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JFK JR. The John We Loved.
JFK JR. The John We Loved.
JR.
John
The
WeLoved
By ELIZABETH McNEIL
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says former Grateful Dead lyricist John Perry Barlow. It was not him at all. Hoping to set the record
straight, some of his closest confidants participated in a Spike TV documentary, I Am JFK Jr.,
airing Aug. 1, and are now opening up to People.
When you watch the lm, you cant help but think,
What if? says its director, Derik Murray. Johns
friends wonder that too, but mostly they value the
many ways he enriched their lives. Its nice to
remember how great he was, says nancier Chris
Oberbeck, a former housemate, and to share it.
Americas Son
He was
very into
psychotherapy
he really
did work
on himself
that way.
He said he
was proud
that he was
facing his
demons
SASHA
CHERMAYEFF
Closer Than
Brothers
A RELUCTANT HUNK
Anything about him being a sex symbol made him
so uncomfortable. I remember I was interviewing
for an assistant to be my backup. I told John, You
should meet the girls too, and he said, Every
time they walk in here, they look like theyre going
to throw up. Its too embarrassing! You make the
decision. PR strategist RoseMarie Terenzio, Johns
longtime assistant
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1965
1994
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I was working in the White House when the Monica Lewinsky scandal was going on. I had a fax
machine, which very few people had the number
to. It starts kicking in, and theres no cover sheet,
just a pageit was John. It just said, Dear Mr.
President, I sat under that desktheres barely
room for a 3-year-old, much less a 21-year-old
intern. Cheers, J.K. Typical John. I showed the
President, and he laughed his butt off. Paul Begala
BRAINS AND BRAWN
BUT NO COORDINATION
I think he was slightly misunderstood because he
was such a sweetheartpeople think anybody thats
been through so much and theyre still this happygo-lucky person must be kind of a dummy. The one
thing I would want is for people to see that John was
a really serious, hard-hitting thinker who would
have done great things. Sasha Chermayeff
People need to know what kind of fabulous man he
was. I was his housemate [in college], and yes, he was
messy,yes,he wasalittlebitof aklutz, but itwasajoy
living with him. People would come, we would have
dinner,discusspolitics,everythingfrom nucleardisarmament to civil rights. Christiane Amanpour
John was fast and strong. He worked out a lothe
was a good worker-outer. He was really good at
Frisbee . . . but in football? He was no [Hall of Fame
receiver] Lynn Swann. Brian Steel
JOHN AND CAROLYN
He was enchanted with herbody and soul from
the minute he met her [in 1994]. He struggled with
her inability to cope with the public nature of their
life. But he never wavered in his commitment to
helping her. Brian Steel
They had a really intense passion that manifested in
loving each other but also in unbelievable ghts. I
dont think it was an easy relationship. Youve got this
electricity and this magnetic attraction that was so
powerful.Itcertainlywasntboring. ChrisOberbeck
In that last year of his life, there was some distance
emotionally that hadnt been there before. When
yourenolongerblindedbythebeautyandthelove
and the lust, when you start to feel like youre
really getting to know the person, it gets intense.
He had a really intense period of questioning
whether or not they could make their marriage
work. Children, no children, maybe he was ready,
maybeshewasnt.Shewasaverycomplexwoman,
but they were deeply connected. What was going
to happen, well never know. Sasha Chermayeff
EYE ON THE PRESIDENCY?
Once we were in a meeting with Sen. Al DAmato,
who said John should run for mayor of New York
1. He called her M,
a friend says
of Madonna (with
John in 1997). They
briefly dated and
then stayed friends.
2. John (in Central
Park in 1994) worked
out every day for an
hour. 3. The newness
of the celebrity was
shocking for her,
says Chermayeff of
Carolyn (with John
in 1997). 4. Peoples
1988 Sexiest Man
cover took him
to another level of
fame, says
a close pal. 5. John
(at George in 1996)
came to realize
magazine publishing
wasnt for him,
says Chermayeff.
A Friend Like
No Other
I havent
met everybody in the
world, but
Im pretty
condent
theres
nobody in
the world
like him
BRIAN STEEL
City. Afterweleft,Iaskedhim,Wouldyoueverrun
formayor?andhesaidno.Iaskedhimwhy,andhe
said, Well, Rosie, how many mayors do you know
that become President? RoseMarie Terenzio
By July of 1999 he had concluded he would focus
on running for governor of New York in 2003. Had
the stars aligned, Im pretty convinced thats what
he would have pursued. Brown classmate Gary
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