When voices are raised on every side prescribing solutions for all our social and domestic problems, which are too often mutually contradictory, where shall we turn to find the right way and to whom shall we listen with confidence as truly authoritative? Ours is an age in which the very foundations of family and nation are not only threatened, but are breaking up and disintegrating. All too often our churches attempt to counteract the forces of their own attrition by introducing stylish new programs and methods aimed at the youth or young married couples or for the golden years generation depending on particular situations. While much of this looks sound and reasonable at first glance, I do not believe it stands the test of close examination by the light of Scripture. While we specialize in particular age groups and ignore the family almost completely. We devise an endless variety of special programs and activities replete with the most graphic displays and teaching aids. How dramatically does the old Heidelberg Catechism cut to the heart of these vain and unbiblical efforts at Question 98: But may not pictures be tolerated in churches as books for the laity? No, declares the answer, for we should not be wiser than God who will not have his people taught by dumb images but by the lively preaching of his Word.
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2004 Issue 3 - The Biblical Standard for Covenant Fathers and Family Worship - Counsel of Chalcedon
When voices are raised on every side prescribing solutions for all our social and domestic problems, which are too often mutually contradictory, where shall we turn to find the right way and to whom shall we listen with confidence as truly authoritative? Ours is an age in which the very foundations of family and nation are not only threatened, but are breaking up and disintegrating. All too often our churches attempt to counteract the forces of their own attrition by introducing stylish new programs and methods aimed at the youth or young married couples or for the golden years generation depending on particular situations. While much of this looks sound and reasonable at first glance, I do not believe it stands the test of close examination by the light of Scripture. While we specialize in particular age groups and ignore the family almost completely. We devise an endless variety of special programs and activities replete with the most graphic displays and teaching aids. How dramatically does the old Heidelberg Catechism cut to the heart of these vain and unbiblical efforts at Question 98: But may not pictures be tolerated in churches as books for the laity? No, declares the answer, for we should not be wiser than God who will not have his people taught by dumb images but by the lively preaching of his Word.
When voices are raised on every side prescribing solutions for all our social and domestic problems, which are too often mutually contradictory, where shall we turn to find the right way and to whom shall we listen with confidence as truly authoritative? Ours is an age in which the very foundations of family and nation are not only threatened, but are breaking up and disintegrating. All too often our churches attempt to counteract the forces of their own attrition by introducing stylish new programs and methods aimed at the youth or young married couples or for the golden years generation depending on particular situations. While much of this looks sound and reasonable at first glance, I do not believe it stands the test of close examination by the light of Scripture. While we specialize in particular age groups and ignore the family almost completely. We devise an endless variety of special programs and activities replete with the most graphic displays and teaching aids. How dramatically does the old Heidelberg Catechism cut to the heart of these vain and unbiblical efforts at Question 98: But may not pictures be tolerated in churches as books for the laity? No, declares the answer, for we should not be wiser than God who will not have his people taught by dumb images but by the lively preaching of his Word.
FAMILY WORSHIP The late Rev. J. Gary Aitken A Message Delivered to the Ministers Fellowship Columbia, SC, Jan. 7, 1974 When voices are raised on every side prescribing solutions for all our social and domestic problems, which are too often mutually contradictory, where shall we tum to find tlle right way and to whom shall we listen wiili confidence as trnly authoritative? Ours is an age in which ilie velY foundations of family and nation are not only tlrreatened, but are breaking up and disintegrating. All too often our churches attempt to counteract ilie forces of their own attrition by introducing stylish new programs and methods aimed at the youth or young married couples or for the golden years generation depending on particular situations. While much of this looks sound and reasonable at first glance, I do not believe it stands the test of close examination by the light of Scripture. While we specialize in particular age groups and ignore the family almost completely. We devise an endless variety of special programs and activities replete with tlle most graphic displays and teaching aids. How dramatically does ilie old Heidelberg Catechism cut to ilie heart of iliese vain and unbiblical efforts at Question 98: But may not pictures be tolerated in churches as books for the laity? No; declares tlle answer, for we should not be wiser than God who will not have his people taught by dumb images but by the lively preaching of his Word. I believe that the Scriptures are emphatic in precluding tlle use of pictures, or "dumb images" in the church, tlle displacing of the exposition of the Word of God in favor of musical programs, films, dramas, and a host of other innovations which have swept into our churches like a whirlwind in tlle twentieth century. Yet all these novelties continue to spread like a veritable plagne today in the circle of my acquaintance. I find wiili distressing frequency an openness and curiosity among lay people that I believe is the very seed bed in which such antibiblical tendencies take root. I make so bold as to set forth a tllesis in this regard. The largest reason for the declension in our churches generally and the flood of unscriptural practices in our corporate worship will be found to lie in the almost total neglect of family worship day by day and specifically in tlle catastrophic abdication by covenant fatllers and husbands of their responsibilities to lead their families in family worship and indoctrination. The regulative principle of Scripture which holds iliat notlling may be included in the worship and service of God by His people except those elements which He has Himself ordained, includes also the rule iliat nothing is to be excluded which He has commanded or required. One aspect of tllis limiting and specific principle has reference to the proper qualifications of tllOse who lead God's people in fulfilling ilieir obligations as parents in Christian families. Therefore my object here will be to apply this principle in the area 0 our covenant homes and to consider the particular duties which God lays upon covenant fathers. This ought to be the object of our most intense personal concern, as I believe it was in ilie minds ofilie Presbyterian divines at ilie Westminster Assembly who wrote "An Introductory Preface to ilie Standards" iliese words: TO THE CHRISTIAN READER, ESPECIALLY HEADS OF FAMILIES .... We cannot but with grief of soul lament those multitudes of errors blasphemies and all kinds of profaneness which have in this last age like a mighty deluge, overflown this nation; so, among several other sins which have helped to open the flood-gates of all these impieties, we cannot but esteem the disuse of family instruction one of the greatest. Two words of Scriptural advice were offered as a direct means of rectifying iliese grievous evils. First, iliey were to labor diligently to advance ilieir personal knowledge of the Standards, improve their individual walle and example by being thus grounded and settled in their faiili. Then, secondly they were to follow the example of Joshua in leading their families in holy living, not only by ilieir holy example but also by diligent personal instruction tlrrough the use of the Creeds, Confessions, and Catechisms. They concluded this exordium wiili the following warm pastoral call to covenant fatllers: If, therefore, there be any spark in you of love to God, be not content that any of yours should be ignorant of him whom you so much admire, or any haters of him whom you so much love. If there be any compassion to the souls of them who are under your care, if any regard of your being found faithful in the day of Christ, if any respect to future generations, labor to sow these seeds afknawledge, which may grow up in q/ier-times. All out vaunted efforts to turn our churches around and to see them brought to a better circumstance will continue to be plagued with frustration, confusion, and ephemeral success until we come to terms with the biblical pattern for Christian heads of homes and for families. All our mass evangelism cmsades, "CalImg Our Continent to Christ in '73," or "Calling All Nations in '74," all our child evangelism and lay evangelism and whatever else avoids or iguores the cmcial and elemental importance of the individual family and the priority offathersin obeying the word of God, doom us to continued frustration and failure in every other high and worthy ambition which may fill our hearts with desire to see Ii God-owned time of refreshing in our day. I assert that it is impossible to enjoy a ' spiritually healthy situation in a local congregation where men who are "good and regular standing'" before their sessions are in flagrant violation of their duties as heads of families. I further assert that we inevitably engage in pitiable self deception when we depend on the standards of success epitomized by somebody as "Numbers, Nickels and Noise!" while at the same time our church families are bereft of the most elementary of daily family worship and covenantal indoctrination, to say nothing of the co=on failures in too many homes to practice even the most basic principles of discipline. So basic is the principle I seek to expound that if! were given a choice of pastoring a congregation in which I was assured of ten sound, biblically motivated and controlled covenant fathers or of pastoring a comparable congregation qevoid of such men but with a hundred teenagers who were "On fire for the Lord" without a moments hesitation, I wolild choose the former as giving promise of more blessing not only for this generation; but for thousands to follow. For did not God describe himself to Moses as a jealous 'Goa, "visiting the iniqnity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me, and shewing mercy unto thousands of them that love me, and keep my commandments"? In the first instance these principles must be addressed to ministers. We must examine ourselves in these regards as we shepherd the families of our congregations. If!, as a minister, fail to guide my own wife and children day by day as the head of my personal covenant family, I fail not only God who put them in my care, but those who are ''flesh of my flesh and bone of my bone" as well as every other family in my congregation. Every family of the chw:ch at my family and find an example of practical holmess m these regards which they may copy, as the pastor and his family pattern their lives according to the scriptural standard. Here is where we may, if it pleases God, do our noblest and most enduring work. Though I am tempted to take the great text which Richard Baxter employed as the basis for his classic The Reformed Pastor, space forbids a proper development of it. I simply quote it as a present reminder of your highest and greatest duties, who will one day give account of your stewardship as undershepherds of God's flock. "Take therefore unto yourselves, and to all the flock over which the Holy Ghost hath made you overseers, to feed the church of God which he hath purchased with his own blood," Acts 20:28. In these matters we must take heed to ourselves, if we would lead others. Now, however, I direct your attention to the consideration of those great texts of Scripture which set forth the pattern for life and practice of Christian families and, most especially, covenant fathers. The Bible sets forth in the clearest terms the scope of a covenant father's duties. In no sense are we to take these specifications as optional or elective. If men fail in these they fail not only themselves, but their posterity WIth the gravest enduring consequences. When God gave to Moses for a second time the two tables of the Law we read in Exodus 34:5ff., "And the LORD descended in the cloud, and stood with him there and proclaimed the name of the Lord, and the LORD passed by before him and proclainIed, The LORD, The LORD God, merciful and gracious, long suffering, and abundant in goodness and truth. Keeping mercy for thousands, forgiving the iniquity of the fathers upon the children, and upon the children's children, unto the third and to the fourth generation." Jeremialt, seeing the painful implications of this, same covenantal failure cried out in Lamentations 5:7, "'Our fathers have sinned, and are not; and we have borne their iniquities." Though the pattern of the family with the guiding and controlling presence of the father was established long before Abraham's time in SCripture, it is he to whom Christians as well as Jews look as primal covenant father, the father of all the faithful. When God reconfimIed His purpose to beget of Abraltam an innumerable covenantal progeny, "Seeing that Abraltam, The BibLicaL Stan{)ar{) For Cormant Father.} An{) Family Wordhip shall surely become a great and mighty nation, and all the nations of the earth shall be blessed in him," God underscored the effect of Abraham's covenant inflnence by declaring further in Genesis 18: 19, "ForI know him, that he will command his children and his honsehold after him and they shall keep the way of the LORD, to do justice and judgment; that the LORD may bring npon Abraham that which he hath spoken of him." Thns, on the human side, through the means appointed by the Almighty we see how God will bring to pass the great covenant promise given Abraham earlier in Genesis 17:7, "And I will establish my covenant between me and thee and thy seed after thee in their generations for an everlasting covenant, to be a God unto thee, and to thy seed after thee." The purpose and power then are of the Almighty. The means of his appointing are believing fathers, like Abraham, who will command their children and their households after them. When Moses reviewed the laws which God had given Israel at Horeb, he reminded them that they were not to add to or diminish anything from the Word He had given (Dt.4:2.). Further, commanded Moses, "Only take heed to thyself, and keep thy sonl diligently, lest thou forget the things which thine eyes have seen, and lest they depart from thy heart all the days of thy life: but teach them to thy sons, and thy sons' sons." (Dt. 4:9). However, it is in the magnificent "Shemah" of Deuteronomy 6:4-7, that we catch a vision of the pervasive quality of godliness in the patriarchal family. "Hear, 0 Israel: The LORD our God is one LORD: and thou shalt love the LORD thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. And these words, which I command thee this day shall be in thine heart: and thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk ofthem when tllOu sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up." Here is a Scriptural cOllUnand which overarches the generations, gives lasting significance to evelY relationship in believing families as well as purpose and direction for each day, and even for every hour covenant fathers spend with their children. In commenting on tllis passage, Calvin writes, "He would have it (the Law) implanted in their hearts lest forgetfulness of it should ever steal over them; and by the word 'heart' He designates the memory and other facnlties of the mind; as though He had said that tllis was so great a treasure that there was good canse why they should hide it in tlleir hearts, or so fix this doctrine deeply in tlleir minds that it should never escape. Afterwards He enjoins that constant conversation should beheld about it with tlleir children in order that fathers should diligently attend and apply themselves to the duty of instruction. The Hebrew word shanan which Moses uses means properly 'to whet' ... that is, tllat tlley should cause it to penetrate their minds, as if they shonld prick them with the point of a sword." In our day, as in Moses', this great Scriptural injnnction stands as a monumental expression of the essence of covenantal duty for every believing father. The Book of Proverbs gives detailed instructions for covenantal families. Proverbs 22:6 commands, "Train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it." Matthew Poole added to the margin of his commentary the 'word "catechize" for the word 'train up." The implication of the Text and of Poole's pregnant comment is that this training begin very early and be pervasively thorough. The directive, I remind you, was not to the Jewish religious community, not to the priests or teachers, but to covenant fathers. And thus Thomas Manton could compare tile family to a seminary for the Chnrch and State. I would not minimize the duties and opportunities of covenant mothers to engage in this early teaching. Indeed, in Proverbs 31 :26 we read ofthe godly mother that, 'She opens her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the "law of kindness." Further, "She looketh well to the ways of her honsehold, and eateth not tile bread of idleness." Reading such texts with their full force and significance does not mitigate the inescapable and even primal duties of covenant fathers in these regards. They must lead and their wives are to support and confirm ti,e practice and teaching of their husbands by their own consistent example and teaching. To take these texts regarding godly women and use tI,em as pretexts for encouraging women to assume the ascendancy in these matters is monstrous and wicked. When God cOllUnands children to "hear the instruction ofthy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother" as in Proverbs 1:8 and 6:20, the burden of obedience for a child is equal toward both parents, and we may say both parents are responsible for overseeing tI,eir children, but the dnties of mothers do not mitigate the primary responsibilities of fathers to train up their children in all holiness. Turning to the New Testament, we consider the words of Paul at the begilllling of Ephesians 6. First he addresses children applying to them the explicit precepts of the fifth commandment. Their duties are toward bOtil parents 'in ti,e Lord." Then at verse four, he speaks directly to "fatllers." The comment ofthe Expositors Testament is pointed and perceptive. "The parental duty is set forth in terms of the fatl,er's obligation without particular mention of the. mother's, not because children of maturer age are in view, but simply because the father is the ruler in the house, as the husbandis the head of the ffife; the mother's rule and responsibility being subordinate to his and represented by his." I am convinced that this text serves as a veritable "crux interpretum" regarding the priority of covenantal duties for Christian fathers. Here is the key not only to spiritually vital homes, but churches. The other relevant passages in the New Testament confirm this interpretation. Consider first the substantially parallel qualifications which Paul sets for elders and deacons in First Timothy 3:4, 5 and 12. Though one may not set this qualification of ruling one's own house and children above the various other qualifications there is yet an emphatic quality to this standard which if a man fails to achieve, he is ipso facto incompetent to hold office in the Church. Speaking from my personal experience, I cannot readily recall any congregation with which I have had reasonably close personal knowledge in which some of the officers were not derelict by reason of failing to rule their own houses well. I am not inferring here that ministers should suddenly come before their sessions and congregations to demand immediate compliance at this point. I fear that in too many cases, however, we have not felt the importance of this qualification until certain men had been elected by. the congregation and then we have broached the matter only tentatively, if at all, and ended by justifying some in their failures at this point, who because of their sincerity were approved as exceptional cases. I speak in some measure by way of confession, but the burden of this issue ~ i g h s upon me much more heavily now than heretofore. Finally, I call attention to that exceptional circumstance which Paul reveals in writing his second epistle to his spiritual son Timothy, when he writes, "I call to remembrance the unfeigned faith that is in thee, which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy mother Eunice and I am persuaded that in thee also (1 :5) Which when added to the apostolic exhortation in 3: 14.15, "But continue in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of :whom thou hast learned them, and that from a child thou hast known the holy Scriptures, which are able to make thee ffise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus" bring us properly to concede that Timothy was .brought up in a home ffithout benefit of the spiritual oversight of a believing father or grandfather. I am bold to suggest two great principles which derive from Timothy's experience as a covenant child. First God is pleased to give added grace and to supply that which might otherwise be lacking in the spiritual character of a godly and widowed mother.ofIsrael upon whom the burden of raising one or more covenant children falls. All that I have set forth in this paper, then, should not bring the smallest measure of trepidation or uncertainty to a contemporary Lois or Eunice. Not only were they protected according to the Mosaic Law, Exodus 22:22, from any affliction, but also Isaiah commands Israel to "Plead for the widow, (1: 17) and Jeremiah comforts even the broken families of Edom declaring in 49: 11, "Leave thy fatherless children, I will preserve them alive; and let thy widows trust in me. So it was then and so, I believe, it is today. Yet, I draw a.second deduction from the circumstances of Timothy's home. There are two things worse and more tragic for a covenant child to endure .than being bereft of a covenant father. In degree of tragedy, the next worst circumstance for such a child is to have an unbelieving and godless father living in his home. Yet even in such a situation there was a measure of hope given by the Apostle Paul in Eirst Corinthians 7:14. ''For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife and the unbelieving ffife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy." God's grace makes up in a substantial measure for the spiritual deficiencies of a home in which only one parent is a believer. However, there is one tragedy vastly more painful and blasting to a life of faith and holiness for a covenant child. That is to be the child of a false and hypocritical professor. But hear Robert L. Dabney as he sets forth the plight of such a home, when he compares the relative benefits of a pagan home' to those in a merely nominal Christian home. "This pClgan child may have for his father a gross, sensual barbarian, and for his mother a superstitious, silly, lying babbler. He may have been carried while an infant to the idol temple, before the horrid image of Siva or Kali. This situation is bad enough. But he has not yet experienced the spiritual curse, to which every pretended Christian home is subjected, of detecting his own father and mother whom he is to revere, if he reveres anything - in practicing cheats upon their God in promising sacredly what they have no purpose of performing, and in giving the practical lie, by their actions all the week, to the holiest professions they make on the Lord's day. " Here then, I believe is the heart of our declension today: the nominally Christian home, and most monstrous ~ blasting in his effect on not only his' 1_- .. The BibLicaL Standard For Covenant FatherJ And FamiLy ]f/orJhip own children, but on countless future generations is the nominal and pretended Christian Father. How perceptive a prophet was Dr. John F. Cannon, Minister of the Grand Avenue Presbyterian Church of Saint Louis, in his remarks to the General Assembly of our Church in 1897, on the occasion of the 250th Anniversary of the Westminster Convention, when he declared: "That deep yearning of the soul the gospel answers with the assurance that as we confidently commit ourselves, so may we commit our children, in the arms of redeeming love. This precious feature of our holy religion the Westminster Standards clearly expound, and I am not sure but it is their most distinctive glory. Now when this foil gospel of the grace of God is embraced; when Jesus Christ is accepted not only as a personal Savior, but also as the Savior of the house, Joshua s resolve becomes the natural response of the heart: 'As for me and my house, We will serve the Lord. 'The home takes on the character and shape of a religious institution. It becomes a Bethel. The family altar is reared. The rule by which the household is ordered is the Word of God. Hence, as a matter of fact, wherever Presbyterianism has prevailed, homes have been found like the home of Abraham, characterized by two features-family discipline with family worship. It is no accident that the Cotter s Saturday Night 1 was written by a poet trained under the Westminster Standards, and that its scene is laid in a land molded by Presbyterianism. A Scots servant-girl hearing the poem read before a company of admiring English people naively said that she saw nothing Ve1Y wonderfUl about it, for that was the way they did at her father s house every night. Such scenes are indigenous to Presbyterian Soil; and if our beloved old church ever loses her glory, it will be when the fires go out on her family altars . .. Here is where we are losing not merely a battle, but the whole war. Only God can revive His church, but how dare we even pray for renewal and heavenly refreshment when by our carelessness and silence we condone the failures of our own professed covenant fathers amongst us. Surely we shall have to reckon with the warning words of God to Ezekiel, for are we not also watchmen? "So thou, o son of man, I have set thee a watchman unto the house ofIsrael; therefore thou shalt hear the word at my mouth, and warn them for me. When I say unto the wicked, 0 wicked man, thou shalt surely die; if thou dost not speak to warn the wicked from his way, that wicked man shall die in his iniquity; but his blood will I require at thine hand, Ezekiel 33:7,8. We are watchmen not only for our own generation, but for those to come. From how many of our grandchildren will the glory have departed, so that they shall be called "Ichabod" as was the grandson of Eli? Or how many of us will have cause to weep over our lost children as David cried over Absalom: 0 my son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! Would God I had died for thee, 0 Absalom, my son, my son!" And why? Because on the human side, David had failed as a covenant father. Ifwe would have more godly and faithful officers in our churches, we must have more faithful fathers leading our families by means of their personal examples of consistent holiness in word and in life. We begin too late when we try to train officers for the church by scriptural standards. These biblical obligations devolve upon every covenant father. Our officers are often so deficient because the reservoir of covenant families in our congregations from which they are drawn is so deficient and polluted with ungodliness and ignorance of God's Word. Let me conclude by sharing with you the letter of a father in our own Presbyterian Lion who, near death himself, wrote this moving exhortation to his eldest son, Gillespie Robbins Thornwell, then just 17 years of age, serving with the Legion of General Wade Hampton in Virginia. June 19,1861. "MY DEAR GILLESPIE: It has been on my heart for some time back to have a serious and solemn conversation with you touching the great interests of the soul. During all my sickness nothing has pressed upon my mind more than the condition and prospects of my boys in relation to the salvation of the gospel. 1 have dedicatecf2 you and your brothers to God. 1 have prayed that He would call ~ t all into His kingdom; and 1 once ventured to hope that 1 might seeyou all ministers of the gospel. There is nothing worth livingfor but the glory of God; and 1 do most devoutly wish that your eyes may be opened to see the transcendent importance of eternal things. You have but one soul; and if you lose that, all is gone; and once lost, it is lost for ever. You may say that you acknowledge the truth of all this, but you do not feel it. My son, you must strive to feel it. You must think upon the.matter seriously and earnestly; you must pray over it. You must confess and deplore your hardness of heart, and seekfrom the Lord a clean heart and a right spirit. Resolve never to give over until you find that you are interested and warmly interested in the great salvation. You cannot imagine what a comfort it would be to me in my declining days to see you humbly and sincerely following the Lord Jesus Christ. And why not do it? Can you gain anything by carelessness and remissness? Are you happier when you do not know but that at any moment you may be summoned before God altogether unprepared? Is not the fear of the Lord the beginning of Wisdom? And do they not exhibit the soundest understanding who keep God's commandments? My son, you know not how much 1 love you and cannot know how much 1 feel for your immortal interests. Do me, your father, the favor to give your mind to the matter at once and decidedly. Seek to be a thorough-going, devoted Christian. Seek the Lord with your whole heart. Renounce all sin, and renounce it for ever; and betake yourself to the blood of Christ for pardon and acceptance. Do more; have an eye to the eternal good of your younger brothers. They look up to you; they respect you; they try to do as you do. Set them a good example. Go before them in the way of eterizallife. Religion cannot be maintained without regular prayer, and regular reading of the Scriptures, and regular attendance upon the ordinances. Never omit your morning and evening devotions and try to be interested in them; think over what you pray for; think before you pray. When you read the Bible, read in orderto get knowledge. Meditate on what you read: and beg God to seal it on your heart by the Holy Ghost. At church try to be profited. Apply to yourselfwhatyou hear. Lookupon the preaching as God's appointment and expect His blessing in attending upon it. My dear boys reflect upon what 1 have said to you; and gladden my heart when 1 see you again by your interest in all that concerns the glory of God, and the salvation of the soul. Pray over this Letter; look upon it as your father's legacy; andfor his sake as well as your own awake to the importance of these high themes. As to my health 1 cannot say that there is any marked change yet. 1 think upon the whole 1 am improving. The atmosphere here at present is very cool and delightfitl. Our nights are charming; and 1 enjoy the magnificent forests about here very much. I can never gaze on these enough. And now, my boy, may God bless you. Be true to Him and He will be faithfiil to you. Your affectionate father, J. H THORNWELL." Within nine months the son followed his father in death. The record indicates that Gillespie as a believer met his father before the throne of God, "He met death," we are told, "Not only with firmness, but with perfect resignation and comp'osure. Although under circumstances which cut him off from the friends to whom he might have unbosomed himself, the hospital nurse says that 'he talked beautifully' to him, saying he 'did not fear to die and was perfectly willing to go, only that he could have wished to see his mother and the dear ones at home once more. They rest in the sweet The Bi6!iJ:aL Stalldard For COf'enallt Fatherd Alld FamiLy ]f/ordhip assurance that through faith in his Redeemer's blood, he was ready for the change." May we not join the desire of Dr. Thomwell expressed in a letter to a sympathizing friend following the death of his eldest daughter? He wrote "Pray for us, my dear friend; especially pray that I may have no un-converted child. The event has been greatly sanctified to me and my wife. God grant that we may never grow faint. I never relax my hold upon the covenant. Jesus has been more precious to me than I have felt him for a Long time and the gospel more glorious. Henceforth I am bound, I trust, for etemity. I want to live only for the glory of God. Pray for me and mine." D D D D D 1 See Robert Burns "The Cottar's Saturday Night" in this issue. 2 For historical integrity Dr. Thornwell's remarks are preserved. See The Presbyterian Doctrine of Children in the Covenant by Lewis Bevins Schenck (P & R Publishers) for a critique of Thomwell's view of Covenant Children. WILL HE BE SAVIOR. .. OR JUDGE To YOU A new recording by Kerry Belcher displays a variety of musical styles, and is full of spiritual encouragement and praises to God. Joining Kerry on the recording are his children: Jordan Belcher, Grant Belcher, Christian Belcher, his brother Hugh Belcher; sisters, Judy Rogers and Becky Morecraft, his parents Anita and C.C. Belcher, and friend, Ron Kendall Jr. The CD is a 2 disk set consisting of 25 songs/ 21 originals, including 5 songs written and/or performed by Jordan Belcher. There is also a book, "Jordan's Journey", about the history of Jordan's accident, near death expe- riences, and the grace of God working in Jordan and her family's life. CD-$I5 CD + Book - $25 Payment for orders can be sent to: Kerry Belcher P.O. BOX C Haysi,VA 24256 These songs represent some of the pleasures and pains I've experienced over the last five years. They say cataclysmic times make excellent fodder for songs. I hope "they" are right. God bless! Kerry scotchstrings@hotmail.com PO Box 650 Haysi, VA 24256 For live performances write or call 276-865-5144 the COUNSELofCHALCEDON 38
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