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Love Theories
Love Theories
other person. The next type is Pragma. With this style, its all about helping each other out in
achieving some sort of common goal. Mania is the romantic style of love. Its mainly feeling
special to one another and making sure the other knows theyre special through emotions. The
final love style Lee came up with is Agape. This style is basically doing everything possible to
put the other person first. Its a selfless love style.
The final theory up for comparison is Reisss Wheel Theory of Love. This theory
basically states the four stages of love and how love develops. The first stage is rapport. This is
the stage based on respect and mutual trust. Next is self-revelation which is when intimate
information is shared with the other person. After that would be the mutual dependency which is
basically, as the title states, developing dependence on one another. Last is the personality need
fulfillment. Thats pretty much the development of emotional support for each other.
The theory I would have to agree most with is the triangle theory. It makes sense that a
solid relationship would have to have each of the three components in order to be maintained and
of quality. A relationship without any one of those would be seriously lacking the overall
fullness. Commitment is necessary in order to stay together. Intimacy is what gets the
relationship together while passion keeps it strong, and commitment makes it last.