2017 is here, and like any other year, it will present its successes

and disappointments, life and death, likes and dislikes and so

forth. In our lives we seek solitude, yet we also want
companionship. Is this an attainable human trait?
Solitude, this is an interesting word. I think, it's often romanticized
and the reality may actually be only a representation of
solitude. True solitude is being alone, safe, healthy and with
purpose. The purpose may be writing, painting, walking,
meditating or what ever occupies the mind. The very notion of
solitude incorporating a partner just might be overrated. When two
people come together, it cannot be assumed they are of the same
mind, and if one takes the leadership, the paternal or maternal
role, this erodes the balance of the solitude. Duality verses
Singularity is a human dilemma. Like two molecules moving in
conjunction to support a mass, yet avoiding all collision is not
likely within the human psyche. Solitude seems to be the
underlying expectation of humans, be it work or home, but I've
come to realize, it's contrary to our rooted tribal ways. We are lone
wanderers, sometimes in the company of others, but we are always
alone. Perhaps Siddhartha Gautama came to this conclusion in his
wanderings, after he left his palace, wife and children. He
discovered we are all born to suffer, and that suffering is a personal
journey of finding solitude, but that journey is not contingent on
others but a private one. The contingency upon others is
unrealistic and destined to meet with failings and
disappointments. Such is a life seeking solitude.