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Understanding BPD 2012 PDF
Understanding BPD 2012 PDF
understanding
borderline personality
disorder
Contents
What is borderline personality disorder?
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Useful contacts
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booklet you feel you may have BPD, you may want to talk to someone
who is medically qualified be very wary of making a self-diagnosis.
I have BPD and for me it feels like [I'm] a child being forced
to live in an adult world. I feel too fragile and vulnerable for the
world I live in.
Many people with BPD experience a deep sense of emptiness.
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Arts therapies
Arts therapies are sometimes offered if you experience BPD. They include
art, dance movement, drama and music therapies. These therapies can
help you express your thoughts and feelings if you cant immediately
put them into words. Therapy is normally weekly, in small groups or
individually. (See Mind's online booklet Making sense of arts therapies.)
Complementary and alternative therapies
You may find therapies such as massage, reflexology, aromatherapy
and healing useful as part of your coping strategy. Although they are all
available privately, some can be accessed through the voluntary sector,
including some local Minds. Also see the Institute for Complementary
Medicine under Useful contacts on p. 18.
Crisis houses
In some areas there are crisis houses which may be run by social services
or voluntary organisations and are free if you are offered a place. They
usually take referrals from other services or allow you to refer yourself.
Crisis houses do not admit people who are subject to the Mental Health Act.
A crisis house may have day services and beds for limited stays, plus
various types of therapy and support, practical help with welfare benefits,
housing issues, and training in life skills and problem solving. They link
closely with other local services.
There may also be an out-of-hours telephone helpline. (See The Mind
guide to crisis services).
Getting enough sleep can help you cope better with stress.
Reading something uplifting.
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cknowledging your emotions. Notice the emotion you are having,
and let yourself experience it as a wave, without trying to block it,
suppress it, or hold on to it. Try to accept the emotion for what it is.
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iding it out. Strong emotional reactions (and the urges to self
harm, binge or drink) usually last for a few minutes and then
begin to subside. Set a timer for 10 minutes and practice riding
out the emotion.
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warm bath or shower. Add some scented bath salts or candles
and allow the warm water and pleasant fragrances take you into a
different emotional space.
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rounding exercises. Sounds, sights, smells and sensations can help
you come back into the present, for instance: take a deep breath, and
then start to mentally list the things you see around you; listen to the
sounds you hear around you, how they rise and fall and change; take
hold of an ice cube and hold it in your hand until it starts to cause
mild discomfort; or snap a rubber band against your wrist.
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elping someone else. This can be as small a thing such as smiling at
the shop assistant at the supermarket checkout.
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eing prepared for a crisis: keeping handy a list of contact details of
people or organisations you trust can be really useful in a crisis.
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Useful contacts
Association for Cognitive Analytic
Therapy (CAT)
web: acat.me.uk
Has a directory of accredited CAT
practitioners.
Emergence
web: emergenceplus.org.uk
Support, advice and education for
those affected by personality
disorders.
BPD World
web: bpdworld.org
Information and support to people
with BPD, their families, friends and
carers.
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tel. 0800 776 600
web: ndh.org.uk
Free 24-hour national drugs helpline.
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Useful contacts
Samaritans
Chris, PO Box 9090, Stirling FK8 2SA
helpline: 08457 90 90 90
email: jo@samaritans
web: samaritans.org
A 24-hour emergency helpline for
anyone in distress.
Further information
To read or print Mind's information booklets for free, visit mind.org.uk
or contact Mind infoline on 0300 123 3393 or at info@mind.org.uk
To buy copies of Mind's information booklets, visit mind.org.uk
phone 0844 448 4448 or email publications@mind.org.uk
This booklet was written by Inger Hatloy
(based on original work by Jan Wallcraft)
Published by Mind 2012 Mind 2012
To be revised in 2014
ISBN 978-1-906759-45-2
No reproduction without permission
Mind is a registered charity No. 219830
Mind
(National Association for Mental Health)
15-19 Broadway
London E15 4BQ
tel. 020 8519 2122
fax: 020 8522 1725
web: mind.org.uk
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Mind
e're Mind, the mental health charity for
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England and Wales. We believe no one should
have to face a mental health problem alone.
We're here for you. Today. Now. We're on your
doorstep, on the end of a phone or online.
Whether you're stressed, depressed or in crisis.
We'll listen, give you advice, support and fight
your corner. And we'll push for a better deal
and respect for everyone experiencing a mental
health problem.
Mind Infoline: 0300 123 3393
info@mind.org.uk
mind.org.uk