All Relations Appear To Disappear, by Tisziji Muoz. Copyright 1989 by Tisziji Muoz. All rights reserved.

T.I.S. Booklet Series, #9

All Relations Appear To Disappear

All Relations Appear To Disappear, by Tisziji Muoz. Copyright 1989 by Tisziji Muoz. All rights reserved.

Copyright 1989 by Tisziji Muoz All rights reserved ISBN-0-945174-14-4 The Illumination Society Publications, Schenectady, New York

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All Relations Appear To Disappear, by Tisziji Muoz. Copyright 1989 by Tisziji Muoz. All rights reserved.

Spirit Is the Great Mover. All of my written and musical works are responses to either requests or questions from certain individuals or are responses to Spirit. I have no desire to create of myself. Only Spirit and the spiritual needs of others will move me to create and share of these things. The same may be said of my Spiritual Work as a Guide. This is not written as The Truth of or for every being, nor are most other beings expected or intended to be in agreement with this or any of my Works. Rather, this work is for the few whose awakening is in sympathetic resonance with this Spirit. Therefore, any book that I write or anything that I say is the viewpoint or statement of the moment and not necessarily Who or What I Am. Hu-naam Tisziji Muoz

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This conversation was directed at an individual who was not a member of The Illumination Society but a friend of a member. This individual was suffering a powerful inability to let go of a former relationship. He was admittedly extremely attached to the exquisite psycho-sensual aspects of that relationship but is, through this talk, brought to recognize and, to some degree, release his unnecessary attachment to his former girl friend.

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All Relations Appear To Disappear

A Talk by Tisziji given on August 21, 1989 at Open Sky, New York

All Relations Appear To Disappear, by Tisziji Muoz. Copyright 1989 by Tisziji Muoz. All rights reserved.

Chapter 1 Welcome To The Universe!

When it comes to suffering relationships, Welcome to the universe. And what that statement is supposed to mean is Welcome to the stream of changes. Welcome to the isness of the universe of karmic, mechanical phenomena. False identification with this phenomena, especially in terms of relations, generates and is suffering. Thus, suffering timechanges is what this is about. Marriages and relationships are not intended to last beyond a point. Beings who engage in legal contracts have no absolute guarantees. All the swearing, all the promising, all the momentary exquisite physio-sexual pleasures, all the oohs, ahs and umms, the sweet words and sounds in the night, all of the secret pacts, fantasies and dreams under or between the sheets and all of the promised or unpromised possibilities dont mean anything when the time comes to change or when the time comes to get off it and move on to the rest of your life! So, with this completely understood, no one and nothing is to blame apart from understanding time. Only time is to blame. But who can properly blame that which is not properly understood? Thus, ones lack of understanding is at fault. Time, as the present situation or condition, brings, and therefore is, change. All beings meet to say goodbye at some point in time and space. This is time-space law, what or whos time in what or whos space! That is why when such relationships are happening, it is best to make them as mutually juicy as possible. When they are not happening, dont hold yourself or the other being back. Let the pain-game of clinging go. Keep your life as juicy or happy as possible. If not with one being, then with other beings. Somewhere along the line there had to be a thou shalt live thy life as juicily as possible. Stay juicy and full of Spirit so that when the great squeeze comes upon you, at the time of death, you have something to squirt for it! Ah, squish, that was

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a juicy one. Throw the dead outer skin over there, let the Spirit juice ooze on out of it. To be in the universe means that you are ordinarily here to live and die, to suffer changes and to go through all kinds of painful and pleasurable crazies. If you dont go through these changes, there is something wrong. Be suspicious if you dont go through these changes. Only the dead dont go through these life changes. Wait a minute. Whoa, this is the wrong place for this karma of or feeling that nothing is happening. Some beings live lives that are, relative to time, at a quicker or materially fast lane tempo and sometimes necessity makes that so according to ones inner clock, ones path and ones mission. And that is not, in itself, a problem. On the other hand, there are those who need to operate at a slower level, again because of their inner clock. You see, it is time again, that tempo, vibration, frequency of operation which determines ones spiritual tone, intensity and pitch. Every being is a composite mass of physics and meta, psycho or higher physics. Each is born into bondage and dies into freedom! What people dont know is that they have come to enjoy this life because of its illusoriness, its magic, its appearance and disappearanceness. Wow, look at who I am with today. Fantastic! But a couple of moments or years later, the dream is all but gone. The scene of the body-mind is ever-changing. The fact that beings can hold together in an environment in a relationship for long periods of time is a great wonder. It is not, by universe standards, supposed to or intended to be that way. Some beings do try, with all of their might, to create consistency and persistency in a relationship. And beyond a point, they may not be abiding by the law of harmony. And as a result, they may have or possess that relationship, but not much else since the law is that one who possesses is possessed by the karma of possession. Such possessive beings would most certainly not have all of the other things they would or could have experienced, to make their life-mission more complete, had they been more free or available to flow with the changes and

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exercise their freedom to be with certain other beings. Their growth ability, their growth or creative quotient, may have been greater. They may die as greater beings, without that sweet but clingy relationship, in some cases, and they may have more fulfilling, gratifying, enlightening or even more relationships to speak of. It is important to study and understand the nature of human relations at the Earth dimension. Otherwise, the data that one gets from the physical senses might not only be misleading, but very painful. See the brains, the lower brains, the brains between the legs? There are no real brains below the belt. At best, that kind of brain energy consists of undisiplined mechanical impulses, guts and primitive instincts. Those brains belong to the dog. And what the dog needs to know, even though it really knows it, is that it or sex is all about stress-releasing pleasure, and that kind of brainless pleasure could be had with anybody. It sometimes forgets that because of its tendency to painfully attach itself to certain beings. Then these slavery producing illusions of ownership and possessiveness come in and generate more complex kinds of pain, tensions and suffering. Ownership is an illusion. Such an illusion of body ownership cannot be satisfied. You do not really own anything here. You dont even own your own body! It is going to be blown away or ripped off at some point. All bodies are. All of these things are. They are just waiting to be blown apart or returned to the elements. We dont always realize that. You dont leave one space and go into the next space, knowing that you are going to be returned to absolute nothing, physically speaking. You are going to be deactivated and neutralized. Some prefer the terms, be dead. You are going to have to give all of this up. The point again is that the illusion of change and disappearance is the essential nature of the phenomenal universe. Change happens to the body-mind. Elderly beings start losing their marbles. Yes, some of them use their marbles, but some of them also lose their marbles. They regress into these totally ridiculous

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states of consciousness that seem illogical to the mind which assumes that everything which is, is the only way it is supposed to be. This universe is a fantastic cinema of change, dramatic and dynamic change. You cannot forget that. Otherwise, you are operating on wrong data and, as a result, you will be put through unnecessary painful experiences which are a sign that something is wrong or shouldnt be happening. How many of us take heed of these signs and warnings?