just Not That Into You only you could be more important than what i wanted.. what i needed. what i want and need is to be with you and i know i'll never be strong enough to leave you again... - - edward (twilight saga) It has no time limit. You can start whenever you want. You can change or stay the same, there are no rules to this thing. We can make the best of it or the worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things that you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life youre proud of. And if you find youre not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again. - The Curious Case of Benjamin Button i figured if maybe my heart stopped beating it wouldnt hurt so much *from "Hitch" I'd rather do nothing and be happy than do something I know I don't love. - Jack- What Happens in Vegas "What no-one ever sees is that there's this whole other part of me that's just like you: quiet, and-and stubborn, and afraid of showing too much... and then I met someone who changed everything and he showed me that I can take a chance even when it's only for a moment..." -- Lena; from the film: Sisterhood of the Travelling Pants 491 I know what you're looking for, some sort of closure. Something to ease the pain, but closure doesn't exist. You're going to feel this in some form or another forever because that's how it feels... when you loose the love of your life. And even if you could wake up tomorrow and not feel this pain, you wouldn't really want that either. Because that hurt is the most sure reminder you have of what he truly meant to you. And that, you won't ever want to forget. - Michael Raines-Raines 2007 Sometimes in life there really are bonds formed that can never be broken. Sometimes you really can find that one person who will stand by you no matter what. Maybe youll find it with a spouse and celebrate it with your dream wedding. But there is also the chance that the one person you can count on for a lifetime, the person who knows you, sometimes better than you know yourself, is the same person who has been standing beside you all along. - 'Bride Wars

Some wounds are too deep or close to the bone, no matter how hard u work at it....u just cant stop the bleeding. - Million Dollar Baby "I rather be his whore than your wife." - Rose, the Titanic I'm sorry for a lot of things, but most of all that I never got the chance to tell you that, no matter what happens next, I'll never be anything but grateful for every moment I spent with you. And even though I keep fumbling for the right words, all I really wanted to say was thank you. - -from the land of women "Do you know what it's like to wake up every morning and the love of your life is with someother person, but still hope they find happiness even if it's not with you??" - Albert on Hitch I'm going to wait for you, but it's going to be hard since you live so far away. I'm going to miss you so much, but just remember I really do love you and will never forget you and will always be there waiting for you. - Emmy It's more that I'm afraid of time, and not having enough of it. Time to figure out who I'm supposed to be, to find my place in this world before I have to leave it. I'm afraid of what I'll miss. -THE SISTERHOOD OF THE TRAVELING PANTS