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190 Johanne Marie Nielsen Vibbert Larsen Chapter
190 Johanne Marie Nielsen Vibbert Larsen Chapter
Studio Portrait
In spite of mama’s heavy work she would always come to tuck us in and usually read
something from the Bible and also “turned us in.”
Charlie was more of a problem for her, wanting to do things or go out with other boys that she
felt wasn’t good for him. I remember hearing her praying aloud after we were all in bed, and
while she may have been praying in Danish, I always thought she was praying mostly for him.
You also see a picture of Laurits Kristian Larsen in his chapter. I include it here because we
have few other pictures to show the shared life of Marie and Laurits. It must have been a busy
life. Marie bore four children and was four months pregnant with the fifth, Lily Laurene, when
Laurits died.
The group picture of the children must have been taken in mid 1896 shortly before Laurits
died. I assume this date because it seems consistent with the apparent age of the children. It
also seems likely that Marie would have been too busy after the loss of her husband to arrange
a studio photo.
We have seen that Marie could be tough. Remember when she told Laurits that his girl friend
was pregnant? Laurits’ death must have tested Marie more than anything in her life. She had
four young children and a fifth in her womb. Farming is hard work and scratching a living out
of an 80-acre hill farm is really hard work. The house was not truly finished nor perhaps most
other buildings on the farm. Fortunately by September most of the harvest was in. Still it
must have been a grim Thanksgiving and a sad Christmas. We can be sure that neighbors and
relatives helped. Family lore has it that Walter and Mabel went to live with neighbors and
Marie set out to run the farm with the help of her two oldest children, Charles and Josephine.
It was hard, so hard that Charles, who was expected to be the man of the house, left as soon as
he could.
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Marie eased the problem by employing a hired
man. In 1904 she did what many farm women
have done before and since: She married the hired
man. You see him, Anton Naderer, in this picture.
Anton was good man; quiet and hard working.
Some years before he fled some part of the
Austrian Empire to avoid universal military
service. He was Catholic, Marie, Protestant, and,
like all stepfathers before and since, he wasn’t
father. [Could this be part of the reason Charlie
left home?] When I was growing up on the
Laurelview farm Anton and Marie lived in a small
house about 500 feet downhill from the large
house where my family lived. My sister, Jean,
told me years later that Anton and Marie had
separate beds. I hadn’t noticed, proving once
again that little boys are socially unconscious.
We should remind ourselves as we look at the next
pictures showing Grandma Naderer as an
indulgent grandmother that she was one tough
woman. She continued to direct the lives of her
children.
1904
Anton Naderer and Marie Larsen become
Anton and Marie Naderer
Studio Photo 1904
Helen Mae Meeker tells us this from Mabel Larsen’s diary: One of the memories was that
Mabel’s Mother grew popcorn and all the neighborhood enjoyed the popcorn! They also grew
grapes and almonds. The almond trees grew behind the old “red” shed (that shed is still
there). The only pond in the neighborhood that was big enough to swim in was behind what is
now Reba Jo’s house. It has since grown up to willows, but the spring is still good. It was
quite the gathering place in the
summer.
I remember a barrel in the basement where she brewed the vinegar and the ash pile in the back
yard where she used to get the lye for the soap she made with lard from the farm’s pigs. She
made and canned spiced crab apples and gooseberries. The very thought of them still sets my
saliva glands a tingle.
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I remember that at
Christmas time Gramma
would have us all hold
hands in a ring around
the Christmas tree and
dance around it as she
sang an old Danish
Christmas song. Of
course Gramma was the
magnet that brought our
cousins to Laurelview on
Thanksgiving day. What "Grandma” Naderer (age 67)
John Watkins (4), Jean Watkins (2).
wonderful celebrations
1928
those Thanksgivings Lily Watkins Photo
were!
Daughter Lily remembers: She was the mainstay of the Laurel Evangelical church and kept
it going for years by soliciting help from the neighborhood. I think they paid the preacher
about $100 a year. He preached there every other Sunday, but we had Sunday School every
Sunday and she was the Sunday school superintendent as well no doubt as a teacher. When
uncle Pete helped establish the Baptist church on the hill above Laurel [south] he wanted her
to leave the Evangelical church and join them, but she wasn’t about to do that. So the Laurel
church has still survived though it is now the Laurel Community Church, with no one
denomination having the “ruler.”
We sometimes drove to the church with the old “hack.” But often walked too, but were always
there, rain or shine. At times when we had no preaching service and the Baptist church did,
we walked to it after our Sunday School, thus working together.
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To market the farm produce, potatoes, etc, she would start with team and wagon before dawn,
put the horses up at a livery station on Front St. Then, after delivering or selling produce, we
would all do a little “luxury” shopping. I remember getting 10 tiny [1 inch] dolls for a penny
[or 10©] Mama sometimes bought some extra furniture if she could afford it. She made butter
which she exchanged for groceries at the Laurel “General Merchandise” store. Having
learned how to make GOOD butter in Denmark, there was always a demand for her butter.
She had an embossed design in wood which she pressed into the end of the 2 lb roll.
She rests in the Mount Olive Cemetery on a hill less than a mile from the place she made home
—our home.