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Preface
We have got to build a better individual before we build a better society. 'Ihis is a truth to live by, The modern man caught in a world of crashiog values has become a part of the madding crowd. He is wholly ignorant of his power to shape his own destiny and that of society. Orly individuals who have developd their own potential can contribute to the welfare of others. Flistory is replete with examples of persons who cultivated their qualities of head and heart to be able to help thqii fellowcountrymen. Several factors go into the devel,opment of human faculties which constitute a person's personality. Certain habits have to be cultivated through regular study and consistent effort. For intellectual development it is necessary to read widely. Propercare of health is essential for physical well$eing. Appreciation of beauty and cultivation of a taste for the fine arts contribute to aesthetic development. Love, friendship and happiness are among the ingredients of all-round development of personality.
AU these elements of self-developmenf -...; beauty, books, have love, friendship, health, happiness, music and others been treated exhaustively in this book

constitute the quintessence of wisdom of over five thousand years ctrlled from nearly three thor.r,sand books in a study lasting fifty-six years: a self-assigned project dedicated to a portrayal of the beauty, truth and joy of life.

'Ih- 'ese

Under all these subject heads, the reader may add knowl"dge gathered by him from his own readin g;for what is said is more important than who said it.

his life-ti*g" gtudy. It will grve him immense pleasure to know that he has been benefited by it.
O.P. GHAI

The author has thproughly enjoyed readiog books all his life which has enabled him to compite the prsent work His only desire is to share with the readlr whathe has learnt from

Acknowledgement
I exprGs my deep debt of gratitude to all the writers and

poets who have inspired me all my life, especially those whose rryritings have been included in this book
As the matter has been collected over a period of fifty-six years, it was not possible to identify ail fhe passages and Poems. If any copyright material figures in thebookind this

fact is brought to the notice of the compiler, immediate acknowledgement wrtt be made in the next edition after
taking due pennission.
O.P. GHAI

Contents
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B00KS

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HEALTH

MUSIC
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LOVE
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LIFE

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BEAUTY

Youth is luryy because it has the ability to see beauty. Anyone who ?,erys the ability to see buuty neoer grous old. Franz IGfka

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Beauttttlthhgs
BeautiLl faces are those that Wear
It matters little nf dark Or fair

whOle,sOuled honesty pHnted there.

Beautittl ey are those that show Like Ftal panes,lereheartM es glow

Beautittl though that bum below

Beautihl PS are t se whOSe wOrds

Yet whOse utterance pndence girds Beautinl hands are thOsl that do

Leap om the heart hke SOngs of birds

Work that hon t and bFaVe and tru% Moment by momentthe bng ttly thFOugh Beautinll t are those that go On Hnd mn tO and Don lowhest waysr r cod winsits
Beautinll shouldett are those tht bear

Ceaseless brdens of homely care With Pathnt graceand dai prayer.

Beauti11v are those that bl Silent vett of happin s

ose lttden founhins butfo may gu s

Beautttlt ghtatset orsunr Bmutin goal th race wen won

Bmutim restv th woFk Wen done.
Beautinl gmv"where grasses creep b hed Where brown leaves wherel P oh!beautiAi sleep! Over womout Lttnd

EIra Po AIIgr

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Sublilme
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Blau iS

fomd eve=Prhere h itS physkal fO BOauty su hne as Cod has mde it is round about mano The world haut 1l and dehghthL in SPite Of the several woes that maybein hfe.There t ththeg lden moHttthebeauty of the day and the coloutt oftin the sky as the sun P PS Out showing ie beaut an4 in whterr We have the beautttl the vaneysrthe mountars the httthe mbt overthe tre( ean and over the mOnuments that bok most beautinl
amttstthe beauty thatis in the mist.

As one gets up in the early momngr one ttesth, rds ts m prayer to Cod by their melodbus ChTln and wht a supreme pleasure it to hear the sweet melody ofthe ch=phg birds!When one gets to his momingteapo whata beautythat b in the vev mking Of the pot what a beauty in the mps and tm milk J when oneprays whata sPm lbeauty itis Pmye3 iftheSebe
rising in thdr n

a tme medihtion over NahlFs beauty and thattgivmg

for God s FaCe! dtt 11lo wanderin the Hbw ttau

on holidays or

to have the blessings or s litude amidst mllagnifi ent

of his creahttres! How magnincent alsO the mn made

mottmenthkethlTttMaha10f4gra a dream m marbL lookingmost ghmorousmderthebeautimligh16fthemll Moon.H6w beautm even a smn hut by the side of a
valleyr almttbtthe nstt Cham all around!

HowbeautinlbttL and thebeautythatb anaround if mg m itthe man could only bualbe anc apprmate
greatn"s of the Creator!But the great t beauty that

which Pttedsfrom on si" set the selfthat

tmth love
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mlof

hd less

and benevolenc the beauty that

emanates ttom the good soul.

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Things beautiful
Swift things are beautiful: Swallows anddeer, And lightning that falls Bright-veined and clear,
Rivere and meteors, Wind in the wheat, The strong-withered horse, The runners' sure feet.

- slow swifh

And slow things are beautiful: The closing of day, The pause of the wave That curves downward to spray The ember that crumbls, The opening flower, And the ox that moves on In the quiet of power.
Elizabeth Coatsworth

The essence of beauty is harmony

What the artist creates is beauty. And the essence of beauty is harmony. Beauty is not a veneer upon things; it is not skin deep; it is not something added to make an ugly thing acceptable.,It belongs to the nahrre of the thing made. More, it flows from the heart of the artist. Beauty is' the equilibrium between contrasting poles. So what itre artist always aims at are those things that make a balanced life. He himself makes harmony in what he does, and his work creats harmony in all who behold it.
Beauty is the gift of God.
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Beauty a,a shield

l wnl hold beauty as a shield aFinst d pa
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Whem my heartfaint,I win remember sights llke the :. A Path thrOugha dim fOrest hushttland Sweet
Lit by one amber beam thatfen aslant, ,Foam silver hced alo g a curving wave,

Sprawled golden hins with shadows like sP

lC1l

inc

And snownakes lling

on a bnely pine.

The dawning wonderin a hb/S faCe

The b e in

a weary Wantonl,smit The galhnt challenge of a cnPpl sIinr

mg for,ver blodies tlttt are Straigh le ttghting cowage ina moth s eyes

E mes.If you le longtt l ttve the more beautinl ltt b foolishly ignorebeauty yOu wm s n nd yOwselfwithout
ito Your l=b 1l be impoverished.But if you invest h
beauty it w l

When she waib brac4 tl meet birth gr pmg Pai" heshy adOJng Ofe bOy SA"t love e eager beauty of his first de Aga tsome vong which he alone m nght1 The tolerance that sometim comes with age. EIs Ro" s Within man is the soul ofthe whol%the w e silenc the un emlbeaut,to whthevlvPattandiPartth equally relatd the etemal oneo When ttibrmthes through ittb intenect it geni ,when it breath through his wnL it On it is love. JuC When it ows through hisaI

remain th you allthe days of yourlife. FrattLttd

-QuretforDanlogrtent Eternal beauty The whole se" ofremmmg yOung m sPite Of yearsrand
even of grey haiB b to chettsh enthusiasm in on ett by
poetry

in fewer by contemphtion by charity that

words by the maintenanCe of ha...lony in the soulo When evefythingisinib ghtplacewithnus weou el, are m

equilibrium with the WhOle WOrk OF cod.Deep and grave enthusia m for the etemal beauty and the eteml ordeL reason t6uched with emotion and a serme tendem(Bs of heart these surely are the foundations ofttome HFF A ligI

Ettd it ever strke you tht goodne" is not merely a beautinl ng but by far the most beautin thing h the

1 1,C :: leamin hhavttg

' the WhOle worldand allin it are not wO in compan30,With bd g good,and the utterly best thhg
fo=a lnan ib tO be good even though he w re never to be

rewardd forit.

Cttrra KliFgs

4nthingSb ght and beautthL An creatu mtandsmL An things wbe and wOnderm ne Lord Cttmadethem an.
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God bause Thou laSt empoWerdi man we adOre to crate beauty.OurevewsenseLCOttlousof utyin

the EFuFenl col_1 the sOund Ofa tunenl

the touch orsott HhenJ

0 nr

the odor ofcholce permme the Lvor of g00d fOod.

AIshowbmutyto theSensitwesoull

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- day Beautiful things of eveqF

The things of every day are all so sweetThe morning meadolvs wet with dew, The dance of daisies in the noory the bhre Of far-off hills where twilighfs shadows lie; The night, with all its teruler mysterie of sound And silence, and God's starry'skyl Oh, life--the whole of life--is far too fleet. The things of every day are all so sweet.

How beautiful is the rain! After the dtrst and heat, In the broad and fie$r street, In the nturow lane, Howbeautifulis the ra4!

Hmry wadsworthlongfelloat
My heart leaps up when I behold A rainbow in the sky'
winiam worirsworth

A thing of beauty is a joy foreve4 Its loveliness increases; it will never Pass into nothingness.
Iohn l<rzlts

It is God who makes woman beautiful, makes her

Prett''

it is the devil who

victor Hugo

There are no ugly womery there are only women who do not know how to look pretty.
There is no cosmetic for beauty like happioes$L

When a man's pursuit gradually rnakes his face shine and grow handsome, be sure it is a worthy one. WiWinmlama

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Beauty:6ne ofthe mostim,oFtant th gS

For lne beauty is one of the inostimportant things in hfe. Or

perhaps I mean an awareness of beautyo lt is everything from the wa..il senSuOus beauty Of woma the ttagil who is life itSelt tO the liquu rhythm of mus neeting 10 eune" f daybreat the ter ble malesty of a

sto

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A plchre a poent the open 10ok Ofa chi

E Po

MorgaF

Lovlliness a=d beauty

l cOuld nlver persuade myser t t an the beau ,f th"
world

whetherin the makinglof n haS COntHved wonders that smple things Or in music and the arts I could ever pl uade mySdfthat an this loveliness and beauty ha,n,

an the,yS OfhumancOmpanbnship orthedelights One finds hl the loveune" Of the count=ysidc, an the

and that wewerenothtended t6take our lthtin itto the hu:and that we and Others are not bette we wo ld say for SO dO
partin the scheme ofthings

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Beauty and ittag atbn

And th good and ld ,O With the ugly and the autint these t are Subi t e and PersOnal tel

wh h nung atthe univers%wnl be retumed tO the sender ulhonored.I would Wa ylu t at l dO not att hte lo
nature therbeauty rdefomity 0 er 6rc lftti91

indationto ourimJmtionCanthingsbecaudbeaut1 or ugl weneOrderd orco

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Beauty40 nOtlPttSthrough thl gate oftheintell

its ownisholrt cut tO the soul.

:It has

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Beauty secrets

Every woman should make an effort to retain beauty and attractiveness; she should never fall below the high standard of good looks or be careless in her outward app.earance. The true woman, when true to herself, is sweet, wholesorl, refined, and the embodiment of womanly beauty. Higher education and advanced thought have not effaced the higher ideals and greater priVilegeJ of feminine graciousness, pois, and charm. Beauty is more than regular features face, lovely -a oval mouth, and flashing eyes; beauty is also way of walking smoothly, easily, and perfectly; well-knit, in an equally proportioned, streamlined, and perfect figure. Correct walking, balanced bieathir& right eating, good posture, clear thinking, are five basic essentials for gtowing health, radiant life and beautiful wornanhood.

The most beautiful people

The most beautiful people in the world are those whose Personalities have 6ee" mellowed and softened by the passing of many years. They radiate wisdom and tolerance and tranquillity. In their days they have known laughter and tears, joy and heartbreak, pain and ecstasl; their lives have been enriched by each as it came in turn. And now, seasoned by all the experiences [fe has offered, they are living in their Golden Years. Of all the beauty in the world, none is greater than theirs.

It is said that a good woman inspires a man, a britliant

wornan interests him, a beautiful woman fascinates him, but &sympathetic woman gets him.

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at is chainn?
Chal.ilisthemeasure Ofattractionrs power
To chain the neet g fancy ofan hOur And val allthe spe1l of Beaut/S dOWer A subtle grace of heart and nind that If not the Fairest thotthe garden knows.

ows

With tactfulbympathy,the sweetest rose A quick Ponsivenes h word and deed

A dignity and stateliness at need

ThO willtO fonow orthe arttO lead:

Sheto whom th most gracious gittis knOwn

Has life s great potent factor for her own

4nd ml ahke

the cottage and the th ne. Loztt Orrorr tt

Cha...land bea ty
charm i3 an undefinable so
definitionand erapingsPl il exPhnation. The cha...l ofa smile seen theglanCeOfbrightey cha.i.lis seen in e glowing COmplexlonr Which the dirct
9thing

transcending

that never fails to attract attention and win the admiration of all whO are privneged to hear them.Cha...1 and
beauty are a tlttnity ofPOWer`

giftofadttnb100dstream undeFa WleS Skin hammg p90Ple have a uniqie appeal t9 eVeryoneo There is something in the Ane tones Ofthdr vo h whatthey sa"

PO

I have seen P"Ple whO exercbe allthe fine quaht s of mind and the rare quahties of soul achieve success where
othe have failed.

The mltivation ofcham ib in acqung a fhe mind a good re and a radia,t complexion which are the
evidences ofinte or health in extemal exPressiOn,

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Charm is magnetic
Charm, the irresistible power to please and attract, is evident in one who possesses what is known as a magnetic personality. It is magnetic because it attracts and draws people to its Posseisor. A charming Personality valuable asset, for with it we are capable of winning friends
and attracting others to lls. A charming, winning, pleasin& magnetic Personality is deep rooted in the heart and soul qualities of the individual. All i*e charm has its origin within. It consists of character, wealth, love, fondness for others, and all the other positive principles which enable one to radiate the true self. Wa cannot gain a charming Peronality merely by putting on the mask of chann. We mwt work on the source bf o*letsonality. We must work on the within of us. Our quality of attraction depends on the kind of magnet we make of ourselves. The quantity of attraction depends on the strength or power that we give to it. The greatest thing in life should be to develop ourselves into fullness by calling out all the hidden beauties of our being.,In so doin& we attract others to us and become useful beings for the social order of man. Charm is a virtue of the hear$ not of the face or figure.
Beauty without virttre is a flower without Perfume.

Over the greatest beauty hangs the greatest ruinReal beauty is the beauty of the soul.
I

Do you know the differgnce between a beautifui w:rnan and'a charming one? A beauty in a woman you notice; a clurmer is one who notices You

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i ChaHn

and nO didionary

Cham is an alhrin3 elusive something

can dettne ite Cha...l it haS been sand is greater than

wlsdom.It the adomlmEnt oftheomalnen fOr uthoutit

the omalnent has no glam ri Cha.i.lis l greater conqueror than courage itlaughsatleamlngand defies r ttomng.Ifa

woman attracts men she has sex appeat if she attmFts WOttL Style if She attFaCtS eve= kdy Cham.

and evev generous The fbuntain of beauty is the hea thOughti nlus,rat the wal of yOur chambero lf 3 beauty it is the heart paFadiSC if vice be accompa cated th it itis the sOul s lttrgatOry,Itis the wbe mn s bOnfire and the r rs hmace. : F Q

me

For every bttuty the lneyes ewhere t,see it. For every tmth there ns an f tr sOmOwhere to hear
.

F9revery10Ve there

ce e it aleatts6mewhereto

Butthough my beavty meet no e e it Stin doth g10W Ough my tmth meet nO earitst l doth shhe. But when m 10Ve meetS n,heartit can Only br k
" Theaesthett asP OfhVmg should abo phya dgn lein the art of good ving.ble for the beautiml and the subume bve for nOwersr desigttg aFtiSttanyr fOndn fOrhObbi suCh as Paintin dttwm phOtograph music j and the nic enable mn to bea

Pa

"liaF and tt

So many beautinll women and"httle time.

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Two kinds of beauty

We have our outward appearance; our inward appearance. Don't be concerned about the outward beauty that depends on iewelry, or beautiful cloths, or hair u,*t ge*.ilt. Be beautiful inside your hearts, with the lasting charm of a gentle and quiet spirit which is so precious to God.

Many attempts have been made to define and describe Beauty it terms of something else. Thrrs fitness, suitability and utility were regarded as the elements of Beauty by Socrates and Berkeley. Harmor/r proportion, orderr'and symmetry have been emphasized by Aristotte and Kant. 99"9*.nce of parts and unity have been indicated by Schiller, Hume, S. Alexander, and Langfeld: unity of fonn and unity of content. AU such doctrines are irrelevant and s_uperfluous, as they attempt to represent Beauty as dependent on somethirg that is not Beiuty.
Since God has this wonderful

world created

with beauty around and pleasures related,

'Tls needless to renounce these and other gifts Whish, when in moderation had, are life's-lifts; And oneshould, with virhre, his lifesublime make, And let the world all his benevolence take.
As the bee collects nectar and departs without iniutirg the flowet, or itscolour or scent, so let a person collector see the beauty of a wornan without iniurini her in the least.

look fora lovely thing and you will find it,

It is not fa1It never will be far '
sara Teasdale

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Beauty is an all-per:yading presence

presence. It unfolds to the numberless flowers of the spring; it waves in the branches of the trees and the green blades of grass; it harurts the depths of the earth and sea, and gleams out in the hues of the shell and the precious stone. And not only these minute objects, but the ocean, the mountains, the clouds, the heavens, the stars, the rising and setting sun, dll overflow with beauty. The Universe is its temple; and those men who are alive to it cannot lift their eyes without feeling themselves encompassed with it on every side. Now this beauty is so precious; the enjoyments it gives are so refined and pure, so congenial with our tenderest and noblet feelings.

Beauty

is an all-pervadit g

Beauty is not beauty if it lasts forever. There is beauty in the appreciation of beauty.
ShuIIey Rolnmum

There's beauty all around our paths, if but our watchful eyes can trace it 'midst familiar things, and through their lowly guise.
Hemans

I pray Thee, O God, that I

*ay be beautiful within.

Socrates

Irnagination disposes of everything: it creates beauty, justice and happinss-which is everything in this world.
Poscal

A handsorne wornan is a jewe[ but a god wornan is a

treasure'

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G e me beauty in the inward soul

Cive me beauty in the lward souli and lnay the inneF and

the outer be at one.May l consider wisdom to be wealtL and letmehave onlyasmuch g ld as atemperateman and Onl,he mn bear and carry.Ths prayeL Ithink b enough
for me

Soc

Cult ate youF taSte for lrt end yOu wm etty hfe tO itS 1llest lneasure` If you sta e your senses in the a d

PaStW Of the COmmonplace yol" StaSy ofenloying beauty.

l never knOW the

If wittes mustbe w tten On Our b wsrletthem nOt be

witten on the heart,The sPirit ShOuld not grow old.

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Lch conceptbn ofsPi tual beatt,is a glimPse of Go lssJ: Mos M

Teach us that wealth is ot elegance that p fusion

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magnincenc that sPlendOr b nOt beauty

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s oflife in dl Withouta polpantc6nscb ness ofthe go y ghmpse without some da thdr freshntt and intensity
of beautyr Some exprettsion of tendeme" and Stir of

in galety and laughteL Some qu ettng Ofrhythm,ld music 6 very h anity iS not
PaSSiOn some release
sare.

tt Hobbgs

Thtt nOtthe man a fo01tho he be old

Whl lov"in body fat a Fairermmd.

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a piece

of work is a man!

What a piece of work is a man! How noble in reason! how infinite in facultyl in form and moving, how exPless ?t d admirablel in aciion, how like an angel! in aPprehensioo how like a godl the beauty of the worldl the Paragon of animals! William SlnlcesPeare
The most consummately beautiful thing in the Universe is the rightly fashioned life of a good Person. George Hrbert Paltt er

Oh!,sweet and beautifut is night when the silver moon is high, and countless stanl, fite clustetlg 8elns, hang tfrtHing in thesky, while thebalmybreath of thesummer breeze cbmes whispering down the glen, and one fond voice alone is hea16---shl night is lovely then! Barlnm
I trsed to like to hear my father, Charles Dan^/in, admire the

beauty of a flower. It *as a kind 9f g*titude to the flower itself, and a personal love for its delicate form and color. I remember him gently touching a flower he defiglted in. It that a childmighl 8t... was the same ti*plsadmiration 5 Francis Darutin There is no beautifier of complexion, or form, or behavior, like the wish to ratterioy and not PaAa-ryT9.*' Ralph Waldo Emercon

heartfelt Ioin the whole creation of animate things int_d*p it yorr that sun, the T. iov that you are alive, that you see and it"ir glorious earth which niture has made so beautiful, which is yours to conquer and s ir wllriam osrsr

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Age can bo beautiful

Ag a110wed to come at a reassu ng expe ence a SymlltO yOuthstin ltering toward a hvable philo,ophy. Age can be beautim.when it is it lneans that a human

being has weathered ttany Sto_and found h them an

answerto the need we an have for 11l and peacenl vhg.

I fOund cons01ation in tho presence thett OfSuch cha. g

wonilen eS Sophia Loren and ol ia de Ha 1land.A beauthlface has always seemed tO Ine the mOst beautiful of all sights .Th remains as tnle at eighty as in thOse distant th wheh l wentintO e tasi ov ele OfTroy

n theryotthnOragttthebeautyof Outh d Ined and the beauty Ofage nOt yet arived

ut Fatal ten years betw n thirtyefive and fOrty five

r "`PO e10ngerlhvethe mpre my mind dwens upOn the beauty and the wonder ofthe wodd.I hardly OW Which feeling leaCt wonderment oradmiration.

ne wers

le mOintains are cOd sm ac though sta are cod sbrnhanttlough

are COd sbeautint10utth

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Robg S MrA r

you said sleep was themOst beautJ thing in the world.I

thought you d say a,oman wa_st

Chauncey pepelw after an eloquent speech was suFoundd by womene one Ofthem mid n you peech
Nextto a

Depew thoughta moment and then Fepl beautnl wOmaL sltt is!

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Good boolc are lengthuting and brighterying the

Iivrr of a multitude of Wople. Perhary nothing else hns strdt pwer to W tlu Wor out of his pverty, the wetclud out of his mixry, to malcc
the burdett-benrfr forget his burden, the sick his suffering, the softowing his grief, tlte doum-

trodden his dqmilation, as ?lrlolra. Thry are friends to tlrc lonely, comrynions to the daerted, iry to tlre iryIos, good cheer to thc dishurtened, a helper to the helplas. They bing light into ilarlstess and sunshine into slwdout. Dr. Orison Swett lvlarden

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The world of books

Is the most remarkable creation of man Nothing else that he builds ever lasts Monuments tall Nations perish Civilizations grow old and die out And after an era of darkness New races build othere But in the world of books are volumes rhat have and again

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Stiil young Still as fresh as the day they were written StiU telling men's hearts Of the hearts of-t*n centuries dead
Clarence Day

A good book is a wonder thing That sets the spirit traveling Down strange exciting ways, and through
New doors undreamed of hitherto. ' It opens viStas to the eyes. Where the huppy, far-off distance lies; It lifts the cares of every day When one is off and on his way. For oh, indeed, a heart can roam Through a good book, yet stay at home. A table, lamp, and he "chair, Absorbed in rhyme ormystery. Absorbed in words upon a pageO queptioning Youth, O seeking Age, Read books, good books, and you will find Adventure' and new worlds

"tn*"

Ir

crsu,erl

'/Or Dagror

'

Bu d a homelibrav

consderable accurac I Will be able tO 10ok far into ture as wen. Self hdP b00kS Whth Serve ias steppttg stones to

lfhtittLm
r
character ofthe rmder.

LelVeS wen stOcked, h these

overy and the acquirelm mn be appropnated and appli in On s daily feo Such e boob should serve b strenttthen,refhe and ennObh t A homO withOut sPitttual b00kS a dictionary an encyclopdia and self help boOb b ke a house without ndowS fOrthelthttO entero HomO notthOinivesity is led and fashioned fbr life where young lninds are fo e first time that l red an excenent b00t it b tO mei taSifl haa geined a new ttb d,
Goldsmtth

when lread overa book lhave ptemed befOre it resembles

thetteunttWithanoklone,1)=leb

for the have do Then lconsder whats world/satt James Freeman ChrkQ and what they are h bW keep

: and faitL S00the m glve l a,d homes are hard and cold bL gether dbhnt ag bnng dom reign hands cFeate neW WOrl Of beauty mths mm heavettl give etemal bltthgsforthb gi .

Quest

fo, DarcIopmettt

--

Life without boOks -

Life would hded be a p00r and narow thing without 100kS They arer ofteF all the p nciPl mttns by which we enlerge our mental horizOn beyond the contacts and Oxpe ence of eve and enter int0 0ur colmmon day h

pBent and his asPirations fOr the n ture.Not only is P nt

: T=

the unive al vehicle of contempOrav thOugh but bOob are our sOle:Ineans of conununiOn with great lnind th ugh the agett with the pl oSOphe";hbtorians poet en e exPb i ts and stOttW trs.Boolb open the door tO the wOrld Of creati O thOught and magination.They are lrel g fHends and the best of good company neVerimpOrtunatl and always at hando we can

selcctthem teely iom the best and greatest ofmankind in all ag and cOuntri we can always add to the numbeL

l 11l1111lun ,IIs II::I1111 the end.

Verfa us throighOut

:11: readhg is but One fo..i16f what may b t betemed the =T = ltiVeti01 0fthe sPHr but whne literature not hfe it essenthltO cOmplete vingo A love oflk)Oks is the Sig of a mltated man Or wOmaL as intenctual cuHoslty is the tme test of eduGitiono A room"ithOut pictures has been
Hkened to a house ntheut windows`Wha then,are we thOut loo re they n6tthe w"dows Ofthe sPi t?A boOk room is betterthan the mOst pahttHnte 6r LE.S:

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Quest fo, Daneloynent

Have your own books

But it is not enough to borrow books. In these days, ro one need be without books of his own, even if it be only a solitary bookshelf of old and much-used favourites in humble bindings. I can well remember when this constituted my library, and the books composing it are still among the most treasured volurnes in my modest collecti,on, which has been buik up from boyhood to some two thousand odd from money, in early years at least, intended for other purposes. In my guide I have made s-uggestions for the formation of a private libraty, but this should be a labour of love and individual taste, and books are still forhrnately within everybod/s reach though not so cheap as in the days of sixpnny and shilling dassics. But you wiil get far more lasting pleasure from your own books, however, fuw, if well chosery than you can from any number you may borTow.

The book of books

ttir ample volume lies The mystery of mysteries. Happiest they of hurnan race To whom their God has glven grace To read, to fear, to hope, to pray, To lift the latch, to force the wa!| But better had they ne'er been born That read to doubt or read to scorn.
Withit,
Sir Waltq Scott The books which help you most are those which make you think the most.
T'luodore Parlcer

/Or D"e '

Books widen yOur vision

Boo vastly increas,one S VSlon.An" onOmer writes
for hymen so stars and suns break into voice.A scientist
dirloses the s(Dret life ofthO creatures offor

t and field.A

scholarly htttOttm re ealS the making of d ision,that

tes with d t y an ompireo Pr"identS and prhle mi the cabinets and gen rab with theiFStafftt Parade before uS tO Justify the elVeS,Emerso and LOwell WashmgtOn es.With boob Jeffe30n and Lincoln b"ome contempo eldS one reaps harv m man

By day One goes about business profession or housework.By night with a boot one hears I Inte and Milton talk of ParadiSe and Plato teach hi, great phuosophy.she findS that Homer and Shakespeare stnl The l %CerVattt hughttand ThOmas a Ke Pis ittPir

eans and the continents the Arcticand thOt=OPiCS au the generatbns ofmen thtleirwO and was thel cultu
and dv izati9nsr eFeat on s Ar ide withab00kinan easy
chalr.

For many p pl%life may actually b an unligltd

candle un l some worthwhile book ldndl its faculties so

ilnagination takes wing: AchieVement seemS easyO Judgement SOund Obstacles grow smalloldeals a dean Defeat is re Ote.T umphis humble.
Boob bring sto es Of exdting` venture l ely hu 0 ngerOus exPbntiOn great lov%thd tragedy of treason ereis and inspiratton to new achievementoIItha' alSO streng pe fOr t for tle deFeated and dkOuraged
hith for the dOubting.

they glow.With faculti"aname le does his best.Then

eaStrOFiD" 1

nd for books DeVe10Pa questtng

TO pmCtiSe theia of Fead ig deve10P a hungryr Curious You )t "ek your anslwers h books. open books.:.dOors thatswing wide open E wh you

to unlimited hoFiZOnS of knowledge wbdo d Ons Of ymrlife. piFa On that wm enh3ethe ] In ttying OkS We a sm m deluded into thin gthattherebywearettingspttmuyhdPed ut if es we weanatheefrctJthe, dy ofboob onOu=

shl l

tht at the utmost it Only our inten t t at i and ot the imer sPi t. m Sucl:, der P Thisiml Ofb00ks loquicken SP tualgpwth b the atthOughialmlost weryone ofus cttsFFa most 60n Wh hen erhny:" F "to actbn attd the ving of a nly SPttmalltte we find ouse es so y detti t.To qucken thetsptt the mpJ" s, aW )m anothersoul: coml ,

kS atl 9 muSt Su e the

y e 9,u= WW =
at au whethert w tl:
t

keep in thelwom

a,I

dai ,PaClmkt r hl havethe Cod 9ra glven grace.of wonder.

D Grwso

ThO h of a bOk is to bO measuFed by what you can

mtt

r 1 gs F7ca "ay ttOm me Out Socty a strongtolutiOn,fbo.It draws its

ofi.what b iblestlwOrth
strength of tea-leaves.
0''1
`

: :

as,wat d,T the

II HbI

/ar hcrOr` Q

I have triemlndous love for boOks

I have tremend6 Love for Books and have a l lon aS"datiOn with them:Evew singll penny investdl in l book a vev lne and endu lg inv hent.Humanly would be Anitely poorer" m very pOht Of V W hd ot been for the great bo thet have nounshed and
numred human civilttntiOtt dOWn thFOugh the ages

Ithhk that we hav1 30ttO Start a mOvement whereby every child b en"uraged to own a book Evev child must

be encourlged tO realile that among his precious

poss6sioT btoob have a,P hl place. lhere ba vbw exP edbysomep Ple that e k going to obOletebythe21stCen bSeyou wm smply havethec9mpute nd you can tunttintO Whtever you want.Pe onally and:hope:am righ .I d9 nOtthink tht th fear wen gromded b ause as sottLlb` ly pOmted out to me when the radiO and televLion were mvmted they mid the same thing butthe grOwth of book publbhing indusw hasic nuedO l i nereb oneO vO tepo 1 6fmineand that e dev91opment of proper boObhoPs.UnfOrtunately m hd we do not hve bookshops or adquate inaghtion,IF I

boo16hop isedepreXh duSty and dun sort ofg own.It should be a centre fora bt orcreat e ac t in the county. ere should be peOPle mming book ops who can ttggeSt bOob to chen who can interact Wi
them

T lT
WhOCanscttdthemleanetwhocan3ettheyOunger

you go lo wos hab"bk,P We hve Saraswat the ".b

Goddess of learning incarnate.

people in thecO mity volv .1100kupon a boobhop lg a asttcred as atempL bca m atemple

Dr. I(aran Singh

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H[ave yOurnlin4 stiHred by a good book

r

Asyou getolderyourttdgementd dopS0 0ne ofmy,yS ot and nOtFeding is hving my mmd st ed by a go9d
I

e gott6 go to the typeriteratterwardso There b nothhg incer than nodding off wh er Lding.Going fast asleepr then being worken up by thecra,h ofthe book on the ooL
then saying to you"dt wen it dOesn t mtter muclo An

admhable ttung.

AIP.T910r

The ttime thatlread an exceuepltbo9k it b to me t as iflhad gaind a newndend,when lread ovlr a bookl have pensed beforerit resembles the medi g nth an Old One G Ms

When lconsider whatsoml b ks have done forthe world hOW they keep up ow h9p and what they are doL
life to those WhOSe homtB are hard and cOld bind together d tantag andforet hd CFeatenewworldsofbeautyr

OwakennewcowageandlhtLS00thlPai gweand 19f

bring down tmthsf m heaven Ig=e etemal bl gs foF

this gi .

"CIa

Every mn who knows how to rea`haS it in l power tO to magni hitOmultiplythewa"inwhthheexb make h life LdI nCantandintetthg.
ArJ

For books are more than boo r they are the lJI the Vev heart and core ofag Pasl thereasOn whymenttvd and le of thd worked and died the16sence and ntrB ves. : R sscII Loo "

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Quwt for Dwelopnent

.You caniotlive wi out books

AristOtle Was ask` That is the dfference b tween an

'

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stor

IL 1 tli eithoutb :b

tr llTy Sttb

194

g onl voceb1lav TW01,e mleS forincrel

SJ

: 1, Never pass an infamiliar , rd ttithout ertaing bOth its meanling and its pronundation.
11 1

,1 4itll

4.Bome convemttnt uth the world s bttt autho m their wilingsthe words by wkh their t d
,hOughtS are expresd. listening to the s h of Othe be on the 5 ,When
3

:i Fi Iil:

1 11,

alertto catch new wOrds.

I : 1 I : l : la urmem , 1 _11: :ly `. : Y :_spt Prmerb

C j

Quret for

Darclopmnt

B00k lf00d

for the so

A tt asked the clerk in the bookstoFer LVe you a,book

g2 rortt entttld Mb A Sheloomi at him fora momentand then re ed the nctbn department please:

Thereasonwhyso fewg00dbooksarew ttenis that p ple who fan Wte:know anythinge l

so few

3
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Books ar keyS tO WiSdOm s treas c190b are gates tO hndsorpleasur:B00bor pathsthat"Ward lea B06 are friendsr cOme let us read " Lo C li4g This book can be hke a wen chOsen and welltendod fmit tree.Its fmits aFe not of otte seaso onlyo With the due and nOturaHntewab you may remrto it year atter yea lnd

appedte.

win s PPly the sa e nOurish e t and the Same atincatiOnr r only you rletu lo ,m the ttme healthy

b00k the Only immortahty.

There is nO pastr,010 g as bOoks shalllive.

Ifabookcom hm the heart it

hearts.

win contrivetto reach other

Boob are the ttte levders.They g"e tO an who faithmly

uSethemrtheS yr thesPiritual,pr ence,ft b"tand greatest OfOurracl.

Quest

for Dnelopment

Book$ an intercourse with superior minds

It is chiefly through books that we enioy intercourse with superior minds, and these invaluable means of communication are in the reach of all. fn the best books, great men talk to tu their most precious thought$, and pour
their souls into ours.
Au that mankind has lone thOugh gained or been:it lymg asin mag Pr eWation in the pag of bo9ks. s Orrylg But thO imag of menrs wits and knowldg remah in bookb exempted om the wong Oftim and Fapa e of peTemal renoation.Neither are they itly t6 be caned ilmnges b ause they generate stin and cast their,eedS h th mmds ofothes provoHngandcausingin4niteactiOns ag and opinlo in succeedi
.

Fra"clis B

d:Boob lands ofPleaSurc Boolb ere patl thatupward l are fttndtt com%let us read.

B00 ar keys tO wiSdOm s treaswe:Boob are gat

to

bliFg,o"
:

Atter lo,e bOok con ting the most exuberati g sPort of

an.

nere areno faste:Or hi than thO"betw ple Whb10vethe sameloOb. P

Q /OriD

Books should be well chosen

The p ,al ol' t f your readhg ttould/be for the aCtt ution of usem hOwledge and the strengthe n fin and iennobtt of yOur chtttere Disc minate m
your cholce between good books and the best boob.
A

doHESP ng hm tteedom Ofthemttd.

way to
and rttd the world s great boOb.

RIch aWards awalt those who go out of the

d OVer

book th interct and it wtt Pay y9uback in hteres read rel 3vandyOuhavewastedbthyourtimeandyour
moneye
lt

We getas much out ofthingS as we put htO them.knd a

took me years to undershnd that words arl often as mportant as expenenc9 lttCatt w9rdS mke expenence
lasL
WliII

Mo

That b a g d bokok whth iS Opened with exP tation and

dottd with PrOnt.

Arco The writings of the wise are the only nches our poste ty cannot squander.
I.andor

Every great book" aCtb and eve{f great action is a

book

L ,1 ,

Evewhere l have sought rt and found not except

sitti=g apart h anook with a httle bOok

tts

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BoOks gi 0,new viewsto lI

They g l ne,views to lII and leach us hoW to lc lhey so6the the gFieVd the,tubbOm they chasthe fobls they admOnish and conlhm the" : th ir au the yield to a they nevershun omanlfSO=0 nOrth wretchundone: unhke the hard the sllfish a,d the prOud they ny. t sullen f m the s ppliant crOWdi nor t11l to va: uS people but show to subttctS What they show to various things kingsI Snent they a ,but thOugh dep Ved of30und here
:

all the living languages ab und here an that h e no rnor

preserved they lie in t9mbS that,Ptt tO the cunous eye.

nkind to 31 S( be the gra Ous POwer whO tavght stampa lasting imagelfthe

m.

' Cttb
Here with a 10afofbreadl neath thebough a naskofwine a book Of verse and th6u beSi4e me ti g g the

ldeJneran4 Wildem Paradbe enOw!

0 r

le 6flosths givhg that l o en send boobito m N9=doleS th vbhte my ph osophy of g g myser,fOr kthatl hvel E vered and adOpted is rleany part any b of mel l l never hke to borow a boo eCaur F it prom to beusemtOmelwanttokttPithndyforreFerence.And if itis a b ok whiCh insPi ;:Want tO keep tt by. to p kupwhen ySPittned hing,I kn6w that many
.

Speattng ofb69ks another minor ttceptiO'I ma 10 my

others have

ayS give them t9be keptt to frie Inm ya

b efungFso l dO notlike to lend boo

:D E

-0

/OrD

ha

ofisttindyt

A lovefoFStudyis one Ofthe nobl t pleasuresOf felStudy inorderto leam iSeapphCatbnofttemind tOany about it. It is a paFt of the eaming " process and is

accom, hed by reding

ObServatbn

questbni43 and

On. ren Effctive or successAll study consbts Of much more n mlre readhg.To study successhuy it is esstttial to k( p the min4,thrCttgh tt tttal discipline intensdy

engagedh thereading matteL h end r ult

of intenigent

Study isito posstt the abtti tO make effecive use 6fthe

hJdge wehavettnd m
rl ding

ourSndy

tlng o oners thout thinking Or re To read h haste

to skim thrOugh a booL or to read with a

if but6 htt ght Or accumulatbn of anythtt for the elevatbn or t knowl igeo Readi OtbecOns eredStudy un16s one ads,hthe detemtiOn_to retam what hs been read astthtel i apply:it h the greatl ofhfel r,Ou wOuld getthe b tlout of boob/satt RIcttrd

wandemgmmtisPasSIVereadingandcont

h caniemespend a quaFter,f an hour in readingr and threqure ofan hourin thhg over what you have
read.

Sitthgt h a 9olttbmbll chL at a table or d k conttht to effd e study. se should be ated

wheFe there b the least.chance Of distncttons.The reading

areashouldbewen_lighted t6avoideyestFam.A contrond rOom:temperatur61hattneithertoohotnortooc01tiSan towardeffctiveStudy, Underlhe or highlight St11 lgiportiO 01yOW Study for re ,The making fmarginal n6tos and prepttbn 6f outhnes are invaluable study ands wh h win hdP l, digest our mental food.
Emerson

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Quest

fgr Dnelopment

Read and succeed

A large measure of man's progre$s comes about as a rezult of reading. Reading is one of the chief means for the unfoldment of all knowledge and urderstanding. Our reading habits closely paralel our thinking hablts. To become good thinkers it follows that we should becorne good readm. It is unforhrnate that our training in the art of reading and comprehending well has largef been confined to the elementary grads. There is always room for improving our reading skills. We should be mindful of this and ever strive to increase our proficiency in reading. The art of skillful reading, which includes comprehension, speed, and retention, should be followed by assimilation. Reading is perhaps the most important tool in all academic advancement. It is an essential requirement for achieving skill in our occupations and professions. We derive pleasure from reading the novels and poetry. Through travel books we are made better acquainted with

our fellow man in other parts of the world. Our

vocabularies are broadened as we read the world's great literary works. For many, books are a great source of escape from the arucietie of this fast moving age. Setf-help reading can become our guide to the larger successes in life. Read and succeed. He who aod not read is as bad off as one who cannot
read.

Whtt h the stress Of Is"k forrehefh boob I sttrch

fora glmlPse.Of humanity atib best.

SirA
"ri

Quret for

Dneloptnent

Read to leild... read to grow!

Read several books at a time, turning from one to the other as your mood changes...a biography, d novel, a volume of

history, o book about your business.

Read with a red pencil in your hand, underlining the irnportant passags, so you can quickly revielv the heart of the book.

Rehd something each day. Discipline yourself to a regular schedule of reading. With only fifteen minutes a day you can read twenty books in a year.

your hckground, Read to increase your -kto*ledge, your awarenss, your insight.

In reading authors, when you find bright Passages that strike your ulind, and whichr prhaps, you rnay have reason to think on at another season, be not contented with the sight but take them down in black and white. Such a
respect is wisely shown, ls makes anothey's sense one's

own'

Byron

Re1{ing maketh a full man, conference a ready man, and writing an exact man'
Francis Bacon

In my garden I spend my days; in my library I spenl *y nigh[s. With the flowers I am with the Presel$ _1vith my books I am in the past I go into my library, and all histoqy unrolls bofore me.
Alexander Smith

palage o! 9"light, -a haven of repose from the storms and troubles of the world. Rich and poor can enloy it alike for here, at least, wealth gives no advantage. Aoebury

A library iS a true fairyland, a v{f

 Q /0'DttbF"`
The creative

power of word6

Soft words in a lunaby Win put a babl to sleepo Excited ,ords wnlst a mob to vlolence.Eloquent words willsend a..ilies mrchmg into the facl ofdeath.EncouragingiwOrds

,l fanitO,name the genius of a Rembrandt or a Lincoln. POWer l WOrds wnl m ld the publc mind as the=1lpt6r molds his clayo Words are a dynan force.

great whispe
t e

VVords are the s,Ords we use in outr battle fbr success

ng gan ry that send

wOrds w,send Ouu our wOrds aF

whom we comein contacte W en y91 Speat When yoi" te remember the

pko"er Of wbrd

marcttng thrOugh the years in th9 1 eS Of an those with

1= : :
i Ortal too.Thoy
blck hOes Of the
go

V"

PttersO

B00k,:fullsweep of woJbd hi

tow

battl 911V ti9 t ChlngttnglPattern ofhfethrough theagesi"

: : and the lebb andow Ofmigh

Through b90kS yo can know the malesty of great poetryrthe wisd9 Ofthe p lo"phers the Andings ofthe
scientists.

rtttt
ittmOrtali2,d man eadi a thOuSa,d yea `knOwledgeo Thinkers are as attve in their b00ks t ay aS WhOn

ey walked the carth.

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Quret fo,

Dat&pmq*

.The aFt Ofi,words

Words have bOth e eXplos eper of a nuclttr bOmb and the,00thmg ef t of oil on troubled wate .They can
:The a=of wordSi tO use tham creativel"tO seLct and arange them to ittPireithe ttind stir the h lift the
,phit.

start a war Orthey can keep the peacl.

Words are the comb tion of aJ J te somds which by custOm ha e acqttired ithe tharacter of symbols
representing an 4 OF ideaS.So closely have words and by tom and h ib of ought nt it ahOst impttle fOr us to ncdve of thinking lhOutthe mend emplopent of words.Th ing the caser it om"imp10 ntitmt we ch se the be :Possi e not meriely as a matter Of expr6sion but also as a wor : means of thinking intelligently Before otte is ableito mke a choice of effrtive,wordsr and to leam to employ them to the bestadva,tar he must dent number Of wOrds at his disPo 11 he t have a s must acqulre an adequate v abulav lhe person having

deas been

et = tI:
Wou1411p itablla dPIm,ing
=y`
tO d
ay t9

3 wordS tO yOur v abulav. :The real ailn of the Student 6f words should be to
acqu nf abubrylf ablewOrds_ofwords

==:

whch

clearlyand fo duly o Pr6s thoughts and ideas:Use words l bemtdeFSt00d byyour listener WhiCh

Words are ne of our chief ttmns of ad tttg tO an the sinatiOns Of .TheibtttercOntrol we Lve overwords the Ore Succe" ourttt tiS I*ely to be, F

IOF" '/Or h

Knowledge and w dom

howledge is n9t p9Wer uttt is proc( sed intO the refined.state of appttd wisdomo W dOm is born out 61 expenence either our om Or the expeinence of others. Our successes in life depend upon how we organize

and wiselydir"ttheh10wttgethatwehaveo Eventhough

unless we leam to We POSSess l ra eS Of hOwledg asslmiht organize a14 d tthb knowledge mto useLl ChmelS this Potenthlfor goOd b wor less to tta ltisnFt what we knOw thatcoun ;itrs what we do th wha we knOw that spens the difference between succs and faihre m uFe for et me repeat once agam it n t rs what we do with what we wht we how thatcoun kno,thatsPdb the d mce b n succ 5and mfe fOr us =uFe supremo knOwlodge rests in the hendS Of h n wh9 has OVerd Set whO knOws where heis going wh has an unttingdetemination forreaching theo and WhO has fo...luhtd a wOrhble"t phn foFhearre itS d OfhiS attainment. em t knOwledgeabl ofmenarethose whO fimly resolve 10 bund the wh919 man the ner quahti" thOir ch ters and PersOnali ,intO WOtthy smctur" C l devate humnity and hdp mak thiS =rters thatworld w in whth to live. worid a better The acqulsition of esh knowledge must be pr eded
by a love of

hqu bmuse withOut httiV there wulbe nO OWledge.FoFdge nOt an inett and Passive
g tlabout and therefore of great saC

p tth Wh h C9 t6us eth We u or no but d Of must be sought hfore it m be won:it b the pr

cee They who dO

ot thedarknttwnlnever100kforthl ght.Thedou t must mtewene before the h tigat n ttn begin.Al man

he putsto wo h On,SO much knowl ge as

 /ar Dagrop PuFSu Of knowledge

lf we want to ettain great heights of Successful Achievemen itiSdttgat9ryupOnustoseekthe( line affO ed by books and study.In the pursuit ofhowledge fonow it wherever tO be found,H(ef L it b the prOduct Of an dimt d like/a ,itSi circuhtion not rest ct( to any parthlar Clas,.Any and evev legitimate means ofacqunnginfomation isto be pursud. The d ire forowledger like the t t br wealth
but ls B hOp Lee has told usr knowledge without cOnunon sense is folly without methOd it wasL Out kindness it hnat b thout religbn tt b death! Bu Dtem m aldded With co on ttlse it JO with ethOditis PoWe th chaFity etencc Wi religlo vi fe and peace.
increases by acquisition

Educalon
Ithinthashadalberaleducationwhohasbeen k y the ready sewant of h win and does th easeand PleaSurealltheworktha as a
That man

SO tFined in youth that

mhan m it

hinser.

10JC enJn th an i rts OF equal strengt and in S00th WOrhg ordtt readyJ hke a stttm engh%to le and sPin the gosmmers as wen m tO any kind ofwo asforgetheanchorsofthemht whOsemind stOred with a knOwledge ofthe gFeatand hndamental mths OfNlature and of the wS Of her opera ol",one wh%no stunted ascetiO is ml oflifead .but whosepassionsaremined tO meto hed by a vigOrOus un the sewant of a tender iette,Who has leamed to love an tyr whether of Nature Or oFal to hate al vnen and to resPct9thesas

L capable; l whose intel ctis a dearr COld

gs,/OrI

How to getfbod forthought

:: 1lf m th hreg the material 1 iYoushp =

There is n6 such thing as a moFa1 0r an inllnoiral book Boob are:well witten oF badly'wtttten.That b an. Oscar Wli

1 we mayl e without peew muslc and art, VO Without con lo elnd hVe without h rt, We m e wlthout c9olc i w nly hve WhtO zed man cannOtlive withOut bookst Butttivi 'We mayl
E

Iwgr

"

inds shouk be and wen chosen. Boob like

F I r

Books ore,the windows through which the soul looks out. B Hg :

t i I I eduCated ina ?

Bducat 4

h"the ttnd 9f g"10n When it h

:V 1 erlT
P

:WOru.

rt

FRIENDSHIP

gb Of , , "91 fag"Istrtt " y o/ r tt ry sttjI r' F" "s CO S ttf' Spinit I` : f mers,1 ,s IS ` ` "
lim a" II g s, Ilio T JS I S o/ " " " ` " m , ," "f Ralph Waldo Ette on

10 /OriD 'T

Fttendship
F endsh needS nO studied PhraSes

Polishd hc6 or wittitt w

Ftt ndship

es,

deals no lav h prais

p dons no surface smnes. Friendsh fouOWS Natu O diction

Shuns the blandishments of Art Boklly severs t thil ctio
"In _ Speaks the la4guage ofthe heart.

F sh

favOrs no condition

o a naroweminded creed, LOvingly ilfills its mls,onr Be it word or beit deed.

F endshiP

Wan theerin& ghts the dreary Smoo the passage to the grave. FttndShip purer elfish f endship
Althrough uFsa Otted
sPanJ

Makesthetimu s tbrave

Ch rs the faint and weal

Nurtur Strengthensr Wdens lengthensr

Mans relattOnship with mn.

A r

l "

Seeds of kindness
lfyOu ha,e a friend worth bvh Love himo Y anllethim how That youlllV,him ere Ll s evening Thge h broW With,,U Set glowe er be mid Wh ShOuldg wOF Of a frittdttdl he dead?

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Quret for DarcIopment

The touch of human hands

The touch of hunnn handsThat is the boon we ask For gropitrB, day by daf, Along the stony w?f t We need the comrade heart That understands, And thewannth, the living wamrth Of hurnan hands The touch of human hands; Not vain, unthinking words, Nor that cold charity Which shuns ourmisery: We seek a loyal friend Who understandp, And the wannth, the pulsing warmth Of human hands...
Thomas Curtis Clark

' , '

Oh, the comfort-the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person Having neither to weigh thoughts, Nor measure words-but pouring them All right out-iqst as they areChaff and grain togetherCertain that a faithful hand will Take and sift themKeep what is worth keepingAnd with the breath of kindness Blow the rest away. Dituh Maria Mulock Craik

BT

as is true love, true

friendship is rarer.
La Fontaine

-QuestforDnelopmutt Cultivate friendship

In spite of the fact that a devoted friendship is one of the most sacred things in this world, there is scarcely anything of such value that we take so little pains to ctrltivate and .keep. Nor is there anything of such inestimable value which we abuse so much by neglect. Who can estimate the value of the uplifting influence of a friend? A loyal friend is one of rnan's greatest stimulators. The devotion of such a friend is not affected in the least by a
fortune or the lack of it. As a rnatter of fact, they often Prove

their worthiness more in times of adversity than in

o*H:ltl;

us should devote more time to the *irr*ration of real friendship. One of the reasons that more people do not have"more friends is that they have so little to offer. On the

other hand, we have a tendency to expect everything from our friends. Enduring friendships should be based upon a mutual respect for what one is rather than for what one has. A true friend is one who builds us up irutead of destroying our confidence in self. Such an upbuilding friend can cause us to double our power of accomplishment.

Atonement
How often we neglect a friend When living-but should death appear, The penitent heart is quick to send A wreath to lay upon his bier.
Ivlargaret E. Braner

Friendship, pgc-uliar bon of Heaven, The noble mind's delight and Pride, To men and angels only given, To all the lower world denied.
Samuel lohnson

Quest

for Darclopment

The hearfs anchor

Think of me as your friend, I pralr And callmeby a loving name; I will not care what others say,, If only you remain the same. I will not care how dark the nighti I will not care how wild thestorm; Yourlove willfillmy heart with light And shield me close and keep me wann. Think of rne as your frierd, lpray, For else my life is little worth; So shall your memoqy light my wilr Although lre meet no more on earth. For while I know your faith secure, I ask no happier fate to see: Thus to be loved by one so pure Is honor rich enough for me'

'

wittiam wintq

It has been said that "Many are heart hungry and miserable for no other reason than this, they are living apart from their friends. There is a balm in friendship that can heal a thousand ills. There is a power in the tender sympathy of a friend that can disperree the darkness of despair and cause the sunshine of hope and cheer to flood the mansion of life oncg more." Friendship rests largely uPon admiration. To gain many friends we need to develop the qualities which attract noble qualities in othels. Our chief want in tife is somebody who shall make us do what we can; this is the service of a friend.

FaW

Walilo Emeraon

Quret for Dnelopment

Tme friendship
There is scarcely anything more beautiful in the world than the oPPorhrnity to be surrounded with genuine friends whose devotion is not measured by one's wealth, nor affeted by the lack of it. A true friend is a gem in any setting. '"The friend of my adversity I shall always cherish most " said Ulysses S. Grant. "lcan better trust those who helped to relieve the gloom of my dark hours than those

who are so ready to enjoy with me the sunshine of

prosp erity."

my.

'Fair-weather friends" are cheap acquaintances. Real friendship is demonstrated in ennobliirg relationships without selfish motives. A real friend ie like a "silent
Partnet'', constantly urging him to bring out the best that is in him, always willing to say or do that which will help move him iust a little higher, and encouraging him to achieve more and more successes in life. 'True friendship," said c.c. colton, "is like sound health, the value of it is seldom known until it be lost." Truest friendships are based upon character, principle mutual respect, justice, truth and loyalty.
I

God make me worthy of my friends

It is my joy in life to find At-eveqf turning of the road The-strgng ann of a cornrade kind To help me onward with my load; And since I have no gold to gtve 'Tls love alone must matie amends, My only prayer is while I liveGod make me worthy of my friends.
Unktsum

-QuestforDnelopnent To my friend
I have never been rich before, But you have poured Into my hearfs high door A golden

hoard.

My wealth is the vision shared, The sympathp The feast of the soul prepared By you for me.
Together we wander through The wooded ways. Old beauties are greCn and new
Seen

through your

gaze.

I look for no greater prize Then yod soft v6ice. The steadiness of your eyes b *y hearfs choice. I have never been rich before, But I divine Your step on rD/ sunlit floor And wealth is mine!
AnneCantpfuU

Tnre to the best

Lorg years of pleasant friendship may be broken By'one hour's work with thoughtless word or deed. Yet why forget the thousand god words spoken, The kindly help which met a passing need? We do not spurn the sunlight when'tis hidden; We look for god when fiercst storms descend. Then why lose faith, when trndeerved, unbidden, We meet disloyal usage from a frierxl?
Benjamin Keech

--..-.-..:- QuestforDanelopment Selectib

of fi

ends

F C10Sest What shan be our standard ih the selcction of

quaintances and ld,7 1t has otten been sand that we are ludg by the company we keep.ThOre merit in th" old saying because the character and standing 01 6ur
iends do tend to lnnuence Our hVes.

There are mayw,o have friendtt many ttields but theyareoflittleornovaetothmb usetheyarenotthe typethatareelevOtinginch racterolfwe wa,tto get onand upin the WOnd wewouldchooselPward _ Otd9Wnward
in sel ting Our lo dS and,C10Sest acquointances.r

We should keep our lfe standards high:We wtt never

JttP high in the world if we are SuFOundd by f ends and

lt that are constanly bemOaning their 10t a,d fat and the po6=hand ofcars that mplaining ofthe
u dealt to them.On the coltraryr be re 19 L We wm be pulled down to their levelo Different,ut dOSd,assoCiated

P nciPlC en

Of honor and"tm people who ire making progr sin the woFld. We should have certain standards for the company we keepr and o Om clttS shOuld mOheymkers ere are many first "ealth not be wh9 one are of them. thiFd Hr in evevthingelserinch4 g rhattCter and P nCiple Suound yourself with the type of P ple that you : would lttle to be and yOu shan become. ; On the choice of endsi Our g00d Or evil naml depend :: OL

natur tend to attain a cOnlmOn le el. Self ilnprovelment fonows,nO with a constent desir% couplod with action for surou ling hi ,er"ith a hrger drC Of men4s made up of higher charactersr of

Q /0'lD"` l"

'

TheFe

alWayS a placO fOryot

erebalwaysa ph fOryouatmytabL
You never need be'invited.
I

n share evel o St as long as I m able

And know you wttbe d ghted. Therens alwayS a phce foF yOu by y , r And though itlnay bun to c If wamth and good ch r are yo d ire ne ttiend of your hea remembers! Thereis always a phce fof you by my sder And should the years t r us apaFtr ed I"m face lonlly oments mOre ttt With a phce foF you in my heart!

hip fOr aid and confott th ugh au the relatiO

I `

an4 Pachg Oflife and death.It b ttt for slerene days,and gnceml g and countrybles,but also for ugh roads and hardFer ShipF L POVertyr and persmtb=. Wearetodigni to each Otherthedailyn( dsand ottc6of and CmbetthitbycowagQwisdom and unity. m sh i may well be r koned the masterpi 9 of %thtal
nat L ElE .

ne hws offriendship are great austereand etemaL of

Oneweb withthe hws ofnature and ofmOnls.Lov%wh h is the(Httnce ofGOd,IsnotfoFle tyrbutforthetotalworth of mn.
There aFe tWO dements
Ot g0 10 the COm )Sitton of
friendship eaCh So sovereign that l can detect ,o supttorityineitler.one L Tmth, mmdisapersOnwith

WhO lmy"SinCere.The otherdement h inendsh Tendemt . When a ma omes dear to me l have

touched the goal offortune.
rFL ttrJo E

"

New friends and old friends

Those are silver, these are gold.

$ake new friends, but keep the old;

New-made friendships, H6 new wine, Age will mellowand refine. Friendships that have stood the [ssfTime and change-are surely best; Brow may wrinkle, hair grow gr:ay, Friendship never knows decay. For'mid oU friends, tried and true, Once more we our youth renew. But old friends, alasl may die; New friends must their place supply.
,

*rr

By friendship you mean the greatst love, usefulness, the most open communicationr the noblest sufferings, the severest truth, the heartiest counsel, and the greatest union of minds of which brave men and women
are capable.

:ffi::X,

IerenryTayln

real'

in the truest sense, each to the other. There is nothing in all the world like friendship, when it iS deep and
Be friends, Thonus Davidson

I am still rich
I am still rich. My friends are faithful, Ers of old; They trust me past my poordesert. They ask no gift of golden Bain, But only love. With theirstrength gut, Can I not face the road aheadThough some old treasured ioys are dead!

Qurrit

fo, Danelopment

--

Tb a little thing

A mend

TO g e a cup of watett yetits draught Of cool refreshmen dined by feverd lips

May g ea shk Of Pleasure to the frame

Mre exqubite than when ntttarttnjute Renews the hfe of,oy in happlerhOu3
II a little thing to sPttkl pl,Se

Ofco on

comfort which by daily use Ls almostlostits sense yetonthecal

Oflim WhO thoughttodieunmoumed

e glaz g eye Like choicest music To kn6w the bond5 offenowship agam And shed on some unhappy so 1 A sensO to hi n who else werelond
That a mend is near and feels.

twin fall

With gentle tea" relax the knotted hand

Sir tt

When sel tting asSOClates choose bet leam ttom you and thoseom whom you canleam.Lch cholce has its advanhgeo Among thel( ser ghts you are a star and may bask in the wamth of the admiration. Among bigger stars you Will nOt shine brightly but ty my athin tte brilLncy in P ttthg by thenr suFri the mture. le choteis yOurs.Do not hOWeverrlet easy triumphs overyourint rsddudeyOu.Ifyou hvenevert ed your skin agamst better phyers do not entOr a championship
match

M tt1/o o n those who mn

An open fo,may prOve a cuse buta prtetended mend

ls worse

Q ffOrDaglo"

Lip seinriCe iS not loving

Dear iend,I Ptty thee r thou wouldstbe p Thy st ng regard r me

vhg

Make me x v9ws.L Serv e etthy faith sPmk for thee.

b not10Ving;

Swear nOttO me that nothing can divide us

So litt10 such Oaths mean.

But when distmst a d enVy creep beside usr

' , ,

Letthem notcome b tween:

1 y notto rlethe depths 9fthy devotiOn Are deeper than,he Seal
l But watch

lest doubt orsome unHndemotion

Embitter them forthee. Vow notto love xne ever and foreve
VVords are such idle thhgs,

But whOn we dtterin opinions never

Hurt me by httle stings.

f words:they are so ttghtly sPokeL : =m sick

And spoket are butair. IId ratherfed thy tnstin meunb ken Than list y WOrds so fa
.

Ifan t e ttttle proo

oFt are heeded

NO CrifiCe no pp e wlube needed TO sat my mmd:

Ifthou art alwayS kind

EItt y

i
but does not ttiprocete m ttnd.

"Wlircox Friends are not bOmr they are made:No one has

not extend them in turn,I:he ldb others do lhvoFS fOr hin

=r

 F Q

DagloFacr

Se19Ct your dends th CaFe

Sel tyowndswithcattanddelbtttiOno Do notttlla strang r.your ttb atter a short acqua tance and dO not

pemit 6thett to call you thehs under HkO circunlttanccs Fttendship should be the result lf d riminating choic%
not of acddent.

Everybody t,udged by his intimates.Men may

ted lttEause they are le or for lnore,hauow reasOnsi but tme ke your companl ts:resP ke 19ve iendSh or an Overt reasons have and a .con dence Inutual tastes 'hOuH have many r igd should sttt be yow mend for no Other been dted reaSOn than thatyouare you.Tmef endship multipli the

assocttLte With you lxEause yo

but cha tably so.He should advis%Sttm or cOnsolQ according to one s needs.
on a desert islande A fH
1

IL thttmendsb nd should be tnithl

"you to othett and cor
ts

e,them"you do phJl blem htt in the urse of me y eve = I Fendship should be in the sintthtt it Can nO pluttlthan,1 Mtt
)re

l F 1 lf :1 :1 t
g
cIOs

A ttdisone who pra

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Quest

for Dnelopment

Be generous,

if you nrant to win affection

Look for the best in everything, like the bee which finds honey in the thorniest plants. Applaud the aehievements of others; if you find faults, treat them with kindliness and understandiog. Knowing that perfection is denied to most, appreciate honest effort and fill the gaps in a perfonnance with your own imagination. The generous-minded finds one beauty in a thousand defects, the small-minded one defect in a thousand
beauties. I am singularly rich in friendships. Friends of all ages have contributed enormously to my truppiness'and hetped me greatly in time of need. I leamt one of itre great secrets of friendship early in life: to regard each peron with whom one asociates as an end in himse[ not a means to one's

"l have friend sr" said Petrarch, "whose society is extremely agreeable to me; they are of all ages and of every country. They have distinguished themselves both in the cabinet and in the field, and obtained high honors for their knowledge of the sciences. It is easy to gain access to them, for they are always at my service, and I admit them to my company and dismiss them from it whenever I please. They are never troublesome, but immediately answer every question I ask them. Some teach me how to live, and others how to die. Some by their vivacity drive away my cares and exhilarate my spirits, while others give fortitude to my mind and teach me the important lesson-how to restrain my desiies and depend wholly on myself. They open to me, in short, the various avenues of all the arts and sciences,
and upon their information
emergencies."

own end.s.

may safely rely in all

'/07 hCIOF

The f end who,u,t StandS by

When trOttble com(s your soulto tvr
You love the f

t rStandsl/. Perhaps theFs nothing he can do The thng is strktlyup to yOu;

For there are troubl(s all your Own

mdw

And PathS the sOul musttrttd alonc

Tllnes when love cannotsmooth the road

Nor friendship l the heavy bad

But,SttO know you havo a mend W10 Win stand.by untn the end
WhOSI Sympathy through all enduresr Whose wa.. httthsp is always yours
pull you th ugL Although ther s nothing hl mn 40
It helps

somewa tO

And so with fe"ent heatt you cvr

Cod bless the f endwhottSt

ttandsb/!
B:Y.WliII
s

Keep c16se tl people who understand you who beheve in you wh w l help yOu to dbcover,ourSeltand encOurag9

Choose companbns l d men who arein Sympathy with your ambitiOn and who win g e Ou their moral supportand make youdo what youarecapable oFdoing.A W SuFh mends may make an the differ ce to you bemeen a grand succett and a mdi re ex tence

y tO mke the lnost of your hfe.

summed up in one wOrd_consideration. Your

CO

ROhttonship which has oOd the most dittbult ttt oFal the t t Oftime:le suet behhd a solid ittendshiP can be

n of yOur tim likes and dishb.The things that give lMb a boost

tle

Iop`

'/OriD

There iS O gFelter blessing than fJ10nds

There b no greater uessing in litt than ttiends for one
f inchdes lndship in 10ver Which is the greatest thing an. _ oured by nature or Some of s are Specially crcutttance Or both in possesslng mny mends,Others through nO fault of their own have few.Too many of usr ly howeverr mcluding even the favoured few unneces r t our ci le of 9ontacts end Pottue mttdsh s by entt Of up bmging relatbThip leaVing it entely to a nethbOurhOod work or the llke.It is indeed otten len t hbit and circulstancesand one simmediate environment and this my imply a narrowing oF socal and intellGttual outlook.Reany congen l mend hip must sometm be

Sttght Outside on s immediate cttcle.

hOWeVerr We wbh to make mendtt orto enlarge our

circle of acquaintance w must 40 sOmething about it ou elV :And that b healso of ttendShip itsell it L Or should be an acti e and.not a passiVe rehtionship.Th, fheSt rmard and de pest satiSfactio of frie,dShip

ts h g ing hny at all ti" the best of 9neSer t9 lo

ma nOt be ttiP,mted. iendsh like 19ve b not a tiOn of ttOusly bahnced ttwe and tt br.e in an atti dualttis a matttt ofWholeheaFted g m

s ttends thoutthought OftheextenttO which it m

09 whth is far more likely to eki,an equany gene us

i mly tabLhed should otbeanOwd tOdegentteteintO

habit and Pass ity tshould be ept aCtivlly al e.

Queit,for DarcIopment

F onds
:

lf an the sOrrows ofthis weav earth

Ihe pahs and heartaches of humanity I If an tteFe gath :up and given mer l still would.Lve my shane of wealth and worth Who haveoyouF F tend of C)ld to be lny cheer

Through hFslmcettin fOm 6 yelr

by yeaF

ThankGod for mttds whO dearer grow as yeas increasc Who as pOssttsio fai1 0 hOp and handtt i Bometh boon Supreme than gold and lands MOre pr iOus.Let all eL ,rmustbe ceasc
Bttt

LdtttO Share the wa I go. The gift fl It_is not surprlsmgr thatr Dale Camegi
Wli

lord 9f re

Pmy On me bestow
rtts "C

i
C

s book on PaOFrg has won such atremendous "heveryfactthatitd " beSSimpleandobvbus aVdience: t"hniqu"Of indship mk it ittPortant b ause ur
F

ir 1 i?: practica And though the y are n9t

:

th ry th

Pu,OSe may settI Selfish thl effrt is to create hibi of

u ,elfiShneSS,M=

CainegierS message may not be

lbutit tp fomdOThe winn g9f academimny intell me.ds b tmly the leepest concem of the wond today. rough Nei er peace nor prOspelty'Can c9mo except lmendshipan4betterpe3onahti m9 uniV
.

CraSPS at hand eyelghtS A 4 great hear"eXPand

eyeh good iiendship

s hfe.

And grOw One m the,enSe ofthis world

Q gStrariD"groF

01d tnths fFOm fttendship

en greater The pleasure we dgive frOm mttsh st stupendous than thal whth We gain fronl the m
grandeus of natur.Th
o a visitto S

ote tzerhnd

"s ' " '' IttS yo" S oS` ttgrO S' oo `o/ F 4 II s : 9 ` 16S s ,9 ray Llitt ` hg when re sat expe ences are ttways Creat

theStaubackWaterttlLSiXtimesashighaSNhgaraFans.In hetterrshe ia : ttS I'"

"inustrated by the woman who

to a friend about herview of

they are shared with a mend

ha e

leatted that thpugh endShi, rCeS fOr hPPm s are increased:

men ThiOughoutalltheag

Om ot nal

C)ld fJIlnds Thereis no fm llke thO old f who has shared our
moF'ng day, No gr" ng like ns welcotter O homagel his pralse: Fame the entktt sunaower wtth gaudy crown org9 But tten , the brttthttg=oSer Witl sweetS in evev
fold
Or'

rNm JJ HoI

= Wi lICW tien the rewer we becom%the more let us love one anOthere Bttamtt Fra " Ship makes prOsPerity brighterr whib hghtens vlby sh its FieFs and an e

ero

Quegt for Danelopn*tt

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Blessed is the man who has friends

No one is your friend who tells you something because he it is for your own good. Friends never say unpleasant things to one another except when they lose theirlempers which is quite different and can be adiuqted when the temperahrre is lower. The person who in cold blood says to you, 'I was standing up for you the other daf ; or You know what peopleaiesiyingiuout you?'ior Db you want me to be frank wilh you7, is generally iealous of you or wanting to wound you for some other reason. However curioys you are to hear what he has to say, avoid ffi .*S him. Sayno, and run anray.
says

Good humor and god nature, friends at home that love you, and triends abroad that miss you you possess all
these things, and more innumerable, and these are all sweet

things.
ClmrlreLamb
So long as we love, we serve; so long as we are loved by

others, I should say that we :ue almost indispensable; and no man is useless while he has a friend. Robstloub Stwenffirt

Blesed is the man who has the gift of makiog friends; for it
is one of God's best gifts. It involves many things, but above

all, the power of going out of onds seit and seeing and appreciating whatever is noble arut loving in an another

man'

Tfumnscorlyle
There's nothing worth the wear of winning But laughter and the love of friends.
Hliblira Barrr

Quest

fo, Datelopnent

The

acqu lon off endship

What a great blessing iS a friend with a heart s,tmSty yOu

y Safely bury all your s retsin it WhOSe COnscienCe you

may fearlesS tha yourown ho can relieve yOur caresby hisco,versatiOn your doubts by his counsels yourttdnes

by his good hmor and w10Se veFy loOb give you comfort.
S`"a

Friend,liP One mind in two bodies:

M
e

: s

Three mOn are my mends:He that 10Ves

he t t

hates

me he thatis indlferent to lne:Who loves me teaches lne

tendemess.Who hates me teaches me caution.Who ns

indifferent to me teaches me self relhnce.

Pa liF

We never kno the true value ofttiendso While they=ve We aFe t00 Sens le of their faults,when we havelostthem we
see only their eS or allthe things wh h wisdO PrOVdes forthe ha.p

ofthe"holelif by farth m stttnPOrta,tiSlheacqWitlon ofttiendship. lim

=:!==l ::: == :lyandnegttL =: `PFidevvinayoutih19COn

c III:

an that

fit tO m ke a friend 9

muSt have COndustt9

Qurrit for Dwelopment

Nobody shO ld ettpettito bl perfect

lfwewereanJvenbymagkthepowert9readeaChOthers
thoughL Isuppose the rst effCt WOuldrbe that,lmost all hOWeve= ond eff mendshipswOuldbedissolved,thel might be excdlentt fOr a world without eny=ien WOuld be felt to be htolembl%and we should leam to h eaCh f iluslon tO COnceal h other tlolt needing a ve ourse eS that We did not hk eaCh Other absontdy perf :t Weknow thatOur mend`have their fault and yet are on the whole a eabl people w10m We Lkeo We find it however intolemlle that they should have the sa e
attitude tOwards uso We exP t them t6 think that unlike the rest of mankind we have no faultso When we are

cOmpellod to admit that we have faulttt we take this obvious fact far too serlously.No dy ShoJd eXP ttO be perf orbe unduly t ubledby the factthat leiS n,t.
t

We Ca,nOt get much out OfttendShip unl s'e are ready to forgive oneanother Our little Weaknesses. False iiendship like a parasitiC,lant it ulS the tFee it

embnc .

and lovers mayvanish.

On s friends llke one for on s merits on s bvers for on schams,ifthe me ts or the Cha dhinisL ttiendS

Allend is l person with whom you daretO be yoursere

eW O SOWS COurtesy reaps endShip and he WhO plants khdness gatttFS10Ve.

Let us be the fttstto gile a illndly Sign 10 nOd Arst smne first speak first

and

r such a thing is n Gttav forgiVe first.

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Quest

for Datelopment

- wann Friendship makes the heart

Love your friend as if he were to become your enemy, and your enemy as if he were to becpme your friend. Friendship is the only cement that witl ever hold the together.

-ff

Woodrow t{ilson

How often we are suqprised at the discovery of some unexpected power or possibility within ounselves, which has been brought to the surface by the suggestion of some book, or by: some friend who believed inIL, or saw in us what we could not see ourselves!
And ohl I shall find how, day by day, All thoughts and things look older; How the laugh of pleasure grows less !gay, And the [eat of friendrhip colder.

W.M. Praed There can be a rewarding relationship between the sevens and the seventy-fives. They are both closer to the world of mythology and magic than all the busier people between
those ages.

I.B. Priretlq Friendship is a word the very sight makes u of which in print ! the heart wann. Augustine BineII :

It is a good thing to be rich, and a good thing to be strong, but it is a better thing to be beloved of many friends.
Euripides

gyatiligsl but Sincerity-why, that's the very crown of

The basis of friendship is surely attraction of all kinds and

friendshiP'

IuIax proutman

I riD"`b

'

FttndshiP is a sheltel ng tree

F T11:l
g

g ealgttg

i
GFairgg MrDO

Friendship is a shdtering tree,

1 nowe3 1re10Vely,Love.Is noweF

0!the,oys that mme down Showe lke

OfF endshlLOVeandl

..

F endshiP'Of41t'ngS the most rarer

And therefore mostrare kause mOst excenent,

VVhose coml)] s in misery are always sweet

AndwhosecolTebilP Slellrareeverforhnll,Lyfy
F endship ofittra h ly ti

Is made more sacrd by adversity.

Dac

HkealHi
about.

the better r haVin faulb that one ttn

zllil,

In prosperlty our friends know u ;m adverslty we klow our mends Cor C "s
The ttiends thou hast and theiradOpth)n tried

Grapple them t6 thy SOul with hoops orsteele

S
Unfortunate is the lot ofthat lnan who can look round the nde world and exclaim with t th,I haVeno d truly

soclety the balln Of huttn life.

chrras L

f/Or DagloF
`

Frien4Ship 40u bles,oy an4 halves gnefs What We usuany call mends and mendship are Only
acquaintances,nd fam ties bFOught tOgeth F through

1 s ttftt
the otherrin so universal a=nlxtur
that it effaCeS an Slg

of whth l speak they are sO tightly,Oined together o e to

6ftheseamby which theyWlrefirStiOind

MO
F ends thOugh abseht areStill preSenti though inPoVerty they lre ncL thOugh weatt yetin O en'Oymettt Of health; and whatis Stin more diI `

dttO a" Ft thOugh dead the

are ahveo l

Cicm
lfwe choose ourfriends forwhatthey ar%nOtfOr whatthey hav ,andrWedese eSOgreatablessing thenthey wnlbe always uth us presewed in absenc%and even after death in the amber of memory.
L

4 b v

o a thittg is most admiFable which is that this Comu,icating of a rars self to h iend worlc two
COntFary effcts,for it

dOublethi ytt and cutteth griefs in

.For there no man that imparteth hi,,OyS tO h iendtt but h ,oylth the mo ,and nO man thatimparteth griers t6 his ttiend but he g eveth the l
s

B 6o"

Who knowstlle,oyS,f friendship?

e dOuble,OyS Where each is g d fOr10th? emn 6uronly wttl 9 F t retreat an4 re lg ti fOttne and the wOrld.

ThrtmSt SOm ty,and mutualtendem"

stre

gtL

N.R A man should keep his friendshiPs in constant repair. ` Dr.JoL S

.III

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"'

y
,

FL n andige=tlefJlendship
Of all feltitiesr the most chammg ls that Of a fim and gentle friendship.It Sweetens an ouF CareS dbpels our SOFkOWS and counsels us in an extrenties.Nay r there were no other confOrt in it than the bare exercbe of so gene us a v hle even forthat Jngle reason a man would not be without it,it a sovereign ant lote against all

cahmitieeven

aganst the fear ofdeath itse

'S

aca

Tme happiness is of a ttti namFer l d an enemy to pomp and Oiseo lt erb in tle rSt place f the e Oyment OfOn ssett and h the nextfrom the mendship and cOnversatbn of a few selaat friends.
JS J

I{upp)r lhe man whose life is spent In friendship's calm security.

EsclryIus

and fairest furniture

As to the value of other things most men differ; conceming friendship all have the same opinion. What can be more toolish than, when men are posJessed of great influence by their wealth, poye_r, and rgsources, to procure other thing; which are bough! by money-horses, slaves, rich apparl, costly vases'-and not to prosure friends, the most viluable -of

life? Friendship i*proves

Cicero

tragpps-s, and abates misery, by the doublirg of 6ur joy, anit ttre dividi^g of our grief.

True happiness consists not in the multitude of friends, but in their worth and choice.
Dr. lohnson

Friendship is theshadow of the evenin& Which strbngthens with the setting s.rf,of life.

In Fontaine

Quut for Dnelopntent

friend is like a sunny day A cheerfut

Friendship maketh daylight in the understanding, out of darkness and confusion of thoughts: neither is this tq be understood only of faithful counsel, which a man receiveth from his friendj but before you come to that, certain it u, that whosoever hath his minil fraught with many thoughts, his wits and understanding do clarify and break uP in the conrmunicating and discoursing lvith another: he tosseth his thoughts more easily; he marshalleth them more orderly; he seeth, how they look when they are turned into words; finally, he waxeth wiser than himself; and that more by an hour/s discourse, than by a day's meditation.
Bacon

An identity of likes and disfikes is after all the only basis of friendship.
Sallust

Nature loves nothing solitary, and always reaches out to something as a support, which ever in the sincerest friend is
most

delightful'

cicero

Friendship is, strictly speaking, reciprocal benevolence, which indines each party to be as solicitous for the welfare of the other as for his o.wn. This equality of affection is created and preserved by a similarity of disposition and
manners.
Plato

Everyone must have felt that a cheerful friend is tike a sumy day,shedding brightness on all around.
Lord Auebury

I didn't find rny friends; the good God gave them to me. Falph Waldo Emerson

--Qu*tforDnelopment Enemies produce friendships by reaction

fu the first step in this process of leamiog how to persuade is to change over youi viewpoint to on-e of absolute and
sincere friendliness toward other people.

When everything is taken into account, there is something reaction.

to be said for enemies; they produce friendships by

The friendly and animated conversation makes up for the deticiencies of the menu.
Be

slow in choosing a friend, slower in changing.

Faithful are the wounds of a frien4 but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful. Friendship is a strong and habitual inclination in two Persons to promote the good and happiness of each other. Our friends and our enemies always lcrow us better than we know ourselves.

To do a little good is mgre than to accomplish . great conqusts. Friendship is the only cure for hatred-the only Egarantee for peace.
Be triendly towards others, and friends round you.
Every house where love abides And friendship is a guest, Is surely home, and home, sweet home For there the heart can rest.

will soon flock

HmryannDyke
Great souls by instinct to each other turn, Demand alliance, and in friendship burn
Addison

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at counts moStis dends

WhatcountS most as 1lo6k back overthe years are,ot my

accomplishments Orl fuz7y and unilnP9rtantin my mind

whi10 the f endships remein cryStal Clear m my lnelmlory:

Ittakes an enemy and a f getthe newsto you

end

working tOgetheL to hurt

y6u to the hearte The One tO slander you and th other to

DetWeen ien and wotten there is nO ttiend,hip possible`

ere b p sd6n

emi,worshp bv%b n

If our heads were pttt up at auction the bids o5our bestf ends

wOuld greatly disappOmt us

lfyour workis made more easy

By a frie dly helping hand

y soo Speak ott brave and tttly

Ere the darkness veilthO hnd
Should a fe

ow w6rker near

Falter for a word oF cheer?

Ifa man dOes not make new acquaintances as he advances thrOughlifelewinindhimselfaloneo Manshould eepliS acqualintenCesinconstantrepair. Samuel lohnson Because of a friend, life is a little stronger, fuller, more gracious thing for the friend's existence, whether he be near or far. ff the friend is close at hand, that is best; but if he is faraway he still is there to think of, to wonder about, to hear from, to write to, to share life and experience with, to serve, to honor, to admire, to love. Arthur Christopher Benson

HAPPINESS

The secret of lmpprnes? is this: Iet your interests

re Wssible)'and let your reactions to the things and Pieftons that interest you be as fo, as possible friendly rather tlnn hogtile.
be as wide

Bertrand Russell

Quest

fo, Dnelopnent

- source of happiness is in love Thre

We have but a single motive: the pleasure-principle. Psychologically, we have but a single source of pleasurel love. We have but a single means to this end: creativitp or the mastery drive. In order that the mastery drive can function effectively, a single condition must be observed: consistency. We have but a single mode of experience: changs,-hgnce our appreciation of pleasure must be
characterised by change, or in different words, by variety. Underlpng all this we have the rather tiresome need to maintain the physical organism in an efficient state. Happiness tras been defined as performing a task which is so aiffiartt as to try your powers, Uut not so aifncult as to defeat them. This is the same as saying that happiness is gained from the fullest exercise of itre mastery arive. But the definition is faulty. To exercise mastery with no ulterior

pu{pose is not long satisfying. The ultimate pu{pose of mastery mn only be (a) to secure the physical pleasures of the bdy, or ft) to seq,rre the psychical pleasures of the mind ri.e.rto love and be loved. It is in love, therefore, not in masterf ,that tve find the true source of human happineis. To live content with small means, to seek elegance rather than luxury, and refinement rather than fashion, to be worthy, not fespectable, and wealthy, not rich, to study hard, think quietly, talk gentlp act frankly, to listen to the stars and birds, to babes and sages, with open heart, to bear all cheerfully, do all bravely, await occasions, h,trryr never, in a word to let the spiritual, unbidden and unconscious, grow up through the coilunon. It will be noted that no one, not even a government or an educational institution can do this for you, you mrrst do it for yourself' wirliam Henry crwnning

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The tine for happlneSs,is today /

%me wise person has w tte :cee" a,Oumey nOt a

If we wait tO at happhe" we shan be ttdly dimppOinted i lifee Happiness must be expe enced as we an hour therer cas nany=da ,mmute here

late.The time foF happintts b tod nottomorowi

=W'L

tti ttt

"umey Butthe weeb and days and hours are l made up Of

nlln tes and if we live for happy mlnutes the hours and days and weeks un take cere Ofthemelveso WO shallfind our road through l e a pleasant on% d spend lett time WOtthg aboutthediStant go A stream Of happinl oppor ties b owing past us = contmuously:du ng th hours we spend at hottc in the
1

oncein a 10ng while peveral days or a week.

We WOuld dO Wellto adoptthis cred written a centuv lg9byStephencrenet:r:exPaattopass through this world bit onceO Any gOod thereforlthatICandO orany kindn thatl can show to any fellow creattr%let me doit n6w.Let me 10t defer or,egl ti fOr l shall nOt pas is way
again`

olkeorstore orshop wherewewoJCas wewalkalongthe ne Or bus in shot Wherever we are and whatever we are doing: "We traVd by train or p
Str

Those only are happy who have theirminds ttxed on some OI, t Other than their own happine on the happine"of othe=5 o thellnprovement Of manknd even on some art or pusul fol10wed not as a means but as itself and deal

some end extemalto t as the puIPs9 0f hfe

end.Attningthusatsomethingebetheyfindhappinessby the way :.Ask yourself whether you ut happy and you ceasetObesOo TheonlychanceistOtreatt not PPine but
OL S' M J

D"c i

H[appiess is a habit

A bright

hopem optimistic attitude of mind is essentialto your wen being ThereishealingPoWerina singlesP tual ea.Peace,poise, nfdencer and contentment are the nattral products of a ltappy d position. Kindn S and
appreciation promote happiness.CeneroSity and good wnl an uPIitting in uence.To be happy is not only,our pttvnege,butitis your dutyo The power which you haveto give happhess,to others i:nphes an obligation to do So. Happiness does not depend sO inuch upon greatlnaterial
possessions as upOn right mental attitude.There is nothing

have

hich wnl SO surely produce happiness in your own hfe

Ond that ofthose about you ls a unifOtt..l habit of kindness

and appr"lation.

Happin sis the only g9 di

The timoto be happy ls noW.
The plac

tO b9 happy ls here, 1 The waytobe lapp isto mako Other p Ple hOppy,
This is the tmO,oy in lre r 6g izod by ,Ourself

g rs II

the being

t16 ughly wom out before y i ere thp On the p heaP'thebeinga rCO OfNatlre instead ofa vetthselfish
uttle clod of aihents and grievan es complaining that the world w l not devote itself b making you happy
rg Btt S G

as a might, Onei the bellg

fOr a purpose

Lppintt depends more lpO,th9 htemal fFam

of a

"

thOughhewereyourenemyL
Do not exPr s
'9y befOr

1111
ne slc 6r in pain fbr that

contra /PaSSiOn win aggravate h

misery. G rgr

:
WbS j 0"

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H[appiness can be culivated

How many p ple
are loatl tO let their troubles go!They

havelived with them so long thatthey haVe b ome sort of eOmpanions anld they seem to take a morbid PleaSure h their symptott and acheS and Pains.
enteFtaining them steS SOme pat nts like to dwell upon

Few P ple

reali e that happitteSS may be cultivated to

any great extento Theyseem to thinkthat e powerto e Oy hfe largely heredita thatthOy camot do vev muCh tO

lsouL u ppy disposition. One ofthemostdrAcult ons ofhfe toleam thatwe are largely tho product of our thoughti that our
change a crOtchety

envinment our education our habitual thought have very much mor tO dO with the output of our lives than
heredity

H[appineSS is here
JO, nOt SOmething that happens accttentany.It is not
dependent on outer c6nditions.It itt ratheL a habit or an

emotion that youdeve10,within yOurselfo A,d ifyou never

take time to letit grow but rather putit off for some future

da yOu never reach the phce OftmelMPPin6S WhatevOr you are doing be happy in it
Try this

even when you dort hkethetast even when

yOu would rathernol bebOtherd,ythemtenupti . even

when you can think Ofi ny other situatiOns or conditions that wo ld suit'Ou ttiCh bettorthan the pre ,t one.

The happmess oflre mde up of minute

fractionl Jthe

Lta s6on forgotten charities ofa kiss Or smler a kind loot

a heartFelt complimentT_DCOuntless infinitesimals of pleasurallean4 ge al feeling,

I Taylor

Co

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Quest

for DarcIopment

The goal of perfect haPPiness

If we could rid ourselves of imagrnary troubles, our lives
woutd be infinitely happier and healthier. Thus one of. the greatest tasks in character-building is to eliminate, to iptoot, to wipe out completely the baleful effects of fear in aU its varieties of manifestation. No one can lead a naturally healthy, sunny, helpful, harmonious life while living in a fear environrnent. No one can hope to be entirely haPPy and successful without the destruction, the eradication, of the fear-genns..Were this donen the world would be gloriously changed for the better. It is the duty 9f every inaividual to conquer this common enemy in his own mind, and to do all he can to wrest other people, esPecially the youn g frorn the domination of this phantom monster. Happily, thinkers and investigators have Proven that this may be done, and it is a glorious prophecy that coming generations will be taught to banish all fear, to march, clear.y"d and confiderrt, toward the goal of perfect happiness.
Mardett

When I came across these words in KiW-a novel written in 1905-I thought how prophetic they were. And not only in terms of happiness, but atso of morality. The shrilfagj of the world lias imposed new msral duties uPon all of usToday we can no longer continue to tolerate -that- any

undernourishmenl or preventable disease or Sfi"ging poverty... should remain ignoyan! or illiterate ... should not huu. 6pporhrnities for riasonable education 'and selfdevelofment. To do so is not merely stupid and inefficienU it is immoral and wrong. t.. lulianHuxlry A community carurotbe huPPy in one Part and unhapPy in another. It's itt or nothing, ho patching any more forever.
H.:,G. Wells

humin being anywhele on earth should suffer from

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lo D

"

You have to believe itt happiness

You haveto b Levein happhess Or happi ess never comes.
I know that a rd chiTs n6netheless

When an that he inds cmmbs. You haveto beheve the buds wllblow Bolieve in the gra"h the day,of s o
Ah that s the reason a bird can smg

On h dark t day he bteliev in Sp ng.

You havetO behevein happness

It isn

t an outward thing.

The SP ng never mak the SOngrl guess

Asmucl aSthesong tteSP ng.

AyO many a heart could find content
lfit saw the,oy on the

ad

it went

The,Oyahead when it had to gHev

For the,y is therebut you have to believe
D gL I10cL

Happinels is a stateOfnlind wherein you have found peace and ttlfilhent.Happines that,hgle and glo ous thing

which is the vev light and Sun Of the wh61e anilmated nott it Were better that nothhg un erser and where She should bee Without heLw dom but a shadowand virttle a name. Evev da ShOuld a hOlidayr a day of y and gladnessr a day or supreme hepph S Dro Marden. t WOuld bQ r we lived ttndyrif WO knew the s ret of nght thnking and normal hv g. L e r sOm thhg
definite and PractiCali take hold of thing,with a nu and they w lyield to youand becomethemm ters ofyOuro
happiness and that of others

TQ

/Ori

`I

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We have a ghttO happiness:

And th b ngs me to thequestionofhappiness,The nature of man to be happ When happiness is absent there ong.Y t happiness is not the end of man. something Those who seek it do notfind it.Happinossis tO be eam i: howeverr it b the wages Paid When work b a done.That c wn rather than is a poor d AnHone ttappmess "en

wages.It a ttee gifte We have a ghtto happiness as we ha ea ghtto sunlight nO more and noless,But happhess cannot be ettyed by Snatching at it any mbre than by laz y waiting foritto m up`Happin"S the other word for which is,o iS a p duct of expenence.Ch=dren a happy h in4 enceibut man is happy when he finds peace .The happiness ofch dren passett b :ause through victo innence has to be suFenderedi but the tranqu lity of wisd9 not,ng can destroy Let dmplicity go em yOur fe.The habit of Onstantly reaching out for something iuSt bey6nd your grasp" 1 tend to bring discontent rather than happiness. It is

deshct eto yourt,nquimtyofmindtoenvyothers

a un4 you and to dwen ove..iluch

at

yOu have notr to want to9 many of the things you s" desires.Use and en,oy whatyOu n6w hav%be grateLl for present opportunities and b16sings and tmst your ebnity and the nturletO bring whatis 300dimd b tfor you.Tme

POn your own

hlPPiness does nOt depend upon great material

possessio but emanat laFgely om the mentalquaht

of contenhent conndenc(

serenlty

end beneAcence.

Simpl ity ofl alWayS tends to happhess, When we look intO the long Ovenue ofthe fhhre and s the good there b for Oach one f usto do we reahzc after alLWhatabeautifultttngit tOWOrta=d tO uve and tobe
happy

Rob l Lo Ste s

/ar

D"

Fo=give and foFget

I

ve found a httle remedy

To ease the life we live

And make each da,a happier One

It the WOrdfOrg e

So often little things come up

Thatlttve a pain and st g

That co ered up at onee w .ld nOt

Amountto anythingO I

When we hold them up to viel And broOd and sulk and ttet They greater grow before our eyes, Twere better tO forgete

The happiest humn relatiOnship one that basd on lov%backed up th indivdual kttom for each person hvo ed to b ome the highest and b"t of which he is capabll.Chains bind th the c tOr and the ptive.But a

high indivdual d Velopment.

Y91are twingto g e pleasure to some9ne and yOu klow iom experiette whlt trining thingS give you PleaSure. Such shple gifts T a COmpl ent On yOur hOme or youF children or yOuF neW hat a notC a telephohe calL Or a smple act thet reneCtS thoughthh s Or ttendly inter will set youup ran hOu perhaps for a whole day.They are the mest fO 6f gi n& ause they come fFOm the
httrt they are literany a pO=On Ofthe g er. Happin s must be Sipped not drained from life m great gulps.NoF dO it aow m a steady stream like water

= ==

onl a fauceto l "Aportion of thysef is a sip of happiness, as satisfying as it is costless.

Quest

fo, Dwelopment

Humanity

I have come to see life, not as a chase of forever impossible personal happiness, but as a field for endeavor toward the irappiness ofttre whole human family. There is no other srrccess. I know indeed of nothing more subtly satisfying and cheering than a knowledge of the real good will and appreciation of others. Such happiness does not come with money; nor does it flow from a hne physical state. It cannot be bought, But it is the keenest joy, after ?ll, and the toile/s tnrest and best reward. William Deni Hsuells
The man divided against himself looks for excitement and distraction; he loves strong passions, not for sound reasors, but because for the moment they take him outside himself and prevent the painful necessity of thought. A.y passion is to him a form of intoxication, and since he cannot conceive of fundamental happiness, alt relief from pain appears to him solely possible in the form of intoxication. This, however, is the symptom of a deepseated malady. Where there is no such malady, the greatest happine$s comes with the most complete possession of one's facultis. It is in the mornents when the mind is most active and the fewest things are forgotten that the most intense joys are experienced. This, indeed, is one of the best touchstones of happiness. The happiness that requires intoxication of no matter what sort is a spurious and unsatisfying kind. The happiness that is genuinely satisfying is accompanied by

the fullest exercise of our faculties, and the fullest

realization of the world in which we live.
Aldous Huxlry

To have ioy one must share itHapplness was born a twin.

.

Lord Byron

First duty to children: make them happy

It is just as easy to teach a child to be positiv, to look towards the sunny side of life, as it is to train it to be
negative, filled with fears and worries, to look towards the dark and gloomy side of things. Students in the fine art of successful living should teach their children that their efficiency, their success in life, their longevity, influence and power in the world, will largely depend upon their happines.s, their mental harmony. Parents do not realue the incalculable harm that they inflict upon the lives of their children when they constantly suppress their fun-loving natures. In so doing, they suppress the mental and moral factrlties. Marden said, "Pby is as necessary to the perfect development of a child as sunshine is to the perfect develoPment of a plant." Their lives should be sunny. Ioy, beauty, exuberance, enthusiasm, buoyancy is their need. By the ProPer orltivation of the cheerful faculties in early life, there is almost no limit to the possibilities of their personality enrichment and beautification. Drring childhood the little minds are plastic. They can easily be shaPd and formed. The first essentiat of a child's preparation for life should be the formation of the cheerful habit by training its mind towards strnshine, developing every possibility of the cheerful fac,ulties. The fint duty to children is to make them haPPy.
Sir Thomas Buxton

Home joys
Homeioys are known in simple thin BS, In friends that share a cup of tea, In books that waken old, olddreanrs And songs that stir the memory'
Rachel AnnNeiswender

li

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The ha estwe Feap will depend ottthe seeds we sow

SelfiSh pe6Ple greedyones are victi ofselfec6nceite They

depnve themselves of lr s riche`t blessings which are lit the m ha,Piness and peOce of mind.They do not pe. d velopment oftheirhveSbutremain shHlted and d rarfed

unfoldment.

C:reed stppresses exPFession stops growth and

Those who seek to get sOmetlhg fOr nothhg to gain
with6ut giving hoardingand holdi gOnwithOut gi ingup er that the very thing anything ,ooner or later wm disE

they sought Wul be de d the .Their in ow detel.ilined by and cor"pond ttith their out ow

wnl be

sowo We will never know the meaning of the wod

The ha est wereap M11 detenttnedbytheseedSWe

happiness if the seeds"e have sOwn have been naFOW

PinChed b ghted starved seeds of selfishn s and greed

1:
what you would have others do lilnto you.
the Soul

1=
of

Loveisthec HlnggnCeOfhitta t ,th9 hdi t ght

the golden lnk which binds u,to duty and tttth the redeemttg p nciPle that chieny recOnciles thO leart Of h and prOphetic ofetemal g00d

PI

The happy mn isthO man wholives o tiVely who has free affections and wide interests who secures his

butthe ma,who demands arection nOt the man upOn whom it is Spttking b towed.The man who r e es affctio the mn whog es ite brOadl
affction is a pOtent causl of happin s
iS

htfrest and iffctibn to many others.To be the tttipient of

:=

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for Dnelopmeut

Ifs up to you

I^augh a little-sing a little

As you go your way! Work a little-play a little, Do this every day!

Give a little,-take a little,

Nevermind a ft'9ry11Make your smile a welcomd thing AU around the town!

L^augh a

little-love

little,

Skies are always blue! Every cloud has silver tining+ But ifs up to you!

In the best kind of affection a man hopes for a new

happiness rather than for escape from an old unhappiness. The-best t1pe of affection is ieciprocally life-giving; each receives affection with ioy and gives it without effort, and

each finds the whole world more interesting in

two persons in each other, not solely as meurs to

consequence of the existence of this reciprocal happiness.

Affection in the sense of a genuine reciprocal interest of

each

other's good, but rather as a combination having a common good, is one of the most important elements of real happiness, and the man whose ego is so enclosed within steel walls that this enlargement of it is impossible misses the best that life has to offer, however succsgful he may be in his career.

If you ever find happiness by hunting for it, you wiil find it, as the old wornan did, her'lost spectacles, safe on her nose, atl the time.

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It's easy to achieve happiness

It is difficult to describe or define Happiness. One can feel it. You desire it. You do not exactly know what it ii. You know it is nice to have it, you feel good when you get it. Yet, most of the people do not know how to go about achieving it. For an average person, it is easy to achieve happiness. It is not difficult. But, one must realise two aspects before starting. You carurot achieve happiness in a day or in a short time. It calls for an exercise you have ta undertake consciously and over a period of time. It will come surely

but gradually. You would feel it coming. This will

encourage you to try further and, it will go on till you feel satisfied. Of course, your qualities go on developing. You never come to an end. It goes on for life, nourishiog your rnind and spreading happiness to others also. So, the lesson is to have patienc, faith and continue practice.

It is easy to be pleasant! When life flows by like a song/, But the rnan worth while is one who will smile, When everything goes dead wrong.
For the test of the heart is trouble, And it always comes with the years, And the smile that is worth the praises of earth Is the smile that shines thru ttre tears.

Never miss a ioy in this world of trouble*that's my theoryl ... Happiness, like mercy, is twice blesh it blesses those most intimately associated with it and it blesses all those who see it, hear it, feel it, touch it or breathe the same atmosqh_ere. I&teDouglas Wiggin

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cheerul disposidon
n srenabhngoneto transmuteapparent Ahabit ofchr misfortunes into real blessings ls a rtunetO a young man t crOSSing the threshold of aCt e hfe. OFyOung womn There is nothng but u fort le in a habit of gmmblin which requir no talent n,selfden no brainsr no character. Gloom and depression not only take lnuch out nning oflL,but detract greatly l onl the chances of succe":Itis thebrightandFheerttlsPiritthatWh theAnal
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triumph

The men whom l have seen succeededl stin lre have

: :T eL g
changes a chances of this mottal le rough and sm th ahke as itcame.

Cttrlgs Kli gs

One must alsO understand that there is no such thing as

perfct happiness even when one has no woli ett nO pble E no fearsr nc hurdles:You must realtte thatsuCh a shtecan never be achi" COTttering thecOmplexitiesof humn life.Howeve= one has to mke a c6ng ious and
concerted effort to lean to haFle sha ns causing feaL WOr dlSCOntent and mintain a apP/mme ofmindin wen the mOst ffidt situattOnso we tend tO indulge in ,er_pity and 6oHow wh h may get us sympathy froln those aroundusr but win ttkeus dependent on tlem and definitely ke us mOre rable m lthe 10ng m .You have to remnd you3elfthat you have to depend on your

omere

Happiness 10es nOt depend uPOn what happen,

o tsue of yOu bit on,what happens insde of y9w it b m Of meaSuFed by the sPmtin whth you meetthe p

lre.

LPPhe"ISastateofmmdo LincohOncesaid:Teare
as happy as we make up our mindst
be.

/OriD"gloFtt "

No mattis Feally happy withoutl hobby

Thereis no questionaboutithObbiescanbe sParetime well SPent fOr.they brmg us happ eSS fr ndship knOwldge and good health through rehxation. Hobbi(B prov ea

good babnce between wott and Phy fOr those"ho are mtensllybeltuponSuccessandare constantlydir ting all
their effoJb toward their goale

There are fouF general dttes of hobbi :(1)Doing .things (2)(Collecting things (3)Making things and r4)Studying or leaming about things.By refering to your
encyclopedia

hobbies which can be Found in each ofth e chss .hblic

you will dis,over the great number Of

hbmries areusuany well ked Withbooksabouthobbies

Hobbies havl marked the beginning of fame and

fortune fbr many who never drealned thattheir sPare time activities would deve16p into orldwid renOwn for them in the fidds OF sporttt invention,scienc%art musio and
indistry.

Patience L a grttt tttcher and Ottentimes

d veloped

bttt

e ttthSt ul : i 1IT
:

through a hobby.Hobbies relax the mind and in

Sfr Wli lila

anunttt ed dirc fe b bbed ofits prOpening pOwe= Keep w hg for SOmethhg and when you have an

l=:111

oppottnity to grattt y ur wis do not gratify them to u sO yOu my never lome mtiated.

lR tt r

Art of l

hg

Th e are the soods to sow Love tmth serv o and howledger

And gentleness
And the ha est

Is abundant,oyund peace:

A mer Good loob depe,d on One s sense of humor heatth mketh a cheerttl co tenance. Joyhhess keeps the heart and face youngo A good laugh mak us better friends with ourselves and everybody around us.
Cheermness
10n&
interspel ;ed wtth laughterr makes lhring a A ght h art lives nne art and adds years to our days

ive me an honOst lttght satt S Walter Scot who was one ofthe happiest men in the woFld nth aldnd

Shak peare.

wom a,d pleamnt smne for everyOn and evevbOdy

loved hiln for it.

There ns vev httle success where there is httle laughter

The workman who relolc"mh WOrk and hughS awaylts

d omlbrts the man sure to rise:

A Chl
The lnost ilnPortant thing in life is the way itis lived

and

thereis no such thing as en abstract happlns,an abstract goodn s or monlity or an abstract anything,except in

te ofthe peson who believes and who aCts.Thlre is

gle hu n be g hO hv and wh6 through every moment Of his own persOnal hving exPe encc" belng happy or unhapp n ble or b v so Or un s or
only the sl

sEnply exbting.
Dr

170 Taylor

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Happiness is i t lybasic object e

As a mortal plssing throttgh ths life for iuSt a limited

S b a tnlly bas pe Od of tim I beheve thOt hOpefuny happiness OtteCt nappiness for onesdfand' for others.It hasn ttaken toO much hvhg on my partto
discover that r ttl happiness whth sounds so selfish and
self centred

is never achieved merely by s1lfiSh

mate aliSm it Can only have depth and real satisfaction if it is bound up wlth unselfishness a co deration fbr

sewiceisthe rent we pay for our place on earth That hnd Of service b ngs the tme happiness we allseek For as10ng as l can rememberI ve been obsessed with theurge to use such talents as I PosseSS tO travelthatroad it s a sort of creative itch.I m not really happy unl(ss rm making something Whether it s a picture a book a

otherse Service the very sence ofit.It has been mid that

scientiAcPapeLa" l uFe movie ora reSearpich station.And

my perpetual concem is that life is too shOrt for an the
better if l didn tt=y

things l want to do.Ferhaps l shOuld do some of them to dOso many.

Paer scOf

Does that mean that l have nO belief at all?11 lid that I behevOd in man.I believe that the puTose of lnen S life upon this earth is the purSult of happhess Then wha you willsay do you mean by happiness?`Not PleaSur of cou=ser nor success.The most mserable men l knOw are those who surrendlrto the dreav round Of hdulgencQ Or those whose achievements in hfe can be a"esse4 Only Is. mat l or hedo stic te.
Sir ttbrorJ Nlicors

Q /Or12 IoF atis happine6s?

HapPiness as viewed by most people is a sought deStination.Itibsomethingtobe.ItissOmethingtobecome, To thb unfOrtunat1lo happln s lls e end Ofthe rainbo thep9t Ofgoldo Theyspend outahfetimech"hg ninbowse They might as well chase the Shadows for they shau never find in the extemalthat whth Only r les within. Happiness b in the,oumey nOt in the destination.

Happy ls he who has found seli Happy is he who ows Codo Happy is he who las 10fty and noble asPirations Happyis he who is risingil theW9rld,climb ghigherand highero LPPy he whoi, nri hing the hves of all those abo t himo Happy iS he who is cohtribut g sOmething to

mlkethiSW91dabetterplaceinwhichto hveo LPPyiShe whose wort WhOSechor WhOSedany tasks are labors Of
loveo Happy is he l ho loves lovl.H,ppy he who loves

the mateFial thmgs abOut usr in 3uch things as wealth pOsitiOn or power.Dbinusioned and dbappointed arethey who spend a lifethne hawesting and accumulating more
wealth than th y need only to discoveL too laterthat allthe

lre.Happy he who l happy:Happiness is every lay Happiness is n9w.LPPineSS iS the,6umey. Happin9" l State of mind.It can never beofound in

mOney ln the wOrld wion l buy a grain of happmess.

Happiness b an expression of appraciation for the things which we have now.Happln is today.Happlness is now.Lch new dawn signals the birth of a glo ous new day wherem we can both glve and And 10v%contenhen
cheerhlness and unselfish service.

L` co

The hebitOfbdng happy OblesOT tobe ed Or hrgely eed 6m the d6mimtio of Outward conditions. Robg Lo St s

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Then laugh
Bu d for yourself a strong box Fashion each Part with Care,
When it s strong as yottr hand can make it Put all your trOubles there,

ILde there an thought of your fanures

And each bitter cup that you qua L k an your heartaches uthin :
Then sit on the lid and laugh
Tell no one else its contents

Nver lts s rets share,

When you ve droppd in yOurcare and won Keep them forever thOre, Hide thmttfrom sightbO COmpletely Thatthe world wnl neverdream hari Fasten the strong box smFely Then sit on the hd a d laughe 3

A sB And equally fimly do l believe in the v alue of each indi dual lre.I believe that a happy and a usem life is whatlttycanthelodicatedlife not dodicated h the sense of what Kiplhg Once caned the plaster saints no but braver bhtho,cOurageous and ttte liVes dodkated to the
1

things that are hOnourable and of good report among lnen. Itfo1lows thatl beheve in Freedom for the ml we ng Of

huttn persOn,hty fOr the ceaseless extension of the iontiers of knowledgQP and foF the g:owth of hman
happi,ess.

I beheve that LMe is infhitely WOFthWhne that each indi and so to cont bute
tO the heritagethe generati9nS translniti and t,cooperate

`ual haS th,POWertO makeitso the etemaland tHumphant advenCe Of mankind.

Slir No

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As nile
Let Others ch"rthe Winning lnan l hold worth whilq Tis he who do( the b t he canr

ne 3 0ne

Then loses with a smile.

Beaten he is but notto stay

Dom Withthe rank and lc That man w 1 n s9me otheF day Who lo B with a smilet
u

e the heart are the smu .Such "that send insP1lunhP have powerto "Out Ofthe heart,Fthe onO smuod up9n nO matto hOW heavy the sadn s lnay have beene What a heart do thott kind smnes reveal! e ring nth the milk o human kindne%) o t OVer

The s

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smn thatare mu Of y and beaut ghttng up e raCe and enfOldhg us h their ghdnes and sunshiierlet the day bl neve=6o giy

tendeL so tFue! Then there are the liF",sm

end the sky never so dark!

IJoL s Avoid selfishness b ause selfishhess sh vels slu16 hPpen ghap nes

g,s

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llttl
=:

9 mOSt dd ate the most sensible of an pleaswesr

COnSIStS h promottng the pleaSure ofothe
.

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Zestis the secret of happi ,ss

ly at an times.Whe,a drfmtor worying decision has to be reached as soon a,an the data are
than inadequat

Xtti

some new fact comes to ylur lknowledge.Nothhg is so

exhausting as ind bion and nothing is,o htile. th a feeung Of S urity are muCh Those w ho face hfe
them to disaster t

: =
fW'1l b ng

e t?f PPinT

AIJ ,:

temperance Ond repose

Slam the door on the doctors iose.

knowledge.
Paracelsus

It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier

sometimes be cheated than not to tmst.

to

I want a soul so fuIl of ioY Life's withering storms cannot destroy.

One should take good care not to grow too wise for so great

a pleasure of life as laughter. losryh 'Mdison

/OriD" :o "

Have a clear cOnscience

til

ac iev

h,ppineSS

?ni waF t

l thiS

and thatis to have either a clear cOnscience 6r nOne at an.

S Happiness g ws at our o n Aresdesr and is n6t tO be picked in strange gardens:

D gras rrora

Ah,ppy man Or woHni b a betterthing to find than a five

hen ttghted

: l i
ROb I

S as
St be

Happiness b

=health good

"Sa and a bad memOry frg & "

M tt

D .S I0 S

attained.

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Hfrtt thorne

Happiness is mental harmony

Our happiness does not depend on the absence of problens from oui lives but on the way we react or adiust to the problerns. I cannot think but that the world would be better and brighter if our teachers would dwell on the duty of happiness as well as on the huPPiness of durY-Lord Aaebury

Ioy is always the accompaniment of a task successfully

accomplished. Happiness is that inward state of perfect satisfaction which is joy and peace.

Abiding happiness will come to you when' ceasing to selfishly cling; you are willing to give uP. An immediate nobility and happiness attend the thinking
of a kind thought, or doing a kind deed.

The happiest people are those who think the most

interesting thoughts. Those, who decide to use leisure as a means of mentafdevelopment, who love good music, good books, good pictures, good comPanl, ggod convercation, are the trppibt people in the world. And they are not onfF happy in themsilves, they are the cause of happiness in others. He is happywhose circumgtances. suit,his tempen but he is
circrrmstances.

more excellent who can suit his temper to any

I{appinesdoesn'tcome fromdoing what welike to do but from liking what we have to do. ffappy are they who, at a crucial moment in life know how to retli on their conscience alone.


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Take ttme fOr FeCreatiOn

Assochtewithloppy nf Lttter ting p"Pleo T tO dO l servre for so e ttn ,ome re 9one evev day Have an

1 :
rcreatio rar on.

e:=

=1 1 = 1

IF "y '1ly ie glt kind Of Smiler the ttncger heartFelt smiL is a

1 : u ra yOW"
:

= LpPy hethatCa lookback,PonthePastWithPItture.

le

F= gO S the best verttement the persondtty:h

L 1 Fra" :

= =t = l
JJ "S

De rf == e, ineS der = every st9m:the

b
OE oH A 6wledgeyOurO F th Ch ad look lPOnyOurbmeractor love andt

a soh o for t'uty

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Things that make men haPPy

To watch the corn gFow and the blossom set, to draw hard breath over plough-share or spade, to read, to think,.to love, to hope, to pray-these are the things to make me"

H#

Make people happy, and there will not be half the quarrellirg or a tenth part of the wickedness there is.
ChiTd

There are two ways of being haPPy-we may either diminish our wants, or augment ourmeans: the result is the same; and it is for each nuln to decide for himself, and do what happens to be the easiest.
Franklin

A laugh at the right time captures a heart. A bit of humor is the salt of human intercourse and a shortcut to friendly

understanding. Clever witticisms, used

moment, often ease

at the right

dit'ficult situations.

My boys sometimes get discouraged, and I say to them, "Go out and give something to somebody, if ifs only a pair of woollenstockings to a poor old woman. It wiil take you
away from yourselves and make you h"PPy." Iosqh lefferson Cheerfulness is a valuable success asset. Ifs the greatest tonic in the world for both mind and body. The priceless value of cheerfulness costs nothitg. With it you can expeiience the real joy of living. fuWWaldoEmerson
He who has not forgiven an enemy has never yet tasted one of the most subrime enjoyments of u'"io*nn l*swr l_awter Flappiness is activitln.

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- is the strertgth of cheerftrlness Wondrous

Wondrous is the strength Of Cheer
1lness

and its Power of

endurance.Thech ralmanwnldomoreinthettmetim%

win do it betterr dl posevere in itlongerrthan the sad or

sullen.

o Orrylg

The habit ofbemg happy enab One tO be freed Or largely On Of outward conditk ns. om the do eed Roba Lo SL"e sO
f an thingS the most Fun 1 love but to0 1nuch hn is loathsomeo Mtth is betterthan hn,and hPPine"b better
than lnirth
WliII B

The supreme happin s of hfe b the conV t n Of being loved foryou"e o mOreloH tlyrbeingloVedmsPiteOf
yourself.

VttorHago
ltis Only a poor sort of happiness that could ever colm by lnuchabout 6ur own narrOw pleas We mn canng vel

only have the highest happine" such as goes along nth

tme greatness by hving wdethough and forthe rest ofthe world as well as ourselv
.

much feding
GgorgF EIlilo,

CheeFhheSS is as natural to the heart Of a man in strong

healtL asco10rtO his cheet and Whereverthere b habitual gloo there must be either bad at mwhOlesome food inproperly severe labo orlring hbitt oflttP. o R s G eFcan keareofitseLbuttO get ml,alue ofa,Oy yOu must have somebokdy to di ide it with

-QuegtforDarclopment Have a cheerful disposition

t

mnst directly rlirer makes, which most Of all w happyis a cheerful disposition: for this excellent trait is its o*n-immediate rewaid. Precisely he who is cheerful has reason to be so; namely, iust because he feels always -way. In judging the happiness of someone who is that young; beautiful, ricli, and honbred, one wishes to know if he is-cheerful as well. But if, on the other hand, he is cheerful, it makes no difference whether he is young or old, straight or hunchbackd, Poor or rich; he is huPPy. Cheerfuhness alone is comparable to the actual coin of and not, like everything else, only to its bank

,ianlirro hloccrin.'e that blessing$, +h subjective

$ppiness,

checks

Afthur schopenlnuer Always laugh when you can; it is a cheap medicine. Merriment is a philosophy not well understood. It is the
sunny side of existence.
George Gordon Byron

Happiness lies, first of all, in health.

George WiIIinm Curtis

We are never so happy, nor so unhappy, as we supPose ou*elves to be'

I^a Rochefoucauld

'Trs never to be bought, but always free.

Pope

We're charm'd with distant views of haPPiness, But near approaches make the ProsPect less. ThonwsYalilen They that reldom take pleasure seldom give pleasure. Fullce GrwiIIe
The three sectets of happiness: to see no evil, to hear no evil, to do no evil. t^L:Proverb Chinese

-QuatforDarcIopnent Begin to be
ioyous
If you want to be happy, Begin where you are, Don't wait for some rapture That's future and far.
Begin to be joyous, begin to be gl'ad And soon you'll forget That )tou ever were sad. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others without getting a few drops on yourself.

Happiness depends chiefly on our cheerful acceptance of routiner.on our refusal to assume, as many do, that daily work and daily duty are a kind of slavey. E Baron Russeil Brtggs Happiness consists in activity; it is a running stream, not a stagnant pool. The highest hat'piness on earth is in marriage. Every man who is happily married is a successful man even if he has failed in everything else. \ Williamlryon PhelP

The most delicate, the most sensible of all

consists in promoting the pleasure of others.

pleasures,

rhe greatest pleasure r know is to do

y:"#LH:t;
Clnrles lamb

stealth, and to- have it fotrnd out by accident. Search for a single, inclusive god is doomed to failure. Such happiness as life is capable of comes from the full pa5ticrpation of all orrr powers in the endeavor to wrest hom eich changing situation of experience its own fuU and unique meaning'

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Laughter is the best medicine

Me t the chanenge oflife with the art oflaughter

Leam laughter iom little Chndren by thinking their thoughts dreammg the dreamsand playing the gam". E)evdlop a playhl attitude toward proble tOSS them around handle them with a hghttOuch. US,laughter as a sarety valve tO keep yourselfmneand
relaxed.
I

hughter calm,tempersand sOothesiangldi nerv

Look at the funny Side of your difficultiett impel oml

"Ct laughter hto tense situations to ttve the da

contemplatiOn is the sttret Oflaughter and persP" ve with a senSe of humor.

Most of alL leam t0 1augh at yoursett meet 9h day

Lughteris.the best md e for a 10ng e,d happy hfe He"ho laughs hsts,
who ns the happi tof me ?He who values the lnerits 6f others A,d in the Pleattre takes,9y eVen as though twere h own. 0 G tt

"WOr/ga The TPl AfomulafOrttpeHendnghappinessbeginsby

accepting the mom appr lating Opporhnities.
lt

and adlpting to its

Is hfe worth vhg?It all depends on the liver`

God ga e"the abihty to lattgh and He nev asked that any of 5Children lose theirsense ofhumore The ght use of this POWer Olables us tO laugh"ith othe not at
WliII

them and to release tensiOns and lighten burdens thpugh

the sharing ofa humOrOus situation

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III health, of body or of mind, is defeat ... health alone is aictory. Let all men, if they can rnatuge it, contriae to be healthy Thomas Carlyle

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It seems pathetic that a human be'ingr crated in the form of a perfect mechanism, should be so inconsiderate, so negUgent with the care of his marvelous body.'By our failure to keep in top physical condition, w invite disease, disordens of all kind, and premature death. The way most people abuse the human nulchine, one would think that they are trying to leave this life as soon as possible. We have Jtfy one body in which to live out our early

days.

It is so precious to us that we should treat it

reverently, as the temple of our being, which it is. Instead, most people do everything they can to poison it, to tear it down, to cripple and get rid of it. We fill our lungs with smoke and our stomachs with rich foods and harmful drink. We torhrre the neryous system with pills to keep us awake and pills to put us.to sleep. We ignore Nature's

wirning signals (headache and bodily pains) by

eliminating the discomforts, instead of treating the cause of our disorders. Nothing wil aid us so well in attaining the larger successes in life, as will keeping ourselves in a superb physical condition. Nothing in life can mean more to us than our health, keeping in top physical condition for the largest possible expression of our ability. One of the greatest investments which we can make is to invest in health, for there is no other investment like it. It increases our efficienclrr our effectiveness in life, our creative and productive abitty. Health is life. insurance, success and happiness insurance.
Do not let your bod)r become diseased for want of exercise, lest you should wleh for action and find that you have no Power to move'
Dandemis

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Hlalth is the mOSt,atural thing in the world

Hcalth is theimostnaturalthmg hltheworldoltis naturalto
be healthy b ause

We are a patt of Nature we aFe Natwe.Nahre tHes hatt to keep us wen because she and that businessisthat we shan needsusin herbusines

ibe usefulto other lnen:The rewards of life aFe fbr Service.

we pr ewe our ttnity only as we forgetself h Serv e.To ip to sodetyr s relatiol centre on one seseltandfOrgeto isto summon mbeviand misev tteans dbease.Mbery b an tant.It affcts the heartbeats 6F circuhtbn then the dig on,and then the person npe fOrtwo hundred ,and nineteon diseas( )and si hundred and forty two compliFationso What we call d easeS are p cipally ,ympto=L60f mental condition,1 0ur bodi" re autonlltiQ and thinking about 6w dig ti6n does not a us: ther it ed enOugL dig tiOn w l stop hindersI If we are woI
absolutdy

The rnoralis obvious:IDon t worry. The rcrlpe for gOod health :F rget

it!

Hb

Ten commandments of health

10.

1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9.

Never lose interest in life and the world. Eat sparingly and at regular hours. Take plenty of exercise, but not too much. Get plenty of sleep. Never allow yourself to become annoyd. Set a daily schedule of life and keep it. Get a lot of sunlight. Drink as much milkas will agree with you. Obey your doctor arxt consult him often. Don't "overdo" things. o D.RocvgI r

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Self-culture includes a proper care of the health of the body

Self-culture includes a proper care of the health of the body. To be careless of your health is to be stunted in intellect and miserable in feelings. You may as well expect to enjoy life in a dilapidated and ruined habitatiory which affords free admission to the freezing blast and the pitiless rain, as to be haPpy in a body nrined by self-indulgence. The body is the home of the soul. Can its mysterious tenant find rest and unmixed ioy within its chambers if daily exposed to shaip and shivetiog shocks through its aching joints or quivering neryes? How manybright intellects have failed to makeany impression upon the world sirnply because they neglected the most obvious of hygienic laws? If God has bestowed uPon you the inestimable gift of good health and a good constitution, it is your duty, ?s a rational creature, to Preserve it. To expect vigorous health and the enjoyment which it bringS, and at the same time live in open defiance of the laws of health, is to expect that which cannot take place; Not only is good health thus of value and one of the

most important ends of self-cultivation, but we would impress on all, the fact that the body is just as important a factor as the mind in the work of success, that it is just as worthy to be cultivated, so as to, grow in strength and beauty, and the development of all those factrlties which go
to make a physically perfect man or woman. He rises early and exercises his mind with contemplatiory and his body with action; and by so doing he preserves the health of both. What health is to the body; so is honesty to the soul.
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Balance woJ love and Play

No wenroundd life can be complete thout a balance of Wort Loverand Play.
If wen chose our pa,timeS Can cont hte muchto our wel beingr to the maintenance of s9und Phystal health

e thne and tO successlL 1 livinge A PortiOn of Our dany should be a1lotted to wholesome rem eation preferably of
the va ety that will hvolve soml fo.i.l of exerclse for the

body.Many fo ms of outd00r sPO are deally suited for

ourpurposeoSwimmingan4bowhngareexcellentfo of
indoor spoJb.

The mon tony ofen work and no Play is a destroyer of

strength and abnityo SuFcess dOes not crown the efforts of those who work too lnuch and Play too httle TO be in afit
condition and at one s maxmum efficiency we need to get out of doors lnore often we need to develop the waking

the deepbreathing habit the exercising habi the habit Of participating in sPOrtS act ities.These fo of
habit

Play will go a long way in redu ing the strain Of the lna,y

pressurtt to"hich we are su ted in our,o and

advanced civnizationo An over strenuous lre wtt result in )O and the an inefftient hfe.Through play r rreao exel spori we find equi b um balaice.
Play is a restoror ofthe mentally and PhysiCally tired.It

a fo...l of relaxation that encourages the rtteation processes`If"e are too buSy to find time forthe hr lment 6f our mental and PhySiCal needs,we are indeed too busy: Many men eager to capture lnore and more douars and build larger estatett vastly overdraw from the mental and PhySiCal accoun exhausting the reserve caPital.Unless iS Capital is restored th ugh r reation through Pla they chancttO LECome banhpts Ofmin4 and dy. Work consists of whatever a body is ob ged to do,and play consists of whatever a body ls not ob ged t,do.
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Breathe more and live more

Wecan c st for days without wateL weeks uthoutfood butOnly few mmut without airo With every ttesh breath Of alr inhaled a miracle takeS placeo The pOiSbn fmed blue
whth enters the lungs ischarged with thO lifeegivittg air which we breatheolnstantly itis pu fied and given new life`The ch puFe red new blod then owsto an Parts Of the b nging nth it neW health.
bl od

Fresh alr bFeathd into the lungs hos a cleansmg power

eives l om

upontheinsueofmncOmparabletothecleansingbenents
which thl outer man r the dany bath.

Oxygen ib the lr glvlng elelmtent found in the air. Breathing in Oxygen breathing h hfe.` at why yOur satt Dr,Boyd.There is a ght Way to breath is,our u
breathe and a vong way to breathe.In order to aki nature in the p cess of ketephg us a healthy state we n l to

leam how to breatheo Although well-1 luipped with two hngtt m"t peOple seldom ml either of them with life propelhng oxygen. Don t,St Sip ughtl mung only the top portion ofthe
lttgS

Makedeepbreathingl habit.FmandexPar Leam

tO exhale cOmpletd dttVing the 16i5oned airout. Corect breathing engages the whole ofthe lungtt froln
om top lo lot,01L Side tO s and wanstline to neCtthe back t6 nt.It rttir much Pationt pncti e before the hPOrtant life giving habitcaibe fomed. Theconttbusne"Ofbttthing in life giving powerand h alth with each breath win have a wOnderm ell
ves revitahzing renewing,and rettorhg our bodies ouF

dead broken down

We should breathe in sufficient,xygen 10 bum up tisue and keep the bloodstrealn,lean Breath more andst ng.` e WhO halfbreath tt har l and ve mOre.

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your food thoroughly Masticate

Masticate your food thoroughly. The vital thing in eating is what you assimilate. Avoid the common fault of bolting food. if in a hurry, eat less and masticate rnore. Thorough chewing of food not only makes it more palatable but is a valuable aid to digestion. Be discriminating in your choice of food. Eat for health. Plain, well-cooked food is much more nourishing than over-variety. If a food disagrees with you, give it up. Eat plentifully of fresh vegetables and fnrits. Relish )rour food, but never eat to satiety. Most Persons eat too much. Quantity and kind of food should be determined by the nature of your daily work and activities. KeeP your wants few and simple, and eat only food that agrees with you.

Stand erect
Don't slouch. Don't slump. Don't sag. Don't droop. Sit straight, stand straight, walk straight, think straight, .talk straight, act straight. llold yourself erect and dignified. . Keep your chest full and strong. Breathe deeply. Remind yourself many times during the day to expand your chest and keep it high. Occasionally stand up, clasp your hands behind the back, bringing them well uP between the shoulder blades, then take a full, deep breath, exPanding
the chest to its capacity, at the ffime time straightening the arrns while keeping the hands clasped. This is a splendid -'--!- for developing erect posture. Correct carriage is exercrse essential to a strong and forceful personality. Frequently check any tendency to droop. Stand erect.

When I go to bed I leave my troubles in my clothes. Dutch Proaerb

 Q /ar helo ` , Fatigue is unnatural

Lck Of vitality is due to a consuttptbn Of On
l resenre

power and the presence of fatigue polsOns in the body.

hve you ever experienced the aftemoon 31ump?If you [talking haV then yOu canbesurethatyou know whatla
about.:
Itis not no...lal for us to suffer

om fatigueo We Shoul`

recognize that fatigue is uttnatural.It is nature

s wammg

signalthat sOmething is w ng and that we hed better dO something abOut ito Chron fatigue is a sign that you are ing yourself out and,hould rqulre the i ediate
attention of your physician

PrOpe _diet a good bahnce between woric Pl y ald sleep the enibyment Of yOur wOrk the da y bath and limirilatiOn of tigue PrOper exercise contribute tO the

poisons and creation Of reserve powero Rlegularity is Natur s lnottoo WQ,too need regula ty in our livi g
habits.

If we And that we do ourl st wo in the moming We should handle our most important lnatters then leaving

routineforthe aftem00n hours.Theproperuseofthelunch hour can have a lot to do with Preventing your aft oon absk shmp.As fo...ler President Truman discov walk or complete change ofinterest freshensup the"hOle aftemoon.
Ifwe p t ourheartSintO our workand lnake ita labor6f lovQ such interest wnlseem t9ke the time ny by`L On the other hand we becOme cloc watchers lacking enthusinsln fOr Ourwork timesee s to drag on and wefeel fatigued.The sPi t Which we hold for our work has alott do with the amount of rese e force uPOn which we are

ired tO draw

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Goo4 health depettds prima ly upon ght thinking

Good heal depends P m:ny u,o lght thinking and consequttt lght habitS ofl Vigilantly rd yOur mmd agamst eroneous and d tmctive thought as y9u woild gvard your house agal LSt burglars and assassinso A benekent poWer cOOperat( with you when you engagein right thinking.TO be tho=oughly"ell you muSt be thOrO ghly go and goodness primanly of the mind and heart.Harmonious thin ,g Strttgthensr Stim lat and nOurishes the b6dyo Ch erfulness purity and righteous eSS are vital e191mlents of good he lthe The rewards of vime are cttta lmmdiater and satisfying. HOld tenadously to the pttncIPl of tnth honoL and StiCeo Rightthin g agreatcreativefo e with which to
build a healthy a,d beautim l

An adequate rcerve force esSary

at an timeso lt
.

provides us uth disease resibting power and the strength

be quick tO apply them in an emergency.Th,prceWatton

of health is easier than the cure or disease.

n essary to meet up th the many tte emergend The thottnd httle hints which lnay save or ngthen may repel or abate{ seaser orthe Simple hws whn reguhte ourboduyvigoLshouldbeSO mttittthatwel ly

D S We may live withOut poel= muSiC and art

We tty ve

without cons lencer and live thout heaFt

We yVe

without hds,we may ttve without book

cooks

But civihzed man cannotlive without

He mly hve without hoper whatis hOpe but deCeiving?

He may ve thout b9 wht hO"ledge but gHeving?

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Look aftlr y ur newes

Xhausted Much ofthe world s misery Ga,be att buted tO ne es brought about by lac of proper exercise or r reati9n 10SS Of sleep en4 vOng inking.Fear wOry and anxiety the enemi Of repose haptteSSand peace of mind are the co on Onem Of our nerves as Well.

ItistmlystrangethatweleamSOmanythingsintth

01

which a oflittle practal vahe a,d almOst wholly negl t to lcam anything about tho humin lnaChine upon which depends our uccess or failwe in life. An about uo we"e peOp10 d l g small things hving mediocre hvesr Wlen th have the abihty tO lo gttet things tollive grand l esrif only they had been taught to ppperly( LFe for the= linds and bodies to enJoy g00d robust health.Physical and lnental weaknttes of all kinds are ambit n kine3 They destrOy the win to win.

Vigo us
If we want t

act i

long d av9 ,iCkness w s10u CO tinuanykeepOurbo4ya dOurhe aCliV9bydOi gall Our duti , faithfuny, by leatting and adopting the pmciples of a healthy by bdng temperate in eattn diinking sleeping etct(Can We live long by idle htemperat gluttottous,and ettlar habi leading an unhealthy l ?That way we would o ly be working
against bng hfe

ve

agahtt fev thingW,seek

Plain l ing and high th

use

kittgwtts rehealthformOStOf

antObehealthytby exercLeend TheonlyttayfoFI . absthenc tl Veasifhe werop

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Avoid the lnad msh

Speed and more sPaed the cry heard everywhere today. The greater our speed the ttter our agQ the greater

un be the emotiOnal strains upon each of uso More than

lest w9 be cmshed by the rast tempo of modem l g. Never befOre has the need leen greater for a pncttal
PhnOSOphy oFsane li ng The hur7 habit the mad m the rat rac%takl e,o, out of livintt shorten h invite hea and CmtO dest y po e and serenit and reduce thequality 0

,ver befOr%we are caned up10n to exercise grttter wisdom

of one s wo

Poise is one of the ra t quahties in m .It is an

exemplifierf PkOW Poitt is devdop out of a grttt many different qualities and faculties.A hck of poise L always a sign of Weaknessr never Ofsttength.

work has evevthhg tO dO With our successin life. There is no sure way to get rich quick nor to build a life in a day. The sun will rise tomo1row morning on time. Be

Rexivetht iom thisday fomard you wnll e mnd that you win s10w down and ttv6 o by life.Lstead of hmg tOigetiowhere slo,down and arrive. The h habit b death to quattty.The quality of our

patient,

here to enloy it.

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Haste nulceth uroste.

affects the circulation, whole nervous system, and pro have never known a man who many who died from doubt.

Wory

heart, the glands, the

id

y afrcts the healtheI

from overworlg but

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relax

Relaxatton

Relaxatbn is a important as exercise.Many people never

even h sleep:the are alWays undoi strain.Nothing

uttelf to

should be done in a state OfStrain.If you cause,

b ome aware of your physikal cOndition at any partttar moment you:W l uSually find that you have a tense expressbn oF thatthe mttles of y9ur hands Or a or
legs are taut when there is no need forit leam to av9id i
.This unco

Weu tl tension or strain exhaus P ySiCal energy ano it "clous

Can unless be dOnethere by training h cottbusnesse Be "hiCh relaxedi iS any yOurser need for tensiono h Particuhrr relax yOwself completdy When you retre to rsto A few momentsrattention to thismatter when

yougo tObedat nightwnlh1lPyou tO sleep.The sdentav

wOrker shOuld ne'er gO tO bmentally tired. Attention to relaxation causes us to become awar1 0f

Such awaren s is the secFet Of thl lnental and ou"elv bod y health of mano Al lF aCtbns sk ld at wnl be c01"Cious. ny of the things we lo suCh as wlki, dr &eatintt are unc6Tclous and when"e by any chance bCOine cOnsElous ofthem we b ome OS mperfect actors On the stag are confused and forget hOw we
should behaveo We should cultivate awarene"ofou elves when sitth Walkin eatin3 9r in any other habitual actiono WQ should obsewe th actions ofthel e senstt and Ofthe organs Ofthe bodyo The Buddhists say that n9gleCttO
beaWare of one s physical eCtiOns makes spmtu41 exercises

dlyactions II Lrlldb i R ''16nsious:lourb ln and relaxation which refr h and strength =ea themin4 andbOdymult,ly the power and effict e, s of increase cOurag conttdencO self resP au Our faculti
every success and happm(BS faculty

-Questfor Rest and sleep

Pe ods of rest and sleep are

maintenance of sound Pihysta our natural liveg are spent in

bsolutel eSSential fOr the healtho About on third of d it Surprising tO leam earned the art of restful

that most people have not

sleeping. Sleep is a necesity. It is a time when )tou should be completely "closed for repairs' , for that is the puryose of mit yourself completely to sleep. It is the time when you Nature, when you lay the body own in her gara9e,so that ir the damage inflicted she can go to work on it and upon it during the day. It is a time when every organ of yOur body b rcharg with li and made ready for your next day's work. ItiS hnpoJantthat we coo rate with Nature in her recreating process. Our mental a itude has everything in the hang up our clothes at world to do with this. When night with thett We ShO ld ha g up eVery single busiTss thought, trouble, anxiety, pro em. The bed is no place to bringOur buSiness or your p blems people bathe before going As an aid to relaxation, y hfore retiring or not, to bed. Whether you bathe the be sure to take a mental bath. Wash out of the mind all ppy thoughts. If you want unpleasant, disagreeable, to keep youn& keep the mind fresh, pure, and clean with pping off to sleep. Think cheerttl though ,ust ttfO e is going to do for you. aboutithe cen bunkling that t you have ttbitedo Think Think about beautinI Plac
uplifting thoughts.

works, motivational books, contribute to the rest and self-improvgment courses, a refreshment of your mind. Thi sort of mental refreshment will make you feel renewd, fr re interested in lif6.
The reading of inspiratio

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Physical side of healthy living

On the physical side of healthy living, healthy diet (eating for the qake of living healthily and sanely, and not living for

the sake of eating lavishly and savagely), fresh air, sgfficient exercise, good sleep, relaxation after devoted r,riork, suitability of ana love for work, and employment of the right type good environment and overall moderation
are of the utmost importance. The body is desiped to produce all needed energy over an amazingly long period of time. If the individual takes

reasonable care of his body frorn the standpoint of proper

diet, exercbe, sleep, no physical abuse, the body will

produce and maintain astonishing energy and sustain itself

in good health. If he glves similar attention to a well-

The maintenance of physical health means paying attention to food and exercise. We must eat the right ioda in the proper quantities, and exercise the body so that it is kept fit. What we should understand about these rnatters is that the i*portant thing is not what we do occasionally but what we do habitually every du)r, Fasting is the only remedy in some cases that wiil permit the system to throw off disease, and come to a physiological equilibrium, but it is a mistaken idea that fasting cures disease. The cure is to come after the fast, for the disease was brought on by wrong living and fasting will not cure erro6 of life any more than any other so-called cure.

balanced emotional life, energy will be conserved. But if he allows energy leaks caused 5y trereditary or self-imposed emotional reaction of a debilitating nature, he will be lacking in vital force. The natural slate of the individual when body, mind, and spirit work harmoniously is that of a continuous replacement of necessary energ-y.

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e flar of
The rear of disease ns the thin

l health

that invites disease just as the fear of failure in business is e thing that invites failure, because it handicaps and its one, physically and menta[y, for overcoming the nditions that lead to fanh or disease. As a result many f rrs go through life, if not actually diseased, in the conr nt rear that th fom of sickness or that will come u n us, until we become a constant burden to ourselv and others. As the old Oriental proverb puts ih "The lague kilted five thousand t, people. Fifty thousand died of "Fears are nothing more states of mind said one. One s state of mind b subi to control and direction. Physicians, as everyone knows are less subptt to attack by disease than ordinary lay r, for the reason that physicians Do Not Fear Di Physicians, without fear or hesitation, have been kno to physically co tact hundreds of people, daily, wh were suffering from such contagious diseases as sma lpox, without becoming infected. Their immunity aga the disease consistd, largely, rt not mlely, in their a lute hck of Fear.
Dr.

l. Herman

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Foods foF fitness

Our body is rnade up of what e eate When we fbtrnish it with the needed requirements for growth and repalr, we add length to our life, health strength, and the joy of living. Our first food is air, o second is water, our third the living elements in food classt'y as vitamins and m erab Many ve tO eat the eat to live.

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Altemate woFk and rest

An eXCellent le te fOr preventing fatiguo is to interspeFO
wbrk"ith brief spel13 of rest.Thle art of resthg t in fact a pattOfth artofwoFkng. man who b ti d Ond gFeatly m

need OfFestcamOt putin good work,Tttehum,n OttaniSm can10t live without altemating,Ork and resto within reasOnable li nits the time Spent in resting is not the wasted,on the contraryritis a good inveShent for it ot 6nlyk9eps orfatiguebutactuallyenablesamanto produce more work with the same effOrt in a given timeo Rest in m"erate quantities l esSenthl to hahtain en4 prOmote ate rest neither u destanding efficiency.Wit out ad( nlrml oryhorimagatiOIWillbeabletO Produceitsbest
r

ults.Frequent

bit short periods of restincrease output

cOmplote relaxation and reclini,g or lying dOWn

casionally are g00d methods of taking rest.Lying down fof half en 6ur or so b pa iCulany recommended at th, e d Ofth da/s hard WOrk before dinner. l Let your person,leaSe by deatthness and be ttade

rge fOr mSt and your fo6t not 9at aboutin a shoe t yOui nOrlet yourstubbom locks le sPOiled bybadcutting hand.D)9 notlet let hair and beard be dr(ssed by a skin orlet any yournailsproj and keepthem l e om dirt he=be in the hollo ofyOur n6strils.Let not yourbreathbe

:F

sourr nor pe=..lit the lord and lnaster of the heFd t0 0ffend the nose.
0 0 Ars Att

ThOre iS nO better exettise for strengthening the heart than

reachmg down and litting people up.

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The art o resting

A worker has to have his time resting is a part of the art of t Both the body and the b given rest. Work and rest m having weekends is one of The eight hours for food, usefully employed for condu rnind that will make for better Taking regular exercises i taken by oneself one can have indoor and outdoor can be p Games give a sense of pl rivalry. They also habituat wlthout r enhent orin feeli Games, further, foster a rules are binding on all theme when a haut of this whole nation for several ge law-abiding citizens. The En dishonest in love, brrsiness or game'. Civilization itself is useful conventions. Many of arbitrary but they substitute war, because they enable us to
r resting as well. The art of rking. in get tired and have to be t alternate. The system of
g SOChl hygiene.

recreation and rest can be ing to a state of body and ork. a wholesome habit. When regular programme. Games ed enlryingly in company. and also one of healthy one t0 accepting defeats
g-

pect for the rules. These pants and all agree to obey has been adopted by a tions it tends to produce bh say of a man who litics. TIe isn't plalnng the n's adoption of socially e mles of games played are
y fbr fear and sport for

resee the reactions of those

withwhomweplay. The thea cinema art interest provide other restful drudgery or hard work All
and happiness of mankind.

seaside, places of recreating escape from e their places in the health

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.,

ABC's of health
your chest.

A. At night open the windows well. B. Breathe deeply in the morning and swell

C. Chill and draught avoid, and take daily exercise. D. Dwellirg in damp houses is unwise.

E. Eat regularly,slowly, and chew thoroughly well. F. Flies, moscluitoes and dirt are enemies in the house.
G. Give first attention to fresh air and sunshine. FI. Having vegetables and fmits to eat daily is healttrful
and fine. Illness many times comes from carelessness. Iust avoid overeati"; r*olO"g and drinking. K. Keep always your cloths and skin clean. L. Iook carefully that no dust in the corners is seen. M. Make a habit of keeping your bowels moving regularly. N. Never accustom yourself to purges frequently. O. Old and young people need special care. P. Providi*g them with meat and hard food is not fair. a. Quietness, rest and fresh air are needed by them. R. Right is the motto and let us make it our goal. S. Sacred thy body even as thy soul T. Think well your health is better than wealth. LJ. Use therefore your brairu to rernember my rhymes. V. Valuable lives can be saved by askrng early mdical advice. l,V. Wisdom has been given us, how to use it we have to realize. X. X-rays and laboratories for the diagnosis are useful advice. Y. You and I shouldbecheerful and workwhile we work and sleep while we sleep. Z. Zero is our life and nil our qualities unless always good health we keep.

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Walking is a co

plete exercise

Walking exerciss the mind. I ShakeS up the brain,censo lt fills them vnttr oxygen; drives out the cobwebs.A famous sdentisti lys he dol h best inking on the two miles of sidewalk between his home a his office. Walking exercises the emo ns. It gives you a chance to observe and enjoy the world. your eyes to beauty. See the homs, the trees, the gard See the shining faces of little children. Listen to sinei g birds and the laughter of happy p Ple.

Walking up the sPi t. Breathe out the poisons of tercion, stress and worry; the in the power of God. Send forth ttttle silent praye of good will toward those
you lneet.

walk with the sense f bei g a part oF a vast umverse. Considerthe thousands 6fmi of earth beneath your feeg thhk Of the limitless exPaTe of space above your head. Walk in awe, lvonder and hu ihty.

Walk at all times of day. fn the early moming when the world is irrst waking up. La at night under the stars. Along a busy city street at noo time.

. E*perience the glory of .lmg rays of rimcthewa the sun in sunrmer; the of Octo s brightttblue weather; the rugged desolatio of winter. Walk in the rain andina blwzard.
earth coming back to life in sp

Walk in all kinds of wea

Walk alone mostly, but if who knows the secret of qul

th a companion, choose one

ess.

Walkfor fun and adven ; for health and inspiration. And when you go fora w remember these words by Elbert Hubbard: "C-arry your n in and the crown of your head high,"

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Walking is 6ne Ofthe be,tfonns 9f eXerFiSe

WalHng is Onl of the best b of exercise.It c9nfes PhyskaL mentat and SPi tual benefits.The rOr tW,y tO walkis lo thlechesthigh chin levd an4thro the legs energeticallyoutfromthethigh: ghtwakingputsatingle la in the blo( promotes digestion e,the mind and devates thO spmt.If you alk alonl Charge yottr mind
With a 10fty subi Such as yOuFinthnatl an nce with the SOu e Of au powero lf you ttalk with a COmpani L ta
t

upon something of mutual interest a d helpFulne,S. Energetic walHng stimuhtes unsusp ted though"intO
actiono Walk enOugh every day with energetic strider d,ep

lreathhtt an4 definite pmpos and it win contribute to your health and longevity. : A walk!The atmOSphere incredibly pure pa Warm

dh6od Ond yOuth being Forgotten impre"lons 9f c Came Ck tO m an those indcttriba e effcts w ught b 'C010r shadow sunligh green hodges and sOngs of birdsrup thesouljustoptemnglopOet=y.Ib lameyotng again wOnde n&and Simple as candorand ignomnce are Oimple.I abandoned myselfto hfe a tO nalur%and they
cradled me with an infinite gentlenesso To open onerS heart in puFity tO this everpure na rertO anow this i_ortal ure Ofthings to pe etrate into on s soul is atthe same time to
listen to the vo e of Gode Sensation lney be a prayerr and
self abandonment

oy in On s Wholl caressing gentleness in the sunshinc

an act ofdevotion

ligI ng WalkS are desiFablC aS these p duce good PhydCal fatigue,o necesmry for good slecP thiS refe PaiCularl Or to the desk_workerWho lardly uses his bodtty muSCl t pe,6nW10hardlywal ausehealw,y'30eSabttt
m a car.

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Some of the commo faults of walking

g movement from the hips to the feet is the secret of ti ess walking. A good pair of walkirg shoes, with low ls and broad,enough to let every toe go down flat, is one f the essntials of keeping the feet in order and the healthy.Short Attg shoes, and short, tight stoc gs are malor causes for d torte/d and c PPled etO Th best:fo9t, hnique the right uee of the feet. There are numbers frf women today who are walking for healthyyi ity,grace, and charm. They knowthat lovely and symmetri ngures arethdB notfor the asking, but for the walking. Simple, natural living pro tm health and extends life. People who are indoors most o the time should endeavor to walk out-of-doors. Pro walking pays priceless dividends. Nothing can be for your health. It leads to greater efficiency of movement nd less fatigue. 1. Turning the toa outward or ward, irutead of pointing them straight ahead. 2. walking uth the feet too apart, which causes an awkward lumbering gait. 3. Propelliog yourself entirely with the lower legs'-very common with hi 4: W,lking with the lip,6i ts and the spine almost tirely gid.ThiS Stiffn uses short, jerky strides. 5. Walking with upperbody i Ined too far fo ward. 6. VOVing the a frOm shO er joints in short, jerky motions, bending from the lb6ws instead ofswinghg the entire a_in a pendul motion. 7. Swinging the anns laterall , from left to right, when walking. Walking with a strong Positive

 Q /Or DogFoF Walkhg co=ectly is considered to excel=11

exerclses
wakhg cOrrectly is consuered to excel an exercises.It is

when coH tly

the One way Of ushg the m 1" 01m the neck d wn to the feeto Wakhg is a w,y to
d6 Q

promote sleep rest,and relaxation:

The way you walls sit and stand determines the

Strength length and stlutctural and muscular balance of

your body.Toeing in or t9eing Out tusts and weakens

ankles knees and thighiointSO

A streaml ted body mOves On vertlcal and horizontal

un walking er ghding sm 9thly on itti911eSS'OintS and ee easy mOving lnuscles unifies mind and body. Thl most 6sentialthhg in l a g h9 tO watt iS thO
t

roreducatiOn and C00peratiOn of the muscular and

stnctural syste .The ma,Ority Of peop19 are hip bound. When you develop lip lnovemont yOu wln find that your st de b much moFe'OWerh101t b=mgs the muscles oflhe
feet legs

andbackhtoactiollays prteless divtte A p peF wattg habit .

It

p motes greater ettkienc of mOVement and less fatigue. The. ght way tO walt and the mOst graceml is with the
reet m9vhgalWaysin Parallellines close togetheL orbetter in l single uneo This wnl encourage 19d balance as st well as increase the activity of the muscles of the pe ic

and shapely 19gs mOve frOm the hiP'6intse The better way to reduce mte muscular fat ofthe hips is by walking.
girdle end saCrO_1lhco Sound and vitalized fe
t

strO g

Leam how to wak with a iee

httits

easy

Struing ep

FarVing the Weight oftheb94y On the musdes and not o the bon .By changingcOF t Walking habitsl,o cOr t

TO keep ll t length.By mainta hg the length of the body

gain h strength and health.

one u

gain in health and add years to ond ttfe. yOuthhL Wa*er t by hfting the body to its

We

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lilv.I:

w so gsst Iozlli I soug fttIIyr of lwe I lwae seen, in a preftgurtng vision of tlu Wets luae itrughrcd.

"gFar g rFs,

luve sought looe, first

bnings Isnould oftenltnrc afap h;ours of this

.

in tlrc union mininture, the

tlwt

grints and

Bertrand Russell

Quest foir Darclopment

There is no easy way

There is no easy way To get your love or get your pay, To get your love you pay with love. There is no easy way To get your love or get your pay, To get your payr /ou work each day There is no easy way.

You sweat and toil for tiresome hours, Itrst to pay your way. The price you pay to get your pay Is time anr{ toil and life. Cheaply you bry when pay is small The best is out of reacfu-nst yours at all.
Yet love costs only love No sweat, no toil. It is not always easy To love, and harder to be loved Until youknow the truth To get your love you pay With love. Love is the doorway through which the human soul passes from selfishness to service and frorn solitude to kinship

withallmankind.
Love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking together in the same airection. Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Iove is not something to argUe, reason'and bargain about. It is something to givl, to feel.
AynRand

QZgS'/OriD"`IOF

LOveisthe c wning gFaCe Of hima,ity

L6ve t the cro g grace ofhumanity the
the rede9ning prittiple that chieny rl hfe and b p phetic ofetemal gOo4
holiest right of
the soul the golden hnk which binds us to duty ald tnith

nciles

the heart of

P rcL

and wentto heu He"as much misSed on earth by hib old

inends
s e

^man W10 Was entirely careless of sPHtual things died busines3 maneger went down to the gates of hen t

nf there were a,y chanee of bttnging hhn back.But thoug he plead fortle gates tobeopened theipn bars

never yielded.

S CriCket captain went abO and bOught htan to let him Out st fOr the re inder ofthe season.Butthere was
no response

Hb ministerwentalso and argued sayin3He was not

altogether bad.Let hiln have another ehance.Let him out
,uSt th 0,CeO

Man ther fends of his Went lSO and Pleaded with %tan layin Let him out.Let him outo Let him out. But when his mother eame,he sPake nO wOrd Of hb
rdeasl.Quletly and witl a strange catrh in her voico she

said tO Shtan

I ediatdy

Let

me in.

the great doors swung open upon their

the gates of hell and A" Fy s

hmges.Forlove goes down rOugh

there redeems the damned. H9prayeth best who 10veth best
An things both great and smal

Forthe dear COd wh0 1oveth us He made and loveth a

.

cara"14r

/OriD 9 `

Love is the.only bow on life s daFk C10ud

Love the only bow on lr srkdoudolt b theMoming
and the Evenmg Star.It shines upon the cradle ofthe balbe

andSledsitsradhncettPOnthequnet.tOmb.It t the MOther

ofArt msPirer Ofpoet Patinot and Phi10SOpheroltib the air

and ght of every httrt builder of every home kindler Of eVeFy Are on eVery hearth.It wa`the Arst dream of
mmOrtality.It Ans the world with melody formusic is the voice of Loveo Love is the magidian the encharilterr that changes worthless things tO,Oy and makes ght,yal

kings of common day.It l the perfume of lHe W9ndrlous owerthe heart nd without that sacr(xI PassiOn :..we are les than beas but with it earth and heaven att g` s. II Rob G: And by love I need hardly Plain I mean solnethmg different in texture and durabiuty"onl a screen romance. Love starting=om persOnal FehtiOnshipS and sPreading Omfa ly and tiendsin widening circles ofdimi ing mtensity to neighbourhood and country to other peoples attd races until it.elmib,ces the fitful hlppine 3 and the y Butlove Can 01 abding sorrow 9fthe hrgerhuman fa 16ve of natutt and be hmit lo persOns.As love of tttth r St 10 e6Fd at 10ve oftteedom and equality ,9rk for the co on good it becomes a creative paSSion WhiCh mbes us above our animal heri gC and the substancl of that hner clre wheFe Our me selflresides. I L , Llisft
"gtt

Love L solmething etemalthe aSp ts lnay change but

not the e"ence.There is the same difference in a pe16on beforeand atterheisin loveeS thereis h anunlighted

and onethatis buming.Thelamp wasthereand itisa good laip bit noW itiS shdding l ht t00 and thatis its Feal hnction. yli , GagL

,P

/OrDag11 "'

I hve leamed1lo lo 0
1 haveleamed to lovQ so lsay 10ve.1
1 know tts eff t It bttgs lov for love So l say love.

Ithas a winged bm
And nies tO bring

The exactfom
Ofthe beloved 1love. I haveleamed to 19verS,I say love lkeep tl word as m,sheld gainSt a11 6wOE I VetO bVe.

Ildve an humanit
I am faithn tO all

ammab and b ,

Thatl
I PerfO

fott my duty ML My way OfrefOming " The one wh goes astra Isto my love.

My enem(E I do not hate

To them lsay love. Ithink love l actlove
l say love

So that som ay

l my belove.

The ttdmm OfLov%T StO P

nine component parb:

COnhh Shol it to

1.Patience . 2` Kindn 3.Cenmli

4

5 Couttesy

Hhty

7,COod Temper
8
9. Sko

Unsettn

Lck of n

,fOrD"cloF

`"' T

Love is watCling
Love is watching and awerene"
Like rnother and son watching each other

Love b a meansto an nd An end wHch is alwayslovQ Loveis tmth and the seekeL
Love is the stream and its course Love is the destination

Of Love.
v hon

yOu 10ve lne

When you love vle I un nOtlag behindi llike the way,ou talk i 11ve sO gentle sweet and kind

Ilkethe way you walkin love So graceLL 10ve reAned. When Ou 10ve me I un notlag behm4.

The song which never ends

The song wHch never ends
ls the song oflove.

The m9re you love

The more you ttantto love. So endless is my son
Forl am in love.

Oflove

When theyhold tte Ve Of God The heart and lnind sing love And awaken the soul. They an d the bvely SOng

The song whthnever enOS,

The song oflove

1/Or

Love:the ruling elementin l :e

Love m onefO loranotheris thetting dement hlife.It great inst ent of natte the bond.and cementlof s iet the sPi tand Spring OfthelniVerse The word lov a general and broaditem used to g with a descbe va ous degre of attract n be
th

On a ttterial plane the ngh"t fom ofilove Can be =I fOund h the union in mariage.Such = 6f man and wOttnn was the lov of wkh FlutarCh`pokle when he Love t rittt Oftle is the cro inagraCe of hmanityrthe ho uStO du and tmth the ,OuL the golden lmk Wtthbi

redeemingl ethtCheny cOndl thehm an4 iSprOPhett ofeteml good,

:

oflL

sand PlatO.The namre Of 10v s oneness m mmage is manr"tedthrough themottlpu tytand intettty ofsexual activity based uptt the eSteem a,d reSP t each Other Suchintercourse o9vateS theasP=ltiOns )thesouL and stimulattt the m tal,owlrS Its imitation tttSide 9f mariage iS but d Picable,s110n whth is a destpyer Of th heart qualiti and men lg Wth Aong the ve Ous fom ,ofthe te...lth9reiS the wttm personal attachment that we have for friends and neighbors alsO the d"p affction wliCh We have for o anotherrl Chas therelationship between ParentandChild brother and s teL and the afrction which exisb between x"ting aS a strongl g other relativese We also ind love ra ythingSuch as ourlove fora holb aisPOtt rmdin3

Al1loves should be simp ly stepping st9n tO COd

o=our work.

He thatlovlth not kloweth not Cod for cod iS 10ve.

Life is the ower of which llveiS the honey.

OrHag

Quwt

frt Dwelryment
1 1

:I

Love icreattOn

TOI mel .eilott of man for woman as sacred thing as chbrl 10v/e for the(3hurch and an its attributts are as l ine as any ofthe fanmic ha 3 0fthe mindt hdeed, WO would know nothingoflove dd we nltsee it mnliest in man and the only rea son we beuevein thelove ofGodi brause w find 10velon earth.The thought of the loveiOf C( can nolbe gFaSP l in the slight td even ia ng hypothJsbya mn whO does notlknow human wo : love` . ,
L veiS vital,loveis creattve:love is creation.It is love

thatsh thlChyinto fOtt d inely fair 10ve m all Writ an Poe PaintSalltheca,vas thatJ thO walb where 61our reveLlsings an thO songs that
,

sin,ould onl,Shine to show us ch ttth ofthe wind armng the leav wotld bl a sigL d an thenowers At only to garland graves. i brJ Of

enchant Otilr easo Without love the world would oilnly.

Pain :the

_
dust.

_
. :

By 10ve l o ts,an

lasting ndettthat

ttone we are as

Wa : t rintentud and act POW es increase th"r

affdioln. . : : '

Anlmnhd11 ,e

alo er:

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Lovehas ilb FeCOmpenses

Nevetthd love has its r ompttsandin hb great t ttce fh l hb happi t mfihento LPhce b rleportd tohavemidlon hisdea t tSCienCe ms mere l nhg and thatno hg was real tb a
SdLcttr

_ 1 St p9=i Ofa go mar6 HiS ht C name,u=re= b o

OFkindner and Of bve

Wo

IIlic

I am spending 4elight l aftemo9 s in tty garden wltchmg evev giaF10und meo A,I g w oldettI pFe ith fed everything Pmingrand l bve evevth g
paSS n.

:
gvettu

zora

is ofught Lovens everthe begiming ofhowledge as o ,Orrylg

lbut Love your enemy

VeT'TI

t,Tt
.

"

r they te

GOtoyoWbSkWith101e yourhand you w l go to it

hght heartdattcheerhl.

,ourul

e world does no11 detttand the Love that uit ofits own pleavese be o engrOSSed in tho p Ve b 10tCO,Pttel it b lNby man. kn,w Love b to b ithatthere nlo ha PO the whole mive He drew a circle that shut :ou
:

=e But Love and l had the witto win:

E :11 to n6ut.

W drew a circle thattook hiln in!

'

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:--

Quret for Darclopment

Love tmth for its own sake

Love truth for its own sake, not for the reward it will bring to you. Seek god for itrs own sake, not for the happiness it will confer upon you. Thus wll your life becorrr-e sweeter and stronger each day, since tmth and goodness are the fourdation of great and noble living. Inspired by loftiness of pu{pose and breadth of mindr /ou will ascend from one plane of thought to another until your view will be like that from a mountain height. Petty limitations and false motives wil disappear from your mentahty, and you will be conscious of havitg graduated into a vastly larger world of thought and purpose. The quest for eternal truth is the greatest work to which you can address the best powers of

yourmind.
Love is a second life; it grows into the soul, warms every vein, and beats in every pulse. losryh Addison

That is the true season of love, when we believe that we alone can love, that no one could ever have loved so before us, and that no one will love in the same way as us. Iolnnn Wolfgang von Goethe It is a beautiful necessity of our nature to love something.Douglas lerrold

We have careful thought for the stranger, And smiles for the sometime guesg But oft for "our own" the bitter tone, Though we love our own the best. Margaret E. Sangtter
.a

Qaret

fo, Danelopmcnt

God is love
Cd is lo c hb ttercy brightens

An the pathin wttch We ve, plisshe wak3 and wo9 he=ghtens, Cod is wisdom Godis bve.

Chance and chnge are busy eve= Man d ays and ag lm6ve, But h mercy waneth neve God b" m Gold love.
win his changd tt goOdness prove From the glm hisbrighhessstreameth
E

en the hour that daFkeSt Seemeth

Food w lo_Go/d love

Hel th earthlymreS ent eth Hbpe and cOl tttom above i Eve here ltt glow shhetL ,

Cod b om cod

b love.
OL B g

Creatlov should be kOpt p vate.

I

rrar

POn lv c it Wil perisL rupn bra" time we wO win effaceit rwereartempl they mC: nbbinto dus but r wO work upon ouri_0 al minds if we nmbue them with plnCiP191 th theiuSt rear ofGod and love of fe110Wmen_weengraveOntlose ble somethingwhicl
wm brighten th ugh an etemity
I Wgbs, Civea htle10Vetoachildandyou geta greatdealback`
D
o R s

1/Or DagroFmttf Q

HOme ;where thaers one to love us

Holnels wherethrs Oneto love usoi

C ,rr6
A

SaFi"

A home is the total contributi n oflove on the part Of each

O edWening within it

The ttght oflove

shines over an

`R:""JI =

Oflove that says

not mmeand th=%

But ours for ou

isthhe and minet

L

g/gI

It b a glo

bus p vilego

to ll to

to act to hol

nstenrto

behold to love.To look up atthe blue summer sL tO S

thesunsink,loWlybeyOnd thehneofthehorizon,to watch

the worlds come t, kling htO Viewrfist one by ottc and the my ds at nO man can count and 10!the unive eb aniand youand l are here whitewith I rco

is th mingle that happett evev tlme tO OSe whO reny 10Vtt the mOre they giVe the more they pO" 9f g 10Ve n m which owe3 and at preciOus,ouriS childrett h, their strength end whiCh COuld h IP all nbemgs I ey wOuld it WithOut doibti,gb j" Mb RliIL here is nothmg ho g hlthiS hfe of ours than the fist g t auttering of its silken Of 10Ve the tttingsoundandbreath ofthatwindwhich gS the f gh the soul. so ntlo sweep th L g/gI107J

QueforDarcIoputtt

-Loveall Godt crea o

grain Ofttd L it.Love evev k =evtt my of God s hght,Love the u loVe animb love the plant 10Ve evevthmg.If everythin you will perceive t ne mystev h things.

bvean c s

creatictt the whole aF eVev

OnceyouFFCe etyouwttbeghtocomprehendttbetter
every day.And you muicome at htto love the whole
WOFld Wi an an embHttng love=
It

4i

be hg
desewe

"Dmf f reatn tO the vev 6SenceOflove lf noblen

tO suffer r
the

good.of othe

APaFtoFkindnttsl m bv 8PecPle9re than

,

fast to bve!1 ough C9 e WhOt h

rend your heart letthem notittnutter or harden it:We win

OX men" ishould

by fOrgiveness. by tendemes weco mphentiSWen maffcth hiseb weL pFCm reWard thatiany nm thO hstand htt an4 most unsr whetherby character orachievement Tza

htb

1love yOu

kause you have done Morethan any

Could have done

TO make=ne g
d morethanlmy fate Could have done

To mke mehappy.
R Cror

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DagroFa

TO 10Ve istO g e and to lewe

l e type Of10ve l am sP

king aboutlmOws only how t0

givO and therefore it free from selfishneSS and devOid of

any mpu tyolf a person or an ofthe people in the world

n ary.We ne elaws b ause an men have not leamtto uveinlovOand aS a resul the world b entangled ma networkofanimal ke tendendies that ed selfishn and hatred and allthat goes with them div ig huttLanityr etuatin ffe ng. P10iting manan4 pe Strangel r we could leam to love ourselv Our neighbours our c9unt,'the whole 6f mankind a d cOd
wOuld l oin asPH10f10VQ then no worldlylaws wouldbe

L : natbns.Then the only mttng PoWerwOuld le that Ofbve.

Itib a hdamentaltmth thatso10ng aS wedO notlove each other there can be no peace in this world nor mn there be ,Oyand happinc"for the masses Love and compassion are the universal and eteml PanaCe .In them lies the S01ution to the coni 3ion and unhappintts,9 see a und us,Evevone Wan 10V%but few seem ableto g e it

abnity t0 1 ,

t9be mpassiottate
t

tO giV tO

sewQ to shOw one sa"per fedngs as commg om the heatt rather than hm the i en is not practised to the

ilFede,bd'

eV 9u mcH,

Hfeis LovQ and whole fo.i.l and POWer Of Life c

sist

in

Veand SPmg Om Love.Love t faction with itseL ,Oy in itSet en,Oyment in itset ano therefOre Blessedness: and thus it is clear that Life LOve and ph ne areabsolutdy onoano the ma
.

lGoF:

 /ariD" loFm =
Love is a vital and living force
Why one of the very fundam(
iples of hfe so ltal p much love so lnuch 10ve in retumi so lnuch 16v so much

much lov strong

gr9wth,so much 10v s6much POWett so much love 6o healthy ch 9 ultintt and abounding

life.The WOrld is begiming lo reause the fact that lovQ hstea4 ofbei g a mere indefinite 6omethin&is a tal and
h

hg e

the same as el tttity a bre though

perhaps of a different nature.

And would we have allthe world love us we mustfirst then 10ve allthe wond merel,a gre l sd ntifiC facto Why

10ves and longs for the company of the gr hearted the tender_hearted the loving the magnanim9uS the sympathetiO the brave?The mere anS,9r_becOus will nOt satisfyo There is a deep sdentiAc reasOn for t eitherthL orit nottme
iresistibly
t

instinctively

it that all p ple instinctively dislike and shun the httlQ the mean the ser centrd the selfish whne al the wOrld

Altho gh l have ol i 91 ightint9 the hws oflov the older l getthe horl lfe SurO that one rceiv"pretty well

exac1lythesameamountofloleasonegivos:And any wish to have mends( r children or a mariage partneL or a sweeth )is r ltya4"ire tO give eff tion.
Of allthe em9tiot love a10nl effac prid preJudig

greed an`dLc9rdo LO e a10ne wges sacriAcQ sharing of fomnes as wdl as misfortmeso Love
hatred selfiShness

a10ne bro9kS no dbtinction and Pe.i leat differenc

And love ns lovdiest"hen embalm d

in tears

Scofr

Quret

fo, Danloryent

I haveleamed

GrneFOd
i

: i

Th"e isnft lnuch that

And less thatl have

Knom. , 1
But ttliJ,I know,Love

Shar"lts,y And c` t,c bt alone!

1

`r

a Ctttam th gs which e, matt muSt do foF himse Bbw hiSI no,%make his OWn 10,eand tty his
OW'Prayel

0 F

9 S

WhOWer will know fully the va ty Of man has b t tl cOnsidertheCatttland effcts of16ve.Its cauSeislnknOw itseffctsareoverpowering,Th uttm9wn 30m hgiss9
91e had hel ShOrteL how many 9untri WOuld havl
had

htangible a mtter that we cam61 analyse ite Yetit hoves lieSiand pe,pleclfOe,Pa r, a nc 9w 919WOnd p
i

10ifferenthistOry!

1.

p1

Stand before my ey and let thy glanc tbuch i,sOngs mto a namet
l

Stand m my b,dy eVening"here my heart,atch

a10ne ml her ttp Of SOlitudc and ht me f l in e the

finity ofithy love:

Love cannot be fbrced
lo e

11

_TagarF
P rI

cannot be cOaxOd and teasedolt

C,m60ut of Heavenr unasked and unsought.

Se B

/Or

Dagrara

'T

There s healing in a 10vmg wOrd

The S healing in a b hg w9rd
A loving loot a 10Ving smil% A loving hand to dasp your own

And helpou walk an9ther mne Abngthe road where an see dark.
Oh love can do ever so lnuchi

A broken life=nay nower aneW Through st One smm and loving touch.
Afl l Eo nttss

The night has a thottnd eyes

And the day but one, Yetthe hght ofthe ght WOrtt diOS
With the dy g Sun.

The nlind has a thottnd eyesr : And the day but onc Yet the ght ofa whOle hfedi I When lovels done.

L BO JIIo"
Love b the master keythatopenseverywa4ofthehea Of man

H.E

lre s nothing halFso sweetin hfe As love s young dreaEn. bve ligh more firc than hate exthguish

'

m"Moo
.

E.L. ttls

he secret ofbeing loved iS bei g lovd and the smet of

being loVely

inbehgunselfish:

Go

HoI

Querit

for Dnelopment

''l

Love is a great power

Love is a great power which passes all understanding and against which our will can do nothing. Love bears all things, gives up all thingS, and of Faith, Hope and Love, Sir, Love is the greatest' s tindberg

have found it impossible to caryr the heavy burden of responsibility and to discharge my duties a's King as I would wish to do without the help and support of the woman I love. Edward VIII
We treat our love with diffidence. We are afraid to say the three most important love words of alM need You' Loise v'yse

Love is the oldest of the Gods, and one of the *ort powerful. It is that principle which turns ordinary young people into heroes. For the lover is ashamed to act the coward in the presence of his beloved. Give me any army made of lovers and I can conquer the world.
Plwedras

Through the spirit, Not the body, love must be shown, As it is to enliven, not to deaden, That the wine is pressed.
III
Gib

Four things, I think, make life worthwhile, To love, to hope, to help, to smile.

, Sir WhI rS

:-

Quest

fo, Dnelopment

I Love likea s ken thread

Love is like a snken thread that hnks us heart to hearto A silken threa ryet S 01gas chains WecamotdttWapart,

forwearebound to those welove forall Etenlit

oftrue affction hold us gently tenderly.

"the bon Fetters bind a captiv hac es wrOught ofin and But Love needs no cottpulsion Love that s deep and steel
fond and real is,pun round uslhke gOSSamer. "hl ry web,we re caughtand held and bound invisibly by silken threads of thought. Patience Strong

Love that is clearued by tears will remain eternally pure and beautiful.
I<ahlil Gibran

Life is a sweet and ioyful thing for one who has someone to love, and a pure conscience.

:
Love never claims,

Ln

Tolstoy

it ever gives; love ever suffers,

Ilalutma

never

resents, never revenges itself. Where there is love there is life; hatred leads to destruction.
C'andhi

Music, when soft voices die, Vibrates in thememo ryOdours, when sweet violeis sicken, Live within the sense they quicken.
Rose-leaves, when the rose is dead,

Are heaped for the beloved's bed; And so thy thoughts, when thou art gone, Love itself shall slumber on.
Shelley

Q rOri Ior : LOve is lnany things

Lo e

LOve

manythingS.

.
i

is a lark s sOng Loveis a high wind

L is thl rain and L ve is the sun

ght L ve is the starlight LOVe b the mOo When theday is done: Loveis a notter heavy th perhmer Lo e ls a fi and Lovels a namer i Lo,e' the dmr high nOtethat :hoes When you call my name Lo e can be angubh k)ve can be heattbreat ore otten than blis Love canbe pai B t heartbreak and agony can be fb=gotten Inene R ": G ca NbII

.
G
II

Lovd What L It? the seed of Lole=whatshan we can it?The rOot of roO smds thesapofttP4S thete of es.Lovens the AFSt and the lasto VVhen l have love,I haVe everything,without lo e
is

re to her agalno ShO is the lnother and lnind Of an the

gmcese Wttt10Veb it"hardtOsar fOrthOSewlo
n"dless to tenifor thOse who have it hot

ke thO earth everythi gtomes ttt Of her evevthmg

Ve it

hpo"ible.

Love thelightandsunshine oflifeo Wecannot hllyen,Oy ou"elv ,oranythittg ebe unleSS SOmeon welovl enloyS with us.E en ifweareallne ttest6relupOureniOyttent h the pe Orsharing it h9reart"with those we love` ' i L J

TO , D%d ' =

Love is l gFeatthing
a great thingr yea a great and th ugh go itself it mkes everythi,g that is heavy ligh and tt bea

Love

evenly allthatis uneven.

0 it Win,notbekept aburdenwhichisnobl man backbyanythinglowand mea dettrestOLefree worldly arfr landnottobe enhn ed by any tttward prospe tyJ or by any adve itySund
Itcarri

Love reels nO burden thinks nothittg:oflltroubler attemptt what abv9 it,St: gtl 19 exme Of imp lity 'lea It is therofore able t6 undertake all things and CI plet y things a,4 waFan thtt to ke effc
where he who does hotlo,elwould faint and l

lough"eavr it iS 01 Ough pre ed 11 iS nOt it h nOt eonfounddi but as a gh ala stnit ving e=fOrCes its way upwar

do

and mrely

th ghan.

Lo e aCtive and since

I g .Pal hi

Pndentand manly.

bveb en knows no m but w ly g10WS above all m sura Love Feeb no burde regardl ltlabO would itiS abler plmds"timp ibi t winingly do ml
e ttfeeL sure thatitca

and my J lgS.

1
f

Love is nOt g 3 but rv tl"ild l:

t

ingthat lV"10ng t.

"DyL

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.Iam love
lam Love:: 1love evttbOdy!
1love ev erything!

1love every condition!

Divine Love is in them all!

Itis this nvinity ISeeand loveat 1ltilmesand inan things.

God is Love.
As Cod s ch d

Iam L6ve!

OVeiS enough:though the,orld be,anin

COmp inin o gh th9,kyb toO dattfOrdim eyes to discover e g01d,CuPS and daisi faiF b100ming thereund i ,9ugh thehiusbehlldlhadow lnd the,ea a I N nderr
The wind shau not weav the fear Shan hot alter

And tho woods have no volce butthe vol e of

And this day draw a vdl over all deods Pa" d Ove Yet their hands shall not tremblertheiF feet Shan not ralte4

Mo WliII "e hPS attd thtt eyes ofthe bved a,d the lovel
HV g

deathlessby the e pOSSible prOCe OfgeneratiOn. =om9 . SeXlal l le.iS the expression of this craving fo1 hi6rtalit,in the plySta1 0rganbtt and the wott Of all
creattve art is its inten tual Lsue

leating 11l the Asrthe phemmem 6F Lole pe. tibn they exPH"l the mOrtal nature seeking to C

nerat inten lbeauty I Sor `inlllould

-QuestforDarclopment I love you

I love you Not only for what you are, But for what I am When I am with you I love you For the part of me That you bring out; I love you For putting your hand Into my heaped-up heart And passing over All the foolish, weak things That you can't help Dimly seeing there And for drawing out Into the light All the beautiful belongings That no one else had lookd Quite far enough to find I love you. Not only for what You have made of yourself, But for what You are making of me. I love you because you Are helping me to make Of the lumber of my life ' Not a tavern. But a temple; Out of the works Of my everyday Not a reproach But a song.

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Love is anythi 1 yet iS notting

Love is an in fi and y :

eVer teezm

Lovens much Winnmgr yetis ofe m bsin3 Love eVer stt and yetis neveFd n3
Love is ever tm and yet h everlyin3
Love does doatin liking nd b mad in loathin3

Loveind(d anything,yet hdeeo nothing

We can all d Inorethan we have donc

s MlilJJIJo

And be nbta whitthe worse Nor givhg that emptiod the purse.
It never was 10ving that empti the httrt

A good dd is neverlos he whO sOWs cOurt y reaps ndshipand he who p ntS kindnc"gathers 10Ve. _ S .B He who for10ve hath undergone e WOStthatcan befaL
Is happier thOusand fold than one

lil

RIMo Mlir

Who neverloved at an. An tmeloveis groundd on 11em,

F We ar Shaped and fashioned by what welove.

Chin

MUSIC

When I hur music I fear no danger, I am inaulnerable, I see no foe. I nm related to the earliest times and to the latest. Henry David Thoreau

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- Music is a world in itself

Music is a world in itself: it is a separate and universal hngrage with its own immensely rich content and appeal.
No art can be translated in terms of another art. So far as the senses are conceffid, both painting and literature appeal

prirnarily through the Ie, while music appeals through the ear, but all appeal directly to the mind and spirit. It is sometimes said that literature appeals to the mina and music to the heart, that its message is purely emotional and not intellectual, but this is is a false antithesis and all true music-lovers would reject it. To some indeed mtuic appeals more powerfully than literature and the visual arts; while others, includitg many great men, are virtually tone-deaf, or like the majority,have but an elementary appreciation of music, and no knowledge of its technique. By a strange obliquity of vision, many people hold that the full enjoyment of music is compatible with a complete ignorance of its structure, its vocabulary and even its alphabet. Among the subjects which commonly engage our attention there is one, and one alone , of which a man will assert with pride that he knows nothing...of music alone, he wil qssert with a flourish that he is wholly unacquainted with its history, its aesthetics, its principles of compositio& and that he cannot read the characters in which'it is written. There are even amateurs who write to the newspapers and declare that they (or more modestly, their friends) are possessed of an exquisite sensibility to music which would be cnrshed like a butterfly's wing if they overlaid it with the burden of exact studyr that music 'speaks to the heart, not to the head,' to use their favourite phrase, and that our pleasure in it is blunted or weakened by any understandiog
ofits methods. Sir yrH.H

gS'farD

clop

Music is a wondelrul attindeed

Musk is a wonderhl art indeed.It htts us out of the divttualself hto thel%dal Ser wtthOut any effort on ouF

id: r all men lea Musr would it not be a means of ag=g together h cOnc and Lblisng ttiversal peace m the wOrld? J l me love Music.Even 3ome

r 1lMlm :
ani lsr6pOnd to ,Itis NatuFsdird wml Smesttge.
From the blackbird to Beethoven all musicilns are 1

Li
r

IL.ar e: L I ill FttJ

eptiveO It accust6 us to keen ald

1 :

"ettherOus and d
10nve"even in the mouth 9f Demosthenes ShaeSpeerer and Viclorl lgOo As spe h is superior to gesture so 49eS nd spetth Music appeab diF tly to lh0 muslc tran ndamental human nature in us,it does not depend on OrdS a d thoight,pr .It can rOuse or lenumb usr lah or perturb us make"laugh Or weep ote Or 0 m according to the t hnique employed by the geni
of`the master.
JLI
:1

ZI

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: MIsic:hlw much lies in thtttl MuSt:hOw much l in that!A mustal thought is one
SPOken by a mind that has penetratd into theinmos,h ofthe thin3 dettted the in Ost my,tery of it namely t

mebdy that h hiden in it the inWard ha o

of

: =::T=:LT
rappl 8s and hull!The pHmal dement of utt and of all
hgS

coherence wh h is i s9ule AllinmOstthhgtt we may sayr are melodious,nahuany ttter thettelves in sOng` The meaning oF song go deep.Who b there that h 10 l 6f ,ca expr S theeffect music has on us? h rth unhtlomabttiS Lw h leads us to thl edge ofthe ln nitc and letstus formomen gaze mto that!

wo

Thes

led OfSPh moni :it

was tte

reeling they had of the inneF StmC re of Naturei that tho and utteranc was perfctlnuslc. soul of an her voic Poet thereforer We win can musicalithoughti

at9ms h and could not heave er httd thl l16ice W,leard Om hgh 4 Ore than dead! en cold =1 9

: ,begav
L_mony this univel
16ny
thi
a

==

ough allthe rOmpa"

41,PaSOn doshg ml h Man

the nOtes it ranr t

=:
lon 16

I 9

pageant shan devourrthe tmm"tS u heatt on:high han untune 4 4,hall l C the living die and Mus
t10 Sky.

D
E
.

QrFsi

r he

Music: e universallanguage Of ttankhd

uty

Stt

eS the languagl of music differ with tim Place it stril Ouind and exPdence butttit rCPOnsive chord, I In a rapan e home at Ch m I Was the only

lanttlge Ofmanhnd L alsoa bm of atib ht.As lanl ge dI among p Plett so

mem

pe3on in the group who,Ipke English.Yet ways of commmatton werefound.Thinking of home l hummed the French so ly to myselfr mt Nighr.TO mySu nese fmily,oind h nF t and the the Ce singing the un eunyi P g CI ,"n each m Om hnttge yet m the same g 9hnttge lithe harte
t

EFs,R.Mir

me Of the t aSPiram of the human soul are 11 iml reserved to ttose who have theigrmt g of themdvesoutoFanta 1 PreSSiOnrfortheytheFeby .Mrorld and ent .a SPm l10ne:h hokung, _m . who were Surely entt in thelFeat COmposes , ine Po the hands or a D ,we Te a bld to apr edttLg,fthe hhitee Whether l play pubk in the t ofthounds or h the pttvtty Of my o ,omrI rg eVevtlttg except my muslco Whenever l am l ed oilut oFthema l planeand ome m touch th anotheL a holkr wo iS as l some hand other than mho were hg the bo,overthe stm F K r ne mn thathath no m ic in hitt nor b nOt mOvd et soundsFiS ttt for treaso stratag th concord oFs dSPO Sptttaredullas nigh and h ,themOtbttof
,

aFrc Ons dark as erebus:let no such man be tHttsted

QuestforDarcIopment

You ask tte where l get my ideas

You adk lne where l get my ideasl ThOt I Cannot t11l y9u

with clrtainty.They cOme unsu mOned

indirectly I could,elze them with my handE

directly

utin the

walking,in the silence of the excited by mo s wh h are translatel by the poet hto wom ,by meinto to,es thatSOund an4 ar .labOut me tittl have setthem down in notes. and sto L, ag 73 B ` " And must toodear musid thatcan touch nll Beyon4 n else the SOulthatlov( Now heaFd far Ot so far as buttO seem
nights at dawn

oponat h the W whne

Like the faint exqubite music of l dream.

A mend once asked the great composer Haydn livhy hb chch musE wasalwa sso in Of gladnes He answeFed: q cannot make it Otherwlsee l w te accordhg,o the thOughtS I elo When lthink upon m God my heart L sl 110f, y thatthe nOt dance and leap )m my plniand

"Moorg

me thatlserve Him with ttCh"rhlsPi tO "DyL M the hal..loniOus oice Of creatiOni an echo of the invHble world,one note of the d ine concord which the
entiFe miVerse is dOstined one y to sol Ld
G:

sinceCodhasgivenmeacheerhlleartttWmbepardoned

,cMazz:

Cod sentlHis singers upon eatth

WithSO gslfgladness and dmirth

That, eymt ttOuCh the hearts of ttet

And"ngthem hCkto heaven agai

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--

Music is in all growing things

Music is in all growing things; And underneath the silky wings Of smallest insects there is stirred A pulse of air that must be heard; Earth's silence lives, and throbs, ?rd sings.
George Parsons Lathrop

We love music for the buried hops, the garnered memories, the tender feelings it can sununon at a touch.
Samuel Rogers

Music's the cordial of a troubled breast The softest remedy that grief can find; The gentle spell that charms our care to rest And calms tle ruffled passions of the mind. Music does all our joys refine, And gives the refish lo our wine.

lohn Otdlnm

How many of us ever stop to think Of music as a wondrous magrc link With God; taking sometimes the place of prayer, When words have taild us heath the weight of care? Music, that knows no country,race or cred; But grves to each according to his need. Anonwous Music has been called the speech of the angels; I wiil go farther and call it the speech of God Himself. t2, , _ _t Clurles Kingslry

spel| And feeling hearts, touch them but rightly, pour A thousand melodies unheard of before.
E.E. Inndon

The soul of music slumbers in the shell TiU waked and kindled by the mastey's

QuatforDarcIryment

The-musical talent shoytrs itself early

The musical talent may well show itself earliest of any; for music is something innate and internal, which needs little nourishment from without, and no experience drawn from life. Really, however, a phenomenon like that of Mozart remains an inexplicable prodigy.
Goethe

Many who do appreciate good music and would like to know more of it, say they have no time to study it, but the elements of music are no more difficult to learn than any

other study; appreciation grows steadily with

understanding, and there is nothing which more richly and lastingly repays our trouble.

Music is a revelation; a revelation loftier than all wisdom and all philosophy.

Music is the sweetest language of sound magrc wand to God. Without women music would not have reached such heights. The temperament of a race can be determined by the tempo of her music. There is a melody for every mood. U all tha musical instruments lying in shop windows and hou.ses throughout the world were used daily, people would have less time for wars.

Ba " conducted by the

If you hear a song that thrills You, Sung by any child of song, Praise it. Do not let the singer Wait deserved praises long. Why should one who.thrills your heart Lackthe ioy youmay impart?

J9

"'

There is music inl 1l things

There is music in allthings if men had ears

By

With a few lnusical n9tes one co ld( press one thouSand

SO OWS effectively but sometimes even one thousand wo ds are insufficient to express even one sorr6w

MuSiC mOves us and we know not wh we fed the tearsr but cannOt trace their source. it e language of some O er Sh bOm OfitS memory?For what can wake the
sours strong instinct of anOther world
of an the lib ral arts Musi

lke musk:?

L has the greatestinauence Over the passions and is that to whth the legislator ought to give the greatest encouFagement.

IfmuSiCbe the food oflove play on

"ra

"

SttLs

Mu,ic L the un ersallanguage of ankind.

Themeaning of50ng gOesdeep:Who isthlre that

Xttl 1 :
g90fthe finit and

le

us ramOmentgazeintothl

0/1ylg

:1 l
Bt

9 g/gII" 1 giCal

Musicis the fourth greatmaterialwant ofournatu

food then Faunent then Shelterrthen lnusic

lflhadmylifeto liveollragam I OullhaVemadeatte toreadsomepoetwand tOSO e music atlea,tOnceaweet I PerhapS the parts Of my brain how at phied,ould
thusihave been kept active by usee The 10s,OftheSe isa lo"

B ec

ofhappinesttand my p"s lyleittu us10 the hten ralchattct and more p bablyto by enfeebhngthe
emotional Patt of out na

re.

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Music is the chttd of pFayer

Ther smusicin thesthhg Ofa E ; Ther s musicin the phing ofa ril Tlere S music in allthings if men had ea
Their mrth is but an echo ofthe spheres.

Music wellinid to be the sp h

By
of angels.

orryra

Musicib the child of prayeL the COmpanion of religion.

C b " n& The mus nan who always plays on tho same st
hughed at
IHo

Are sweetg,therefor%yesoft plpe,play o Notto the sensual eaL bu mOre endeard

Pipe to the sPHt ditties Of no tone.
Yea

Heard mel hes are swee butthOSe unheard

muslc ls the Oph s art Among the gifts that Cod hath sen one of e moSt magni cen

Is

Music the universallanttge of mankind,

Lo graIIm

Such sWeet compulsion doth L

muSiC lie

Mlir,o

Letlne die to the sounds of delicious music.

ras M

And lnusic too dear lnusic!that can touch Beyond an else the soulthatloves itlnuch Now heard far ot so far as butto seem Li the faint eX lbite music ofa dream.

Moora One man with a dream at Pleasure

s1lu go forth an

conquer a crOm

And three with a new song 3 measure

Can tralnPle a ldngdom down.

4 'LE.0

Sy
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LIFE

To 77g s,
,

fO : =Jb j": lo" 700 Isf fo : rg, zgg .

"

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Tell him so
If you hear a kind word spoken Of some worthy soul you know, it may fiU his hearlwith sunshine If you only tell him so. If a deed, however humble, Helps you on your way to go,
Seek the one whose hand has helped you, Seek him out and tell him so!

If your heart is touched and tender Toward a sinner, lost and low, It might help him to do better If you'd only tell him so!
:

Oh, my,sisters, oh, my brothers, As o'er life's rough path you Bo, If God's love has saved and kept you, Do not fail to tell men so!

For those who love me

I live for those who love rl, ,For those who know me true, For the Heaven that smiles above me, And awaits my coming too; For the cause that lacks assistance, For the wrong that needs resistance, For the future in the distanc, And the good that I can do.
G- Linnaeus Banlcs

At some time in our life we feel a trembling, fearful tongi.g to, do some good, thing. Life finds its noblest spring of excellence in this hidden impulse to do our best.
Robert ColIYer

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Life is a iourney

The supreme object of life is not in the destination, but rather in the journey..Lei the object of your heart's desire be in the doing. Live today. Enjoy today. Enjoy the doing. Behappy and at peace now. We all know characters who, live in the fulure. They are going to do this and that tomorrow. At some future time they are going to b9 happy. By the time they get all the things that they want they are going to have peace of mind. Everything about their lives is staked tpon the future. Life is a journey. Who would set upon a vacation trip to one of our national parks and close his eyes to all the beauty, all the fun and happihess on the jotrrney to and from the park? Our happiness should never be reseryed to the realization of an object. It should be fbturd in every golden moment along the road to accomplishment. Each of life's goals should be but steppirg stones to something higher and nobler in the development of self. We should never cease, never stop, this eternal growth. It is true that at some point in life we can plan to retire from the labor of love which has provided a livelihood for the members of our family and us, butit is equally true that this should not mark the realization of our ambitions in lite. If it did, we would invite liaziness, disintegration and death. We never reach the limits of ourmental growth. Look to the happiness to be found in this never-endirg process of growirg mentally and you shall find it there.
:

Let every dawn of the morning be to you as the beginning of life. And let every setting of the sun h to you as its close. Then let every one of these short lives leave its sure record of some kindly thing done for others; some good strength or knowledge gained for yourself. lohn Ruskin

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How did you die?

Did you tackle that trouble that came your way With a resolute heart and cheerful? Or hide your face from the light of day With a craven soul and fearful? Oh, a trouble's a ton, or a troubles an ounce. Or a trouble is what you make it, And it isn't the fact that you're hurt that counts, But only how did you take it?
You are beaten to earth? Well, well, what's that! rf s

'

But to lie thsre,-1hat's disgrace. The harder you're thrown, why the higher you bounce; Be proud of your blackened eye! It isn't the fact that you're licked that counts; Ifs how did you fight-and why?

ffffi

u:r*iltrT?"1iT;-" nat,

And though you be done to the death, what then? If you battled the best you couldi If you ptayed your part in the world of men, Why, the Critic will call it good. Death comes with a crawl, or comes with a pounce, And whether he's slow or spry. It isn't the fact that you're dead that counts, But only how did you die?
Edmund Vance
Coo?,c

The good life is not only good for one's conscience; it iS good for art, good for knowldg., good for health, god for

fellowshiP'

Leu,is Mumforit

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Touching shoulders

There's a comforting thought at the close of the day, When I'm weary aruC lonely and sad, That sort of grip hold of my crusty old heart And bids it be merry and glad. I[ gets in my soul and it drives out the blues, And finally thrills ttuough and through. It is itrst a sweet memory that chants the refrain: 'nI'mglad I touch shoulders with you!"

Did you know you werebrave, did you know you were
strong?

Did you know there was one leaning hard? Did ior know that I waited and listened and PmYd, And was cheered by yoursimplst word? Did you know that I longed for that srhile on your face, For the sound of your voice ringing true? Did you know I grew stronger arxt better because \ I,had merely touched shoulders with you? I am glad that I live, that I battle and strive For the place that I know I must filb I am thankful for sorrows, I'll meet with a grin What forhrne may send, good or ilI. I may ncit have wealth, I maln not be great, But I know I shall always be true, For I have in my life thit courage you gave When once I rubbedshouldeni with you.
The turther I advance in life, the more convinced

necessity of that principle of wisdom which befits our nature: enjoy r own hands, r what lies in your

tY#K"
Delacroix

'

I'd. decided that I would make my life my argurnent. I would advocate the things I believed in terms of the life I lived and what I did.
Albert Schweitzer

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RegaFd life as a great school

The fine aFt Of living ; acquired only through long discipline obsewation and eXperience.Day by day you have opporhlluties for corrcting in youttelf mistakes and iSiudgementse As you see wh re yOu might have done differentl,and bette.yott can r Ord the ittt in ybur memory a,d reS01Ve to profit by the expe enceo Life is a greatschO L in whi,h you are COn`tantly leaming what to do and not to do hOw to plan and execute bettero The schoohnaster lnay seem stem and relentless at tilnel but

assur9da s61 tion aWaits yOu 6o ewhere. Those who uve nobly even if in their day they live
obscurely need not fear that they win have hved in vain.

lil illllllei

Something radiates frOm their lives some lightthat shows tleirnlilb rperhaps to 10ng
,nds

TO hVe SO COmpletely in the hturer Or h the pas dulb one s enJoyment of the presen and rObS hfe ofits chest
pleasures.
T01lVe the well lived life means that we leam tO e o

mtenigently each day and hourin the here and now.

Life is nOt so shOrt but there b 1lways time enough r

C9uttesy.

IJO=
"o

The pleasure 6flife b accordhg to the man that hv

10t

it

and

iding to the w6rk or the plaCe. aCCOr

E 0

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Life has loveliness to sell

Life has loveuness to sen

n beautim attlsplendid things

Blue wav whitened on a chff

Soaring Are that sways and sings
And children s faces looking up

Holding wonder hke a cup.

Lif

has lovehness t sen

e of gold hold

Music hke a cu

ent Of Pine trees in the rail Is that Eyes thatloveyOur al

t

And for y6ur slp s stul dehg H01y thOughts that star the night

,pend an yOu have forloveliness Buy it and never countthe cost,

For one white shging hour of peace

COuntma yay r
Give all you have been

Of St fe Welllost

And for a breath of ecstasy

r could be.

I hke sprin butitis too yomg:Ilike summerr butitis too pro do So lllke best of all autumnr hause its leaves are a
little yenOw its tone me1loweL its co19rs cheL and it is

tingedahttleWithsorow. ,g01den chness speaks not of thOimoCence oFsPnng orofthe pow rofsmmeL butof the menowness and kindly wisdom of approaching age.It
knows the hmitatio ns of hfle and is content

lt

butthe best yOu very often getit.

s a funny thing ab9 t life:,IfyO

g Fe so tO, Opt enything

Litt

`I So

-QuretforDeoelopment LIeis wohwhile Life is worthwhile if you lare groung daily in sPHtual POW rand purpose.hfeisworttwhilettyouareconstantly unfolding in beauty and nobihty of character. Life is sel 1l servlce to worthwhile if you are dany rende ng others. Life is worthwhile if you aFe meeting every reSPOnsibility obligatiOn and circumstance with confidence and unwavering faith.Life b worthwh e if you ghteo"ness.Life ib worth are progressing in tmth and while if desPite the Sin sickness and sorrow ofthe world you st l keep radiant and st, ge Life b transce lently

worthwhile if you are daily deve10ping a deep

consEiousness of your personal anhnce with(God yOur dependence upon Him and the absolute assurance of His guidance and P t tiOn.
Every yearllive l am more convinced thatthe waste oflife
liesin the love we have not given
used

the powe,we haVe not

theselfiShPmdenCethat w

l sknothing

andwhicL

shirking pain misses happiness as well

I We must an have interests,As you go thl ugh life

mOnydiSappointmentswllcome yOurwa .HaVe as many

interests and hobbies as you can gather tOgethero The mere

m one concentration of thought factthat you can sutch to another is the sPice of an active life and an interesting
one.
Lord

when 1look upon mine own life itSeers

Thou hastlet me so caremlly So tenderl Thou canst have attendod to no one els( but

when l see how wond rfully ThOu hastled the wOrld and artleading it Iam amazed that
Thot hasttime to att nd to such as I.
St. Augustine

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You ttn if you think you can

lf yOu think yOu are beaten,you are; : If you think that you dare not you'don ti lf you d lketo win butthink you can t
lt s almost a cinch you won t. If you think you 11 lose you ve lost

FoF Outin the workl you Find .

allin the state of mind

Success begins th
l lt s

a fe1low s will

lly

many a race ns 10st

Ere even a step is run

nd many a cOwaFd fallS

Ere even his work s begun

hink,i&and yOur deeds ill

Link that you
It

grow,

Think sman and yOu llfall behhd

can

and you wn

s allin the state of mind:

Ifyou think yOu re outClassed you are

You ve gotto think high to
You ve

s,

gotto be swe of yourselfbefor

always go

You can ever win a pnze

Lif s battles don t

To the stronger or faster mn

Btttsoon orlate the man who wins

ls the Fe1low who thinks he can.

leam to desire tO knOtt tO f

lwalLAndn9hng slTh

But warm)eageL l ing ttfrto be oted in o tO act at What t,thi

1

WhttI

The further l advance along the path oflife the lnore do I

And work a n sity.In the long mn it b Omes the

gleatest pleasure.

7oltai

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The purpose of life

Without going deeper than our daily life, it is plain that we exist for our fellow rpsn-in the first pla.ce for those upon whose smiles and welfare our happiness depends, and next for all those unknown to us personally but to whose destinies we are bound by the tie of sympathy. A hundred times every day I remind myself that my inner and outer life depend on the labors of other men, living and dead, and that I must exert myself in order to give in the measure as I have received and am still receiving. Albert Einstein

In passionate love, in parental affection, in friendship, in benevolenc- h devotion to science or art, there is nothing that reason should wish to diminish. The rational rle& when he feels any or all of these emotions, will be glad that he feels them and wilt do nothing to lessen their strength, for all these emotions are parts of the good life, the life, that is, that makes for happiness botf in oneself and in others. Aldous Huxley
The self should never be lost sight of. It is the one thing of supreme importance, the greatest factor even in the life of the greatest service. Being alwaysand necessarily precedes doinp having always and necessarily precedes giving. But this law also holds: That when there is the being, it is all the more increased by the doing; when there is the having, it is all the more increased by the giving. Keeping to oneself dwarfs and stultifies. Hoardirg brings loss: using brings even greater gain. fn brief, the more we are, the more we can do; the more we have, the more we can give. The most truly successful, the most pov,,erful and valuable life, then, is the life that is first founded upon this great, immutable law of love and seryice.

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Objeclve6 ofl ing

that one could got and thus making themselves au sipremely powerhl over the rest Or making themselves
self mtisfiedi

uS are the,ob"ct es Of l ing and the pl osophies behinO thesee some believe that life b meant foracq nng
some beheve that ltte is not real and that the

e Sun of the mOrrow they may not at an be ab19 = a grttt trhl where 4 tined to sec some blelieve that l
t

nt : T ,1 ng merv aS much asth ,can a.dwhile the can r

the soul
ust t umphiover

the bOdy,s9he beulVe in

ost o t appear to be

fe110W bei,gS
li es

: ttI nevOlence to an as the

belie ng in l
Ofliving.Reall

gOnStt Or attetic

t the

Sttremeo tive

happyisthe person who

to give happmess t6 9thel reany good isthe 6ne"ho Se humanity and believ"alsO in se ing the rest of G" s g10 0 ,ation 10 the bOst oFhb abihty and ardent deavours

Thei ma, who CannOt get beyond himself hiO.OWn

aggrandisement and interes" must of n essity be smal
petty

persOnal and at onge lnartt his own lhnitations while he whOse life is a hfe ofoerViCe and ser d tion has

o limitsr for he thus putslhimserat .ce on theside oFthe Universal and this mtt than an else comb Od g es a endOT POWerin oratory. Another most beautinl and valua e feature ofthis life

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Eveqything around us is the result of action Everything around us, every object and every
circumstance, is the result of action of some kind. There cannot be any such thing as action'without there having been a preceding thoughh there is no such thing as chanceaction alywhere. It follows therefore, that Thought is Cause, and Action is Effect. Now this Law of Cause and Effect is one of the greatest of all Unidersal Laws, and its operation can be observed in everything; it covers everything ftorl the major events in the multiplicity of universes down to the minute detail and circumstances of the individual's daily life. Once get this simple, universal law firmly fixed in your consciousness and you hold a thorough deman4of life; Thought is Cause; Action is Effect.

Iearn that it is not abundance that make riches, but

economy and the application of what you have... The rnan to whom God grves riches should be careful to employ them in the right way.You should look upon your wealth with pleasure, for it gives you the means to do good.

You should protect the poor and the injured; and fight against the *ighty when they oppress the weak. Do not let the benevolence qf your mind be checked by your fortune; so shall you rejoice in your riches, and your ioy will be
blameless.

Do not heap up wealth in abundance to rejoice in its possession alone, lest woe comes unto you. Do not grind the facs of the poor: consider the sweat of their brows. Do not thrive on oppression, lest the ruin of your brothir dishrrb your heart. Do not harden your heart with love of wealth, lest grief and distress soften it again. Learn wisdom from the experience of others, and from their failings you will be able to correct your own faults.
Dandemis

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I shall nct Pass

thitt Way again

alas!

hugh this toilsome wOrld Once and onlyOncer pas

If a ldndn s IInay show Ifa go d deed l may dO

No dela for ttiS plah

To a eHngFenow maL Let he dOit wh e l can

l shall not pass this way again

b
not a

ousands

S geOflifeandareheardofnomOre.why?They

Of men breather mov%and c Pass off the

partich of good h the wo ,and ttone wei b sed by themr none could POint to thenl as the i thment oftheir redempti9n nOt a lhe they wrot%not a word they sPoke could be rcalled and so they perished t light ttent outin darhess and they were notremembered morethan the insects of y terday,Win you thus hve and dic O man

Ortal?Hvefor3omethnJ

Chltt rs

The man w o liV 1 the pr trfOrgethl ofthe past and mdifferent to the nture L the man of w iOm.The best preparation fortomor91/S WOrk to do yourfworkaO weu you can today.The bes,Preparation for a l to come iS

here.L eFightuptoyournghesta,abest, Ab v We liVe in d nOt yea in thoughts not breaths,in

,

to l enowand

Wly:1 e
liF7

nobl Bt actS the best.

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t Develop all yourtalents

Let the hves of the great stimulate your ambitioni but after you have cho`en your ideal d6n6t lnerely inutttte than.

Each man must fashion success with his own talents and apply them to the conditions wh h conhnt hilne Sighing
for talents you do not possess or for conditions tthich n longer est wnl hinder not hasten your prOgress.

Life forces us to make the most vital decisions

ourselves withOut the help of 9therS The diffOrence between being right or wrong at a decisive lnoment mttns

the difference between success and fanure.

atterofb9ok OWl g but Right d isions are ot

,f lgement.The Cowlrd`gap9 end.dO n lhing thed11, a c6in a d Plunge the t,1lig9nt weigh the chal," 10SS
d

then aFt with calmness and determinatiOn

1n a C

S SOle gu4e br tle

'jttgement i,One

every mouthful than to swanow a meal in chunks/and ,uffer iom digeStiOn

again time tO relax.

Read a b66kslowly and savour ach sentenclo You nl then have the nottt chapt r to 16ok fottard tO w en it'IS

Neveri sh through your pleasures else you lose the nll_measure of their en,oyment Pleastres are rare,

; 1i win open bF yOu an exciting new wond.Life is,u Of

glo ousladventures

for those who are able and wnhng to

leave the wen wom paths and traVel along the byways where the crowd dOes notcare to go. Be as many sided as you can.The more cets a diamond has the more b 1liantly it sParkles.

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The house by the side ofthe road

Let melive m m hOuse bythe sde ofthe road Wherethe race of men go by

ey

are good they are bad

theyareweat theyarest n

Wbe foohshoam I
Then why should l sitin the scomers seat . Or hurlthe cyni s ban
Let me hve in lny house by the side ofthe road And be a ttiend to rtan.
S
I

r Foss

TO be hOnestito be kind,to eam a littl

and to spend a little

leSi tO iake upon the whole a,muy hppler for hb presence,torenbuncewhenthatshanben lesary and nOt
ble embittered
l ends

to keep a few f endtt but these without

capltula,10ne Above an

Onthosame gm cOndition t6keep

ROb Lo St

with hhnself:hereis a task for an that a inan has of

s

foritude and ddtacy.

Let us endeavour so to vethat when we cometo die even
the tndeFtaker will be sorry

j
To l e b not merel,tO breathe iti`tO act to make use of our organsr,enseS faculties ofanthose parts of ourselv hich give us the feeung of ex tence
R ssal

le tr9u e about rea hing the age of ninety twor which I didlastOctobeListhatregrelforami"pentlifearebound tO Creep in and whenever yOu see me with a n.FrOWed
brOW yOI Can be lure that what is On my mind is the
and things I nught have got my handicap down to under

thOughtthatif Only l had taken up golf earher and devoted my whole time to itinst 0 9ff001ingebout Wnting slo eS

dghteen.

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for DaxloPment

These are the things which we control

--

1.

must select a goal which is gaod and which is reasonably attainable, and then develop a firm
determination to reach that goal.
Creative Attitude, you are aware of what attitude is and how it can be changd and adapted. Control of attitude

Our goal in life; We select the goal at which we aim. We

2. Our attitude in life: Since we have already discussed

is a matter of first adjusting the attitude to make it
creativ, and then occasionally checkirg up to see that it remains that way -Our passions ani .i,"notions: Control of the emotions is probably the one most i*portant factor in controlling your life. Actually, through such control, we shape our whole lives and personalities. There are two sets of emotions or passioru which we must control. I shall label them the constructive forces and the destructive forces, although any strong emotion can be either constructive or destructive, dependi.g on the use to -' which you put it.

3.

Well, I grant all this; yet I cannot hold *y tongue nor rny pen. As long as I live I must write. If I stopped writing I should die for want of something to do... George Bernard Sluw
He only is advancing in life whose heart is getting softer, his blood wanner, his brain quicker, and his spirit entering into

Iiving peace. I have only managed to live so long by garryrng no hatreds.

Sir Winston Churchill

In everything the middle course is best.

Plautus

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We arO capable Of CottPlete control

over our life
Th ttrst point to be mde dearis that we are capable of

complete control over our hve, SOme people deny this use they have a mLcOncepthn asi b t what th b( control bo They sa How Can I Possbly cont l my hL whenlam in uencl ibyso lnany things over which l have

and abSOlutely no control? Sickness for example depressiOns and other eventsl about which I can do
nothing.

This is a very pop hr noti9n and uddy adop b ause people don t hke to accept resPonsibnity.If you control your lifer you are then resPOns le for what

happens.
Of person that you are.

i .

for it rinany d ndcs YouF attime ib most importan the quality of your ,and ulthately mak you the kind

Tobearoncelfwithgraceand khaydignity tofosto and breed gradousness and self r6p as wen as to disseminate themo lt not diffidt tO,ck a Whnerf ke a the crowdo Succ sful people catt th ttelv winnero Their mmge and fadal expr6sion reveals the con dence and assurancethatthey have nthc selv :A great dml of our succ(Bsin lre depends upon the :PeOPle w o m hesitate o 'iendly coopention cooperate with us ifof we oth la k thel ning sPHt in our attitud bearmg and con ersation. Walk hke the king that yOu al ht some vim and quahty into the tone of yourivoic(a Let the hnPoJant part
.

confidence in self.
Stand t L

hil
wak

_ /

100k up stnggle uP,Cary yourselfin suFh a mamer t tiit Win

brace up tan.Dr s u

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for DarcIopment

Tme khLdneSS
hdness does not consist in grts but in gentleness and gene sity.oF sPirit Back 1 1938 when l made a Mid shipman s mbe to Europe on the battleshiP Texas the Navy lssued a gude book containing valuable infottHlation about the va ous countries and the customs which we visited.I shall never fbrget that in the s tion deahng with
Franceand tipping pr(xledures itstated the French attitude toward the giving of gratuities. It is better to g e fewer

iancs with a smne than lnany in an unkind attitude our gunde b00k said.Money is a temporary thing but kindness
travds far.

nkes Little kindnesses elevate humanity.Kindness

sunshine wherever it goes One of the strangest things in

itt is why peoPle are such lnisers of khdnesso Kndness costs nothin&we haVe unhmit( l storehouses Of it We know thatit b the sh ne of frienoship it the straighteSt
path to the heaJb of our fe1low man yet we are so stingy

nthi InO,t people hold itlnck

Tnle Hndne"should not be sel t e.All peoplbs ith whom we have dealings shoulld be the racipients of it.It
shOuki not be resewed for those in the higher positionstin hfe.:To dir tilb use m such selcctive manner would l lto remove it iom its heart quahty source of which it should

beo Even the humblcst sewartt should be afforded the OPPOrtunity to profitfrom it,It isn tso much whatone mys in life that counts butthe= nner m which he saysit.Even the word no can be said in kindly sPi t which can be
plmsing to,the eas of a listener. LifeiS made uP not Of great sacHfices or dutiesr but.of

httle thhgttlin which smiles and kindness and smn obhgationsr given habituany are what win and preserve
the heartand smrl comfort.

Vhe,'91

dt 9tllrsry9

=,b"t::X9uttSi

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L elre digni and res01 lon

lity One should be p ud of hvhg hfe hke that with d and r olution.

' The way in tthich th world has deVdOped during the hst
:

T : # tl
equently ttured by men wh6 have no doubtoftheir on dOm that old ag should bring lserenity and a larger vidon/in which seeming evils are vieWd as means to an ultimate good. Bertranil RusseII

And now every fresh day finds me more filled with wonder and better qualified to draw the last drop of delight from it. For up trntil now I had never known time's inexpressible wealth; and my youth had never entirely yielded itself to happiness. Is it indeed this that they call growing old, this continual surge of memories that come btqaking in on my inner silence, this contained and sober ioy, this lighthearted music that bears m up, this spreading kindly feeling and this gentleness?
Ivlaurice Goudelcet

The great use of life is to spend it for something that will outlast it' .wiltiamlames

To make good use of life, one should have in youth the experience of advanced years, and in old age the vigor of youth
Stanislaus

on Let your life lightly dance on the edges of time like dew t the lip of a leaF. o
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1 lrt
lt has been

Of en,oying thVe little things

mid that few people ever leam the art of

en,Oying the httle things of hfe they go abng.It the

mtt eevday e oyments and mtisfactions that count

most h life.If we can le oy the nttle things i,11 the ev chances are that,O wouldn teoy the hrger even though they wer6 within our reaCh Org= p

MostpeoplehVeinanttipatioLn9tinreahty. hen we
get the neXt prOmOtion when we get,Ihttle mOFe mO eyr

when when then we are going to e oy lifeo We can te oy the pr mt

when we OVe into a largeF hOmQ when

e Of Our anticipation or concem for the future. I If e,Outtey there b every hkehhood W9 nlt e tO en,oy th destination.Happ eSS lt,earel.ltgoing "y y F91F being.It is a habit that damental n he power eatty in life as Possible. = l=OuldbOCultivated
oflittle th thl first l 50n in lre

gs to giVe instmcti9,and happiness,hOuld be mid Russell Ho C6nwell and it

h of Life was intended to be a pO dbe On eatth for a grant sweet sOng.lHamony the language of 10f dLCOrd is abno...lalo We should Nature.Evev fo each day as iFit were to be o r laStO Each day should be a
for us

,h6 ldbe inculcated deeply.

ol ay

Makinga hfeisininitelymoreilnportantthan mkinga

: l `i
ml tth e happiness a daily dutyo Let gs Oreach gOlden mOment Oftime.
find it in th9 1ittle

Life) mlade up not of greatsac fices or dutie5 but oflittle

h Smiltt and kindnttsandsman 9 ingS W

given habitually are what win and Presewe the heaFt and 300ue comfort.

igatiOns

SirHumphryDar'y

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Lt On my learself IF

Ih y

Fight on lny dear.selt fight10n. is a,tngglc do notshirk stmggle

the sw s oflre but dO notstOp nggle fight Onmy dearself

Do not entertam fear fOr fearis deatL The world win f ghten y01
B t ttght on dear ser fight On.

Tols

Make your mark

Make your mark.

And hfb wtt offercoJort
RisO every da D)etennined to live alittle more

nis da

than the laSt

Entortain no fear
For fear is death:

'

m e Only wealth y9ur mark.

Fau notin health or characte 6wledge grasP lt

Iam ddighted to nd thateven atmy greatageideas co me ire to methepusuitand d vdiopmentofwhth wouldl another lifetime. Ithinkthe old need touchmg.They have reach ias ;em
l

ewhen theyneed H"in hugghg.And nobody touch them eXCeptthed tor.

Ro/ma

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Life is sOmething o be en,oyed

Life obviOusly somethhg to be e oyed and l believe we are alttost under an Obugation lo e Oy it tO the llest extent Ofwh h we are capabltto use very moment ofit

TlWIttW es huy tt working with othe3

in the creative stimulus

tO the uhOst Of our intel gence and Our energies 19 add

and fe119wShip of the tealn.But l know that the tn (Bt

orfailure b to be measurd
l

this a10n nOt Of his public achievemen that ht succe

'

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Say yG5 better than words

gS Ilirf

what we:can character

FIp

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Life askslfor conttnuo ad,ustmen

Lit l believ ash a conthuous sd6 ofad mentt tO d y a person is able to.make these reahtyo The more l

adiuShenttt the mott mea nghl his,mp vatt world b omes,The ad, tment tt never easy:I was bewildered and afra .But l was lucky.My parents and my teachers

out uth blLdness

Tttt

I beheve in hl rtyol feelit

l
1

fe r tte are tO master it,and each human be g

Wl

n ry fOr the health ofthe

mentalmake up unique hLcircumstanclsareuttiquee So

else.He must be able to ten us something that couki not be

he must know some th gs whth are knon to nobody

leantfrom any OtheF SOuFCe

==I

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Wgs,

1 f foming new ndhas and.sclng them gratifiodo He that hborsinanygFeat Or hudableundertahnghas his fatigues A tsupport i b hOpe and afte rards rewarded by,oy
S

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Seti se les Of goalstand tv'tO rea chlthem

An lny life l have set aheadlof me a seines of goals and then

tded to reach thenl

one

at a t ne.

I had to leaml my

th:::artwaSI11111tililllttb

itathsolt

was no g9od t 1 forsOmethtt l hew at

autSe that only invited

adny b 1 a pattem Ofhfeshaped b, ertain vahes.I ld it easier to uve

nT:=

lld fall sotteumes anyWaybut

= L b:
billi:111]11;lll
iR

b dldlttby eimpOttanc mon are.All l know that

higher Obihtyforlnentost11
thl:has helped
together

me mOrethar illl

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alway,be like thtt so whue it L Fll ttke the most ofit.

A141 eWards

rll rem

: dbeJatenl

He most liv who thinks lnost Feels the noblesttaC the beSt and he wh e heart bea the q ck"tl the lo gesti l : 1 _ lvlartinmu lama

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for Darcloptrrent

Life is a lniSl

on

and Life b a misdono Evev other definition of hfe b fa

leadsall who acceptitastray.RdigiOn,scb e philosophyr Ough stnlat varianceuPon many pomt an agree h thL that every ex tence b an aim : : zai
` ple Ibelieve= the good intentbtt of Othersr and ltmst p

ldVelmay

litttT

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Faith in lny life

l choose for my su t faith ttought into lre apatt frOm
creed or

dogmat By faith l mean a vttn of gOod one

whatl mn to mkeita habitation ofhealthand Plentyforall men. Vett l my tal sPark shOuld be b10Wn u I behe e that l shOuld behave with courageous dignity in the p ence Offate and st vetO be a worthy CO mpanion ofthe Beautinll,the cood and the Tme.But fate has its masterin
the faith of those who su.i.10unt it and limitation has its

Tttt h my fenow menr wonder attheirfundamenhl goodn s and conttdence that afterthis night Ofsorowand oppr sion they wnl bei up strong and beautinll h the glory Of morning. Rev rence for the beauty and PE10usntt of earth and a sense of responsibnity tO dO

chenshes and the e,tlusiasm that pushes one to seek its hllment regardless ofobstacles.Faith a dynamic PoWer thatbreaksthechahOf uineand gives a newr inetum to old commonplac .Faith rein gorat the wnL enriches the affctions and awakens a sense 6F creativen se

,Inlits fOr thOse whO thOugh disulusioned live greatly.

Tme faith is not a uit 6F secunt it iS the abi ty to blend mortal ttaguity th the hner strength ofthe spi to lt do not shift with the changing shade of on s thought.

rg II r l believe that we s19uld ttOt forget how to disagree d hh a nation of lnental l 1 ut blindly f01lowing demagOgues. I beheve thatin our cOnstant search for so nty we mn eVerga anypeace ofminduntn wesecure Our ownsoul. And this l do beheve above an esp alally in lny thnes of
gFeater dis ouragoment that l must believe that l must btblieve in my fel16,men thatl must bel ve m mysdf_ thatl mstbeli eh COd ifttfe b tO have.any mea ng rgattftt S

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We have some hg unique nthin ourselves

An the treasuttB of th world lie in the humn heart and
SPl t

Butfor many yett lremed tO a ept happlntt or

perfction which eOuld not be related to lny arto Now the

pattem creatd by any shgle L is morelhpOrtantto me than the great tart.The twinkle Of hght a ttlendly eye is
b ghter than the nash of iewelS It Can be lost and never

replaced,itis beyond PnCe.So b e beauty ora smue and every other human thhg.And so ib the s ret thread of

happiness upont which eacht human heart depends. However p L we each have something unique within outte es to glve to a particular needa gl ofthe human

SParkJttedvha PettF a moment

or httne for forgethh s or a reminder thatsOm00ne car ,whateverittakes to bring happmess to
anothers fac(
I

that s

what=nakes lne feel llke a kinge But

In beggar and king in,On%fOrthe supreme hw and need ofmy existence tum outto benottalent orachievement or succestt nor even health butsimply love asI uS meatt it.
So

anything else in this world and that the K gdom

maven is right herer nour hide use

I believ

that we need each other more than

Of

I And that mosttme happiness comes 'om on s inner e f m thedLPositiOnofthemindand"ul.A4mittedl a good hn life is drkult to achiev%esp iany in the t=ying times It taktt ren on and cOntertplatiO And ser_dittipune.one must be honest with onesdt and that s not easy.(You have to have patience and understanding. And when you can seek God.) Butthereward ofhaving an hner hfe which no ou ide o lor evn tum offortune can touch ittitseems to me a
very great One.
WiiII

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FiFSt

l Rtespectibegets FeSpeCti

COmmonplace astt my sound Iam con incod that what we get outoflreiSindirct prOportionto whatweput
mto ito Second I must rlespectthe opuuons of others even if
I

with them. d agr Life not a one way streeto Whatl dO

whatI y ev

what l thmk inevitably has a direct effect on my

the degree that my attitude towards others has given fOnvmchg proOf inceinty hOhesty courtesy and faimessr l have of loyalty encouragd in othels the same attitude toward m9.Resp t
relationships with otherso l anl certain that in

begets r pect sTPiCiOnbegetssusPicion hatebegets hate.

Ithasbeenwensaid that Th9onlywayto haveamendb l

be one`

NIone Of the blesshtgs of ouF great he tage of civil

urties is self exttting,To make effctive such thngs as brotherhood kindliness sypath human d ency,the
o odonl of oppottnity the very preclousness of life things real requ :eo lrespect and constant gihnce.This b the COre of my faith. r rb H.L .S wded to the 111 th gloous,actioL One h9ur oflre 0

make th e

and Aned with hoble st iS,Orth wh01 years of those mean obsewanc6 of Paltry d Omm in which men steal th igh existeneQ hke s ggiSh waters th ugh a marsh wlthout eitherihonour or obsewatiOn.

Slir ttrrar s"

Life is a short enough affaitt it is'too shortfor us tomake it

petty Or cheap.

rral

1/o I

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Keep the courage of tte quest

)m yeF tO yeatt lti Let me butlive=ny llb

With fOWard faceand unttluctantsouL No hur ngt nortuming f e gOa Not mouming forthethinF t id appmr

ln thedim past norho14mg backin fmr.

From whatthe futtre.vellsi but with a:whole And happy hear that pays ib t011 To Youth and Ag and travels On with cheer.

eFi ugh or smOoth the,oumey Win be,o . stin seeking whatl sought when but a boy New friendshipr high adventu and a crownr My heart w l keep the courage ofthe que And hopethe road s last turn will be the best.

So letthe way wittupthe hnlordowL

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Dyt

Liflewas meanttobelivi and.curiositymustbekeptalive. One must neverrfOr whateverireason tum his back on hfe. : EI r Ro Anyone can catt his burd n howeverhard untilnightfa11 Anyone canidO h WOr h6wever hard for one day. Anyone ca li es,eetly 10Ving purelyrtil the sun gO
this is an thatlre rea

downi nd

y means.

Robr Lo SL"

going 19, ng SOmethi g new into this pe3on s hL b ause he has never lnet anyon9 1ike rne nOr Win he e,er m"tanyOne m m forin the ttin4 0fGod,Iam uque andreplacttble:

y o s

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ttIOra

My life belongs to the,whole community

l am convinced that my life belongs to the whole ,Ommunit and aslong as H is my p lege to do for
it whatever l can for the harder l work th more:I live.I

rttOiCeinlreforitsownsakeoLifensnOb efcandle to meolt

is a sortofsplendd torch whth I got hold offora lnOment

and l want toi mke it bum as brightly as possible before

tuming it over to nture generations

Caorg

Stt

the Try to care about something in this vast world besid L s.Try to care for whatis gratrkation of sman selfish d best in thought and action4olnething that is good apart onl the accdents of your on lot.Look on other lives besid your owno See"hat their troubles are and how

tley arebOme. G rga EIlilo,

Ifl wereto namethe three most pr ious resourc oflre
should say books
f ends
I

and naturel alnd the greatest of

is thes( at least the most constant and always at hand nature.Nature we have alway,with us an inexhaustible storehouse of that whth moves the heart appeals to the mind and fiF the imagittatiOn health to the bod a
:t andioyt9the,Oulo To thescientist nature is a storehouse of facts,laws,processes to the artist

stinulus to the inten

,he is a storeh9use Of picturesl to the poet she is a stOrehOu,o Ofimages fancies a sOurce ofinsPirationito the mOralbtsh iSastorehouselfpreceptS and Parabl i tOall

Shemaybe a sourceOfknOwledge On4,oyO

0

The tme iOy in life to ally yourself to a gFeat purppsQ to

throw yourselfinto it heart and soul tOforgetyourlittleeelf fOFithe realization of that purpose.

B Fa 0

I C

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forDwelopnent

ResPo S i

If you are tmpted to reveal A tale to you someone has told

About anothe= mkett PasS

Beforelyou sPttt three gates ofgold` These naFOW gates:Firs Lit he? Then L it needhl? h your mnd

Cetmthm answero And the next

ls hst ad narowettprb it kind? And rito reach,your lt pa" through thesegatewaySth" "at hSt n Ou may ten the ler nOr far What the result or sp h may
.

o"linilo" Attb Lara On9 6fthemost hgicth gSIIbowabouthumnnatureb tha us tend t,Put Or hvmgo We are an dreami 80f Slme d rOse Frden OVg tte hotton itttead of 9 ng oubide our ndows 9y g theli00ses lnt att

t aye

l%

Ido e that h has a real P ?OSerthat Cod has assignd tO eaCh huml gablein lMe that each of us
haS a pu70Qem ttt that ow individual roles are all
direrent but that each of us has the ttune ob gatton to do thelSt we can.

Ibelievethatevevhumanbd gICOmeinCOntactwitl m me.I beheve has a rightto couJtsy and c9nsideration thatlshou14neta 10rexP tfm anyoneebethat which lam otwnhngt6gnntOrdlmySdi lbfttevethatlshould
be able to ta l anything that I an dh Out.I bdieve that Ving pe3on hasthe ght to ttt constmct dyr

the ght honestly to hold Popuhr bel the right tQ p test orderly the ght ofindependentthought. r rga G S S

WeV

DagroFm ,

May:be nO Inan s enemy

May l be no lna s enemyrand myl betheflend of that which is etemal and abidesI May l never quaFel h those nearest me and I I do may lbe ttoncned q Cklyo May I

ntter de se elagamstan mani ranydeviseev=against

mQ may l escape mittred and'ithOut the need Of

hutting him. y110VttSeetandattainonly thatwhttis goodo May l wish for an lnen s happintt and envylnonet May l never reJoice in the in lbttne of one who has

wngedmeo WhenlhaVedoneorsatt what wrongrmay

l never wait for the rebuke of othe3,but always rebukl mysdf untn l m amends.. N,I Win no victo that ha.uls eitherm9 0rmy opp"ent.. Maylr oncile ttends who arewroth"ith one anothe May L to the extent,fmy pOwe g 9111dlhdPt y mends end tO a who

l yII Prt mySdi" ayI alWa,S keep that whth rages within me."my l acttsto ySelf tO gentlQ and ever be angv with P ple bmuse of ciK stanc(Bo May I ever di whO is ked and whati ncked things he has done but kno, 300d mOn ttd 119Wintheirfo6 teps.
words to sotten the
Pain.

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Were the offer made tm I woull engage to mn aga esamecareorofl .AlH would beg 11 g tO en4 lege of an auth04 tO cOtt in a aSk Outt bl the p

Ond

editiOn Certain eFprs 6fthe Arst.

ri Fra

Stuldy Os r,yOu were to live forever. Live aS if yOu Wer0 1ol etomorrow.

IsliJoFg O/, IIg

To live wen:we tteed hu

LOSe O
ttt hSt Of

-@mttorDarcIopmafi 11 and

rlsoluon

phnt seeds oflove sewlcer ttic as a="v e ar a cmtinuing ad entu The fev of the blolod dow"the spHt grows serene.

hOW
:

mo b mendshipS grow hol r th,hred yea Out the ome hanowed.Bmuty can b
lom.Ad

b Om_Part of tomrhg,cHi for pos ,lon. or "yd

the battleneld Of youth.

g to thosesttuOn iSaittWOrttoffe erV t Of rk wen donerOf lo e freely J en L pe ror Fmpmg.The boo we never to hea the le to:Httd the m had lwetnever had
people we never had ttme to ttlk to the gam"we never e we werte so lbu5y playing thmr the wa

od

prayes we never had ttne to the Cod we never had to how an th l mn ttbus at hst.And whnthat chpter endtt surelythe B tof Auet t h order to: ve OuF we need the mo bakEK3d but hted quahttt of and rciolu of Pa suFfering a,strength m acumo we are ol ta d
.

lh

Su bOth tltt shve of fate,and 5 mster oK,are some sl btts in which we are unable tO

take actione LosB, blreavlments disappointlne he at any hOur th ttble force. di o these m s lose Aniwe n do tobrTeOw,91VS againstthesh i 1 are our anvil momen . But there,other dtuations h wm we havell powerto act:and thatis when weneed a1lourfi essand We t, ,qu Hy.,trike haC ,hgl pu)
and above an s e in th,IJhtiplac9. can endure allth gS and ach matty
lttence and st ngt e With e tWO qual

Quret for Dettelopment

Teach the young to be patient

A quarter century of livirg should put a great deal into
a

woulan's face besides a few wrinkes and some unwelcome folds around the chin. In that length of time she has become intimately acquainted with pain and pleasure, joy and sorrow, life and death. She has struggld and survived, failed and succeeded. She has lost and regained faith. And, as a result, she should be wiser, gentler, more patient and more tolerant than she was when she was young. Hersense of humor has followed, her outlook should have widened, her slmpathies should have deepened. And all this sf,ould show. If she tries to erase the imprint of Ege, she runs the risk of destroying, at the same time, It e imprint of
ercperience and character.

Teach the young to be patient. Then we shall have around us fewer failures and fewer frtrstrated souls who bve overlooked the best, in their haste to win some quick and trifling pleasure. So master patience more thoroughly than ever before. So long as rnan is taught to look upon himself as a helpless sinner, a poor wonn of the dust, a bundle of filthy ragg, and the many other terrible descriptions men have inventd by which to discourage their own hearts and the hearts of their fellows, so long wiU life be without any real irupiration; so long must his eyes be blind to all the harmony and beauty around him, and ignorant of the true blesednes$ of his own life.

At every

stage of my life friendship has been been the main source of my quite outrageousty enjoyable existence. My sorrows, even though occasionally acute, have been few, and the enjoyment still goes on. A great many of my friends, both within and outside my family circle, are sixty or seventy years younger than myself.
Sir Geoffrey Keynes

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Think

If you think you are beatenr /ou are: If you think you dare not, you don't. If you like to win but think you can't Ifs almost a cinch you won't. If you think you'll lose, you're lost: For out in the world we find Success begins with a fellords will: Ifs all in the state of mind. If you think you are outclassed, you are: You've got to think high to tise,
You've got to be sure of yourself before You can ever win aprtze. Life's battles don't always go To the,stronger or faster mary But soon or late-the man who wiru Is the rnan who thinks he can.

'

So then in all of your planning+ in all of yoyr_work toward material succss, dont forget the supreme challenge to you,

to me, to each of us, is not solely to make a living but to make ar . :

Sound SOund the cll o lthe nfe! To an the, sual wrld P:him
OinO c wded

hour ofgbrious hfe

S
Ittr Sl" ,

ls worth an age without a name

t and that The ni tageOfWiSdom istohilo,that restis J Real Life b in bve Laughterrand WOrk EIbg Hb

When you do the ro 9 things of life m en CO attentiOn Ofthe world. wayryou w lcommand the Ireverenc%ser howl gC Self COnt
l

These threl alone lead life to soverengn Power

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Have fai in life

LI

1lyl

L yliO 3o4 0 r

: mOst mt ing pu

uit Ofmen and nattOns

r C raII BF"

W9 uSt er t a cult of life in actioL as the Fa ler and the nlknOWi expresslon thlert tkn6
it

life as the lover feels it and as the parOnt praCtkls i

fe

as it is kn 1

tO tten oF good win whO meditate m the

accomplished a great deal more

L M = Iflyou have known hOw tO mmpose 'Phn yourlt you have

Lmar
lilo

than the man who knOws

appendagel.

it

T
MO""

IoF

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The FammaFOf tl'ing

Cetyour gm
=nghu lttve h theactivevokleratherhn oreabut whtyoudothanabout inthe passiv%thittg what happe to you.Iive in the inttkative lnood rather
rather than as t y

esul ve concemed with things as they arer l,h ight ba Lwe the present tens%
fadngthedutyathandwithoutregretforthepastorworv
t

aboutthe futtre. l Live in the pesonr Criticizing yo , therthan ndingJt with oth .Li e in the singular numbeL cainng mOre fbrthe approval of your Own comence than for the apphuse of the Growd, If you want a verb to co gateyousl motdobett=thntomketheverbtolove Da Wlir HyJg :
nettP Of rs
fOr Lttm that d

nlS

'
Roba
Lo S, "s

And notror him thatsips. ne grttt,icto oflife are oftenest won in a quiet wa and ot uthah and mmpe : OZ0
.

Pro ence has givenus hlpeahd 31ecP fOr the many rAres oflife.

asaCOmpentiOn
7orfa

0ra

hfe uved for othe life worthwhna Ar

Itis when a man is alonq away k)m thein

"EI " uence of other

d badaTStimuhttgth,

tsa t t he Can, rk on hi It b in men and the ng outthe 3ohtulthat he muSti,OH thoug d

11

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Quest

for Druelopment

Avoid self clntrel passiOns

1 F HIttJ
:
changes the quahty and character of our entire cultural acquiring thOse affctions and interests which win pre
:

Modem man takes hfe fartoo se ousl and b ause he b

We should alln at avoiding self centred PaSSiOtt and at

ent
:

our thought iom dwening pe e any upon Ourselv The happy man is he"ho H es 6 ectiVel whO has le
affctions and wide interests wh9se personality is nOither lI id againSt ttelf 9r pittd against the wond,such a man feels hh llf a citizen oF the uniVerse enJoylng"eely
uttt ubled

the sp tacle that it offers and the'OyS that it affo by the thOught of death bause he feels,

hhsernot really separate fm th6 who wnlcome a er him. It is in such profOund ibstinctive union with the St=m Of hfe that the greatest,oy tO be fOuld B R sa I am of the opiniOn that my fe belongs to the whole communit and aslong asll c itiS myp ilegetodO fOr

itwhatsoOverlcan.I wantto bethopughly usedup whenI

di forthe harder l work the

ore H eo lrepiceinli for

leo Life is no brier candle to mQ but a sort of its om splendidtorh whichlhave gothold otand lwanttomake
it bu
g( e ns. "brightly as Possibllbefore hand

g it On to ture

G rga
I

lltellyou the reany great thing about l ing to be nixilety

tt S "

thre one do not have any vals,because the/re all dead so one can afford to be generous with young chapS

like you.
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