Citation: Winter, Richard. Perfecting Ourselves to Death: The Pursuit of Excellence and the
Perils of Perfectionism. Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity, 2005. Print.
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Teleological perfection means becoming all This is an interesting definition
that you are supposed to be and finding perfect satisfaction in that state. ( page 23) Healthy perfectionism, which is characterized by high standards, high levels of organization and striving for excellence. (pg. 26)
There is such a thing as healthy perfectionism
Healthy perfectionism are motivated by a
desire to achieve something good whereas unhealthy perfectionists are motivated by fear of negative consequences failure, rejection or punishment ( pg.28)
What does healthy perfectionism look like?
"Clearly, striving for excellence can be
unhealthy when the striving is unrealistically high. But when dealing with the gifted and talented, its quite difficult to determine what goals are unrealistic ( Pg.32)
There is this difficult balance between
pushing someone to grow and pushing them to hard.
The driven perfectionist works harder to
close the gap; the defeated perfectionists gives up the fight and the healthy perfectionist is able to live in the tension. (pg 36)
Another type of perfectionism.
Standards of productivity, accomplishment
or appearance are so high that they are impossible to attain. (Pg. 36)