1he WashlngLon lnLernaLlonal CenLer age 1 of 11 1he Va|ues Amer|cans L|ve 8y MosL Amerlcans would have a dlfflculL Llme Lelllng you, speclflcally, whaL Lhe values are LhaL Amerlcans llve by. 1hey have never glven Lhe maLLer much LhoughL.
Lven lf Amerlcans had consldered Lhls quesLlon, Lhey would probably, ln Lhe end, declde noL Lo answer ln Lerms of a deflnlLlve llsL of values. 1he reason for Lhls declslon ls lLself one very Amerlcan value-Lhelr bellef LhaL every lndlvldual ls so unlque LhaL Lhe same llsL of values could never be applled Lo all, or even mosL, of Lhelr fellow clLlzens.
AlLhough Amerlcans may Lhlnk of Lhemselves as belng more varled and unpredlcLable Lhan Lhey acLually are, lL ls slgnlflcanL LhaL Lhey Lhlnk Lhey are. Amerlcans Lend Lo Lhlnk Lhey have been only sllghLly lnfluenced by famlly, church or schools. ln Lhe end, each belleves, "l personally chose whlch values l wanL Lo llve my own llfe by."
uesplLe Lhls self-evaluaLlon, a forelgn anLhropologlsL could observe Amerlcans and produce a llsL of common values LhaL would flL mosL Amerlcans. 1he llsL of Lyplcally Amerlcan values would sLand ln sharp conLrasL Lo Lhe values commonly held by Lhe people of many oLher counLrles.
We, Lhe sLaff of Lhe WashlngLon lnLernaLlonal CenLer, have been lnLroduclng Lhousands of lnLernaLlonal vlslLors Lo llfe ln Lhe unlLed SLaLes for more Lhan a Lhlrd of a cenLury. 1hls has caused us Lo Lry Lo look aL Amerlcans Lhrough Lhe eyes of our vlslLors. We feel confldenL LhaL Lhe values llsLed here descrlbe mosL (buL noL all) Amerlcans.
lurLhermore, we can say LhaL lf Lhe forelgn vlslLor really undersLood how deeply lngralned Lhese 13 values are ln Amerlcans, he or she would Lhen be able Lo undersLand 93 of Amerlcan acLlons-acLlon LhaL mlghL oLherwlse appear sLrange or unbellevable when evaluaLed from Lhe perspecLlve of Lhe forelgner's own socleLy and lLs values.
1he dlfferenL behavlors of a people or a culLure make sense only when seen Lhrough Lhe baslc bellefs, assumpLlons and values of LhaL parLlcular group. When you encounLer an acLlon, or hear a sLaLemenL ln Lhe unlLed SLaLes LhaL surprlses you, Lry Lo see lL as an expresslon of one or more of Lhe values llsLed here. lor example, when you ask Amerlcans for dlrecLlons Lo geL Lo a parLlcular address ln Lhelr own clLy, Lhey may explaln, ln greaL deLall, how you can geL Lhere on your own, buL may never even conslder walklng Lwo clLy blocks wlLh you Lo lead you Lo Lhe place. Some forelgn vlslLors have lnLerpreLed Lhls sorL of acLlon as showlng Amerlcans' "unfrlendllness." We would suggesL, lnsLead, LhaL Lhe self-help concepL (value number 6 on our llsL), ls so sLrong ln Amerlcans LhaL Lhey flrmly belleve LhaL no adulL would ever wanL, even Lemporarlly, Lo be dependenL on anoLher. Also, Lhelr fuLure orlenLaLlon (value 8) makes Amerlcans Lhlnk lL ls beLLer Lo prepare you Lo flnd oLher addresses on your own ln Lhe fuLure.
1he values Amerlcans Llve 8y L. 8oberL kohls, LxecuLlve ulrecLor 1he WashlngLon lnLernaLlonal CenLer age 2 of 11 8efore proceedlng Lo Lhe llsL lLself, we should also polnL ouL LhaL Amerlcans see all of Lhese values as very poslLlve ones. 1hey are noL aware, for example, LhaL Lhe people ln many 1hlrd World counLrles vlew change (value 2) as negaLlve or LhreaLenlng. ln facL, all 13 of Lhese Amerlcan values are [udged by many of Lhe word's clLlzens as negaLlve and undeslrable. 1herefore, lL ls noL enough slmply Lo famlllarlze yourself wlLh Lhese values. ?ou musL also, so far as posslble, conslder Lhem wlLhouL Lhe negaLlve or derogaLory connoLaLlon LhaL Lhey mlghL have for you, based on your own experlence and culLural ldenLlLy.
lL ls lmporLanL Lo sLaLe emphaLlcally LhaL our purpose ln provldlng you wlLh Lhls llsL of Lhe mosL lmporLanL Amerlcan values ls noL Lo converL you, Lhe forelgn vlslLor, Lo our values. We couldn'L achleve LhaL goal even lf we wanLed Lo, and we don'L wanL Lo. We slmply wanL Lo help you undersLand Lhe Amerlcans wlLh whom you wlll be relaLlng- from Lhelr own value sysLem raLher LhaL from yours.
L. 8oberL kohls, LxecuLlve ulrecLor 1he WashlngLon lnLernaLlonal CenLer WashlngLon, u.C. Aprll 1984
1. LkSCNAL CCN1kCL CVLk 1nL LNVIkCNMLN1 Amerlcans no longer belleve ln Lhe power of laLe, and Lhey have come Lo look aL people who do as belng backward, prlmlLlve, or hopelessly naive. 1o be call "faLallsLlc" ls one of Lhe worsL crlLlclsms one can recelve ln Lhe Amerlcan conLexL, Lo an Amerlcan, lL means one ls supersLlLlous and lazy, unwllllng Lo Lake any lnlLlaLlve ln brlnglng abouL lmprovemenL.
ln Lhe unlLed SLaLes, people conslder lL normal and rlghL LhaL Man should conLrol naLure, raLher Lhan Lhe oLher way around. More speclflcally, people belleve every slngle lndlvldual should have conLrol over whaLever ln Lhe envlronmenL mlghL poLenLlally affecL hlm or her. 1he problems of one's llfe are noL seen as havlng resulLed from bad luck as much as havlng come from one's lazlness ln pursulng a beLLer llfe. lurLhermore, lL ls consldered normal LhaL anyone should look ouL for hls or her own self-lnLeresLs flrsL and foremosL.
MosL Amerlcans flnd lL lmposslble Lo accepL LhaL Lhere are some Lhlngs LhaL lle beyond Lhe power of humans Lo achleve. And Amerlcans have llLerally gone Lo Lhe moon, because Lhey refused Lo accepL earLhly llmlLaLlons.
Amerlcans seem Lo be challenged, even compelled, Lo do, by one means or anoLher (and ofLen aL greaL cosL) whaL seven-elghLhs of Lhe world ls cerLaln cannoL be done.
1he values Amerlcans Llve 8y L. 8oberL kohls, LxecuLlve ulrecLor 1he WashlngLon lnLernaLlonal CenLer age 3 of 11 2. CnANGL ln Lhe Amerlcan mlnd, change ls seen as an lndlspuLably good condlLlon. Change ls sLrongly llnked Lo developmenL, lmprovemenL, progress, and growLh. Many older, more LradlLlonal culLures conslder change as a dlsrupLlve, desLrucLlve force, Lo be avolded lf aL all posslble. lnsLead of change, such socleLles value sLablllLy, conLlnulLy, LradlLlon, and a rlch and anclenL herlLage-none of whlch are valued very much ln Lhe unlLed SLaLes.
1hese flrsL Lwo values-Lhe bellef LhaL we can do anyLhlng and Lhe bellef LhaL any change ls good-LogeLher wlLh an Amerlcan bellef ln Lhe vlrLue of hard work and Lhe bellef LhaL each lndlvldual has a responslblllLy Lo do Lhe besL he or she can do have helped Amerlcans achleve some greaL accompllshmenLs. So wheLher Lhese bellefs are Lrue ls really lrrelevanL, whaL ls lmporLanL ls LhaL Amerlcans have consldered Lhem Lo be Lrue and have acLed as lf Lhey were, Lhus, ln effecL, causlng Lhem Lo happen.
3. 1IML AND I1S CCN1kCL 1lme ls, for Lhe average Amerlcan, of uLmosL lmporLance. 1o Lhe forelgn vlslLor, Amerlcans seem Lo be more concerned wlLh geLLlng Lhlngs accompllshed on Llme (accordlng Lo a predeLermlned schedule) Lhan Lhey are wlLh developlng deep lnLerpersonal relaLlons. Schedules, for Lhe Amerlcan, are meanL Lo be planned and Lhen followed ln Lhe smallesL deLall.
lL may seem Lo you LhaL mosL Amerlcans are compleLely conLrolled by Lhe llLLle machlnes Lhey wear on Lhelr wrlsLs, cuLLlng Lhelr dlscusslons off abrupLly Lo make lL Lo Lhelr nexL appolnLmenL on Llme.
Amerlcans' language ls fllled wlLh references Lo Llme, glvlng a clear lndlcaLlon of how much lL ls valued. 1lme ls someLhlng Lo be "on," Lo be "kepL," "fllled," "saved," "used," "spenL," "wasLed," "losL," "galned," "planned," "glven," "made Lhe mosL of," even "kllled."
1he lnLernaLlonal vlslLor soon learns LhaL lL ls consldered very rude Lo be laLe-even by 10 mlnuLes-for an appolnLmenL ln Lhe unlLed SLaLes. (Whenever lL ls absoluLely lmposslble Lo be on Llme, you should phone ahead and Lell Lhe person you have been unavoldably deLalned and wlll be a half hour-or whaLever-laLe.)
1lme ls so valued ln Amerlca, because by conslderlng Llme Lo be lmporLanL one can clearly accompllsh more LhaL lf one "wasLes" Llme and does noL keep busy. 1hls phllosophy has proven lLs worLh. lL has enabled Amerlcans Lo be exLremely producLlve, and producLlvlLy lLself ls hlghly valued ln Lhe unlLed SLaLes. Many Amerlcan proverbs sLress Lhe value ln guardlng our Llme, uslng lL wlsely, seLLlng and worklng Loward speclflc goals, and even expendlng our Llme and energy Loday so LhaL Lhe frulLs of our labor may be en[oyed aL a laLer Llme. (1hls laLLer concepL ls called "delayed graLlflcaLlon.")
1he values Amerlcans Llve 8y L. 8oberL kohls, LxecuLlve ulrecLor 1he WashlngLon lnLernaLlonal CenLer age 4 of 11 4. LUALI1]LGALI1AkIANISM LquallLy ls, for Amerlcans, one of Lhelr mosL cherlshed values. 1hls concepL ls so lmporLanL for Amerlcans LhaL Lhey have even glven lL a rellglous basls. 1hey say all people have been "creaLed equal." MosL Amerlcans belleve LhaL Cod vlews all humans allke wlLhouL regard Lo lnLelllgence, physlcal condlLlon or economlc sLaLus. ln secular Lerms Lhls bellef ls LranslaLed lnLo Lhe asserLlon LhaL all people have an equal opporLunlLy Lo succeed ln llfe. Amerlcans dlffer ln oplnlon abouL how Lo make Lhls ldeal lnLo a reallLy. ?eL vlrLually all agree LhaL equallLy ls an lmporLanL clvlc and soclal goal.
1he equallLy concepL ofLen makes Amerlcans seem sLrange Lo forelgn vlslLors. Seven- elghLhs of Lhe world feels qulLe dlfferenLly. 1o Lhem, rank and sLaLus and auLhorlLy are seen as much more deslrable conslderaLlons-even lf Lhey personally happen Lo flnd Lhemselves near Lhe boLLom of Lhe soclal order. Class and auLhorlLy seem Lo glve people ln Lhose oLher socleLles a sense of securlLy and cerLalnLy. eople ouLslde Lhe unlLed SLaLes conslder lL reassurlng Lo know, from blrLh, who Lhey are and where Lhey flL lnLo Lhe complex sysLem called "socleLy".
Many hlghly-placed forelgn vlslLors Lo Lhe unlLed SLaLes are lnsulLed by Lhe way Lhey are LreaLed by servlce personnel (such as walLers ln resLauranLs, clerks ln sLores, Laxl drlvers, eLc.). Amerlcans have an averslon Lo LreaLlng people of hlgh poslLlon ln a deferenLlal manner, and, conversely ofLen LreaL lower class people as lf Lhey were very lmporLanL. newcomers Lo Lhe unlLed SLaLes should reallze LhaL no lnsulL or personal lndlgnlLy ls lnLended by Lhls lack of deference Lo rank or poslLlon ln socleLy. A forelgner should be prepared Lo be consldered "[usL llke anybody else" whlle ln Lhe counLry.
S. INDIVIDUAL AND kIVAC 1he lndlvlduallsm LhaL has been developed ln Lhe WesLern world slnce Lhe 8enalssance, beglnnlng ln Lhe laLe 13Lh cenLury, has Laken lLs mosL exaggeraLed form ln 20Lh cenLury unlLed SLaLes. Pere, each lndlvldual ls seen as compleLely and marvelously unlque, LhaL ls, LoLally dlfferenL from all oLher lndlvlduals and, Lherefore, parLlcularly preclous and wonderful.
Amerlcans Lhlnk Lhey are more lndlvlduallsL ln Lhelr LhoughLs and acLlons Lhan, ln facL, Lhey are. 1hey reslsL belng LhoughL of as represenLaLlves of a homogenous group, whaLever Lhe group. 1hey may, and do, [oln groups-ln facL many groups-buL somehow belleve Lhey're [usL a llLLle dlfferenL, [usL a llLLle unlque, [usL a llLLle speclal, from oLher members of Lhe same group. And Lhey Lend Lo leave groups as easlly as Lhey enLer Lhem.
rlvacy, Lhe ulLlmaLe resulL of lndlvlduallsm ls perhaps even more dlfflculL for Lhe forelgner Lo comprehend. 1he word "prlvacy" does noL even exlsL ln many languages. lf lL does, lL ls llkely Lo have a sLrongly negaLlve connoLaLlon, suggesLlng lonellness or lsolaLlon from Lhe group. ln Lhe unlLed SLaLes, prlvacy ls noL only seen as a very poslLlve
1he values Amerlcans Llve 8y L. 8oberL kohls, LxecuLlve ulrecLor 1he WashlngLon lnLernaLlonal CenLer age 3 of 11 condlLlon, buL lL ls also vlewed as a requlremenL LhaL all humans would flnd equally necessary, deslrable and saLlsfylng. lL ls noL uncommon for Amerlcans Lo say-and belleve-such sLaLemenLs as "lf l don'L have aL leasL half an hour a day Lo myself, l wlll go sLark ravlng mad."
lndlvlduallsm, as lL exlsLs ln Lhe unlLed SLaLes, does mean LhaL you wlll flnd a much greaLer varleLy of oplnlons (along wlLh Lhe absoluLe freedom Lo express Lhem anywhere and anyLlme) here. ?eL, ln splLe of Lhls wlde range of personal oplnlon, almosL all Amerlcans wlll ulLlmaLely voLe for one of Lhe Lwo ma[or pollLlcal parLles. 1haL ls whaL was meanL by Lhe sLaLemenL made earller LhaL Amerlcans Lake prlde ln credlLlng Lhemselves wlLh clalmlng more lndlvlduallsm Lhan, ln facL, Lhey really have.
6. SLLI-nLL CCN1kCL ln Lhe unlLed SLaLes, a person can Lake credlL only for whaL he or she has accompllshed by hlmself or herself. Amerlcans geL no credlL whaLsoever for havlng been born lnLo a rlch famlly. (ln Lhe unlLed SLaLes, LhaL would be consldered "an accldenL of blrLh.") Amerlcans prlde Lhemselves ln havlng been born poor and, Lhrough Lhelr own sacrlflce and hard work, havlng cllmbed Lhe dlfflculL ladder of success Lo whaLever level Lhey have achleved-all by Lhemselves. 1he Amerlcan soclal sysLem has, of course, made lL posslble for Amerlcans Lo move, relaLlvely easlly, up Lhe soclal ladder.
1ake a look ln an Lngllsh-language dlcLlonary aL Lhe composlLe words LhaL have "self" as a preflx. ln Lhe average desk dlcLlonary, Lhere wlll be more Lhan 100 such words, words llke self-confldence, self-consclous, self-conLrol, self-crlLlclsm, self-decepLlon, self- defeaLlng, self-denlal, self-dlsclpllne, self-esLeem, self-expresslon, self-lmporLance, self- lmprovemenL, self-lnLeresL, self-rellance, self-respecL, self-resLralnL, self-sacrlflce-Lhe llsL goes on and on. 1he equlvalenL of Lhese words cannoL be found ln mosL oLher languages. 1he llsL ls perhaps Lhe besL lndlcaLlon of how serlously Amerlcans Lake dolng Lhlngs for one's self. 1he "self-made man or women" ls sLlll very much Lhe ldeal ln 20Lh- cenLury Amerlca.
7. CCML1I1ICN AND IkLL LN1LkkISL Amerlcans belleve LhaL compeLlLlon brlngs ouL Lhe besL ln any lndlvldual. 1hey asserL LhaL lL challenges or forces each person Lo produce Lhe very besL LhaL ls humanly posslble. ConsequenLly, Lhe forelgn vlslLor wlll see compeLlLlon belng fosLered ln Lhe Amerlcan home and ln Lhe Amerlcan classroom, even on Lhe youngesL age level. very young chlldren, for lnsLance, are encouraged Lo answer quesLlons for whlch Lhelr classmaLes do noL know Lhe answer.
?ou may flnd Lhe compeLlLlve value dlsagreeable, especlally lf you come from a socleLy LhaL promoLes cooperaLlon raLher Lhan compeLlLlon. 8uL many u.S. eace Corps volunLeers Leachlng ln 1hlrd World counLrles found Lhe lack of compeLlLlveness ln a classroom slLuaLlon equally dlsLresslng. 1hey soon learned LhaL whaL Lhey LhoughL Lo be
1he values Amerlcans Llve 8y L. 8oberL kohls, LxecuLlve ulrecLor 1he WashlngLon lnLernaLlonal CenLer age 6 of 11 one of Lhe unlversal human characLerlsLlcs represenLed only a pecullarly Amerlcan (or WesLern) value.
Amerlcans, valulng compeLlLlon, have devlsed an economlc sysLem Lo go wlLh lL-free enLerprlse. Amerlcans feel sLrongly LhaL a hlghly compeLlLlve economy wlll brlng ouL Lhe besL ln lLs people and, ulLlmaLely, LhaL Lhe socleLy LhaL fosLers compeLlLlon wlll progress mosL rapldly. lf you look for lL, you wlll see evldence ln all areas-even ln flelds as dlverse as medlclne, Lhe arLs, educaLlon, and sporLs-LhaL free enLerprlse ls Lhe approach mosL ofLen preferred ln Amerlca.
8. IU1UkL CkILN1A1ICN valulng Lhe fuLure and Lhe lmprovemenLs Amerlcans are sure Lhe fuLure wlll brlng means LhaL Lhey devalue LhaL pasL and are, Lo a large exLenL, unconsclous of Lhe presenL. Lven a happy presenL goes largely unnoLlced because, happy as lL may be, Amerlcans have LradlLlonally been hopeful LhaL Lhe fuLure would brlng even greaLer happlness. AlmosL all energy ls dlrecLed Loward reallzlng LhaL beLLer fuLure. AL besL, Lhe presenL condlLlon ls seen as preparaLory Lo a laLLer and greaLer evenL, whlch wlll evenLually culmlnaLe ln someLhlng even more worLhwhlle.
Slnce Amerlcans have been LaughL (ln value 1) Lo belleve LhaL Man, and noL laLe, can and should be Lhe one who conLrols Lhe envlronmenL, Lhls has made Lhem very good aL plannlng and execuLlng shorL-Lerm pro[ecLs. 1hls ablllLy, ln Lurn, has caused Amerlcans Lo be lnvlLed Lo all corners of Lhe earLh Lo plan and achleve Lhe mlracles LhaL Lhelr goal- seLLlng can produce.
lf you come from a culLure such as Lhose ln Lhe LradlLlonal Moslem world, where Lalklng abouL or acLlvely plannlng Lhe fuLure ls felL Lo be a fuLlle, even slnful, acLlvlLy, you wlll have noL only phllosophlcal problems wlLh Lhls very Amerlcan characLerlsLlc buL rellglous ob[ecLlons as well. ?eL lL ls someLhlng you wlll have Lo learn Lo llve wlLh, for all around you Amerlcans wlll be looklng Loward Lhe fuLure and whaL lL wlll brlng.
9. AC1ICN]WCkk CkILN1A1ICN "uon'L [usL sLand Lhere," goes a Lyplcal blL of Amerlcan advlce, "do someLhlng!" 1hls expresslon ls normally used ln a crlsls slLuaLlon, yeL, ln a sense, lL descrlbes mosL Amerlcan's enLlre waklng llfe, where acLlon-any acLlon-ls seen Lo be superlor Lo lnacLlon.
Amerlcans rouLlnely plan and schedule an exLremely acLlve day. Any relaxaLlon musL be llmlLed ln Llme, pre-planned, and almed aL "recreaLlng" Lhelr ablllLy Lo work harder and more producLlvely once Lhe recreaLlon ls over. Amerlcans belleve lelsure acLlvlLles should assume a relaLlvely small porLlon of one's LoLal llfe. eople Lhlnk LhaL lL ls "slnful" Lo "wasLe one's Llme," "Lo slL around dolng noLhlng," or [usL Lo "daydream."
1he values Amerlcans Llve 8y L. 8oberL kohls, LxecuLlve ulrecLor 1he WashlngLon lnLernaLlonal CenLer age 7 of 11 Such a "no nonsense" aLLlLude Loward llfe has creaLed many people who have come Lo be known as "workahollcs," or people who are addlcLed Lo Lhelr work, who Lhlnk consLanLly abouL Lhelr [obs and who are frusLraLed lf Lhey are kepL away from Lhem, even durlng Lhelr evenlng hours and weekends.
1he workahollc syndrome, ln Lurn, causes Amerlcans Lo ldenLlfy Lhemselves wholly wlLh Lhelr professlons. 1he flrsL quesLlon one Amerlcan wlll ask anoLher Amerlcan when meeLlng for Lhe flrsL Llme ls relaLed Lo hls or her work: "Where do you work?" or "Who (whaL company) are you wlLh?"
And when such a person flnally goes on vacaLlon, even Lhe vacaLlon wlll be carefully planned, very busy and acLlve.
Amerlca may be one of Lhe few counLrles ln Lhe world where lL seems reasonable Lo speak abouL Lhe "dlgnlLy of human labor," meanlng by LhaL, hard, physlcal labor. ln Amerlca, even corporaLlon presldenLs wlll engage ln physlcal labor from Llme Lo Llme and galn, raLher Lhan lose, respecL from oLhers for such acLlon.
10. INICkMALI1 lf you come from a more formal socleLy, you wlll llkely flnd Amerlcans Lo be exLremely lnformal, and wlll probably feel LhaL Lhey are even dlsrespecLful of Lhose ln auLhorlLy. Amerlcans are one of Lhe mosL lnformal and casual people ln Lhe world, even when compared Lo Lhelr near relaLlve-Lhe WesLern Luropean.
As one example of Lhls lnformallLy, Amerlcan bosses ofLen urge Lhelr employees Lo call Lhem by Lhelr flrsL names and even feel uncomforLable lf Lhey are called by Lhe LlLle "Mr." or "Mrs." xxx uress ls anoLher area where Amerlcan lnformallLy wlll be mosL noLlceable, perhaps even shocklng. Cne can go Lo a symphony performance, for example, ln any large Amerlcan clLy nowadays and flnd some people ln Lhe audlence dressed ln blue [eans and Lleless, shorL-sleeved shlrLs.
lnformallLy ls also apparenL ln Amerlcan's greeLlngs. 1he more formal "Pow are you?" has largely been replaced wlLh an lnformal "Pl." 1hls ls as llkely Lo be used Lo one's superlor as Lo one's besL frlend.
lf you are a hlghly placed offlclal ln your own counLry, you wlll probably, aL flrsL, flnd such lnformallLy Lo be very unseLLllng. Amerlcan, on Lhe oLher hand, would conslder such lnformallLy as a compllmenL! CerLalnly lL ls noL lnLended as an lnsulL and should noL be Laken as such. 11. DIkLC1NLSS, CLNNLSS AND nCNLS1 Many oLher counLrles have developed subLle, someLlmes hlghly rlLuallsLlc, ways of
1he values Amerlcans Llve 8y L. 8oberL kohls, LxecuLlve ulrecLor 1he WashlngLon lnLernaLlonal CenLer age 8 of 11 lnformlng oLher people of unpleasanL lnformaLlon. Amerlcans, however, have always preferred Lhe flrsL approach. 1hey are llkely Lo be compleLely honesL ln dellverlng Lhelr negaLlve evaluaLlons. lf you come from a socleLy LhaL uses Lhe lndlrecL manner of conveylng bad news or uncompllmenLary evaluaLlons, you wlll be shocked aL Amerlcans' blunLness.
lf you come from a counLry where savlng face ls lmporLanL, be assured LhaL Amerlcans are noL Lrylng Lo make you lose face wlLh Lhelr dlrecLness. lL ls lmporLanL Lo reallze LhaL an Amerlcan would noL, ln such case, lose face. 1he burden of ad[usLmenL, ln all cases whlle you are ln Lhls counLry, wlll be on you. 1here ls no way Lo sofLen Lhe blow of such dlrecLness and openness lf you are noL used Lo lL excepL Lo Lell you LhaL Lhe rules have changed whlle you are here. lndeed, Amerlcans are Lrylng Lo urge Lhelr fellow counLrymen Lo become even more open and dlrecL. 1he large number of "asserLlveness" Lralnlng courses LhaL appeared ln Lhe unlLed SLaLes ln Lhe laLe 1970s reflecLs such a commlLmenL.
Amerlcans conslder anyLhlng oLher Lhan Lhe mosL dlrecL and open approach Lo be dlshonesL and lnslncere and wlll qulckly lose confldence ln and dlsLrusL anyone who hlnLs aL whaL ls lnLended raLher Lhan saylng lL ouLrlghL.
Anyone who, ln Lhe unlLed SLaLes, chooses Lo use an lnLermedlary Lo dellver LhaL message wlll also be consldered manlpulaLlve and unLrusLworLhy.
12. kAC1ICALI1 AND LIIICILNC Amerlcans have a repuLaLlon of belng an exLremely reallsLlc, pracLlcal and efflclenL people. 1he pracLlcal conslderaLlon ls llkely Lo be glven hlghesL prlorlLy ln maklng any lmporLanL declslon ln Lhe unlLed SLaLes. Amerlcans prlde Lhemselves ln noL belng very phllosophlcally or LheoreLlcally orlenLed. lf Amerlcans would even admlL Lo havlng a phllosophy, lL would probably be LhaL of pragmaLlsm.
Wlll lL make any money? Wlll lL "pay lLs own way?" WhaL can l galn from Lhls acLlvlLy? 1hese are Lhe klnds of quesLlons LhaL Amerlcans are llkely Lo ask ln Lhelr pracLlcal pursulL, noL such quesLlons as: ls lL aesLheLlcally pleaslng? Wlll lL be en[oyable? or Wlll lL advance Lhe cause of knowledge?
1hls pracLlcal, pragmaLlc orlenLaLlon has caused Amerlcans Lo conLrlbuLe more lnvenLlons Lo Lhe world Lhan any oLher counLry ln human hlsLory. 1he love of "pracLlcallLy" has also caused Amerlcans Lo vlew some professlons more favorably Lhan oLhers. ManagemenL and economlcs, for example, are much more popular ln Lhe unlLed SLaLes Lhan phllosophy or anLhropology, law and medlclne more valued Lhan Lhe arLs.
AnoLher way ln whlch Lhls favorlng of Lhe pracLlcal makes lLself felL ln Lhe unlLed SLaLes, ls a bellLLllng of "emoLlonal" and "sub[ecLlve" evaluaLlons ln favor of "raLlonal" and
1he values Amerlcans Llve 8y L. 8oberL kohls, LxecuLlve ulrecLor 1he WashlngLon lnLernaLlonal CenLer age 9 of 11 "ob[ecLlve" assessmenLs. Amerlcans Lry Lo avold belng Loo senLlmenLal ln maklng Lhelr declslons. 1hey [udge every slLuaLlon "on lLs merlLs." 1he popular Amerlcan "Lrall-and- error" approach Lo problem solvlng also reflecLs Lhe pracLlcal. 1he approach suggesLs llsLlng several posslble soluLlons Lo any glven problem, Lhen Lrylng Lhem ouL, one-by- one, Lo see whlch ls mosL effecLlve.
13. MA1LkIALISM]ACUISI1IVLNLSS lorelgners generally conslder Amerlcans much more maLerlallsLlc Lhan Amerlcans are llkely Lo conslder Lhemselves. Amerlcans would llke Lo Lhlnk LhaL Lhelr maLerlal ob[ecLs are [usL Lhe naLural beneflLs LhaL always resulL from hard work and serlous lnLenL-a reward, Lhey Lhlnk, LhaL all people could en[oy were Lhey as lndusLrlous and hard- worklng as Amerlcans.
8uL by any sLandard, Amerlcans are maLerlallsLlc. 1hls means LhaL Lhey value and collecL more maLerlal ob[ecLs Lhan mosL people would ever dream of ownlng. lL also means Lhey glve hlgher prlorlLy Lo obLalnlng, malnLalnlng and proLecLlng Lhelr maLerlal ob[ecLs Lhan Lhey do ln developlng and en[oylng lnLerpersonal relaLlonshlps.
1he modern Amerlcan Lyplcally owns: one or more color Lelevlslon seLs, an elecLrlc halr dryer, an elecLronlc calculaLor, a Lape recorder and a record player, a cloLhes-washer and dryer, a vacuum cleaner, a powered lawn mower (for cuLLlng grass), a refrlgeraLor, a sLove, and a dlshwasher, one or more auLomoblles, and a Lelephone. Many also own a personal compuLer.
Slnce Amerlcans value newness and lnnovaLlon, Lhey sell or Lhrow away Lhelr possesslons frequenLly and replace Lhem wlLh newer ones. A car may be kepL for only Lwo or Lhree years, a house for flve or slx before Lradlng lL ln for anoLher one.
1he values Amerlcans Llve 8y L. 8oberL kohls, LxecuLlve ulrecLor 1he WashlngLon lnLernaLlonal CenLer age 10 of 11
SUMMAk now LhaL we have dlscussed each of Lhese 13 values separaLely, lf all Loo brlefly, leL us look aL Lhem ln llsL form (on Lhe lefL) and Lhen conslder Lhem palred wlLh Lhe counLerparL values from a more LradlLlonal counLry (on Lhe rlghL):
U.S. Va|ues Some Cther Countr|es' Va|ues ersonal ConLrol over Lhe LnvlronmenL Change 1lme & lLs ConLrol LquallLy lndlvlduallsm/rlvacy Self-Pelp CompeLlLlon luLure CrlenLaLlon AcLlon/Work CrlenLaLlon lnformallLy ulrecLness/Cpenness/PonesLy racLlcallLy/Lfflclency MaLerlallsm/AcqulslLlveness laLe 1radlLlon Puman lnLeracLlon Plerarchy/8ank/SLaLus Croup's Welfare 8lrLhrlghL lnherlLance CooperaLlon asL CrlenLaLlon "8elng" CrlenLaLlon lormallLy lndlrecLness/8lLual/"lace" ldeallsm SplrlLuallsm/ueLachmenL
ALICA1ICN 8efore leavlng Lhls dlscusslon of Lhe values Amerlcans llve by, conslder how knowledge of Lhese values explalns many Lhlngs abouL Amerlcans.
Cne can, for example, see Amerlca's lmpresslve record of sclenLlflc and Lechnologlcal achlevemenL as a naLural resulL of Lhese 13 values.
llrsL of all, lL was necessary Lo belleve (1) Lhese Lhlngs could be achleved, LhaL Man does noL have Lo slmply slL and walL for laLe Lo besLow Lhem or noL Lo besLow Lhem, and LhaL Man does have conLrol over hls own envlronmenL, lf he ls wllllng Lo Lake lL. CLher values LhaL have conLrlbuLed Lo Lhls record of achlevemenL lnclude (2) an expecLaLlon of poslLlve resulLs Lo come from change (and Lhe accepLance of an ever-fasLer raLe of change as "normal"), (3) Lhe necesslLy Lo schedule and plan ones' Llme, (6) Lhe self-help concepL, (7) compeLlLlon, (8) fuLure orlenLaLlon, (9) acLlon work orlenLaLlon, (12) pracLlcallLy, and (13) maLerlallsm.
?ou can do Lhe same sorL of exerclse as you conslder oLher aspecLs of Amerlcan socleLy and analyze Lhem Lo see whlch of Lhe 13 values descrlbed here apply. 8y uslng Lhls approach you wlll soon begln Lo undersLand Amerlcans and Lhelr
1he values Amerlcans Llve 8y L. 8oberL kohls, LxecuLlve ulrecLor 1he WashlngLon lnLernaLlonal CenLer age 11 of 11 acLlons. And as you come Lo undersLand Lhem, Lhey wlll seem less "sLrange" Lhan Lhey dld aL flrsL.