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Monday, February 17, 2014

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Dear Annie: I have been What is the etiquette rewith my fiance for 14 years, garding this matter? We cerand we have had our fair tainly dont want anyone to share of problems. Three feel that my son and his fianmonths ago, I left, taking cee are wanting heaps of gifts our kids with me. But I came and money, especially when back when he asked me to. I these family members and figured I owed it to the chil- friends showered him with dren to try to work things out. gifts the first time around. But nothing has changed. Vexed Mother of the Groom I dont have a job outside Dear Vexed: First-time the home. However, I do have brides are entitled to wedcredit card debt. He used to ding and shower gifts, rehelp pay it off, but now he re- gardless of the grooms prior fuses to pay any of my bills. marital history. Of course, He wont give me any money shower invitations can be except to buy groceries. Our weighted toward her famcar used to be in ily and friends, but both of our names, also may include but now it is only close family memin his name. Im bers and friends on not allowed to go the grooms side. anywhere without Guests who feel asking for permisoverburdened with sion or to talk to shower gifts do not any of my family have to attend. And and friends unless while wedding he says its OK. gifts are always We also live appropriate, those with his parents, who sent gifts for and every time I Annies Mailbox your sons first dont do the dishes, wedding may wish they complain. I do all the to give a more modest gift the other housework, but it isnt second time around. The inenough. What do I do? He tention is to invite people to thinks everything is just fine. share the celebration. At My Wits End Dear Annie: I read the Dear Wits: Get out. This letter from Frustrated Son, is an abusive relationship. whose mother was insisting Your fiance has removed all that he be confirmed in the sources of income and sup- Catholic Church. As the diport from you so that you rector of religious education are completely dependent on in a Catholic parish, I deal him. Please contact the Do- with this issue frequently. mestic Violence Hotline (the- The choice to be confirmed is hotline.org) at 1-800-799- the sons. 7233. You need help now. A good first step is for Dear Annie: My son and the son to talk to his parish his first wife had a destination priest, who might very well wedding in a foreign country. agree that he is not ready to My husband and I hosted receive the sacrament of conan engagement party in our firmation. If that is the case, hometown, and a friend of he absolutely should not be mine threw the bride a show- confirmed at this time. He er. My son and daughter-in- cannot be forced, because law divorced, and he is now any sacrament given against engaged and planning a sec- someones will is not valid. ond wedding. Both my children said My brother-in-law made a early on in their confirmacomment that he and his wife tion training that they did do not send gifts for second not want to be confirmed. weddings. My son is torn We compromised that they about how to handle the in- would go to the classes, do vitations. While it is his sec- the volunteer work and go ond marriage, it is the brides on the retreat. If, after comfirst. He doesnt believe she pleting the two-year training, should be penalized because they still felt that they did not his first wife ended their mar- want to be confirmed, it was riage. their choice. - Boston Man-made snow was used in the Olympics for the first time at the 1980 Games in Lake Placid.
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Tomorrows Horoscope
By Bernice Bede Osol

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TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 18, 2014 This will be your year to shine. Your energy, creativity and intuition levels are at an all-time high. Goals you previously thought unattainable will soon fall into place. Your knowledge and achievements will serve to provide you with scads of imagination and inspiration. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -Demanding people are likely to get you down. Dont feel that you have to be everything to everyone. Make a point of keeping some time for yourself to prevent enervation. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -Disagreements and confrontations will not resolve pending issues. Your reputation will be at risk if you argue about unimportant matters. Let some things slide in order to avoid alienating your peers. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -Avoid uncomfortable situations by using discretion. Although you may favor one person over another, giving too much attention to someone will not help you gain overall support. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -- Others will be impressed by your achievements if you stop procrastinating and start acting. With persistence and planning, you can clear your agenda for more pleasurable activities. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -Get rid of tension by taking care of household chores or doing something physical. You will be surprised how much more relieved and relaxed you feel in a clean and comfortable environment. CANCER (June 21-July 22) Your social life may need a pick-me-up. Join a service, club or organization and meet new people. Sharing common interests will stimulate your senses and improve your outlook. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -- It is never a good idea to flaunt your wealth around strangers. Be especially careful with your valuable possessions. A lack of vigilance on your part could result in loss. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) Keep your emotions in check. Disagreements may occur if you become stressed or unhappy. Commit to staying active in order to avoid conflicts and ensure focus. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -Concentrate your attentions on your family and loved ones. Satisfying relationships require nurturing and effort. There will be plenty of opportunities in the future to deal with career concerns. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -You will need to be more assertive in your efforts to move ahead in the workplace. Emphasize your special skills, qualities and versatility. Stop waiting for others to notice your achievements. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) - Be sensitive to the feelings of those you care about. Convey your thoughts with clarity and concern. A casual remark may be misinterpreted, causing a rift in your relationship. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- Dont feel lethargic and dispirited. Broaden your interests by learning something new. Your local library or bookstore contains information on hundreds of topics to inform and inspire you. COPYRIGHT 2014 United Feature Syndicate, Inc.

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