How to Meet and Connect with Womenhow to be a pickup

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Forming Impressions of Personality

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Solomon Asch''s classic (1946) warm/cold
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the delayed excuse approach

Thats your safety

net

"Vous tes-vous ennuy de moi

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expressing

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timing

Forcing conversation

Give me the rock

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He lived a million adventures and

could relate them with flair

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unique

out-for-myself

Jerry Lewis

Union Square

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But that wouldnt be very

alpha, so I held it in.

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Women will often lay traps that play on our

egos.
I would wind up and go into
my routine

in a lose-lose proposition

my niece care of the Easter

Bunny.

remote seeing and cutting greenhouse emissions

she resigns herself that you are

different

-Only Woody Allen can make

that work

She coos and runs her hand over

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I had charmed her family, her coworkers and

the bums in front of her condo.

It is not intrinsically bad

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her suit and tie crowd

pork belies

So of course he had to feel her arm through her Ann Tailor

suit to make certain.)
(Ann Taylor)

punching into a clock

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sketchy bar flooze

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given the situation

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flaking out

jump your
bones

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her feet

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a win-win

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murkiness

pull my hair out

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Nana. Nah Nah

Nah Nah

hang

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an out-in-the-open sexual acting man

a presume-he-is-hiding-something platonic acting man

Dont say this

backwards, cause that wont make any sense.

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sketchy
sexy

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a woman's sexual expectations on your next date. As she sits down get a peak
at the top of her underwear. If you start building in a sexual vibe when you
meet her I bet you will start seeing more thongs than cottons
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Its why married men get hit on.

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the situation

come on to your girlfriend in the bedroom


As I had to learn
the hard way, sexual tension cannot be created in the car at the end of the
night. It has to happen way before then because sexual tension is as much
about barriers as it is about attraction.

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But my parents are there so it may be only the

fish that gets wet

trying to down play

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'stage presence'

increasing the signal to noise

ratio SNR[Signal to Noise Ratio]()
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being bold

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dominating anyone's reality

mind shift

Always seek to make your

success with women easy and not guaranteed.

Always in their wooden

heads thinking their wooden thoughts and rarely in the moment.

Taken on their own they

are nit picky

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Try to be for and not against things.

can
distract from our flaws with a little hipness.

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In general, if it looks
like it was a pain in the ass to make that is good.

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even give her cuts in line

demonstrating high value by not trying too hard

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laugh when she acts hurt

There are vampires everywhere

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gold digger

curl up with a girl from the club

we have
been on and off
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The stage is now set.

misplaced your helmet

Always go with the

teasing.Make fun of yourself
Enjoy the attention
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who are in their right minds

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Let the chips fall where they may.

making embarrassingly bad passes

just par for the course

remove your ego

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getting access

Tip well.
Whatever you have to do to
get in is worth it

relate
The secret here is just to relate.
relate,

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an approval-seeking performer role

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pull back

you do this on a high note

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What
can seem like magic coincidence is many times just putting enough of yourself
out there until something catches.

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I think about kicking ass.

You project a vibe

that you are really blown away all of a sudden.

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Share the
rock.
Share the rock
you two knock knuckles

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, its big down South

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ESPN

Wherever you go in this world you can

mimic people right to their face and they rarely catch on. They just think you
are a bit like them.
What
began as mockery has now turned into a rapport technique.


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It just comes with the territory.

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You pause.

captive audience
give them plenty of space to restart the conversation.

Put in some pauses on high points)

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You can mention an ex-girlfriend or

even that you just went on a date with a girl her age.


You bring up the
difference and neutralize it so it doesn't hang over your head.

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What's the point?

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Urban Outfitters
props

opinion openers

the
gatekeepers
(chat up).

I am looking for a stuffed crocodile

Everyone is out of them

(Right up there with flying
turtles)

Always agree

What's it like managing

this place

There
have been a lot of ups and downs but it's good

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Use this opportunity to sample clothes
that you should be wearing but are too conservative for... yet.

use your eyes to engage her

The important thing here is that she

thinks you really value her honesty, not that you do or not.

Until that day fake it

possible doggy hair stylist, possible boob job

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It's groovy
Give me the
rock.
taps knuckles

anchor yourself
The lower the better.Women
can have no idea you want to have an interaction

a statement of interest

sexual tension.

it is on. qiangjian

always agree
demonstrating a
persona who is far from approval seeking

start making out

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You take the time to relate your answer before you give it.
Relating

But always agree

Diamond

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Arrrrrrgentina


arrrrrrrchaeologist

Argyle Pirate Socks Argyle

Argentina archaeologist

two of a kind

monkey-minds

you are in

Is there any point in going on?

Geezy peezy."

fodder

Mr. noncommittal

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You're a shit
This girl is so yours
a stinker

gatekeepers
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feel romance vicariously through other people

feel romance vicariously through other people

: "the IRA pin

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strike the right
chords

corporate exploitation

a little flippalm out like

you are stopping a charging five year old

a sensual vibe

catch herself
renege
Match it or lose it

So what's your story

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have my mix

baby spinach

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what they think of you? Funny is right
in front of you if you slow down

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She breaks it down dwarf dance.

rap

party-stopping story

so
I can mack it up
toned

Ray Croc Jr

delivered flat)haven't
been laughing or having a good time.
(catching on)

letting her in on the

joke/flip back to

and when it was time for my big

singing number ...
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That narrows down your responses to

your own experiencelow level

Of
course there is more to it that is impossible to put into print but that is the
basics

are not hung up on proving how smart or coordinated or successful you are
You are tuned into the fact
that women don't care about any of that stuff

The show went on

: "With you in the front row?"
: "Actually I
landed in the orchestra pit with one leg, right in the tuba
What have you acted in?"
: "I have been in some commercials)"
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He was like getting his whole body to help birth a bay
horse
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go low level

: "Really warm. Like almost hot.

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Sometimes we
can be tempted to buy into the one-dimensional hot-woman illusion
but when you go a little
deeper many times there is something different

: "Gutter balls are people too"

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that is that.
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