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What The Tweet - Face Time
What The Tweet - Face Time
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By NIKI CHEONG
alltherage@thestar.com.my
social, it was
also pretty flat
text, photos and
videos.
Now, with video
chatting, social media can
move forward and Google+
seems to be leading the way in
bringing together the best of how
weve been doing things for the
past two decades.
I have little doubt whether video
chats is the future of social networking.
The only thing, really, is if were ready for it.
That remains to be seen.
Four-year dilemma
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we have all the right answers, but RUSYAN SOPIAN and LIM SU ANN
will lend their ears, dig deep into their life experiences (ahem!) and
offer up their perspectives.
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everything).
Do long-distance relationships
last? Will my feelings fade in the
next four years?
Im scared of taking the wrong
step and regretting it after because I
really like him. Unsure
Rusyan
Relationships take time to mature
and develop. Initial feelings are
intense when you first meet someone, but dont get carried away.
Its even more important to stay
grounded if youve never met someone face to face.
Even though youve known D for
months now, it takes much more
to actually know someone. Online
chatting allows you to communicate
but only real experience allow you
to know D how he speaks to you,
how he reacts during difficult times,
how he will act in a specific situation, and so forth.
Facebook wont reveal much
Su Ann
It looks like there are several
issues at hand here: the long distance, his busy schedule, the age
gap, the fact that he isnt looking for
a relationship, and the fact that he
didnt meet your confession with an
acceptance.
These are a lot of setbacks to
a potential relationship and so
before you ask yourself the question of whether the relationship will
last, you should ask yourself if it is
a relationship worth getting into in
the first place.
While it is admirable to devote
ourselves to a cause, four years is a
very long time to be waiting for an
unknown possibility. The problem
with devoting ourselves to someone
prematurely is that we often close
our hearts off to many great people.
We then miss a lot of the right people who are in our lives at the right
time.
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