Reading Group Guide

Gorgeous Lies

By Martha McPhee

About the book:

Acclaimed by critics, Martha McPhee’s debut Bright Angel Time established her as a dazzling new
talent in American fiction; she fulfills her promise and breaks ambitious new ground with Gorgeous
Lies. Charismatic therapist Anton Furey is dying, and the tribe he heads-his five children, his wife”s
three, and their uniting child, Alice-has returned to Chardin, the farm where they grew up and played
out Anton’s vision of communal living. They had been famous for being the new American blended
family, their utopian lifestyle chronicled by film crews and reporters. But as Anton grows weaker, the
hurts and betrayals of those years boil to the surface, and the children find themselves reliving the
knotty intimacies they share as they struggle to make their peace with Anton. With shimmering prose
and an acutely observant eye, McPhee has created a portrait of an era and a family that explores
the limits, and obligations, of love.

About the author:

Martha McPhee is the author of Bright Angel Time, a New York Times Notable book, and coauthor
with Jenny and Laura McPhee of Girls. She teaches at Hofstra University and lives in New York City.

Discussion Questions:

Q. Gorgeous Lies opens with the statements: "They loved Anton. Every single one of them." How do
Anton’s wife, former wife, children, step-children, and others show that love? How is each person’s
love for Anton unique? What obstacles or contraries are there to the love each has for Anton?

Q. There is a saying that "you can take the man out of the Jesuits but you can’t take the Jesuits out
of the man." How applicable is this saying to Anton and his life during all the years after he leaves
the Jesuits? What is the role of religion and faith in Anton’s life and the lives of his children and step-
children?

Q. What is the effect of the author’s narration of events out of chronological sequence? How does
McPhee influence our responses to characters and events by shifting among various levels of time,
ranging from Anton’s childhood to the months and years following his death? How might McPhee’s
storytelling technique reflect the dynamics of thought, feeling, and memory within the Furey-Cooper
family?

Q. What is the extent of Anton’s control over the members of his family? How would you explain the
power of his personality and the willingness of all family members to focus on him before themselves
and their own needs? How true is the statement that "this was not, under the reign of Anton, ….a
society of individuals"? How would you describe "the reign of Anton"?

Q. We are told that everyone in the Furey-Cooper household "had at least one lock on his or her
door" and that "all over the house, as it happened, there were keys." What is the significance of
locks and keys in relation to each family member? What kinds of psychological and emotional locks
does each install, and what is the provenance of the "rainbow of keys" in relation to those locks?
What "master key" might exist to all those locks, and who possesses that key?

Q. What is the significance of the statement that long ago Agnes "had accepted and forgiven"
Anton’s betrayals? What instances of betrayal and of acceptance and forgiveness are there in the
novel? What importance does McPhee place on forgiveness and reconciliation?

Q. We are told that fairy tales are Alice’s belief; "her father always taught her to believe in the
possibility of the impossible." To what extent has this been Anton’s primary teaching to all his
children and step-children? How has belief in the possibility of the impossible influenced all their
lives, including those of Anton and his wives? Under what circumstances might it be advisable or
appropriate to believe in the possibility of the impossible"?

Q. In his 1971 proposal for establishing "an organic community," Anton states that "we hope to grow
by giving up our manipulative, dishonest game playing." To what extent does this actually happen?
What instances of manipulation and "game playing" occur? To what extent does "manipulative,
dishonest game playing" affect every family, and how might it be corrected?

Q. How does Anton’s attitude toward sex and sexuality, sexual repression, and sexual expression
determine his behavior within the family? To what extent are his theories a justification for, or
rationalization of, his own behavior? What do the excerpts from his notes reveal about his thinking
and his attitudes?

Q. As Anton approaches and then suffers through his final illness, he thinks about his still-unfinished
book, with its various titles. Why do you think Anton never finishes his book? What is the significance
that, in Alice’s view, the book "added up to this-a few collages and crates of notes, more debris at
the foot of his deathbed"? How should we understand Eve’s final thoughts?-"His book was all around
her. His book was here. It was him, and she defied the wind to tell her that that wasn’t something."

Q. Saying goodbye to her father, Alice thinks, "For twenty-five years this family has tried to be a
family." In what ways has the family succeeded or failed? Why has it fallen upon Alice, the youngest,
to be her family’s "savior"? Why do you think it falls upon her to be the one to "kill" her father? Is her
action justified? Why does Alice refer to the Anton to whom she administers the morphine as "this
imposter"?

Q. In what ways is the story of Anton and the Furey-Cooper family an illustration of "lives affecting
effecting infecting other lives"?

Q. "What is it we all want anyway?" Sophia asks, and then answers her own questions: "Love, of
course. We all want love." How does McPhee present the theme of everyone”s desire to be loved?
What efforts are made to capture the love of others and to love others? What other desires and
needs interfere with the giving and receiving of love? How does the desire to be loved differ from the
desire to be needed?

Q. What "gorgeous lies" characterize the life of the Furey-Cooper family over the years? When do
those lies occur, and why? Why do they take on such importance? Which family members are most
emphatically associated with the gorgeous lies of the novel’s title? In what ways are these lies
"gorgeous"?