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I. Problems and Remedies of Aged People in Christian Prespective
I. Problems and Remedies of Aged People in Christian Prespective
I. Problems and Remedies of Aged People in Christian Prespective
2. 2. Economic Insecurity:
The problem of economic insecurity is faced by the elderly
when they are unable to sustain themselves financially. Many
older persons either lack the opportunity and/or the capacity to
be as productive as they were. Increasing competition from
younger people, individual, family and societal mind sets,
chronic malnutrition and slowing physical and mental faculties,
limited access to resources and lack of awareness of their rights
and entitlements play significant roles in reducing the ability of
the elderly to remain financially productive, and thereby,
independent.
2.3. Isolation:
Isolation, or a deep sense of loneliness, is a common
complaint of many elderly is the feeling of being separated. [2]
While there are a few who impose it on themselves, isolation is
most often imposed purposefully or inadvertently by the
families and/or communities where the elderly live. Isolation is
a terrible feeling that, if not addressed, leads to tragic
deterioration of the quality of life.
2.4. Neglect:
The elderly, especially those who are weak and/or
dependent, require physical, mental and emotional care and
support. When this is not provided, they suffer from neglect, a
problem that occurs when a person is left uncared for and that
is often linked with isolation. Changing lifestyles and values,
demanding jobs, distractions such as television, a shift to
2.5. Abuse:
The elderly are highly vulnerable to abuse, where a
person is willfully or inadvertently harmed, usually by someone
who is part of the family or otherwise close to the victim. [3] It is
very important that steps be taken, whenever and wherever
possible, to protect people from abuse. Being relatively weak,
elderly are vulnerable to physical abuse. Their resources,
including finances ones are also often misused. In addition, the
elderly may suffer from emotional and mental abuse for various
reasons and in different ways.
2.6. Fear:
Many older persons live in fear. Whether rational or
irrational, this is a relevant problem face by the elderly that
needs to be carefully and effectively addressed. Elderly who
suffer from fear need to be reassured. Those for whom the fear
is considered to be irrational need to be counseled and, if
necessary, may be treated as per their needs. In the case of
those with real or rational fear, the cause and its preventive
measures needs to be identified followed by appropriate action
where and when possible.[4]
4. End Notes:
Sarah M. Moses, Ethics and the Elderly: The Challenge of
Long-Term Care, Orbis Books, New York, U.S.A., 2015, p.88.
[1]
[3]
ibid p.256.
Peter Backhaus, Communication in Elderly Care: CrossCultural Perspectives, Bloomsbury Publishing, London, U.K.,
2011, p.101.
[4]
[5]
ibid p.122.
5. Conclusion:
Old age is a blessing from the Lord. Christians have a
responsibility to show kindness, respect, and to take care of the
elderly. Yes we are to respect all people, but there is a certain
type of respect that we give to the elderly unlike our own age
group. There is a certain way we talk to them and give honour
to them. The Bible has much to say about caring for elderly
parents and other family members who are not able to care for
themselves. The early Christian church acted as the social
services agency for other believers. They cared for the poor,
the sick, the widows and the orphans who had no one else to
2. Statistics on suicide:
Over one million people die by suicide worldwide each
year. The global suicide rate is 16 per 100,000 population. On
average, one person dies by suicide every 40 seconds
somewhere in the world. 1.8% of worldwide deaths are
suicides. Global suicide rates have increased 60% in the past
45 years.
About 800000 people commit suicide worldwide every
year, of these 135,000 (17%) are residents of India, a nation
with 17.5% of world population. Between 1987 and 2007, the
suicide rate increased from 7.9 to 10.3 per 100,000, with higher
suicide rates in southern and eastern states of India. In 2012,
Tamil Nadu (12.5% of all suicides), Maharashtra (11.9%) and
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3. Causes of Suicide:
There is not one exact cause for suicidal behavior and
ideations; it is believed to be a combination of many different
factors:
Genetic: Certain disorders like major depressive disorder run in
families, and the presence of one of these disorders put
individuals at a higher risk for suicidal thoughts and attempts.
Biological: Its thought that mental illnesses may be related to
changes in the structure and function of the brain. If a mental
illness is strongly correlated with suicide, this may be a risk
factor for suicide.
Environmental: Individuals who have not learned the coping
skills needed to deal with the stressors of life may believe that
suicide is their only option. These individuals may feel
hopeless, alone, and that there is nothing that can be done that
will make life any better.
Psychological: Many mental illnesses have high correlations
with suicidal thoughts and behaviors. Individuals suffering from
mental illness and/or substance addiction problems may
experience higher than normal thoughts of suicide and suicidal
behaviors.[2]
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Anger
Pain
Shame
Abandonment
Hopelessness
Self-blame
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Confusion
Prolonged or delayed grief
Shock
Depression
Guilt
Denial
Helplessness
Anxiety
Feeling alone
Facing social stigma of suicide[5]
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9. End Notes:
Peter Mayer, Suicide and Society in India, Routledge,
Abingdon, U.K., 2010, p.38.
[1]
[4]
ibid p.447.
[7]
ibid p.116.
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10. Conclusion:
God is the giver of life. He gives, and He takes away (Job
1:21). Suicide, the taking of ones own life, is ungodly because
it rejects Gods gift of life. No man or woman should presume to
take Gods authority upon themselves to end his or her own
life. So, according to the Bible, suicide is a sin. It definitely has
a deep and lasting impact on those left behind. The painful
scars left by a suicide do not heal easily.
The Bible says that when we are in Christ, our salvation is
guaranteed because His Spirit dwells in us (2 Corinthians 5:5).
That same Spirit is put into the hearts of all those who believe
in Jesus Christ (John 3:16; 1 John 5:13). The Bible also makes it
quite clear in Romans 8:38-39 that nothing can separate a
Christian from Christ's love, not even suicide. If no "created
thing" can separate us from the love of God, as the verse says,
then no person (not even our own selves) can separate us from
His love by any act that we do including suicide. A Christian will
exhibit the fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22) and will be
protected from sin as they abide in Christ (John 15:4).
Christians are not immune to the despair that leads to
suicide; the enemy is a great deceiver (John 8:44) who wants us
to forget that victory is ours in Christ (John 16:33). Still, suicide
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4. End Notes:
Gary J. Oliver, Trust Builders True Stories of Marriages
Strengthened by Trials, Servant Publications, Ann Arbor, U.S.A.,
1999, p.11.
[1]
[5]
ibid p.82.
[7]
ibid p.63.
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5. Conclusion:
Many Christians may wonder why the church needs
counsellors. Isnt it enough to have good preaching, leadership
and discipleship? Isnt Christ sufficient to meet all human
needs? Couldnt the efforts of dedicated church leaders, as well
as the inspired knowledge and instruction in Gods Word
eliminate the need for counsellors? After all, God sent us the
Holy Spirit as our counsellor (John 14:26), and in his
interactions with others Jesus modeled personal helping and
encouragement.
The Holy Bible says, Plans fail for lack of counsel,but with
many advisers they succeed. We are called to come along side
of one another. Counselling is one of the ways to do that. God
will use counsellors to help others succeed in their way, to walk
according to His ways. Since counselling will draw significant
numbers of people to the church in order to get their needs
met, it can become a very effective method of evangelism in
our society. People with problems naturally seek the answers
for those problems by turning to support groups and
counsellors. When the counselling is conducted within the
church setting, it is natural for those who are not already
established in churches to want to attend where they have
found the answers that have improved their lives.
Consequently, both reaching out to our society in an
appropriate way and making disciples is facilitated through the
integration of Christian counselling within the church.
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IV. Bibliography
All Scripture, unless otherwise noted, comes from The New
International Version, Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 2011.
Backhaus, Peter, Communication in Elderly Care: Cross-Cultural
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Crabb, Larry, Effective Biblical Counselling, Grand Rapids,U.S.A.,
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Criswell, W.A., Criswells Guidebook For Pastors, Nashville, U.S.A.,
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Deane, Barbara, Caring for Your Aging Parents: When Love Is Not
Enough, Colorado, U.S.A., NavPress, 1999.
Ellor, James W., Spirituality, and Pastoral Care: A Multi-National
Perspective, Abingdon, U.K., Routledge, 1999.
Hewett, John H., After Suicide, Kentucky, U.S.A., Westminster John
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