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Joy Johnson Macdonald
Nadine MoonjePleil
Elizabeth Bohlken Zumpe
ErdmutheArnold
Anthony Lord
Arthur Lord - Life Story
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Nadine Pleil, 09/11/06: I heard today that
John Hinde died September 4th, 2006. John
Victor Hinde was born July 4th 1919. He and
Gwen wee married March 1, 1957. They were
married forty-nine years.
We used to tease John about being the
Englishman with the very American birthday. He always took it in good part.
I have known John since I was ten years
old. Some years after we moved to New
Meadow Run John and I worked in the office. We got on very well together. John was
a pillar of strength and I never really saw him
get angry or greatly upset. If there was an
upset in the office, he would stay calm and
say, Well the best thing is to sit down together and talk about it. So that is what we
did.
Some years after we were sent away from
the Bruderhof John and Gwen came to visit
us. John said he had been sent to visit us as
he had known me since I was a little girl.
Actually John had been sent to try and woo
us back to the Bruderhof. He tried very hard,
however it did not work out the way he
wanted. I personally was very glad to see
John, but was not so happy about the fact
that the Bruderhof thought that because
John had known me since I was a little girl,
that he would be able to persuade me to go
back to the bruderhof. Apart from all that,
once we had all that out of the way we were
able to have a very nice visit with both John
and Gwen and were able to talk about some
of the good and happy times in Primavera.
also to help keep their animals healthy. Poorest communities in the Peruvian Andes will
profit from this donation. A Kamayoq (the
local Quechua name for farmer trainers),
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effective treatments, made from a blend of
local herbs and can show farmers how to
make and administer the medicine.
At Easter (April 16th) the family gathered for their farewell to Dad. Together with
good friends they then celebrated the life of
Arthur Lord on the 27th of May
2006, hosted by Christine and
Jrg Mathis at Clearwaters. Linda
and Aendel read extracts from the
many letters, which for them drew
a picture of their father and several friends told of their experiences with Arthur. Eunice had
prepared and handed out a booklet of photos, telling the story of
the various phases of her fathers
life.
Susan Suleski, one of the
friends, shared the following on
the Hummer: We had a lovely
time of reminiscing and singing
some of Arthurs favourite
songs. Like most of his generation of Bruderhof joiners, Arthur
was an unusual man who was trying to
make a difference before he joined. He saw
the Bruderhof as an opportunity to work with
like-minded people. They were young and
optimistic and learned as they went.
Let me just add how glad I was to have
been in contact with Arthur during the last
years. His words had much wisdom, faith
and love. He also felt this love for those on
the Bruderhof. Until the end he had correspondence with personal friends there, and
he treasured this contact.
Anthonys memories about his Dads
life, written down for the celebration, drew
out a real picture of what Arthur Lord was
like for his family and all who knew him.
Arthur Dad
By Anthony Lord
Arthur Lord was born in Preston and
later moved to Longridge where he grew up
as a considerate young man interested in
church life and the teachings of Christ. But
he also enjoyed a good laugh. At one point
he even intended to bring out his own news
paper.
One of his great enjoyments was music,
singing whistling, sometimes in a pub, shop
or other embarrassing places; also playing
the violin and piano. He became a conscientious objector and during the war was sent
to the Carlisle and other fire services. During this time he married mum and they had
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It was there where he spent probably the
hardest, but also the most enjoyable and
fulfilling time of his life. He loved the living
together and working for a communal goal,
living his idea of true Christianity.
Always a great enthusiast of nature and
the land he was now enjoying singing, whistling whilst on the farm working with fellow
men. No wonder that in later years when I
visited, his favorite haunts were driving
down memory lane through Wheathill and
on to Titterstone, where we would sit and he
would talk about those wonderful years.And
of course on the way back he would be whistling some German tune or other.
In 1952 we sailed out to Paraguay and
there again he loved the proximity to nature
and the new challenge. In particular the
chances he got to take the old Chevy tuck
down to the port and if lucky get stuck. The
adventure was great and his love for cars
and lorries could be enjoyable.
He wasnt too happy being put in the
office, but as always he looked at the bright
side. The long hours at the office sometimes
cracked his nerves, on the other hand it
pleased him to present the good progress of
Primavera on the balance sheet.
Communal life changed and went sour,
so with regret and mixed feelings he returned
with his family to Longridge, in good old
England. The beginning was difficult and
frustrating. Dad would go out in the morning tramping from company to company, but
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could not get work. His nerves were frayed
when he got home at night, but the family
was together and managing some how with
the help of God. Eventually he got a job as
accountant with an insurance company
where he stayed until retirement. At first he
went to work by bus. After a while, adding
up, he decided it was cheaper to get a moped
which he rode to work in all weather. Now he
was mobile again. At the back of the house
we made Rosado and cleared the trees and
bush for a vegetable garden, flower beds and
lawn. Good friends helped him build a conservatory so things were looking better.
Eventually Dad got his first Saab a
sports model. Now he was really mobile, and
things took a good turn. His greatest pleasure was motoring along, and exploring country lanes off the beaten track and driving up
hills to enjoy the view. In the earlier years
the family always gathered at home for
Christmas. He enjoyed particularly the singing, the get-togethers, not to forget a nip or
two of his home made wine, often fortified.
Dad was quite good at wine making, as the
evening went on and his wine flowed he
would start to talk Spanish and sing German
songs.
As the children eventually had families
of their own, Dad and Mum decided to move
to a smaller house in Shropshire where they
could be nearer to some of the family and
also Esther. Dad enjoyed the countryside,
no doubt sometimes making it unsafe with
his fast driving, so I am told, in particular
getting close to Wheathill, where he had
spent the nicest time of his life. He was a
good driver until he turned the Saab over
and gave up only a few years before he died.
For many years Dad had suffered from
epilepsy, causing him to fall, mostly on his
head or down stairs, and now with his lifes
companion Mildred dead, and his great independence the car gone, he decided
reluctantly that the time had come to be
looked after in sheltered accommodation.
Dad tried to make the best of it and put on a
cheerful spirit. His greatest pleasure was
when someone visited him or took him out
for a run in the car or a visit to one of the
family.
We had arranged for a meal in a country
pub one day. I picked him up and instead of
going the normal way he cut short down
country lanes ending up in Ludlow. The pub
was just outside Bridgenorth. On the way
back we should have turned left for home. I
said Dad which way, left or right. Oh! Right
of course dont you know the way? We
finished up driving through fords and dirt
tracks up on Brown Buff and late back for
supper. Dad was aware that time was running out. As he put it to me on my last visit
Im fading Lad. Well, he will be at peace
now, reunited with Mum.
about 1922. This was in Newtown, a compact little community just south of the main
village. It had once been a hand weaving
and nail making centre.
At first we had very little money; in fact
we always had to watch the pennies. The
partner of one of the mills was a Methodist,
and he found Dad a job in place. He became
Winding-Master, responsible for the winding of cotton on to different pins or bobbins, or on to beams, ready for the looms.
This occupied many women in order to keep
the hundreds of machines supplied. Most
peoples families were connected with the
mills, and the well built stone houses which
form the nucleus of the village were mostly
erected by the mill owners. The quarries and
the foundries also employed a lot of men. All
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In 1922 we moved to a much bigger
house, 21 Fell Brow, which had a long back
garden stretching about fifty yards to the
quarry road along which steam lorries
chuffed with their heavy loads. Billy, our
huge grey cat, went back to Newtown, and
we had to go and look for it. It was sitting on
the upstairs windowsill of the doctors
house. I encouraged it to come down, and it
eventually jumped and landed without hurting itself, to the amazement of an onlooker. It
was whilst on the way there that I discovered how to whistle, a feat which has given
me years of pleasure, but doubtless annoyed
many within hearing.
The long garden allowed us to erect a
thirty feet high holder for the one hundred
feet long radio aerial, the maximum length
allowed. My brother Leonard made coils and
fittings for the crystal receiver on which we
heard our first signals. The coils were made
by winding coated wire over and under the
segments of a circular card which had been
cut every thirty degrees. Two of these could
be placed so that one moved over the other.
They were connected to the crystal, a small
lump of mineral held at one end of a glass
cylinder about four cm long.A short rod with
a tiny brass spring contact at one end, entered the cylinder through a tapped universal joint, and one had to juggle around to
find the best place for the wire to contact the
crystal. Woe betide anyone who knocked
the table then. It was a wonderful achievement to graduate to a valve set, run from
an accumulator, on which we could even listen to Schenectady USA.
About eight yards down the flagged
yard was the toilet. It did not flush with water, but was a tippler. The square hole under the seat was closed by the edge of a
sloping basin, which was pivoted in such a
way that when it was full, the contents were
automatically tipped into the sewer which
ran many feet below.
Schooling
School life for me was always happy. I
got into scrapes every now and again, and
received due punishment, sometimes
undeservedly. We went to Ashton on Christmas Sunday. We would all go to the Wellington Road Methodist Chapel in the
evening. My earliest recollection of such a
service is there. A well heated, crowded edifice, the full toned organ leading enthusiastic singing of favourite Christmas hymns,
with a sermon preached by the minister, the
Reverend G. Waddy Polkinghorne! Sunday
school was at times a bit wearisome. We had
the gathering hymn first with a prayer, then
divided into age groups. It depended who
took the lead.
My mothers time seemed to be filled
doing washing, mending, cleaning, cooking
and so forth. She used a scrubbing board
doing the laundry work. The dolly tub was
about thity inches in diameter, and washing
could be agitated in the soapy water by moving the three-legged posser up and down.
Monday was wash day, and dinner, was
quickly prepared using left-overs from Sunday.
We did have concerts, with instrumental playing and singing, and there was the
hilarious sale of produce after the harvest
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looking for something which would earn
some money. In fact, I left the Tech with a
good certificate, especially in technical drawing. So, on the Monday after leaving the
College in August 1930 I went to the big
creamy-clad service station of Loxhams Garages, met the manager and someone else, and
was told to report for work the next Monday
at a weekly wage of 7/6d (38 new pence). I
never thought they would put me in the cost
office; and when I told folk of my disgust,
they said, You want to stick to it a clean
hands job and at better pay than a trainee
mechanic. England was in a period of national depression with 3 million men unemployed. I was reminded of this every day when
I saw the queue of dejected individuals across
the road, waiting to visit the labour exchange
to draw the dole, which was minimal, and ask
for work. Business got worse. Our governing
director, Ewart Bradshaw, called a meeting of
staff from all depots, and said he would have
to cut our pay by 10% or stop one tenth of
employees.We opted for 10% cut, but it never
happened. It was a pleasant company in which
to work.
Much of my life in Longridge was related
to the Methodist chapel. It was the smallest
religious group in the village of about 4,000
inhabitants. Other groups were the
Congregationalists, the strong Church of England, and a large contingent of Roman Catholics. The RCs form much of the population of
that district. Our family managed to become
accepted in town a little before the twenty
years which was the norm. No doubt fathers
friendly attitude and mothers direct but always helpful approach contributed to this,
because they did not seek popularity. They
were Liberals politically. My father became a
pacifist, while the British Legion had much
influence. My parents rejected all alcoholic
drink, whilst the many pubs were social centres.
I had the pleasure of singing in the chapel
choir under the enthusiastic tutelage of old
Torn Moss; he never quavered and was a great
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family sitting on the seat which used to look
over the Longridge top lodge, one fine
evening as the sun was setting. We sang a
poem of J.G. Whittier to the tune of Rest.
Dear Lord and Father of mankind,
Forgive our foolish ways And it continues:
Drop Thy still dews of quietness,
Till all our strivings cease;
Take from our souls the strain and stress,
And let our ordered lives confess the beauty
of Thy peace.
Breathe through the heat of our desire
Thy coolness and Thy balm;
Let sense be dumb, let flesh retire;
Speak through the earthquake, wind, and
fire,
O still small voice of calm.
I was only a little boy, quietly singing
that song, the meaning of which was perhaps a little obscure at that time, but which
returns again and again when one realises
how ones self concern has hindered the way
of peace and love.
We were associated with the Wesleyan
Methodist chapel; there were other kinds of
Methodists. Other Christian churches, too
Catholics, Church of England, Baptists, etc.
Then there were Muslims, Jews, and often
strife between the lot. I had to hold on to
something true for me, otherwise life had no
purpose. If I believed the basic message of
Jesus, which boiled down to unrestricted
love, even if I had found it through the local
chapel, then that was the way for me. This
message of peace, and rejection of killing,
was a subject of discussion with friends.
Mildred: Taking up teaching
I had a very good report, specially
emphasizing my ability to keep order in
class. In my last term at College I started
applying for Teaching Posts, and obtained
a place at Trawden, near Colne in East Lancashire a cul-de-sac village in the hills
where the population consisted mainly of
cotton weavers and farmers, along with
several people who worked in the neighbouring towns. I found myself digs in the
village, and started at my new post on 1st
August (August Bank Holiday). Strangely
enough this was the day on which Arthur
also started work, as I learned many years
later. I had my 21st birthday during my first
year of teaching, and was allocated to the
baby class for children in their first year.
I taught the beginnings of Reading, Writing, and Arithmetic (the three Rs as in
Reading Riting and Rithmetic an English common term) with lots of stories and
games, in the hall or out-of-doors. In the
Summer we often went for walks up one of
the hills around, and picked wild flowers,
Some of them had fought against the Germans; they were nice people. My father had
gone to register for service during the war,
but his views had changed since then. Our
family became members of the Peace Pledge
Union, founded by Rev. Dick Sheppard, renouncing war and pledging never to take
part in another. Mildred had gone with my
father to their meetings long before I got
actively involved.
As I approached twenty-one years of
age, and after, there were veiled hints at home
about settling down; references to this or
another young woman at chapel. This had
made me wary of getting too friendly with
any of them and there were quite a few,
and a shortage of males. I had flirtations, or
simple friendships with girls from the Preston area. I seemed to find teachers very good
to get on with. In any case I thought over
things very carefully, and decided that marriage was not for me until I was around thity
years old in order to avoid too easily dropping into a permanent relationship. I made
for myself a list of ten points, more or less in
order of importance. The list was a help when,
for instance, my brother suggested that a
certain girl would make a nice homely wife
and she would come into quite a bit of money,
too!
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of the lake and stopped by a view point,
which was an opportunity to wander off
alone with Mildred. Oh yes, I was sure all
right, and when we said goodbye I determined to raise the question as soon as we could
be together again. I forgot
all about going to see my
other girl friend.
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The Territorials were men who carried
on with their ordinary work, but were available for call up into the army in an emergency. They always had a training camp in
the summer, and in 1939 they had the usual
camp, but never got back to their normal
work. Then, the call up of everyone proceeded apace.
Pacifists became less acceptable.
Mildred was not allowed in the school staff
room. She need not have made her views so
obvious; she was not likely to be called up.
But having resigned from membership of the
Methodists, she wanted to have a clear situation. She was finally dismissed on that account. One of my own staff stopped speaking to me, but she left fairly soon to get a
better paid job in the new hush-hush factory west of Cottam.
As conscientious objector on civil duties
When I got my call up papers I had to
make my position clear to the authorities,
and declare as a conscientious objector. This
meant that in due course I would appear before a tribunal under a judge, which would
hear my statement and ask pertinent questions, and then give its decision. I went to
Lancaster Castle before Judge Peel, a dry
old character I had seen in Preston at the
debtors court. He would have no nonsense,
but was always fair. Mildred was in the public gallery to give me moral support. Peel
asked me the irrelevant question as to what
I would do if I saw someone attacking a
woman, to which I gave the illogical answer
to the effect that I would try to protect her.
I received conditional exemption from
duty in the armed services, but must carry
out civilian duties in protective services like
Fire, Ambulance, etc. I joined the St. John
Ambulance Brigade, having duty on Friday
nights. There I met Jack Ellison, a gangling
bus conductor who came late and left early.
The war was in the doldrums as far as England was concerned. After Germany and
also went inside a cave in the Rhone-Glacier. How blue the ice was within. We took
many wonderful photographs, which,
years later disappeared when lent to the
school at Cleeton Court.
When we arrived home, preparations
began to be made for the possible outbreak
of war. Air raid shelters were built. Plans
were made for the evacuation of children
from the big cities to homes in areas where
air raids were less likely. E.g. Manchester
children were to be evacuated to Blackpool. So we had to plan how we could cope
with them in the schools, and the Council
had to find which homes were able to accommodate these children. Gas masks
were issued, and the children were shown
how to use them.
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friend and bridesmaid, and Linda from a favourite song of Paul Robesons, My little
Lindy-Loo-oo.
Soon, Arthur was drafted into the Fire
Service, still stationed in Preston, but by
Christmas he had been transferred to Carlisle.
Some months later I spent a few days with
Arthur at his digs in Carlisle, while my mother
looked after Linda. She had been a childrens
nurse, was very fond of children and delighted
to be a granny, and have the care of Linda for
short periods, or take her for a walk. We were
still quite poor, and I can remember buying a
sheeps head from time to time to make sure
we got good soups. Rationing was very strict.
I also had to visit the Clinic once a month, as
Linda had what was known as an infantile
cataract in one eye a small white spot which
fortunately never grew, but she still has it.
After a few months at CarlisleArthur was
transferred to Whitehaven, and went to live
with my Aunt Mary and uncle George (my
mothers oldest brother). He could only manage to come home every four or five weeks and then he only had one or two nights at
Longridge. His new digs, however were like
home from home. Aunt Mary invited me to
go for a holiday along with Linda, in the summer of 1943. I knitted her a little bathing costume ready for her first days at the sea, and off
we went. She was only two years old, but she
thoroughly enjoyed the long train journey, and
soon settled down in her new surroundings.
One sunny day we went down to the beach.
Before I could take her hand to go paddling
with her she just ran into the sea and the water
was almost up to her shoulders before I could
catch her.
We were soon expecting another baby,
due in the spring. I rang Arthur to get leave to
come home to look after us. Linda went to
stay with granny, and our first boy was born
in the early hours of 1st April 1944. He was
given the names Norman Anthony. Arthur had
a busy time looking after us both. His mother
also came along and quietly helped wherever
there was a need. She was a dear, Anthony
was a good baby on the whole, and soon grew
to be so long that I couldnt hold him on my
knee to change him.
All this time the war was on of course. I
couldnt bear to listen to the radio. We had few
bombs near us, but could see at night the flashes
in the sky over Liverpool way. One bomb dropped
between us and Whittingham and a crack appeared on the wall going upstairs; nothing worse.
Then the doodle-bugs started coming over occasionally. Folks said, So long as you can hear
them you are all right. But we were lucky to be
far away from real danger. Just before the end of
the war Arthur was moved to Broughton, near
Preston, and so was able to live at home. This
was a great joy. But he was very disillusioned
about the greed and self-seeking in business life,
and had no wish to go back into the rat race
when he was finally discharged from the Fire Service, so what should we do?
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travel home every six or seven weeks. Actually, my Secretary at Loxhams had originally
offered to get me in a reserved occupation,
by putting me on the pay roll of an allied
company, which was making small shells for
the armed forces. I could carry on with my
normal job. With a heavy heart I declined,
for he was a good chap with whom to work.
How could I advise the Ministry of Labour
that I was working with a firm making munitions, when I refused to use those things
myself?
At Carlisle, two things were very pleasant. Every Friday, a firewoman driver took
me round the distant fire stations with the
pay for the men; Maryport, Workington,
Whitehaven, Keswick, Penrith. Another interesting job was to go round all the Fire
Stations, and even small depots where fire
fighting equipment was kept, making an inventory of everything to help with the take
over by the National Fire Service of everything owned by the local authorities. However pleasant this may be, one was constantly
reminded of the risks which firemen were facing in the cities like Liverpool, London, Coventry; of the horrors of war in the air, on the
ground, and on the sea.
I had very good digs on Solway Road
with Mrs. Robinson, whose husband drove
a petrol tanker to all sorts of out-of-the-way
places. She gave me a super feather bed so
super that every so often I told her I had
night duty and slept on my desk, just to get
a good nights sleep. These feather beds wrap
themselves all around, the pillows envelop
the head, and yes, they are wonderfully
warm, but phew. I could only afford to go
home about every two months, and usually
got the Inverness to London train, which
was always packed. Compartments were lit
with tiny blue bulbs, and twelve passengers
were quite usual.
In due course, I was transferred to
Whitehaven, doing much the same work, but
on my own. I still had some inventories to
complete, for as far as Millom. There was
not much war activity in Cumberland, although south of the town, at Drigg, was a
huge munitions factory. I had to sleep on
the sub-headquarters premises from time to
time. My office was next to the firemens
dormitory, with a locked connecting door.
The lock did not prevent the invasion of
fleas, which found their way into the pleats
of ones trousers. It was fairly simple to get
rid of the little brown insects by lifting the
hem and going along with a flame, each tiny
wretch giving a little crack as it expired. The
cellar, where the food was kept, was home
for myriads of cockroaches. It was amazing
that no illness developed there. Of course,
the vegetables did not stay around for long,
and much of the other food came out of tins.
My lodgings in Whitehaven were with
an aunt of Mildred, in a house overlooking
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Wheathill with the Society of Brothers.
Many who went as children or were born
there, recognize this, and indeed keenly arrange such gatherings.
Mildred and I had a long talk with Carol
Beels Beck, in the course of which she suggested I try to set down my own views of life
at Wheathill. So many things had been said
about it in the past, such as the agriculture
taking precedence over the spirit of community. It is so that for many years after 1961,
publications by the Bruderhof omitted reference to Wheathill, something to which we
repeatedly drew their attention.
I am glad that before Peter Rutherford
died there was a reunion at Darvell giving
expression to the joy in which all contributed at the Wheathill Christian Community.
Sadly, we could not attend. Sadly, too, Robert
Rimes had passed away without experiencing this new recognition of the living spirit
which motivated that growing group in which
he had been so active.
Visiting Wheathill for the first time 1944
As already mentioned, after reading the
different Pamphlets, including the excellent
one on The Wheathill Bruderhof a Christian Community, we decided that if the Community was the practical fulfilment of Christs
words and life which it seemed to be, it was
the way for us right then. We wrote back
stating this, and Charles Headland replied
very cautiously, warning us that it was not
easy, and we must be very careful.
In November 1944 I took my cycle on
the overnight trains to Ludlow, and pedalled
up to Lower Bromdon just before dawn on
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whatever was available. One of Mildreds
early jobs was going with Doris Chatterton
to gather nettle and dandelion leaves.
Some folk had rooms in the stone
houses, others lived in wooden huts on the
hill. Most heating was from oil heaters, while
a few had coke stoves. Oil was better, because of the instant heat, although the coke
stoves installed later were much more efficient, and could stay in overnight. All oil
appliances could be taken to the pram shed
to be serviced by Jack Ellison. The inconveniences did not worry me, and a chore
which I quickly acquired was to carry the
two big buckets from the mens place and
Arrival in Wheathill April, 1945
Mildred: On Easter Sunday we celebrated Anthonys first birthday on Granny
and Grandads (my parents) lawn. Granny
and Grandad were strongly against our going to Wheathill, and didnt hesitate to tell
us so. I think Grandma and Grandpa
(Arthurs parents) would have liked us not
to go, but felt it was up to us to make our
own decisions bless them! I dearly loved
Grandpa especially I always felt close to
him, and he had meant a lot to me, even
beforeArthur and I came together. Four days
later our whole family moved to Bromdon.
We arrived atWheathill on 5th April 1945
and were soon settled in a nice little room.
After a few days Anthony began to feel at
home in the big baby room and Linda was
already enjoying herself in the kindergarten
each day, so I was able to start helping in
the work. My first task was to work in the
garden weeding the vegetable plots, along
with Doris Chatterton who had arrived with
her family a week or two earlier. A few days
later Stan and Helen Vowles arrived with their
family too, so this was a sudden increase in
the population, particularly in the baby, toddler and kindergarten groups as our children, two each, were all much the same age.
Food was not elaborate, sometimes monotonous, but it was adequate. The childrens
needs were all looked after.
I remember Doris Chatterton and I were
sent out one morning (with gloves on) to
gather young nettles for the soup to be
cooked for dinner. But there was no mistake
in the outgoing love of the people we were
working with and we soon felt this was the
way of life for us, and especially for our children to grow up in. Bickering, quarrelling,
angry words, greed, money making, fighting to get the best for oneself, cheating, were
left behind. Here there was unmistakable
love, a joy in life, giving of ones best for
others, sharing, and much joy in nature, in
the good things of life, in one another. This
was reflected too in the childrens joy, their
empty them onto the end of the long compost heap in the garden, which was just
across the little dingle. They were hoisted
on a wooden yoke, so it was not so difficult.
A good modern sewage system was eventually constructed.
Remarkable achievements
feeling of security, their relaxed way of enjoying themselves. Oh, everything wasnt
perfect, but one felt free to talk about things.
Problems were talked over and solved together, giving a different perspective of the
whole and a joy in it. Mealtimes, too, had
meaning, much more meaning than we had
been able to find in church services, where
the words were not always backed up by
the life of the people, particularly their attitude to one another.
I was sent to work in the kindergarten. The
sisters in charge were Barbara Greenyer
and Buddug Evans, and with real love they
soon helped me to find my way into this
new situation and way of life. Linda, who
was nearly five, was also in the kindergarten, full of joy with all her new friends to
play with, while Anthony was in the toddler house which had a nice play area in
front of it.
At midday suitable meals were brought
from the main kitchen to each department,
after which beds and blankets were laid on
the floor and the children slept, or at least
rested, until 3:00pm in the charge of one
person in each department. When the sisters who had had a dinnertime break returned to the departments, vespers was
served, consisting of a fruit drink and sometimes a biscuit. The children then all went to
play, or off for a walk in the care of one of the
sisters. At 5:00pm mothers came to collect
their children and they then had time together as a family until the younger children
went to bed at suppertime. A baby watch
took care of the children of about five families in the evenings, visiting each one from
time to time to see that all was well.
Soon our third baby was on the way.
There was a mother house in a hut near the
dining room to which the mother went for
the birth and about two weeks rest and special care. We all believed that the father
should be present at the birth. When our
baby seemed at last to be on the way, Arthur
was sent for, but the birth in the end was so
quick that he only just got there in time. So
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pour on the fresh strawberries when in season! He went on duty at 10:00pm and finished at 6:00am. He signalled his arrival by
singing the first verse of the night watchmans song,
Hrt, ihr Leut, und lasst uns sagen,
unsre Glock hat zehn geschlagen;
zehn Gebote setzt Gott ein,
gib dass wir gehorsam sein.
Then the chorus,
Menschen wachen kann nichts nutzen.
Gott muss wachen, Gott muss schtzen.
Herr, durch Deine Gt und Macht,
gib uns eine gute Nacht.
There is a different verse for each hour
until four oclock.
I always liked that service. I liked singing the hourly song, looking round the stock
and the houses. I also enjoyed the country
nights with the many little sounds, the stars,
and feeling at one with it all. Up there, between Brown Clee and Titterstone there was
no artificial light to be seen, except the very
faint glow from Wolverhampton.
We had a good herd of Red Poll dairy
cattle, and our own bull for breeding. They
were based at Upper Bromdon, and kept in
the stalls in poor weather ready for the morning milking. Before we got the Red Polls one
cow could get herself free, and with her horn
lift the latch of the heavy door.
As to the bull, one afternoon I saw
Hugo [Brinkman] bringing it down the lane.
Hugo had a long pole with a snap catch at
the end to fasten to the ring in the bulls
nose. He had the pole under his arm, and the
bull was following on at the end of it, but its
ring was not connected; Hugo was not aware
of that. The bull followed him right into its
stall, then turned on him and pinned him to
the wall. Fortunately I was there and helped
get him free.
A number of families joined in the spring
of 1945. It was probably a good time to do so,
when nature was entering into that wonderful
period to which one cannot fail to respond.
We had our main meals, and meetings, in the
wooden dining room which stood to the east,
across the road from the cottages at Lower
Bromdon. It had two big doors at the side
which, when the weather was warm and sunny,
could be opened giving that memorable view
over the valley. We would then sing the bright
and hopeful hymns of resurrection, nature
songs, or outdoor wandering songs from the
German Youth Movement, which were translated for newcomers. We often used collections of German hymns, which had been typed
out and clipped together.
The men sat at one side in the dining
room, and the women opposite, at long tables with benches either side. I very soon
got myself involved in setting the tables and
conveying the food from the kitchen when
everyone was ready. Enamel cups, enamel
plates, dessert spoons, but so what? We
were usually hungry after our work, especially if it had been outdoors. All small services were shared out on a regular basis during the week, then on Sunday a special list
was prepared so that those who had been
in, say, the kitchen or kindergarten, could
have a change. Mildred very soon found
herself in the kindergarten. She has happy
memories of working with Barbara [Greenyer]
and Buddug [Evans], and of the help she
received.
A short look at our family
Our third child Stephen was born 1945
in the Mother House under the walnut tree
at the end of the dining room. Eighteen
months later he went to hospital in Wolverhampton with advanced meningitis. His serious condition was pitiful to behold, but we
continued to pray for his recovery. This was
not given; he contracted measles, from which
he mercifully died.
Linda was not yet four years old, and
Anthony just had his first birthday when we
went to Wheathill. About two months after
Stephen died, Aendel was born at Bridgnorth
in October 1947. Esther and Eunice were both
born in February, in 1950 and 1951 respectively. Esther was also born at the Bridgnorth
hospital, but for Eunice Mildred went to
Shrewsbury. The night the ambulance came
to take Mildred to Shrewsbury, it was so
foggy that the driver would go no further
than Bridgnorth, where the matron was quite
upset that a third Lord was not to be born
under her tutelage.
When Esther was born, it was at first
quite a shock to realise that she did not have
her full faculties, but we, and the family accepted her as the gift she was. The community was a tremendous source of support.
When she was only a few days old she became seriously ill, with an extremely high temperature, and suffered a convulsion while
we waited at the hospital for attention. A
hospital sister wondered why we bothered!
However, Esther recovered, and took her
place in the life and departments of the childrens community. It is appropriate at this
stage to note that Esther never got over the
trauma of leaving the complete love with
which she was surrounded, both in England
and in Paraguay, and which stimulated all
school and social activities.
The chaotic crisis 1948
I know that some who were children in
Wheathill have discussed unsavoury happenings which they experienced. It is true
that members did get involved in things
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Bromdon. They quite enjoyed it. Cleeton
Court residents were a segregated no contact group (like Ibat in 1961), but Mildred
had no hesitation in going to Bromdon to
get essential food and clothing.
I worked alone on the farm, repairing
hedges, under instructions from Tom Paul who
was based at Bromdon. Llewelyn sent for me
to go to Lower Bromdon. Furniture from family rooms had been stacked up on the grass
outside the kitchen, but he wanted to show
me how well they had decorated our room
Crisis, 1948
Mildred: Llewellyn and Bessie Harris
and their family were sent over to
Wheathill from Primavera, to help.
Llewellyn became Servant of the Word, and
Stanley was no longer on the Hof as we
called the place. Bessie took charge of the
baby room, where I was working at this
time. She seemed gradually to change
some of the things, often saying, We do
it this way in Paraguay. Of course, now
there were no more novice meetings, since
Stanley had been sent into exclusion.
One day I went to the kindergarten
and found Anthony was not there. I was
told he had been sent to Llewellyns hut
for telling a lie. He was three years old! I
went to find him there, with a brother he
had had only bread and water for his dinner. I promptly took him by the hand, and
we went off home. I was having none of
that and I told the kindergarten sisters and
Llewellyn so. I waited to be admonished
but no one ever mentioned it again, and
being only a novice I let the affair blow
over.
Soon afterwards Linda didnt come
home after school. I was told she was with
Bessie, and I found Bessie outside an
empty hut on the hill, where Linda had
been placed in the dark and told she was
to sleep alone all night. A schoolboy had
said she had lifted up her clothes and
showed her knickers, which she then, and
always, denied. I took her home and told
Bessie on no account was I going to allow
this. We didnt hear any more about this,
either. We were still only novices, but it
seemed obvious there was trouble somewhere. We just did not know what was
going on, We still wanted to join the life,
and felt everything would be put right in
the end.
Soon Llewellyn decided that it would
be good if all the girls lived together with a
sister in one house, and all the boys with a
brother in another house. The girls were
to live in our house, and we were sent to
Cleeton Court, another farm which the
Bruderhof had bought. So Linda remained
in her own home, with Margot [Brinkman]
in charge, and Anthony went to another
house with Alf Withers in charge. There
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brotherhood members went with Balz and Guy
to Lower Bromdon to try and end the miserable business. The confrontation was not
pleasant. As novices we were not there, but
had been left holding the fort in the valley not
knowing what may happen.
The loving spirit returned
In the end, everyone there realised the
false direction which had been taken, and in
due course all who had been thrown out returned to the community; except for one
guest, whose mail, it transpired much
later, had been intercepted by his
mother. It is important to note here
the immediate attempt by the community to rectify things, and the immediate response.
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ing each others company. Now
and then we would have family
supper, when we took the meal
to our rooms, and could eat it
and use the time freely without
the restriction which the communal mealtime caused. During
the week parents had to leave
the family so as to be in the dining room before 6.30pm. Often
there was a meeting after the
meal. So, the younger children
had to be in bed by about 6:15,
and were then in the care if a
sister who, together with a male
evening watch, looked after their
safety and other needs.
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students at Newcastle University, and other
individuals. Tom went to visit relatives, and
I returned home. On the train, I had a strange
feeling that all was not right, and this proved
to be the case. Linda had been presumed to
be involved in some troubles, and it had
seemed best for her to have a time separate
from family and school. We accepted this
with some trepidation. It was a new experience which we would only have condoned
in a trusting community. Linda does not have
a good recollection of it, but she did learn to
use a sewing machine!
Whatever may be recalled about the
community at Wheathill, the basics were to
lead a life of love, which was active through
all activities and relationships. This over simplifies our belief in Christ as leader. Mistakes
arose, lovelessness and downright sin came
in. But how could it be otherwise? We were
not special people; we were ordinary men
and women, subject to the temptations of
everyone else, which found all sorts of ways
to be manifest.
There was one saving factor we had a
common cause in seeking to find the way of
Jesus which He did not specifically define,
but gave His Spirit.
Our family left for Primavera 1952
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ficials to their desk, armed with the necessary details. There was some difficulty because they could not get all the items on one
sheet, and were not sure that it would be in
order to continue over to the next numbered
one. Then, the two officials could not arrive
at the same total weight. We solved this dilemma by doing the adding up for them, although there was some uncertainty as to
whether this was the correct procedure.
Transport through the town to the river
boat was carried out in an open truck. Although we were assured that everything
would be taken care of, we felt we must be
on the spot to make sure. It was just as well!
The truck passed through the gates, turned,
and halted with the rear end some five or six
metres from the side of the dock where our
boat was loading. Nothing happened. When
we asked the driver why the delay, he said
It needs unloading. His instructions were
only to bring the load to the dock, and here
it was; the stevedores, should unload. They
said, Not our job we load from dock to