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What Women Want
What Women Want
the world for many years what do women want? This is from the mind of a VERY attractive woman that gets approached by lots of guys, so it s solid information that you can apply immediately! Can we spend time together " #hen a girl first meets you, for the most part she isn t $ust thin%ing about your loo%s &although they will to some degree'! (he s actually thin%ing if you re boyfriend material, her )r Right, her cheesy %night who will sweep her of her feet li%e a romantic chic% flic%! Its not about the sex " )ost girls don t thin% about se* initially &some definitely do' but a lot don t! They want to get to %now the RE+, you your passions wants needs desires et!! -uys mostly $ust thin% about se* when they first meet a girl, so if you begin thin%ing li%e a woman for a moment, you ll get much further with them! "e a #itt#e bit sty#ish and dress $or the o!!asion " .on t $ust wear baggy sweats all day every day, dress up once in a while! /f you re ta%ing a girl out to a fancy restaurant, then wear a nice $ac%et with a smart pressed shirt! )a%e the effort for her and she will return the effort! "e power$u# in the group but not #oud or o%er&ea#ous " #omen li%e guys who are outgoing, confident, funny and naturally attract good people, you %now the energy that some people have! .on t force the coc%iness or confidence, $ust let it flow naturally! A sense o$ humour is 'E() important " )a%ing women laugh is one of the most powerful forms of attraction that are truly une*plainable in this whole game! /t s li%e magical seduction $uice or something! .o yourself a big favour and read up on comedy writing boo%s, watch stand0up shows and try to become a funnier guy! *ont as+ a mi##ion ,uestions straight away -the standard ,uestions #i+e how o#d are you./ " 1orget the old routine of spit firing questions at the poor girl! +s% her rapport building questions that other guys would never ever as%! What are her passions #i+es interests hobbies $uture be#ie$s and %a#ues. -et inside her mind! 0orget ta#+ing about sex in the beginning " #ait until the rapport building stage, when you want to create some se*ual tension before you mention anything about se*! 2ever on the first meeting, this is a big no no! 1e#$ respe!t is +ey " /f you have self respect, solid values3beliefs then you won t be pushed around easily! This is e*tremely attractive to women, as most guys these days are too easily swayed! They are pushovers, which is a huge turn off!
"eing passionate about something anything is better than nothing at a## " #hen you re tal%ing about a passion, you can go on for hours, losing trac% of time! This will engage the girl and ma%e her feel interested in what you re saying! (he ll be drawn into your energy and get wrapped up in the story! Eye !onta!t " .o / really have to mention how important eye contact is again? 4eep wor%ing on eye contact! 2o matter how hot the girl is, never loo% away if you feel nervous, she will feel it! The guy needs to be stronger than the gir# emotiona##y " 2ot one woman will ever say 5/ really love a guy who s emotionally wea%, is very puppy li%e and does whatever / say6! They always say 5/ want a secure, strong and confident man who %nows what he wants6! /t s in their .2+, so give it to them7 1me##ing good !an he#p with bui#ding attra!tion " -rab a few nice smelling colognes and get some feedbac% from girls on which smells best, it can do wonders for first impressions! "e !on$ident -ob%ious#y/ " /f there s a moment where you need to be the man &li%e %issing her' then you have to step up! .on t pussy out! / %now it s nerve rac%ing and you want to be sic%, but $ust do it! 8onfidence will get you very VERY far with women! )ou need to bui#d trust with your new #ady " don t chec% out other girls when your with her, have respect for her too! 9er being $ealous of other girls may seem good at the start, but trust me it gets very annoying fast! "eing uni,ue with your approa!h is power$u# " (aying something li%e 5you loo% special and different from other girls6 will ma%e her feel as though you are ma%ing an effort for her! (incerity is the overall message you re sending with a bold gesture! *ont put too mu!h pressure on meeting up with her %eep the first date or meet up short and sweet to gain trust! #hen guys create a big buildup about going out with a girl, it puts far too much pressure on her and scares her off! 4eep it casual, grab a coffee, a quic% lunch! 2ir#s are #oo+ing $or more than the materia#isti! " Yes you will come across some girls that li%e your watch, but you need to avoid these girls at all costs or you ll be buying them some new shoes and a matching bag when they become your girl! ,uc%ily, most women aren t materialistic and $ust want a guy with all the core values of a 5real man6! (o there you have it, :; actionable things you can do right now that women really want in a guy! Easy right?