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Ever seen a kid at the candy store? I bet you have.

Now imagine the same kid staring all over the store from corner to
corner, and salivating over every little to big piece of candy, in the
store.
At first, he just wants the red candy, but then he looks at the green
one, and that appears to be more delicious, so he changes his
mind, and now wants the green one.
ut, he doesn!t stop there. "uddenly, he sees the pink candy, and
now he has changed his mind all over again, and wants the pink
one.
#e finally gets the pink one, eagerly unwraps it and $uickly puts it
in his mouth.
#e absolutely loves how it tastes, but suddenly his mind wonders %
If this one tastes this good, I wonder what the other ones taste
like?
&hen he forces his dad to buy him the green one, and then also
the red one. ut even after tasting ' candies one after another, he
still wants more.
"omething similar goes on in a man!s mind, when it comes to
women and attraction. &here is no guarantee that if he likes or
even loves you right now, this feeling is going to sustain in his
mind, and he will continue to like, or love you forever.
In fact, most men are absolutely unconscious to this reality, and
are in a reactive mode. In other words, they are completely at prey
to their emotions, and only act on how they feel around you.
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If they feel good around you, they like you.
If they feel attached to you, they love you.
And if they feel se(ual around you, they will try to have se( with
you.
)ou probably know how the drill runs right?
ut, does that mean that you can!t do anything to ensure that he
remains attracted to you, over the long term? No. In fact, there are
things you can do, which will make him completely ignore his
natural urges, and will make him see you as a high $uality woman.
A woman he would never ever want to let go.
ut before I even e(plain the process to you, let me give you ' big
reasons why you absolutely must learn this...
Big reason #1 Most dont know that they dont know, but
they think they know
At first, this looks like a fancy play of words, but try to read the
above once again.
)ou will reali*e that the point I!m trying to make is simple %
+omen assume that they understand men and how their mind
works, but they really don!t.
I don!t mean to sound rude or arrogant, but majority of women I
coach, have very little, to no idea regarding how the male mind
functions, and nor do they understand the primary drivers behind
why men do what they do.
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"o, when you don!t clearly understand the true motivation behind
why a man ignores, you or avoids you, then you will never be able
to alter that reality.
#owever, I,m also not blaming you for it. No one is taught this
subject in school, therefore, it,s not really your fault for not having
enough information in this area.
#owever, the issue I usually encounter is that some women
assume, that they understand everything, and there is nothing new
under the sun. &hat,s the point when they often harm themselves,
because they don,t focus on where they could be going wrong.
Big reason #2 You might assume that its the mans fault
when Its really not
I might get some heat for saying this, and some women might
even absolutely hate me, but do you know that in certain situations
- where you assumed that it was the man!s fault it really wasn!t?
#ave you ever found your man staring at other women, while he
was out on a date with you? #ow did it make you feel, and the big
$uestion is % #ow did you react when you finally caught him
casually glancing at that hot blonde, in the corner of the room?
&he standard reaction is to blame the man, and mark him as a
good for nothing loser, who can!t control himself.
ut, I have a different view on this, and because of it I!m going to
say something outrageous now % It!s not the man!s fault.
I know, I know. "ounds ridiculous right?
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+ell, stay with me because, I!ll e(plain why I said this very soon
but before that, let me get to the big reason number '.
Big reason# You will get total !ontrol of his mind when
you understand how he works
/kay, now don!t take this the wrong way, but if you learn and
apply everything you!re going to discover in this report, you will
find yourself in a very strong position around your man, or any
man for that matter.
&o prove this further, I,d like to give you an e(ample. &he e(ample
of a moving train.
#ow do you stop a moving train?
No really, think about it % #ow do you stop a moving train?
0o you stand in front of it, and assume that just like superwoman,
you will be able to bring it to a complete halt?
No?
+ell, It!s obvious that you can!t stop a moving train by standing in
front of it, in fact, that!s a perfect recipe to get yourself killed, but
why do so many women do this with the man in their life?
&rying to make a man do something by asking, forcing, begging,
pleading or even arguing, indirectly means, that you are standing
in front of the train, and hoping that it would stop. &he truth is - It
won!t.
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"o how do you really stop a moving train?
+ell, first, you wait for the time it!s gets slow, then you run along
side it, then you get into the train, and make your way to the main
engine and then control the engine from the inside. &hat!s the
easiest way.
+ith a man, you need to do something similar as well. y working
on him from the inside, you will have his unconditional love, and
devotion or as long as you want.
"o now, I would like to transition into the ne(t part and tell you 1
really important truths about men, which simply can!t be ignored2
"ruth # 1 Men are always fighting their inner urges
3ife for a man is pretty complicated. 4uch more complicated than
you can ever imagine. 0o you know why? It!s because, majority of
the men don!t understand their own psychology and emotions, and
are in a reactive mode.
Nature didn!t design us to be monogamous. It designed us to
ensure the survival of the human race, therefore we naturally
desire to spread our seed around, among as many women as
possible.
I know this sounds like a very nasty thought, but for some weird
reason, we come from the factory that way.
"o just think about it % +hen you catch your man looking at other
women and call him out on it, he won!t really have a good enough
reason or answer for it.
ecuase the truth is % It!s not an easy answer either way.
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0eep down, he is really fighting his strong inner urges, which were
given to him by good old mother nature. ut then, he also has
e(pectations from your end and the society as a whole, which just
confuses him.
In fact, some men can take this as a personal attack on their
freedom, when they are judged for staring at other women.
&hey assume % I am feeling these strong urges all the time, while
she is asking me to completely neglect this, and do what she wants
me to do.
Now, the cold truth is this % "ince nature designed men this way,
it!s not something you can take out of them by standing in front of
the train.
5ather you will have to work with this weakness, and turn it in your
favor. I!ll show you how to do that soon, but before that let me
give you the second truth about men2
"ruth #2 #hen you understand his weaknesses, you turn
into his ultimate dream girl
&his is completely counter-intuitive, and isn!t something most
women even understand, let alone actually try.
+e have already established that guys are genetically wired to
pursue many woman, but once you understand this weakness and
work with it, you will turn into this special girl, he would never ever
want to let go.
)ou see % 4en do want many women but the moment they find a
high $uality woman, the woman who finally gets their psychology
the right way, they can!t help but get strong inner urges to trap her
and be around her as much as possible.
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)ou see, his mindset and actions around you, will be completely
different to his actions around other women once you get this. In
other words, he will find himself in a consistent state of desire for
you, and will find it hard to think of anyone else but you.
/kay, so now you understand the ' big reasons why you need to
understand this, and also 1 core truths about men.
Now, the ne(t $uestion is % #ow do you actually do it? #ow do you
make him feel a consistent level of desire for you?
&he formula is $uite simple % In order to keep him consistently
attracted to you, you need to make sure he remains in the bubble
of desire.
ut, what is this bubble of desire? +ell, it basically means a state
of mind, where a man feels a strong need to capture you. In other
words, it is a state of mind, where whenever he thinks of you % #e
e(periences strong feelings of love and attraction for you.
"o, how does it actually work? +ell in order to make him stay in
the bubble of desire, you need to do 1 really important things2
6- )ou need to give him the illusion that he has captured you.
1- )ou break that illusion once in a while, and let him work a little
harder, to capture you again.
+hat do I mean when I say give him the illusion that he!s captured
you? +ell, since we have already established that a man is
genetically wired to pursue as many women as possible.
#e naturally e(periences strong inner desires and urges, to chase a
woman, until the time he captures her.
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&his is why you will see that at first, a man works really hard,
specially at the early stages of the relationship.
#e holds hands, and kisses you in public, puts others things on
hold just to spend time with you, and even makes you feel really
good, as often as possible.
ut, when a little bit of time passes by, and you find yourself falling
for him more and more, you witness that he is withdrawing a little,
and things between you two, aren!t as intense as they used to be.
&he reason why this happens, is because he has captured you, and
now the chase has ended. As long as a woman is a big challenge, a
man will find himself emotionally charged, and is ready to do
anything to get her.
ut once he gets her, he finds himself a little bored, and wonders %
/kay, I have her now. +hat!s ne(t?
"o, when you give him the illusion that he has captured you, you
are showing him that he does have a little access to you, but, he
still doesn!t have complete access.
&his makes him feel a consistent level of emotional charge, and
this is where, he will find himself in a constant state of desire for
you.
ut you must be thinking % +ait a minute here, does this mean, I
have to keep on making him chase me? +hat if I want to be in a
relationship with him? &his sounds like a game and I don!t like
playing games.
+ell the truth is % )ou don!t have to keep on doing this, rather you
will only do this when you feel, that your relationship is getting a
little bit stale.
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And, if you feel this is too much of a game, then you need to once
again read my analogy on how to stop a moving train.
4en are genetically wired this way, and you can!t get them to feel
a consistent level of desire if you aren!t willing to work with their
weakness.
/kay, so now let!s get to our second point % "econd point states
that you break the illusion that he has captured you, once in a
while, and make him work hard to capture you once again.
&his means, the moment he feels that he has completely captured
you, you must do something which indirectly shows him that there
is a lot more to do, and he might have to work a little harder.
I have an interesting story which illustrates this point really well2
I had a client who was in a long distance relationship. "he met this
man on a dating site, and this guy did all the chasing at first.
#e used to speak to her for 7 to 8 hours on "kype daily from his
workplace, in fact, he was spending most of his time just speaking
to her.
&he things were really hot for the first few weeks, and then they
finally decided to meet. &he meeting went way better for my client,
than what she could have ever e(pected.
&hey met $uite a few times after that, and things seemed to be
going really well up until the middle of the second month.
&his is when things started to change a little, as my client found
that she was the one calling a lot more, and this man was starting
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to get a little distant.
&heir conversations started getting a little dry, and there were
times when they didn!t feel like they had much to talk about.
Eventually, it got to the point where the man claimed that he was
busy for most of his days, and had a lot of work, when in the past
he would spend several hours talking to my client from work.
"o, he was clearly lying to her.
Eventually, my client approached me for help, and couldn!t figure
out why he was suddenly uninterested in her.
After she told me everything, I just said one thing % #e isn!t in the
bubble of desire anymore. #e has been pushed too far back, due
to which, he is taking you for granted right now.
&hen I gave her a very easy solution, which is point number 1. I
asked her to pull back a lot more, and wait for him to make the
ne(t move. "o, for the ne(t few days, she didn!t call him at all, nor
did she email him.
In other words, she broke the daily pattern she was following. After
the first couple of days, the man emailed her and asked, if she
would like to come talk to him on "kype.
/nce again, according to my instructions, she told him that she
was a little busy, and will be busy for a while and, will talk to him
whenever she gets some time.
After the third day or so, this same man was sending her several
emails per day, and was showing the same level of interest, he
showed at the early phases.
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"o, the lesson was simple here % +hen the man knew that he had
captured the girl, he suddenly felt % /kay, so what!s ne(t now?
In short % #e felt a little bored because he was out of the pursuit
mode. All I really did was ask my client to put him back into the
pursuit mode, and make him work a little for her attention. &his
fi(ed everything, and he was back in the bubble of desire.
"o now, try to use this same formula in your own personal life, and
look for areas where you might have given a little bit too much.
Areas where you know, that maybe you pushed your man outside
the bubble of desire.
It could be something as simple as % 9alling him too much, being
too eager to meet him, showing too much love:affection when he
isn!t reciprocating, or even things like putting your whole life on
hold, to make time for him. I hope you get the point.
&o conclude, what do you think will happen when you put this
advice into action?
)ou will witness that men drool after you e(actly like a puppy
drools after a piece of bone. )eah, the analogy sounds a little
e(aggerated, but is absolutely true.
#owever, at this point you must be thinking - what if it doesn!t
work for me?
+ell, here are two common situations where this advice might not
work2
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$ituation #1 #hen the things are beyond the %oint of
return, in your relationshi%
+hat does point of return even mean? +ell in simple terms, when
your partner has seen you in your absolute worst form, and
understands you from inside to outside to a point where things
seem irreparable, that is where, this advice might not work.
I have clients come to me, who have seen both verbal and
emotional abuse, yet still want this to work in their relationship.
&he problem is that, when the issue is so deep that it!s goes
beyond the point of return, you might only hurt yourself more by
making it work.
I can talk about this for hours, but this is another topic for another
day, so let!s get to the second situation where it doesn!t work.
$ituation # 2& #hen you dont belie'e it will work, and
make mental (udgments instead of trying it out
I can!t tell you how many women I know, who tell me that they!ve
tried it all, but nothing works, when in reality, they haven!t really
acted on the advice they were given.
It is one thing to think of something in your mind and rationally
analy*e it, just in your mind.
And it!s completely another thing to actually go out there, and put
it into action. 4ost women never act because, in their own mind,
they make an assumption that it!s not going to work for them, so
why even bother trying?
&his is a massive mistake. &he thing is % If you just take action and
stop over-analy*ing things, you will be surprised at how $uickly
your life actually changes.
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&herefore I hope you put this advice into action as fast as possible
and I,ll love to hear some success stories from your end soon. All
the best.
Ale(

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