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THIS EXERIENCE
As a high school student, there are certain things that you should experience before you graduate. What you have in your hand is a list of 77 of the most random and spiritually meaningful checkpoints that you can accomplish during your high school years. This book is designed to help challenge you to become all that God intends for you to become with the support of a mentor. Before you start working through this book, you are expected to choose a mentor. We believe that anyone can check off a to do list alone, but we believe you will get more out of it if you have someone to share it with along the way besides just your friends and family. What is a mentor? A mentor is someone older than you who is willing to journey with you in life. A mentor has your best interest in mind and you completely trust this person with your life.
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All the information you will need about your mentor is found in Checkpoint 1.
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1. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 8. 9. 10. 11. 12. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 22. 23. 24. 25. 26. 27. 28. 29. 30. 31. 32. 33. 34. 35. 36. 37. 38. 39. 40. Find a mentor. Write out your testimony. Watch 6 inspirational movies in a row. Get your parents or guardians to come to church. Spend a day with someone over 60. Ask for help. Take your mom, dad or guardian on a date. Create a budget. Read at least 3 books on leadership. Fill out at least 4 job applications. Teach an elementary class. Create a bucket list. Save $1000.00. Throw a surprise party for a friend. Get a drivers license. Write a letter to your future spouse. Read one book on common etiquette. Invest in someone younger than you. Share your testimony with a friend or family member. Befriend 5 new people. Attend a leadership conference. Fix a broken relationship. Lead a Bible study at your school. Complete the www.chazown.com experience. Serve weekly in your youth ministry and/or church. Complete all the modules at www.biblex.com. Baptize someone. Recruit 3 friends to serve with you at church. Memorize Matthew 6:9-13 and Psalm 23. Fast from food for at least 24 hours. Record the names of those you helped lead to Christ. Read the whole Bible. Interview someone doing a job that you want to do someday. Memorize the books of the Bible in order. Pray aloud in a group publically. Plan an event for your friends with your mentor. Lead a small group. Find an accountability partner who is your peer. Spend a weekend as a homeless person. Journal about your life for 30 days in a row. 41. 42. 43. 44. 45. 46. 47. 48. 49. 50. 51. 52. 53. 54. 55. 56. 57. 58. 59. 60. 61. 62. 63. 64. 65. 66. 67. 68. 69. 70. 71. 72. 73. 74. 75. 76. 77. Make the honor roll at least one semester. Make a purity promise. Go crowd surfing. Serve at a local mission organization. Take a picture of yourself 90 days in a row. Encounter God in a new way. Record your 12 favorite memories from high school. Take a nap in a park. Milk a cow. Learn your favorite song on the harmonica. Commit your favorite poem to memory. Go on an international missions trip. Spend 24 hours not saying a word. Dont drink soda for 30 days in a row. Apply for at least 3 college scholarships. Help someone in need. Become an answer to someones prayer. Make a list of your favorite websites. Do a public speech. Raise $500.00 for a social justice cause. Make a short film of your best friend. Plant a tree. Donate blood. Take a kid on a toy-shopping spree. Run a lemonade stand with a neighborhood kid. Visit a prison. Get baptized. Start a dance in a public place. Write your parents or guardians a thank you note. Walk or run a mile everyday for 15 days. Lead a local mission project. Dress up like your favorite superhero for a day. Host a bonfire. Spend 14 consecutive days doing random acts of kindness. Conquer your biggest fear at least once. Plan a family vacation with your parents or guardians. Fill up your parents gas tank once with your own money.
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This is the first step to completing this book! Before you start working through this book, you are expected to choose a mentor. We believe that anyone can check off a to do list alone, but we believe you will get more out of it if you have someone to share it with along the way besides just your friends and family. What is a mentor? A mentor is someone older than you who is willing to journey with you in life. A mentor has your best interest in mind and you completely trust this person with your life. A few questions to consider when picking a mentor: Are they at least 21 years of age? Is it someone of the same gender? Do you look up to them spiritually? Are they willing to follow you in your journey through this experience? Do your parents and/or youth pastor know this person? Will they sign the mentor contract included in this book? What will be expected of my mentor? Your mentor will need to check in with you at least once a week. Your mentor must be someone who has been following Christ for at least a year. Your mentor will need to sign your completed activities. Your mentor will need to meet your parents and youth pastor. Your mentor will need to follow up with your parents and youth pastor monthly. Your mentor will need to commit to pray for you daily.
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Please fill out the following information once you pick your mentor. Mentors name ___________________________________________________________ Why did you choose this mentor? _______________________________________________ What does your mentor do for a living? ___________________________________________ What is your mentors favorite scripture? _________________________________________ How long has your mentor been a Christian? _______________________________________ When was your mentor baptized? _______________________________________________ What is your mentors favorite food? _____________________________________________ Who is your mentors role model? _______________________________________________ Anything else I think is interesting about my mentor. _________________________________
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Once your story is written, go through your story and splash this page with key words and pictures from your story. Treat it like a graffiti wall. Words and images may include your birthplace, siblings names, parents names, location of where you accepted Christ, place you were baptized, favorite subject in school, places youve lived and anything else you think is important to you. Make it as unique as you are!
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What date did they go to church with you? What was the best part about asking your parents or guardians to go to church with you? What was the worst part about asking your parents or guardians to go to church with you? What advice would you give someone whose parents or guardians do not go to church? How did they respond about going to church?
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Who did you spend your day with? How old were they? What did you do?
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What did you ask for help with? Who did you ask? How did it help?
Would you feel comfortable helping someone with the same problem?
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Where did you go? What did you order from the menu? What was the funniest thing that happened?
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What did you learn about creating a budget?
What was the best part about creating a budget? What was the worst part about creating a budget? How does knowing that God is the owner and you are manager change your perspective about money?
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Do you think you will make reading more of a habit? If no, why? If yes, why?
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What school did you do your teaching? What was the teachers name? What subject did you teach? What did you learn from your experience?
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SaVe $1,000.00
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Yep! Its time to start saving some money! If you already have $1000.00 saved, save at least another $1000.00. Open up a savings account and start putting money into it. Its really that simple. Keep a checklist of the amount and the date you put money in your account. When you reach your goal, buy a couple of cupcakes and throw yourself a celebration party!
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What friend did you throw a party for? Where was the party? What did you do? How do you think it made your friend feel?
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Take your letter and condense it down to a set of vows that you hope to say to your future spouse and that you hope they say to you.
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How long did you study for the test? How many times did it take you to pass? Who took you to take it? What was the toughest part of the test? Do you have any memories about the experience that stick out?
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What book did you get? Who was the author? Why did you pick that particular book? What was the most eye opening etiquette? Which one seemed the most ridiculous? Were you inspired to start using more etiquette? If so, how?
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Who did you decide to invest in? What did you do? What was the best part of the day? What was a challenging part of the day? What was the most meaningful lesson you learned? Would you consider doing it again? Why or why not?
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Who did you read your story to? What did they think about it? Do you feel you need to make any changes to make it more clear and interesting? On a scale of 1-10, how committed are you to memorizing your testimony, with 10 being fully committed? 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Take your story and write down one sentence that summarizes it.
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How was your experience developing new friends?
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What conference did you go to? Who did you go with? What leadership principles did you learn? On a scale of 1-10, how good of a leader are you, 10 being an amazing leader. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 What are some things you need to do to improve your leadership?
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What broken relationship did you fix? What was the most uncomfortable part of it? What was the best part of making the effort to make things right? What did you learn about conflict resolution?
What advice would you give to someone trying to fix a broken friendship?
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Write down everything that was necessary to get your group going. You can use full sentences or key words.
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Record your core values here:
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Where are you serving? What are some things you have learned serving this way?
Who do you serve with? What changes have you noticed in yourself since you started serving regularly?
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Use this page to journal some key things you have learned from www.biblex.com
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BaPTiZe SomeoNe
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This is an interesting checkpoint! You may want to use Checkpoint 31 to help you complete this checkpoint. Baptism is the first step of obedience for a follower of Jesus. It is an outward expression of an inward life change. The goal with this one is to be involved in seeing someone get baptized. By involved we mean that you may have been a part of seeing this person accept Christ. In other words, it is not just observing a stranger getting baptized, but actually being personally involved with this person. Depending on your church, you may even be allowed to do the actual baptizing. Wouldnt that be cool?!
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Who did you get to baptize or be a part of seeing baptized? Where did the baptism take place? Tell the story of how it all came together.
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Which three friends did you recruit to serve with you?
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How did you serve? Is it something you plan on doing again? Explain what kind of difference you think you made.
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As you go, write down the passages of scripture as you memorize each section.
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What was the date of your fast? M
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Name Accepted Christ date M / D / Top Ten List of Those I Would Like to See Know Jesus M M M M Y Y Y Y Y
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Use this page to record some A-ha moments while you are reading.
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Who did you interview? What job position do they have? What is best part of their job? What is the worst part of their job? What did you learn from interviewing them?
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Write all 66 books in order on this page.
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Where did you pray in public? Who asked you to pray? What emotions did you experience? Would you do it again? Write a prayer thanking God for allowing you to conquer your fear.
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What event did you plan? List the name of your friends who came to it.
Were any of your friends inspired to find a mentor? What would you do differently next time?
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Where are you leading your small group? What are the names of the people in your small group?
What was the topic of the first discussion you talked about? What frustrations have you had while leading it? What has made the biggest impact on your personally?
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Who is your accountability partner? What do you like the most about this person? How often do you get together to ask each other life-changing questions? What have you learned from spending time with them?
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Journal here about the highlights of your experience.
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At the end of your 30 days, use this space to write about your general thoughts about the experience of journaling for 30 days.
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Record the grades for the semester you made the honor roll.
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On a scale of 1-10, 10 being really difficult, how difficult was it for you to make the honor roll? 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10
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Write out your purity promise and read it to God, your parents or guardians and your mentor.
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Go crowD SUrFiNG
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What!? Thats right! Its time to go crowd surfing. Go to a venue that you know they allow crowd surfing and give it a try. Be careful. This is going to be an exercise in what it means to trust others to care for your life. Think about it. You are going to be up in the air with only the support of several hands moving you along. We recommend that you pray for safety!
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Where did you crowd surf? What were some of your fears?
What did you look forward to the most about it? How many people were at the event? How long did you crowd surf? Would you do it again? What did you learn about trust?
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What organization did you partner with? How did you serve? How was your life impacted the most?
How do you think you helped those you were trying to help?
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Did you stay the same spiritually? Did you change at all? If so, how?
Print your favorite picture out of the 90 and put in on this page.
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How did you encounter God in a new way? Write about your experience below.
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Write down your 12 favorite memories from high school.
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Was it difficult to go to sleep in a park? What did you like about the experience? What didnt you like about the experience? Why do you think it is so necessary to rest? Why do you think God rested? Did He need it?
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MiLk a cow
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This checkpoint may seem udder-ly ridiculous! Ha! Anyway, instead of asking you to try something new, we thought we would suggest one that most students have not experienced. However, if you milk cows all the time, we encourage you to teach someone else how to milk a cow. This one honestly does not have a real point to it other than to do something that you are not used to doing. We also recommend that you come up with a clever name for the cow you milk!
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What was the name of the cow you milked? Where did your cow live? Who helped you milk the cow? Did you love it, hate it, or didnt really care either way? Would you recommend milking cows to others?
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What song did you learn? How long did it take you to learn it? Did you perform it anywhere? Are you going to learn another song?
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What is your favorite poem? How long did it take you to memorize it? Why is it your favorite poem? If you have space, write it on this page.
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What group did you go with? Where did you go? What was your favorite food? Did you bring anything home with you? How did you grow spiritually? What was your best memory?
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What day of the week did you stop talking? What time did you stop talking? What time did you start talking again? On a scale of 1-10, 10 being difficult, how hard was it to stay quiet for 24 hours? 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 What did you learn?
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What is your favorite soda? What day did you start your denial? What day did you end? M M D
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Did you have to start over at any point? What did you learn through this experience?
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What three scholarships did you apply for?
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Who did you help? What did you do? What emotions did you experience before, during and after you helped them?
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What prayer request were you able to become an answer for?
Where were you when you heard the prayer request? Who was it that you were able to bless? Why is it important to really listen when people are praying?
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Use this page to write down your favorite website. Write a reason why you liked the particular sites as well.
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Do a PUBLic SPeech
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Public speaking is the biggest fear next to dying for most people. So, it is time to face this challenge. Perhaps you are really good at public speaking or maybe you struggle with it big time. Either way, it is time to sign up for a public speech and deliver it. We recommend that you practice it several times in front of friends and family before you go public. Listen to their feedback so each time you give you speech it gets better and better.
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What was your speech about? Where did you deliver your speech? What were some of the biggest fears you had?
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Which social justice cause did you pick? How much money did you raise?
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Use this page to describe your film in words.
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What kind of tree did you plant? Why did you pick it? Draw a picture of what your tree will look like full-grown.
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DoNaTe BLooD
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Your blood could save another life. Go to a local blood bank and ask them what it takes to donate blood. Make a commitment to at least try it once. Dont just give the blood, but take some time to really look at the reasons why people give blood and the benefits it provides to others. Giving blood is just another example of what it means to give of ourselves to serve someone else. After all, isnt that what Jesus did for us? He gave His blood so we could live! Pretty powerful!
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Where did you give blood? What did you like about the experience?
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Who did you take shopping? Where did you go? What feelings did you experience as you shopped?
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Use this page to write about your experience running a lemonade stand.
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ViSiT a PriSoN
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We recommend that you accomplish this checkpoint with an adult. Obviously, prison is not a place you want to end up in life. However, so often we forget to pray for those who really messed up something in their lives. Your prison visit is designed to help you remember to pray for those behind bars. God can still reach a person in prison so it doesnt hurt at all to pray for them. Your prison visit should also make you more aware of how important it is for you to make the right decisions. If you get a chance, perhaps you can interview a few of the prisoners to hear their life story.
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Which prison did you visit? What was your general impression?
Was it different than you expected? Did you get a chance to interview anyone? How important is it to make the right choices in life?
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GeT BaPTiZeD
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If you have already been baptized, then this one is probably the easiest checkpoint for you. If you are a follower of Christ and have not been baptized yet, it is time for you to get baptized. Talk to your pastor and/or youth pastor about what it means to get baptized. Generally speaking, baptism is an outward expression of what Jesus has done for you on the inside. It is a way to publically say that you are a follower of Jesus and are not ashamed to admit it.
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What date were you baptized? Who baptized you? Write about your baptism experience.
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What dance did you try to get people to do? Where did you lead the dance? What were some expressions on peoples faces?
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Write down a summary of the thank you note you gave to your parents or guardian.
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How important is your physical health to you? What have been some obstacles for getting in shape?
On a scale of 1-10, 10 being in great shape, where would you rate yourself? 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 Where did you walk or run? Did anyone go with you? Did it cause you to develop a habit?
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What organization did you partner with? Who was a part of your team? What mission project did you do? How was your life impacted the most? How do you think you helped those you were trying to help?
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Write about your superhero day.
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Draw a picture of a fire and put some key words around it as a way to remember your time with your friends.
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List the random acts and the dates you did them. M M M M M
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What is your biggest fear? What day did you conquer it at least once? Write about your experience. M
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Where did you go? What the most favorite part about it?
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FiLL UP YoUr PareNTS or GUarDiaNS GaS TaNk oNce wiTh YoUr owN moNeY
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If gas prices keep going up, we are all going to have to get second and third jobs. Save up your money for as long as it takes to fill up your parents or guardians gas tank with your own money. This is a great way to show them how much you appreciate them driving you around all the time. Generosity is a learned behavior. Granted, some people are better at it than others, but sacrificing is a great quality to have. Prove your generosity!
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