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The Profound Abstruseness of

Life and Death

By Vajra Master Pema Lhadren


Translated by Simon S.H. Tang

What is the Ultimate Assistance in the First Stage of Approaching Death?


What is the Ultimate Tragedy and Ignorance of Mankind?
The Importance of Life and Death Education

Excerpt of Last Chapter: Various


1. The Separation of the Four Elements the main

Reasons on the Formation of

cause (the internal consciousness and sub-

Different Scenes at the Moment of

consciousness, including all kinds of memories)

Death

conjoins with the auxiliary conditions (the Sepa-

The scenes at the moment of death can be roughly

stances) in forming the scenes at the moment of

classified in the following categories in accord with

death (please refer to the articles on The Mean-

the varieties of the main causes and auxiliary con-

ing of Near-death Experiences in Issues 8 and 20

ditions:

of the Lake of Lotus).

ration of the Four Elements in the external circum-

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2. The Endorphins Inside the Brain the main

cious persons or beasts, and going along in

cause (the internal consciousness and sub-

company with groups of people who looked

consciousness) conjoins with the auxiliary con-

confused.

ditions (the endorphins inside the brain of the


external circumstances) in forming the scenes at

2. Strange places: (i) good ones saw pavilions, bal-

the moment of death (please refer to the article

conies, buildings, flower fields, rivers, light zones,

on The Meaning of Near-death Experiences in

towns or cities.

Issue 21 of the Lake of Lotus).


(ii) bad ones saw wilderness, forests, darkness,
3. The Karmic Forces the main cause (the in-

caverns, hells.

ternal consciousness and sub-consciousness)


conjoins with the auxiliary conditions (the kar-

3. Messy Issues that cannot be recalled clearly.

mic forces of the external circumstances) in forming the scenes at the moment

How would the Buddhist point of view

of death. This can be further

comment on these phenomena? Ac-

classified into the following two

cording to the Buddhist teachings, it

kinds:

was said that rebirth would take place


within forty-nine days after a person has

i. Wholesome Ones arising

passed away, then why would a dying

from: (a) virtuous retribu-

person see the kith and kin who had

tions (please refer to the

passed away long time ago still coming

article on The Meaning of

to fetch for him or her? Why had not the

Near-death Experiences in

kith and kin taken rebirths after so many

Issue 21 of the Lake of Lo-

years posthumously? Are the appear-

tus); and (b) the efforts of

ances of these deceased persons merely

ones Dharma practice (the

the illusions of the person

main theme of this article in

who is going to die? Or

this issue).

were they really true?


Are there any other rea-

ii. Unwholesome Ones arising from: (a) vicious

sons? Are those strange places the

retributions; and (b) the forces of karmic credi-

destinations where they are going to

tors in seeking compensations on ones karmic

be reborn into? Under what

debts.

circumstances

would

the normal rebirth of a


According to the records of different surveys, most of

dying person be nega-

the dying people had seen the following scenes:

tively encumbered? Is there any


way to help a deceased person

1. Protectors or avengers: (i) good ones saw kith

to avert sufferings and elevate to

and kin who had passed away, unknown protec-

a better place of rebirth?

tors, deities or Buddhas coming to fetch for oneself

Human beings have four kinds


of conditions of consciousness

(ii) bad ones being besieged by a crowd of fero-

(please refer to the article The


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Wisdom in Directing Ones Dharma Practice in Issue

ness and change of scenes at the

26 of the Lake of Lotus) as follows:

moment of death for guiding the


emotions and spiritual direction

1. Beta waves the conscious condition of daily

of the dying patients? Could

living;

the transformation of consciousness and the change

2. Alpha a waves the relaxed consciousness con-

of scenes at the moment of

dition, such as in entering into the elementary

death be complementary

stage of visualization, or at the first stage of men-

to each other? Further-

tal concentration; or the condition when the spiri-

more, the disintegration

tual body is slowly separating from the physical

of the Four Elements of

body;

the physical body also


affects the transformation of consciousness, as well

3. Theta O waves the peaceful conscious condi-

as on the change of the scenes at the moment of

tion of having entered into higher levels of visu-

death. Hence, how should one support and provide

alization, or at the deeper levels of mental con-

guidance to a dying patient in order to reduce or re-

centration;

solve the predicament from these problems?

4. Deltawaves slow conscious condition of not

What is the Ultimate Assistance in the First

having any dreams, and in a stage of slow-wave

Stage of Approaching Death?

deep sleep.

The care-givers, kin and kith and professional coun-

In fact, how does

selors should perform the following steps when a dy-

the arising of the dif-

ing person is approaching the first stage of death:

ferent stages in approaching death and

1. Accepting and Understanding

its transformation of

2. Listening and Observing

consciousness affect

3. Analyzing and Adopting

the thoughts and be-

4. Leading Out and Guiding In

haviors of dying pa-

5. Accompanying with Unspoken Consensus

tients? What are their


relationships with the

The key points of application and their importance on

scenes at the mo-

the issues of Accepting and Understanding and Lis-

ment of death? How

tening and Observing had been clearly highlighted in

should the family and

the cases of the last chapter (please refer to the article

kin and kith who take

The Meaning of Near-death Experiences in Issue 30

care of the dying pa-

of the Lake of Lotus). To most people, the issues of

tients respond to the transformation of conscious-

Accepting and Understanding and Listening and

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Observing are not dif-

people attribute the outcomes to fortune, or the

ficult to do and it is rela-

trend of times, or ability. However, the question is

tively easy to carry out un-

not merely due to these issues. Most importantly,

der the call of love and

whether the key point has been wrongly set when

with ones wisdom. Not

an analysis is made? Are the facets and direction

too many skills will be re-

of the analysis pinpointing to the problem?

quired. Even though a person has never learned of

There are at least two parts to the issue of Analyz-

the relevant know-how nor

ing and Adopting. The first part of Analyzing and

have received any such

Adopting is to be led by a dying patient, while the

relevant training, he or she

second part of Analyzing and Adopting is to be

can

spontaneously

led by the care-givers, kin and kith and professional

provide proper care or re-

counselors. We would start our discussion with the

solve various problems for

first part of Analyzing and Adopting which is to be

the seriously-ill persons, or

led by the dying patient.

still

dying patients.
In order to achieve the state of dying without regret,
However, the quality and depth of the resolution to

full availability of favorable causes and auxiliary

a problem would be inadequate or im-

conditions, such that a good

perfect, due to lack of relevant know-

death with no fear of any illu-

how or training by the participants. In

sory changes after death will all

order that both the care-giving family

have to depend on the correct-

members and the dying patients do

ness of the prior analysis. Only

not have remorse which will be too late

with the correct analysis can an

to repent later on, but only ultimate of-

application of a right method to

fering in farewell with a heart-to-heart

be used. In fact, what are key

connection and having no trace of re-

points, facets and directions of

gret, the following three steps should

analysis? Lets have a look at a

be included in the issues that must

true case and then the answer

be done when a dying patient is ap-

could become clearer and easier

proaching the first stage of death.

to handle.

3. Analyzing and Adopting Analyzing

A pioneer on these cases is Dr.

is an important element in every case of success.

Chao Co-Shi who has been honored as the Mother

However, why did so many people fail although

of Palliative Care in Taiwan. Dr. Chao has obtained a

having made detailed analysis in advance? Even

B.Sc. in Nursing from the National Taiwan University,

though they are successful, but then the results

a M.Sc. in Oncology Nursing and a Ph.D. in Pallia-

are just marginal and barely satisfactory. Many

tive Care from the Case Western Reserve Universi5

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ty, USA. She had been

the cradle of hospice care. She collected numer-

working as a nurse in

ous valuable materials and returned home to Taiwan

the

upon her completion of study in 1993.

National

Taiwan

University Hospital and


as a teacher and the

From time to time, Dr. Chao Co-Shi had come across

head of practicum at

media reports about suicides

the Cardinal Tien Col-

of the youths in society,

lege of Nursing. She is a

which has reflected on

founder of the Catholic

the lack of life edu-

Sanipax Socio-Medical

cation

Service and the Educa-

people. The reasons

tion Foundation. She is

for the youths to end

presently a professor

their lives could be very

at the Medical School,

complicated, including

National Cheng Kung

the poor ability against

University.

the pressures of frus-

for

modern

trations. Coupling
Dr. Chao Co-Shi was

with the difficul-

born in 1948 and her

ties and suffer-

hometown

the

ings that are encountered by most dying people, it

province of Zhejiang.

makes Dr. Chao Co-Shi to realize that the most need-

She has 37 years of nursing experiences in service.

ed, and the most lacking, thing in contemporary so-

In 1987 she was extremely shocked by the suicide

ciety is life and death education. Dr. Chao Co-Shi

of eight terminal cancer patients, and has eye-wit-

has been actively nurturing the seeds of teachers

nessed the miserable scenes that the patients could

for life and death education. With her ample experi-

not stand the physical and spiritual tortures, resulting

ences in this area, she has exemplified many contem-

in the hanging of themselves to death. She kept ask-

plative and heart-breaking cases.

is

in

ing herself as to what could be done to help these

What is the Ultimate Tragedy and Ignorance

people? Therefore, she set aside her nursing career


determinedly, and went for further studies abroad

of Mankind?

in palliative care for those patients who have suffered from all sorts of torment. The expensive tuition

Dr. Chao Co-Shi have found that, for various reasons,

fees and living costs had stalled her pace, but with

most people tend to insist on the physicians, by all

her concerted efforts, she eventually made it. In the

means, to keep on resuscitating their family members

course of her studies and practicum, she had vis-

who were obviously at the very last moment of life.

ited over fifty hospice organizations in USA within

As such, the patient suffers all sorts of torment and

five years, and had visited Britain six times which is

torture, and finally dies in aversion. One of the cases

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is about an old lady at an

did not want to be involved

age of 73, who had been

in the lawsuit and waste

carried out thorough analy-

their time and efforts in the

sis beforehand, had also

court. As a result, they had

taken various measures in

no other alternatives but to

the hope of a good death

strive for full resuscitation

without regrets, while hav-

accordingly. After numerous

ing full availability of all the

times of defibrillation and

favorable causes and aux-

cardio-pulmonary resusci-

iliary conditions.

tation (CPR), the old lady


was scrambled to broken

This old lady came to know

pieces before death. Without

that she had gotten breast

possible resistance on her

cancer, and so she had

part, the old ladys last will

clearly told her family mem-

of settling down for a good

bers of her last will, and

death by the chanting of the

then got set for her treat-

Buddhas Holy Name, so as

ments in a relaxing manner.

to be reborn to the Western

Four years later, however,

Paradise of the Greatest Joy

the cancer recurred and it was metastasized to vari-

in peace, unpredictably turned out to be the most un-

ous parts of her body, such as lung, liver, brain and

speakable pains of violent crush for her.

bone. She knew that her remaining time would not be


long, and so not only did she sign up for the DNR

During the last four years of her meticulous arrange-

Consent (DNR: Do Not Resuscitate), but also told

ments and thorough analysis, the children of the old

her children that she would not want to be disturbed

lady appeared to be very filial and obedient, when

during the dying process. She only wanted to chant

she was still energetic and powerful enough. As what

the Buddhas Holy Name for rebirth to the Western

is stated in the Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva Sutra

Paradise of the Greatest Joy with peace in mind.

that it is unexpected that the avengers and karmic


creditors would swamped for the fiercest ultimate at-

When the old lady was at the verge of her death, one

tacks at the pivotal moment of ones death. Whether it

of her sons claimed that the inheritance had not been

was an issue of fortune, trend of times, or ability; or

fairly distributed, and since there was no consensus

was it an issue of problematic analysis? Even after the

reached among the siblings, the physicians should

duration of a few decades while bringing up her chil-

not let her die, or else they would be subjected to

dren, the old lady still did not know what were in her

lawsuit on medical negligence. Even though the old

childrens minds, then an analysis merely for a period

lady had already signed the DNR Consent (which

of four years, the key point would most likely to be set

is a legal document in Taiwan), yet the physicians

in a wrong way. Didnt she prepare her last will in writ-

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ing already? Even if she had her last will prepared in

and had attempted to remove the tubes by himself

advance, would it make any difference? Please go on

for several times. The nurses had no choice but to

to the next case study, and then you will soon know

tie up his hands. The old man kept kicking with his

that even with the protection of the law, there are still

feet so as to express his anger. Due to over stress-

flaws around, and is not necessarily a perfect kind

ing, the Foley catheter was pulled out, thus causing

of arrangement. [In Chapter 8 of the Appraisals of

haematuria. The nurses again had to tie up his legs

Yama Raja in the Ksitigarbha Bodhisattva Sutra

as well. As a result, he was in a complete tie-up and

(0784c03), there were descriptions that when a phi-

bed-bound situation in the Intensive Care Unit (ICU)

lanthropist in Jambudvipa is about to pass away,

for two weeks. He kept on weeping. At last, his el-

there are also various devas and demons appear-

der son was able to hurry back to Taiwan. However,

ing in the figures of relevant parents, or even kith

the old man totally disregarded his childrens callings

and kin, coming to fetch for him. They might lead the

and just closed his eyes and turned his head away.

deceased to the Three Evil Paths, so not to mention

He did not even bother to have a peep on them. He

those who have committed crimes.]

made such a way of silent protest until his last breath.

Another old man, at an age of 89, was a pious Catho-

In fact, the setting up of a will while one is still alive

lic. He was optimistic and be content with his life situ-

is futile. As a matter of fact, during the dying process,

ation. He had made his last will at the age of 70, and

those people who can actually be in control of oneself

hoped that his children would not let him subject to

are the closest kin around. The dearest thing to these

tubing and dripping at the end of his life, so that he


can return to Heaven peacefully.
Nevertheless, when he got really sick due
to failures of various organs, his children
were concerned about the criticism from
their neighbors that they were not filial.
Also at the same time, their elder brother
in the USA would come back in time to see
their father off, and so they insisted that
the physician should endeavor to rescue
by all means.
According to Dr. Chao Co-Shi, the old
man had a clear mind before his death.
He was naked and hooked up with a
bunch of tubing. He could not speak
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closest kin is most unlikely to be you, but other

that it will turn around 180 degrees to become good?

items such as money, power, or face. At that mo-

As a matter of fact, no matter how deep is the love,

ment, you do not have any authority or influence, and

it is still highly unreliable. Please again refer to the

are not even to be at par with casual criticisms of the

following case study, and then you will find out more.

neighbors. Even if you have


some energy and are still

A 42 years-old lady suffered

movable, you might only man-

from ovarian cancer, and the

age to struggle to do some-

cancer had been metastasized

thing. If you scramble along

in an advanced stage. Her

in an unsuitable manner, you

husband begged the physi-

might end up in a bigger insult

cian to save her life by all

like being tied up as a hairy

means, since they have three

crab. Your children have no

very small children who could

time to see you while you are

not afford to lose their mother.

still in sound health. However,

For such a purpose, regard-

when you are going to die,

less of whatever kind of re-

they want to prolong your life

suscitation must be applied.

so that they do not have the

When her breath stopped, the

feelings of regret afterwards,

physician endeavored to carry

and that is why they want you

out CPR but it was futile.

to linger on even though with


more sufferings. They would not hesitate to hook you

Her husband entered the ward and found blood be-

up to tubing, in nude, and tie you up completely such

ing stained all over his beloved wifes face and the

that there is hardly any dignity left for you. For a dy-

pillow. There was a thick tube in her mouth with blood

ing patient, the issues of respect, autonomy, dignity

stain at the corner of her mouth. Tears from the tips

and so on are all amazing graces that are hard to

of her eyes also wet the pillow drape. He embraced

come by. However, your closest kin would not show

his wife who was bleeding from all of her orifices and

the slightest trace of compassion and pity to you at

screamed, What have they done to you? When he

that very moment.

came to know that this was the consequence of resuscitation, he became so heartbroken, and kept

Could it be the case that they do not love you? If, on

pounding on his own chest and cried, It is my fault! I

the other hand, they do really love you, does it mean

am so sorry! Please pardon me!


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disputes, physicians have no other alternatives

The Importance of ''Life and Death

but to carry out the resuscitation, which really vio-

Education''

lates the professional code of ethics for the medical profession.

To love you turns out to be hurting you. The deeper is

d. As for society, the total costs of healthcare

the love and the severer is the hurt. It is all due to one

resources each year are immeasurable.

thing: total ignorance. As such, the more it manifests


the importance of life and death education.

How much longer should we allow this sort of


culture of inferior quality to be continued? It is wor-

Dr. Chao Co-Shi said that whenever she came across

thy of our deep thoughts on this! Family members

such kind of settings, she would have all sorts of

such as parents, spouses, sons and daughters are

strong feelings and emotions.

all our dearest kin, and so it

Even some patients who have ba-

is difficult to abandon them,

sically been dead, but have con-

or to be separated from each

tinued to live on only through the

other. Hence, every opportu-

mechanical ventilators of artificial

nity should have been given

respiratory machines, such that

to those who might be able

the up-and-down motions of ones

to be rescued. Under the

chest still goes on. As a matter

circumstance of incurabil-

of fact, postmortem lividity has

ity, however, if the family

already appeared on the soles.

members still insist to waste

There are frequent cases that

all the resources neces-

odors of putrefaction had been

sary even for such incurable

smelt in less than an hour after the

cases, and heartlessly allow

physician certified the death of a

a family member to suffer all

dying person.

the unnecessary torments


without being aware of this,

Dr. Chao Co-Shi said that it is, indeed, a tragedy of all

this is mainly due to the problem on the neglect and

mankind. Those are not simply individual cases, but,

lack of life and death education. Since resuscita-

in fact, they have occurred everyday in all the hospi-

tion is usually carried out in the ICU without the pres-

tals of Taiwan. Dr. Chao Co-Shi indicated that this sort

ence of family members, and so they are totally un-

of human tragedy could be said to be a real loss for

aware of this kind of situation.

all the four parties concerned:


People should have a kind heart of compassion
a. Patients cannot die in peace;

and should not be dragged along by a nave and

b. Family members feel shameful and remorseful

ignorant mind, such that some deeds against

afterwards;

compassion are being done to others. At least, ones

c. Under the circumstances of possible medical

family members should be left with the last

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sense of dignity. What is this nave and ignorant

wealth for the next generation. In order to achieve

mind? The following case study would provide the

the state of dying without regret, such that a good

best illustration on this point.

death and fearlessness to any illusory changes after


death could occur, a full availability of the favorable

Dr. Chao Co-Shi indicated that an old man was linger-

causes and auxiliary conditions will be needed which

ing in the last moment of his life. His children asked

will have to depend upon the correctness of ones

a fortune-teller to predict the

prior analysis. With the correct

future fortunes of the family

analysis, an application of the right

basing upon some personal

method can be used. In fact, what

figures.

are key points, facets and directions

The

fortune-teller

told them that if the old man

of analysis?

can pass away before a


certain date, then the family

1. Direction of Analysis The ma-

fortune would be declined,

jor, as well as the most important, di-

and their future generations

rection of analysis is to ensure one-

would then become poor.

self would be able to maintain ones

Hence, the children de-

autonomy under a circumstance

manded the physician, by

where the person has already lost

hook or by crook, not to let

ones ability to take care of oneself.

the old man to pass away

A piece of legal document on ones

so soon. Consequently, the

last will would only be one of the pro-

old man was resuscitated

tections, but not necessarily a per-

for over a dozen times. Just merely the cardiotonic

fect arrangement.

injection had been made for over a thousand shots.


The nurses were fatigued for giving these injections.

2. The Facets of Analysis A view

Eventually, only after the date that was specified by

on the opposite side of the issue

the fortune-teller was over that the children finally

must also be included in ones

agreed and allowed all the tubing from the old man

analysis, and one should not

to be removed, and only until then was he allowed to

take the apparent appearance

rest in peace.

of things for granted. For example, if the children appear

The ruthlessness of these so-called sons and daugh-

to be filial and obedient, the

ters is absolutely thrilling. Sheer ignorance in con-

person should not let go

junction with the nave and ignorant mind would

easily just because one

cause people to lose their humanity. A dying person

does not want to impair

and ones corpse after death both become a money-

the relationship of mu-

making project of Feng Shui in the hope of making

tual trust. Conditional


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clauses of certain sanc-

who do not love you; those who

tions need to be provided

are ignorant and those who

in ones last will, such that in

are knowledgeable; as well as

case if there are any viola-

those who are superstitious and

tions against ones wishes

those who are not superstitious.

in the will, all the benefits

Generally, the reason why you are

that had been appointed

brought into a situation of failing

for the beneficiaries of the

at the final stage of just one step

relevant person would then

away from the goal, while dying in

be forfeited. It should be

a miserable way, or having to en-

clearly defined and stated

counter an accident which is out

that, under what conditions

of the scope of ones meticulous

and circumstances if cer-

plan is due to one of the following

tain deeds and actions have

conditions: the person loves you

been committed, then these

but being ignorant, and so he or

will become violations of the

she is hurting you by mistakes; or

wishes of your will. The kinds of benefits that have

that the person does not love you, and so he or

been forfeited from the beneficiaries should better

she is hurting you by taking any opportunity avail-

be donated to charities so as to avoid sinister plots

able; or that the person is very superstitious, and

from relevant personnel. After all, secrets are the

so love is no longer functional since you are being

most difficult things to be kept in this world, apart

hurt because the person has lost in ones wrong

from oneself alone. A person who is the incum-

beliefs. Hence, how to make arrangements and

bent to execute ones will should be an indepen-

provide training for those family members who will

dent third party without any conflicts of interests,

be in charge of your personal safety is the top pri-

such as a reliable lawyer. The details of the ben-

ority. In analyzing their characteristics and then try

efits and the names of beneficiaries of ones will

to divide them into two groups is for one

should only be revealed posthumously, whereas

to adopt the appropriate methods

the announcement of the penalty clauses of the

in resolving the potential risks and

will must be done before one starts to lose ones

possible accidents.

own autonomy. In other words, the beneficences


in the will should not be revealed, while only the

The dark ugly side of human-

penalty clauses would be fully disclosed. All in all,

ity and its dangers lie in that it

the main theme is to give warning but no foretell-

is very difficult for one to make

ing. Any close family members who could control

any precautions. Usually these

your personal safety must be arranged to learn

are hidden and hard to be aware

about life and death education, certainly includ-

of at normal times. Yet, all of a

ing yourself.

sudden upon a dangerous and


urgent moment, these will ex-

3. The Key Points of Analysis The most impor-

pose so quickly that it is almost

tant key point should be based upon the nature

impossible to take

of humanity. Your close family members should

proper

be divided into two or more groups: basing upon

for them. Sometimes,

the principle of those who love you and those

even those persons

precautions

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who cause harms to others do not anticipate that they

hungry specters or the animals, one would then be

themselves would cause such harms to their dying

caught in that kind of a predicament for thousands of

patients. Therefore, the major key point in the pro-

years. It would be million times more miserable than

cess of ones analysis should be mainly focused

the above-mentioned old man who had been tied up

on the nature of humanity. It is actually the human

and bed-bound for twenty some days.

beings, especially our dearest kin, who are your closest people who could be in total control of our own

When you are at the first stage in approaching death,

personal safety. It is better for one to securely adopt

you would experience drifting along, having a feeling

a protective net which is well-

of intertwining with reality and illu-

planned and developed after

sion. Yet, if you still have not made

meticulous and correct analysis

ready for your protection net, you

by adopting the right methods,

better hurry up to complete the is-

rather than to hand over the

sues of analyzing and adopting.

most important pivotal moment

All in all, it is better to finish it soon-

of your entire life to the trust

er than later, though later is better

of someone, which is just like a

than not doing it at all, and doing

kind of gambling. Your trust

less is better than totally ignoring

could have blind points, as

it. Otherwise, when you get frailer,

it is either wholly or partly gov-

when the death signals appear

erned by emotions, while the

with abnormal language and be-

base of your rationality wavers

haviors show up, you would miss

from moment to moment.

the opportunity for any remedy. At


that stage, there is no other option

Therefore, a method to be adopted, after detailed

but pending for the arrival of appropriate conditions

and correct analysis, must be meticulous and up-

and with fortune; or leave it to the blessings of the

to-the-point. One must not be soft-hearted or being

Buddhas and Bodhisattvas... (To be Continued)

a miser. For instance, one should not hand over the


inheritance to the close kin well in advance, simply
because of being tired of troubles or reluctant to pay

(Remarks: (1) The newly-released book on The

for the service charges. As such, one would totally

Meanings of Near-Death Experiences (1) has been

lose ones own authority and governing power,

published. Its contents include the articles on The

and come to a risk of a heavy betting and may lose

Meanings of the Near-Death Experiences from Is-

everything eventually. Once lost, it would be a total

sues 1 to 10. (2) The Meanings of Near-death Expe-

loss. One should be aware of the fact that the loss

riences (2) The Key Points at the Moment of Death

of money is not a serious matter, but the failure to


capture the pivotal moment at death is the loss of
ones future destiny and rebirth to a better domain.
In case if the person falls into the realm of either the

and the Essential Revelations of the Tibetan Book of


the Dead has been published. Its contents include
the articles on The Meanings of the Near-Death Experiences from Issues 11 to 20.)

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