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Straight Talk, April 2010
Straight Talk, April 2010
HIV basics: Good sex for HIV positives Dear youth, we have also
Good sex is after studies and when you been in that stage. Don’t let
can handle sex outcomes such as a baby. anyone abuse your body. If
Talk to your partner about your HIV status you are in school and want
and test together. If you are sexually to be a doctor, concentrate
active, use condoms to prevent HIV re- on that. Try to do everything
infection, unwanted pregnancies and in its right time. Wagalukka
STDs. Nuru Nabumba Benah, a teacher at Nyenga
More on good sex for HIV on pg 3 SS, Mukono.
Students of St Lucia
SS, Mpigi. Sometimes
girls are forced out
of school because of
bride price. Boys may o.4 April 2010
steal to raise bride Vol.16 N
price. This is not cool.
Pick the good things
about bride price and
avoid the bad things.
Can be a sign
of love, respect Bride price can
deny a woman dignity and
and seriousness safety in her marriage. She
can suffer lack of freedom to
Bride price is an old speak and make decisions.
tradition practised by many Asite Sunday, Maracha SS, from being of age and mature It can expose her to violence
communities across the world. In adds: “It is a token of appreciation in thinking, we are materially
Uganda bride price is known by and not a price tag.” able to support a family.
family." and leave her stuck in an
different names, such as “Enjugano”” abusive relationship.
or “omukaaga” in western Uganda, Buni Dission, S6, Wandi To Vivian Naigaga, Some parents force
“lim” in the north, “omutwalo” in Progressive Arua says: "Bride price S3, 15, Comprehensive their daughters to
central Uganda. The husband-to- is a way of testing the boy's ability to College Kitetikka,
be takes gifts such as cattle, goats, take care of the wife and eventually Wakiso, bride price creates marry early so that
cloths, local brew and money to children. In our community we are strong marriages. "It brings they can gain riches
the bride's family before marriage. proud to show our in-laws that apart a sense of accountability into from bride price. This
In response to a quiz in October's marriage, giving both families
Straight Talk, 98 of you wrote to us.
can deny girls the
a say in it."
We loved your letters. Here right to study or a free
we start with positive ones.
But watch out! choice of husband.
Boys also face
Napayo Caroline, Bride price can also
Iganga SS, says: “Bride back fire on young hardship as they
price is open recognition of men and woman. Read struggle to pay.
women as valuable members this Straight Talk and
Sometimes they
of society. It is the official stamp think seriously about
the marriage you want. miss marrying the
of marriage.”
girl they love, who
Jackie Midiya, S6, has been forced to
Cityland College, Wakiso, Namatende Zaina, S3,
marry an older often
says: “Bride price shows a Kakungulu HS, Wakiso, says:
woman’s value. In the Bible, “Bride price is outdated and turns girls polygamous man for
Adam had to be put to sleep into property. Some men abuse their wives bride price. Atuki
and a part of him used to physically or emotionally. They feel wives are Turner, Mifumi
create Eve. He somehow paid. purchased commodities; like cows or cars.”
Read more on page 2.
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Some religious leaders want men
Dear
to marry men and women marry
women so as to stop HIV/ AIDS,
but can this make people multiply?
Is this really God’s commandment?
STF
Adriko Dick, St Joseph’s College
Ombachi, Arua
Adriko, men and women can both
get HIV/AIDS by having sex with a
O. Boxx 22 36 6
P.P.O. Bo 22 36 6 man or woman. In fact, the risk is
A M P A L A
K KA M P A L A higher for men who have sex with
men and women who have sex with
women than for men who marry
Some people say that if you grow women. Also, multiplication cannot
pimples on the face you are ready to take place when a man marries a
have sex. Is this true? Namugenyi man or a woman marries a woman.
Harriet, 16, Sanje SS, Kabale To create children a man should
That is wrong. Pimples are one have sex with a woman. That is what
of changes your body gets during God intended. So it is against God’s
puberty. They are caused by commandment for a man to marry
hormones in your body. They don’t a man and a woman to marry a
mean you are ready for sex. They last woman.
only a few months or years, and then Students of Happy Hours SSS enjoy Straight Talk papers.
go away. Focus on your studies and Can you get Hepatitis B through
don’t listen to wrong advice. having sex with someone does not medicines must be given by a kissing? Akurut Joan, Dabani
prove love. For example, if you are health worker. Ask a health worker Girls SS, Busia
I have a girlfriend but each time raped it does not mean you are in to tell you more about them. But Yes, you can get Hepatitis B through
I meet her, she demands sex to love because you have had sex. If Felix, you are still studying. If you kissing. This is a virus that causes
prove my love for her. What does she really loves you, she will respect decide to have sex now, you have serious swelling of the liver. Other
she mean? Olwa Samuel, S.6, and listen to you. If she insists, then to remember the risks. Pregnancy ways you can get infected are having
Kyambogo College School, she is not good for you. is one of them. If you make a girl sex with an infected person and
Kampala pregnant, chances of finishing sharing sharp instruments such as
Love is tricky to understand. There When a girl swallows tablets and school will reduce. You can even razors, toothbrushes or earrings.
are times we fall in love and feel plays sex, is it true that she can’t get be arrested or get HIV/STDs. Think
like having sex. This is all natural pregnant? If yes, which tablets are about the outcomes of sex carefully. Counsellor: Dr Paul Semugoma,
and normal. But we have to be in those? Okello Tony Felix, Apac SS International Hospital, Kampala
charge of our lives. Sex has serious I am afraid it is not as simple as just
outcomes such as pregnancy or drinking water. There are special
getting HIV/STDs. You can be
arrested for making someones
medicines called contraceptives,
or family planning pills which Know your body: the foreskin
daughter pregnant. Tell her that can prevent pregnancy. But these The head of the penis is called the glans. It is shaped like an oval bulb
and is a little larger than the shaft (tube shaped length of a penis).
The glans is covered by a piece of loose skin, which is removed during
circumcision. The skin that covers the glans is called the foreskin whose
o rn er : Sy p
are timeless. Good
Bride price brings pain
ful
too young when my sis memories. I was
ter was forced into S c ien c e c hilis manners mean respect,
care, and consideration
for oneself and others.
marriage by our father
. He arranged with the Syphilis is a sexually
boy's parents Being a good listener
to marry my transmitted bacterial infection. is better than speaking.
It is passed from person to
sister without Think before speaking.
person through sexual contact. You don’t need to have
her knowing. It can also be passed from an an opinion on everything.
Today my sister infected pregnant woman to If you are to speak,
is suffering her unborn child. choose your words wisely.
and the man Syphilis cannot be spread through Practice speaking to a
doesn't care. contact with toilet seats, doorknobs, mirror, it works! It also
She cannot swimming pools, basins, shared clothing or utensils. Syphilis increases confidence in
leave the man is treatable with antibiotics. If you have any unusual speaking.
discharge, sore, or rash, especially in the groin area, stop
because my having sex and seek health care urgently. Tell all sex partners
father already to seek care, too. Without treatment, syphilis moves through
'ate' the money
and the goats.
the body in stages, damaging many organs over time.
Infected persons are highly infectious during the early stages. QyoU IZ:
She struggles To prevent syphilis: Have u or a friend
en,
on her own to • Do not have sex with persons who have genital sores; ever been beat bul-
en ,
ed
• Use condoms with new sex partners; abused, threat
look after the children. or defiled?
If • If you think you are infected, avoid sex. Get treatment from lied, raped
forced into early marria my sister was not a health worker with your partner Tell us yo ur st ories.
ge, she would not be ht
be suffering and tied to • All pregnant women should have a blood test for syphilis. Write to Straig
th
Ocako Robert, Ojigo SS is man. 36 6,
Dr Oundo Abanga, Bugiri Hospital Talk Box 22
, Nebbi Kampala
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