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A Dozen Life-Changing Skills and How To Learn Them - Primer PDF
A Dozen Life-Changing Skills and How To Learn Them - Primer PDF
A Dozen Life-Changing Skills and How To Learn Them - Primer PDF
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Traditional mens magazines are full of required man-skills like felling a
tree or leaping from a moving car. We think itd be better to learn some
skills that could actually better our lives in the modern world.
Throughout our lives, were subject to a lot of tests that turn out to be
completely irrelevant. Knowing how long the shadow of a tree will be in
three hours as the sun sets is impressive (seriously), but the odds
someone will hold you hostage and make you do a little calculus to win
your freedom are fairly low.
Our days outside the classroom and office demand more. The life skills
we learn help us get through the mundane quickly and effectively. They
also help us experience everything we can in any given situation.
And while there are myriad skills and proficiencies to master, here are a
dozen that can actually change your life.
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Theres only one real tool you need to start: the magnetic lasso. By being
able to select things accurately (and cut, re-tone, blur, whatever), you can
do mostly anything.
If you havent signed up for Lynda.comits a great site, reallycheck out
their tutorial here.
When it comes to editing photos, a couple settings come into mind. My
fiance is a professional photographer (I think putting googly eyes and
faces on things is sacrilege to her), and according to her, Curves and
Levels are two of the most important and powerful things Photoshop
can do. You can make blacks blacker, colors more vibrant, wash out the
grays, anything.
Curves, levels, and the magnetic lasso.
If you find yourself staring at the chicken breasts in your refrigerator, you
dont have to settle for grilling every single one. A mustard saucewhich
is tasty, tangy, and actually OK to slather onwill do it wonders: Mix up
some Dijon mustard with a little olive oil and some freshly chopped
herbs. Thats it. Its creamy and brings out the succulence of baked
chicken like nothing else.
Looking for more? Primer has a ton of stuff on food and cooking.
goals for today just like you would within the next 15 years. Its a simple
process with incredibly potent results.
feel like kids when were around our best friends, but things have
changed: We still laugh as easily, but we laugh at different things.
Bumming $20 for a CD is now $200 or more for rent. The concept is
always the same, but the scenarios are different.
Nurturing a friendship is about recognizing that change and helping it
move along any which way it goes. Recognize your friends plights and
victories and sympathize or revel accordingly.
Anything else is just participating.
Especially in post-college friendships, where people are scattered across
the country, you must make time for catch-up phone calls, as well as plan
weekends to see each other once or twice per year. If you dont, one day
youll realize you havent spoken to your best friend for 5 years.
Once again, we turn to the Mayo Clinic to learn how to nurture a
friendship. Take all of these tips as they are written. They are seriously
important and simple enough to be summed up in two words:
Accept yourself
Accept others
Be positive
Dont compete
Listen up
Respect boundaries
Ive been friends with the same two people for more than half my life.
Weve continued the friendship across the country.
You have to forgive. You dont have to forget, but you do have to forgive.
Or at least come close to it. Letting go is something of a misnomer in that
sense. Its coming to terms with somethinglossthat came about from
for any reason a human could come up with.
You dont have to agree with something to let it go. You just have to
accept it for what it is and move on. Empathy is a mark of a mature mind,
and every single person has demons he or she has to face. Some far
darker and malevolent than others.
Odds are you know the person wellwell enough that something they did
hurt you deeply enough that you have to let it go. Whether it causes you
to bristle with rage or weep, letting go is difficult.
Dr. John M. Grohol sums up this monstrous feat in five steps on his site
PsychCentral (which is an awesome site if you can get over the 3D word
art kind of elements):
1. Decide to let go: Youre taking a big step and moving past something
you could have been feeling for years. Its OK if you need time.
2. Get it out: Say something. Write something. Purge yourself of every
little detail regarding the thing youve been holding in. It is also
important to realize that you yourself are responsible in some part,
too.
3. Stop being the victim.
4. Stay present: Not letting go is, in essence, leaving some part of
yourself in the pastand no one benefits from that.
5. Forgiveness: You dont have to necessarily shake hands, hug and
party, but to successfully move on, you have to let it go.
I myself am almost theremaybe two fingers left until its finally gone.
Im just not sure if Im ready to see it go.