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1964 A Counseling Problem in The Church Kimball BYU
1964 A Counseling Problem in The Church Kimball BYU
1964 A Counseling Problem in The Church Kimball BYU
LLINC
Elder
PROBLEM
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'rHE CH URCH
Spence r W. Kunball
[ pray
training
you have received,
you have been advi s ed
ln the excellent
that your responsibility
is in teaching a nd warning
and counseling
by r e a s on
o( your c ,l.lli.ng in the educ a tional program . Aa su c h spiriNal
trainers,
you
a:e net admini strator with eccleiastical
authority,
ho-..eve r , many of ye,,;.,
~ sta t e d a bov e , a re ecdesia,tical
leader
and serve in dual cap a cit i e, .
With my under s tanding of your work aa in str ucto r a in Seminary
ar.d
l ntitute,
1 {eel th a t you are probably close s t to the bishops and C~"!; help
moat with their work.
'!our service
lie s in the preventive
field perhap S'
Youth cornea into the Seminary
program
mo r e th a n in the cure area.
when moat of them a re clean and pure and undefiled . At le.:i s t we hop e
th a t mo s t of them are naive and unschooled
in the ug l y thing which be et the your.g, people in their middle teen.
Hence a program
of indocfield a nd
trin3.tio::,
prop!lrly
c a rried out c:in do much in the p r eventive
ke ep the boy s a r.d g irls clean and whole some and fr e e from th e i n s o f
the world . As th e youth beg,1n to learn from their con t empora:ies,
th ,e,
m:i:,.y ci:.Jtas teful things they will ha v e been fortified
a nd immu:u~cd
:t.nd
will b e a! e fron1 th ~ vicious c e s spools of filth a :,.d contami:a a t10:<:.
.
ll
If
poatponemcn:
of .iny dating could be wnver sa t .1mo11g our church
youth 1.mt1l middle teens 3.nd a t least the later year of high school; then
\! steady d3.tini could be held bck tmtil the yo!3.r,t1of collsge an.di! much
by the
o! thM s ocial life ln the liilte teens could be guided and mspired
The s weet io rt Uied
!n.st1tute1,
what a Utop1 wp should have found.
youn;er
people would approach the courting program
more ma.cure, more
sen.11ble, with g re a.tcr controls,
and young men would go on their mu s ,ons
the temple
u.nddiled,
and both young men and you.ng women would appr04ch
with clean hand .and pure hearu.
altars
o1
in these
area,
a1 you indoctrinate
ll
, . The eUectivenes
o{ thei:-a py depends on the
depth o! entrenchment
o{ the perversion,
&I well a1 the
strength
o{ the pa1icnt'1 desire 10 mod1fy it."
This statement
o! Medicine.
committee
The ,a mc report ,aya these de vi tes "a re t lean more open and
obt rus ive" than they were in th!! pil1t. It statl!s th.a.I the 1c people are
form.ally organi zed with a central o{{ice and a ma1azine of thei r own and
that "They are determined
to be accepted not a1 lawbreakers,
sinners,
o:r
even as sick people , but a, a diUerl!nt kind o! people leading an accepu.ble
The co mmittee quote:, these d,t,,viate1 a, claim.in.& their is
kind of lie."
way 0 lifi!, and th e perfect answer to the population
a 'no ble , pteferable
explosion . 1
We are told that a, far back as Henry the Vlll. th i1 vice wa, referred
AND DETESTABLE
CRIME AGAINST NATURE,"
to u "THE: ABOMINABLE
Some authorities
and some o! our own statues have fo ll owed that wording.
man , thou1h the la.tter
feel t ha t it i, nearly as pr evalent amon1 women
is more in the open.
We know 1uc h a. disease 11 curab l e, Meo have come dejected,
discou r
aged, embarrassed,
near ter r ified and ha.ve gone out l ater full of conl idenct'l
wi.th self r espect again, the confidence
of their
&nd faith in them1elve,
families , their home tie t ren gthened , and ready to manfully ta.kc thci:r
part iwscciety
aod even in the Church on an app r oved cured basis.
In some cases,
they have bee n men wit h families and we have had
wive s come in t o thank us tearully ror bringin1 their hu.1bands back to
them.
Wives have not a lwa ys known what had been wrong, but they had
sensed it and rea lized they ha d lost their husbands.
We have seen men
come !irst with downward g la nces &nd leave mon t hs later l ook i ng u1
straight
in the eye.
We have ha d them admit &ftcr the first Interview,
my error but
"I'm glad I wa.1 &rrested 1 have tried and tried to correct
knew I'd have to have help and ha.d not the coura1e to a1k for it,"
In a ! ew months,
1ome ha.ve totally mastered
themselves.
while other,
linger on with lea, power and re qu iring more time to make th e tota l co:ml!
back.
We r ealize lhat the cure is no more pe r m.anent than the individual
make it so and is like the cure for alcoholism
subject to continued vigilance.
To such men we say, "Physician
hc<Ll thy111elf, " and promise
him ii he will
Stay away lrom the haunts &nd the temptations
, .i.nd lhe former associates,
he may heal himself.
cleanse his mind and return to his norm&\ pu:-:1uit1 a~d
a h-.ppy state of mind.
The cure for this malady lies in set! mastery
which i1 th& fundamenlal
basis of the whole go1pel pro1ram.
May we quote ag&in from the work or
James Allen:
"A man' mind may be likened to a garden whu;h rnay be mtel
ligently cu1t1vatl!d or allowed to run wild: but whl!ther cultivated
or
neglccaed,
it mu:,1, and will, b rm g forth.
If no useful seeds are p111
into 11, then an abunda.ncc of ust'l l ea1 weed aceds will fall cherein and
continue to ;aoduce their kind.