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Self confidence is an attitude that allows people to have positive, realistic views of themselves
and situations that involve them. There are many factors that influence your ability to have
confidence in yourself. Surprisingly, lack of ability or knowledge doesnt seem to be related to a
lack of self confidence.
Factors
Home: Relationships with the members of the family affect and influence your self esteem. This is
because you copy their attitudes and reactions when you are still young. And there is great influence when
you are young because it is the stage where you learn. The family members influence the way you think
of yourself and others. You behave like what your family members act.
Positive self-image: You need to have a positive self-image. This is important to a fully developed sense
of self and gives you the ability to build confidence.
Your view to the world: Another factor is how you view the world. A positive attitude goes a long way
towards feeling confident in many situations. You also need to be able to rely on your own ideas and
beliefs rather than take on those of others.
Deal your mistakes by yourself: Another factor that comes into play when dealing with self confidence
issues is how you deal with mistakes that you make. When you were a child your parents set the tone for
how you treat mistakes as an adult.
Depression: Depression can actually stem from a lack of self confidence. When you consistently feel self
critical about what you do and things in your life it can lead to becoming depressed. Although depression
can have many roots, lacking self confidence can contribute to it.
Success: The things you achieve or the less successful experiences in your life. Through
achieving things you feel a self esteem. You feel that you can do it and have tried it. And the next
time you encounter the situation you can face it and be able to achieve what you like to attain.
Media: The media can affect the self esteem/awareness in a negative way. This negative change
is mostly seen in girls in their teens. Because they see models and sexy images. And they want to
look like them. Making them dissatisfied of their own body. When the person sees herself with
poor body image it is associated with high levels of depression and anxiety.
Parental/family influence
Role model: A role model is someone who is looked up to and revered by someone else other
individuals aspire to be like, either in the present or in the future. A role model may be someone
who you know and interact with on a regular basis, or may be someone who you've never met,
such as a celebrity. Common role models include well known actors, public figures such as
police men or political officials, teachers or other educators, and parents or other family
members.
Birth order: Birth order refers to the order a child is born in their family; first-born and second-born are
examples. Birth order is often believed to have a profound and lasting effect on psychological
development.
Positive self-talk
Exercise
Self-confidence
Don't accept failure and get rid of the negative voices in your head
Be prepared
For tough times, when all else fails: Create a great list
Behavioural
Behavioral is the range of actions and mannerisms made by individuals, organisms, systems,
or artificial entities in conjunction with themselves or their environment, which includes the
other systems or organisms around as well as the (inanimate) physical environment.
Spiritual
relating to or affecting the human spirit or soul as opposed to material or physical things.