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Mentor Guide Role of Husband: 'Žžěŵğŷƚžƌɛ Good Mentors Avoid
Mentor Guide Role of Husband: 'Žžěŵğŷƚžƌɛ Good Mentors Avoid
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Good mentors avoid
Pray: simple and powerful
Fixing: this is a person, not a project
Preaching
Listen: people desire to feel heard
MARRIAGE
Feelings
of
isolation,
loneliness
Ask: good questions foster healthy conversation
Carrying: be concerned but not overburdened
Consider: think carefully and biblically
Blaming: no condemnation
Encourage: uplift rather than criticize
Rescuing
Scriptures
Online Helps
Hope:
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by Dennis Rainey
Joshua 24:15 (as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord)
Psalm 128 (blessed is the man who fears the Lord)
2 Timothy 2:15 (diligent workman, approved and unashamed)
Matthew 7:24-27 (wise man builds his house upon the Rock)
1 Samuel 16:7 (focus on the heart, not outward appearance)
Help:
Go Get Her
by Dennis Rainey
Conversation Starters
Rocking the Roles
by Robert Lewis & William Hendricks (Paperback Book)
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by James Walker (Paperback Book)
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by Stu Weber (Paperback Book)
Men often joke about this assignment (I Peter 3:7): Who can
understand a woman? God has answered the question loud
and clear. You can. You can understand a woman. Husbands
can understand wives if they will take the time and energy to
focus on them as feminine persons who need their husbands
honor. (Stu Weber, &WD,p. 214)
,
to love and lead them in such a way that makes it easy for
ZPreparing for
Marriage, p. 172)
The husband who 'serves' his wife by continually yielding to
her desires or her wishes is in fact asking her to do his job for
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Christian Husband, p. 134)
t allow anything to divide
them, they become an impregnable force in the war on the
family. When emotional energies are not spent on fighting
one another, they can then be used constructively to build up
^&Point Man, p. 28)
A commitment to love our wives involves not only proactive,
self-sacrificing love, but also the responsibility of being an
agent of sanctification in our wives lives. The goal of our love
is to see our wives become more like Christ. (Bob Lepine, The
Christian Husband, p. 202)
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